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Edward B. Marmer

January 2, 2022

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Edward B. Marmer, 89, of Boynton Beach, FL passed away on Friday, December 31, 2021, after a battle with brain cancer. Born in Framingham, MA, Ed was the eldest son of Abraham and Ruth (Sloan) Marmer, of blessed memory.

A proud graduate of Boston University and later of Boston College where he received his MBA. After undergrad he served as a pilot in the United States Air Force with the rank of Captain. Ed married the love of his life, Janice (Goldman) Marmer of Dorchester, MA, in 1955. After a few years with the Air Force, they returned home to Massachusetts to raise their two children in Framingham.

Ed spent most of his career with RCA/General Electric, but his true passion was serving his community and being with his family and friends. He was involved with Temple Beth Sholom in Framingham where he served on the board and as President for many years. Ed also served on the board of MetroWest Medical Center in Framingham.  He continued to serve his community upon his retirement and subsequent move to Boynton Beach, FL for the homeowner’s association where he lived.

Ed is survived by his wife Janice and two children, Jeffrey (Joan) Marmer of Menasha, WI, and Karen (Rob) Wald of Sharon, MA.  By his five grandchildren, Steven (Morgan) Marmer of Wauwatosa, WI, Jennifer (Michael) Martin of Charlestown, MA, Aaron (Rebecca Siegler) Marmer of Denver, CO, Amy Wald of New York, NY and Jonathan Wald of Sharon, MA and his great-grandchild Asher Martin of Charlestown, MA.

He is also survived by his siblings Burton (Elaine) Marmer of Framingham, MA, Alvin (Gail) Marmer of Concord, MA, Brenda (Stephen) Becker of Framingham, MA and sister-in-law, Ruby Goldman of Boynton Beach, FL. Along with many incredible Marmer family nieces and nephews who he cherished with all his heart. Ed rarely missed a family function, big or small. Family was his greatest joy and biggest pride.

Ed was a mentor to many and left behind a legacy of love, compassion, and honesty for all of us to observe and follow. We are grateful for all our moments with him, and his presence will be sorely missed.

A private graveside service will be held Tuesday, January 4, 2022, at Framingham/Natick Jewish Cemetery. Due to COVID -19 shiva will all be held via zoom, please reach out to a family member for the link. The Marmer family asks, in lieu of flowers, that donations may be sent to Temple Beth Sholom: 50 Pamela Road Framingham MA 01701 or  https://www.beth-sholom.org/giving/online-donation-form/

 

Stanley N. Berman

January 1, 2022

A private family service was be held graveside Monday, January 3, 2022 at 1:00 pm. To view the recording of the service please click here.

Stanley Berman was a loving husband, father, Zaydie, brother and caring friend. He passed away on January 1, 2022 after a courageous and long battle with kidney disease, at the age of 81. He was born to the late Hyman and Bertha Berman on March 11, 1940 and grew up in Revere, MA with his sisters Janet Pressman and the late Phyllis Berman.

Stan was a graduate of the Boston University school of engineering, working for several years in General Electric’s lighting division and later starting a second career in sales. He was also an entrepreneur, founding Stan Berman’s Photo Shop, Market Photo, and Five Limited Video.  He loved to sell, and especially enjoyed the relationships that lasted decades with his coworkers and customers.

He was an avid listener of blues music, developing a great love of artists like Marcia Ball, Shemekia Copeland, and The Love Dogs. A major highlight in his life was visiting New Orleans for Jazz Fest and celebrating Mardi Gras with his second line umbrella. He also served as a drummer in the Holy Trinity Marching Band, following a lifelong passion for drum and bugle corps music. Stan also enjoyed the hobby of building model airplanes, proudly showing off his vast collection to anyone and everyone. He was the author of the short story “The Revere Punk and the Chelsea Hebrew School Debutante”, which was met with critical acclaim from the entire family.

Stan is survived by his wife Carone, their children, Sherri Davoudgoleh and her husband Ira, Julie DoAmaral and her partner Darella Fortson, and Bob Berman and his wife Lisa. His favorite role was that of Zaydie to his grandchildren Amanda, Harrison, Goldie, Jacob, Melanie and Joshua.  Zaydie looked forward to every sporting and school event, play, recital, concert and celebration of any kind. He didn’t want to miss anything that his grandchildren did and was always so proud of them. He joyfully created adventures and experiences with them all, together and individually. They will cherish these memories.

He is also survived by his nieces Mara and Elana and cousins Lauren, David and Robin, as well as Aunt Edie and Uncle Norman Finkel and their family.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to support the Urologic General Oncology Fund under the direction of Dr. Graeme Steele. Memorial gifts can be made online at www.bwhgiving.org or checks can be made payable to Brigham and Women’s Hospital with “in memory of Stanley Berman” in the memo line and sent to: Brigham and Women’s Hospital, Development Office, 116 Huntington Ave., 3rd floor, Boston, MA 02116. Donations may also be made to the charity of your choice.

Dr. Waldo Fielding

January 1, 2022

Waldo Lewis Fielding, M.D.

July 25, 1921 – January 1, 2022

Dr. Waldo Lewis Fielding passed away at South Shore Hospital on January 1, 2022, aged 100.  A distinguished physician, obstetrician and gynecologist, Dr. Fielding began his four decade-long medical career providing care in the Pacific theater during World War II, grew his expertise in Harlem, established his practice in Boston, and shared his expertise with the next generation of doctors, serving on the faculty at Harvard, Tufts, and Boston University Medical Schools. Upon retirement, he returned to his first loves of singing and acting. Brilliant, wickedly funny, and socially active, he was known as simply ‘Waldo’ to generations of friends, family, patients and colleagues. If you were fortunate enough to share a bus stop bench with Waldo, he would tell you about a life more interesting than Forrest Gump’s.  But Waldo didn’t take the bus. No, he drove his BMW convertible, too fast, with the top down and the stereo cranking the Red Sox broadcast at full volume.

Waldo rubbed elbows with Babe Ruth and Louis Armstrong, was the closest of friends with Frank Avruch (better known to millions as Bozo the Clown), owned a restaurant with a couple of the Boston Celtics, and appeared regularly on local news, the Mike Douglas Show, 20/20, and Phil Donahue. At age 19, he was ranked sixth in the nation in table tennis.  He authored two books on childbirth and pregnancy (“The Childbirth Challenge,” later known as “The Case Against Natural Childbirth” and “Pregnancy: The Best State of the Union”). Following the Supreme Court’s Roe v. Wade, Waldo became an outspoken advocate for the availability of safe, legal abortion. Waldo was protested and villainized, but continued to practice what he preached.  He devoured nonfiction and newspapers, and claimed to finish the New York Times crossword just about every day, though no one could verify this due to his doctor’s penmanship. He was halfway through re-reading Thornton Wilder’s “Our Town,” with a magnifying glass, when he died.  Waldo could mix a martini, tell a joke, sing you a song, beat you in tennis, and deliver your baby, all before lunch.  He was one of a kind.

So many he knew in his prime are gone, but the 150 who showed up to celebrate his 100th birthday all had stories to tell. Waldo was loved.

Waldo was also a terrible cook, which worked out well for the dozens of restaurants and bars where Waldo was a fixture, a bottomless tap of wit and wisdom, the life of the party. He had a knack for connecting with people.  At his 95th birthday dinner, a waitress asked Waldo the secret of his longevity.  Waldo scratched his ear, the way he always did while thinking something over, then replied, “well, you just saw me order it – double vodkas, rare red meat, and extra salt.” They both just about fell over laughing.

Waldo loved nothing better than grabbing the microphone and giving a bar full of strangers the opportunity to know him and love him by filling the room with song.  “Alabamy Bound” and “Pennies from Heaven” were always on the setlist, and with longtime collaborator Eddie Scheer on the keyboard, Waldo nailed it every time.  A successful night ended with the crowd singing along, urged on by a round of drinks, on Waldo, for his new friends. He was generous to a fault.

O’Leary’s in Brookline gifted him his own Tiffany tumblers, kept behind the bar, which he continued to sip from very carefully after the rims cracked and became jagged.  The Chart Room, in Cataumet, hosted his sing-alongs for years. They once opened for a day, off-season, just to host a birthday party for his wife Anita.  He asked for that check for years. He was known to one and all at the Quarterdeck, and finally the Pub at Linden Ponds, his retirement home, where he loved to loudly complain that the crowd was “too old”.

Waldo Lewis Fielding was born on July 25, 1921, to Harriet and Bennett Fielding in Worcester, Massachusetts. An only child, he enjoyed a close relationship with his father, who introduced him to the Worcester YMCA when he was six years old.  A lifelong YMCA member, he worked out four times a week, swimming and playing tennis. The Boston Globe featured Waldo, working out on his usual treadmill at the Huntington Branch in Boston, aged 91.

Bennett Fielding was “everyone’s doctor,” a highly respected general practitioner in Worcester and surgeon for the Worcester Police Department, and who inspired Waldo’s choice of a medical career. This was not an easy decision for Waldo, who dearly loved theater and sharing his talent, warmth, and humor with an audience. Medicine won out, and he set his sights on becoming a doctor. “It was a big dichotomy in my life,” he was quoted on his acting-vs.-doctoring dilemma in a 1995 article for the Worcester Telegram and Sun.  “My father was very easy about it, but my mother was the one who insisted I become a doctor.”

Waldo graduated from Worcester’s Classical High School.   “Doc” Fielding, as he was known within the first five minutes of his undergraduate days at Dartmouth (class of ’43, graduated ‘42), continued on to study in the College’s two-year medical program, followed by two additional years of medical school at The University of Michigan at Ann Arbor. Waldo joined the Navy in 1942, trained at Naval Station Great Lakes, and served in the Pacific theater, caring for mothers and newborns in Guam, and later Truk, a remote Pacific atoll. His Navy service continued until 1948.

While there, Waldo was lined up, in formation beneath the hot sun to meet a visiting dignitary on an inspection tour as the personal representative of President Roosevelt.  It turned out to be the former President of Dartmouth College, who spied his former student Waldo, and interrupted his inspection to chat, and ask what he could do for him. Within weeks, Waldo was ordered to report to his dream job, at Bellevue Hospital in New York City.

Always the showman, he didn’t completely cut performing from his doctor’s life. While serving, he put on shows for Navy trainees, and in 1948 appeared regularly as a comic on CBS’ “Mississippi Music Hall” radio show during medical residences at Bellevue, Harlem Hospital and Hague Maternity Ward in Jersey City. From 1950 until 1952 he was Chief Resident in obstetrics and gynecology at New York’s Harlem Hospital.

While working at Bellevue, Waldo met and married Suzanne Benjamin, (Sue Bennett), a vocalist on “Your Hit Parade,” various network shows, as well as “The Sue Bennett Show.”  After accepting a job at Chelsea Naval Hospital, Waldo and Sue moved to Boston. Suzie did voice-over work for radio and television commercials while raising their two sons, Jed and Andrew.  Waldo later joined the Medical Associates of Massachusetts Memorial Hospital before going into private practice in 1954 until his retirement in 1990.  Suzie passed away in 2001 but was kept alive through Waldo’s many loving stories about her.

Providing medical care for women was his life’s work.  Waldo was introduced to obstetrics in medical school and knew then that it would become his specialty.  He loved his work and often said, “You can’t find a happier doctor than me.”  One part of that care, after Roe v. Wade, was to provide safe abortions. Waldo opened and was head of Pre-Term Health Services Clinic, which provided a full range of OB/GYN services in Brookline. In 2008, when it appeared the Supreme Court was becoming more conservative, Waldo penned an essay in the New York Times, recounting his experiences with the treatment of the after-effects of illicit procedures during his early training at Bellevue and Harlem Hospitals, and advocating for women to finally enjoy “the full rights of first-class citizens.”  He was a tireless advocate for a woman’s right to choose.  He was proud of his participation in the PBS documentary “No Choice,” in which he was interviewed by Pamela Mason in the summer of 2017.

Waldo couldn’t get a parking ticket in Brookline if he tried, since so many officers were among the thousands of Boston newborns delivered by his hands.  He once parked his convertible across two spaces, left the driver’s door open, keys in the ignition, while he went to lunch.  When he returned, all the meter maid said was “I’ve been waiting for you Waldo, nice to see you!”  After saying thank you and hello, Waldo turned to his lunch companion and murmured, “Who the hell was that?”

It was after retiring from his medical practice that Waldo could devote his time to his other love, entertainment.  Waldo’s connection to show business began with his first wife Suzie, and his own talent grew over the ensuing decades. Waldo acted in over 70 community plays, and brought many to tears with his performances of “Love Letters”.  He was a valued patron of the Cotuit Center for the Arts on Cape Cod, and gifted the center many long-lost manuscripts from his personal collection.

It was during this time in his life that Waldo met Anita Mackinnon, organist, mother of six, and longtime nonprofit advocate.  From their first meeting at O’Leary’s, they were inseparable and happy, always out and about at the theater, performing music, and enjoying friends and family. Anita is a member of the College Club of Boston, where Waldo appeared in “Love Letters” and several cabarets.  Waldo and Anita married in November 2014, and divided their time between Brookline and East Falmouth.  Anita liked to sit in the passenger seat of the convertible and concentrate on the Red Sox broadcast and the knitting in her lap, or chatting on the phone, anything to avoid seeing Waldo’s driving.  Waldo and Anita settled at Linden Ponds in Hingham, MA, in 2018.

In addition to Anita, he is survived by two sons: Jed Fielding of Chicago, IL, an internationally recognized street photographer; and Andrew Fielding of Pompton Lakes, NJ, a radio talk show host and author of “The Lucky Strike Papers – Journeys Through My Mother’s Television Past,” a book about early network television in the 1940s and 50’s.

Waldo claimed that Anita added years to his life, and through their marriage, Waldo became the elder of a loving extended family, what he called “the Tribe” including Matthew and Linda MacKinnon of Bethlehem, NH,; DJ and Leslie MacKinnon of Hingham, MA; Laurie and John Fallon of Easton, MA; Robert Benjaminsen and Linda Blue of Annapolis, MD; Leslie MacKinnon of Dorchester, MA; Liza MacKinnon and Brian Knies of Hingham, MA. Waldo’s grandchildren are: Taylor and Andrew Howell of Hingham, MA; Alec MacKinnon of Allston, MA; McKay Blue of Miami, FL; Lila Blue of Annapolis, MD; and Maisie Knies and Lachlan Knies of Hingham, MA.  No stranger to babies, Waldo held his first great-grandchild, Avery Charlotte Howell, on Christmas Day.

A private memorial service will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, Waldo would be thrilled by donations to the Geisel School of Medicine at Dartmouth, and to the Cotuit Center for the Arts, Cotuit, MA.

Seymour R. Friedman

December 31, 2021

It is with deep sadness that we mourn the loss of Seymour Ronald Friedman, who passed away on December 30, 2021.  With his humor, love of people and zest for words, Seymour touched the lives of many throughout the Boston area and his native Canada. As his sons remarked, no one who ever met him, forgot him.  A skilled sailor for many decades, Seymour and his wife, Louise, could often be found on the deck of their sailboat, the SEA-EZE, sailing all along the eastern Seaboard – after retiring in 2001 sailing from Newfoundland to Trinidad and all the places in between. At home in Wellesley, MA, Seymour was a loving husband to Louise for 57 years and a devoted father to two sons, Harley and Matthew. He made significant contributions to the country during a long career as a Systems Engineer at MITRE Corporation.

Born to Harry Friedman and Sophie Steinberg on October 29, 1939, in Cote-Saint-Paul, a suburb of Montreal, Quebec, Seymour and his sister, Charron, were raised in Montreal.  He attended Talmud Torah School, Montreal High School and graduated from McGill University in 1961 with a degree in Electrical Engineering. It is in Montreal that a college romance with Louise Krasnow was rekindled on Rosh Hashanah.  They married in 1964 and moved across the border, where Seymour, after working for a few years, attended Cornell University and graduated Phi Beta Kappa with a Masters degree in Computer Science in 1967.  Not long after, they settled in Wellesley, establishing strong friendships and deep connections to the Jewish community.  Seymour’s smile, warmth and unique charm will be missed by his wife, Louise, by Harley and Sarah, Matthew and Robin, and his five grandchildren, Gwen, Daphnie, Mason, Malina and Reese Friedman in addition to all his family in Vancouver, Canada, including his sister, Charron, and husband, Gabriel Kalfon, and sister-in-law Carole Lieberman and husband Lucien.  Seymour was also a cherished uncle to Hilaire Kalfon, Marcy, Leanne and Jeff Lieberman, and great uncle to Leo and Tessa Mendes and Makaio and Dassa Lieberman-Smith.  He will always be remembered for his friendly nature and outgoing personality. Graveside service will be held on Sunday, January 2, 2022 at 10:00 am at Beit Olam East Cemetery, 42 Concord Rd., Wayland, MA. Donations in his memory may be made to Birthright Israel Foundation P.O. Box 21615, New York, NY 10087.

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Linda (Ohanesian) Kahn

December 31, 2021

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Linda (Ohanesian) Kahn of Cambridge, MA, Ridgewood, NJ, & Ogunquit, ME died on December 31, 2021 at Mt. Auburn Hospital after a brief illness. She was 69 years old. Born in Cambridge, MA at Mt. Auburn Hospital to the late Fred & A. Mary (Spadano) Ohanesian.  She was survived by her devoted husband Peter Kahn; her eldest son David & his wife Trisha of Belmont, MA and her youngest son Daniel Kahn of South Boston.  Devoted sister of Harry Ohanesian & his wife Sheila. Sister-in-law of Milton Kahn & his wife Janet.  Loving grandmother of Jocelyn & Dylan Kahn.  She was also survived by her aunt Marie Spadano and many cousins, nieces, and nephews. Graduate of Lesley College 1972.   She loved friends & family time in Ogunquit on the beach, volunteering at the American Red Cross, walking 10,000 steps every day, watching the Red Sox, and most recently Face Timing with her grandchildren. Graveside service at Mount Auburn Cemetery,580 Mount Auburn St., Cambridge, MA  on Wednesday, January 5, 2022, at 11:00 am.  A celebration of life will be held in Summer 2022 at the family home in Ogunquit, ME.  In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Adler Aphasia Center https://adleraphasiacenter.org.

 

 

 

Michael B. Glass

December 27, 2021

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Michael B. Glass- Passed away December 26, 2021 at the age of 76. Michael grew up in Brookline and lived in Framingham since 1971.Beloved husband for 53 years to Nancy Glass. Loving father of Stuart Glass and his wife Shari, and Andrea O’Keeffe and her husband Tom. Proud papa to Lauren and Rachel Glass. Dear son of the late Samuel and Gertrude Glass. Devoted brother of the late Joyce Aronson. Graveside service at Sharon Memorial Park on Tuesday, December 28, 2021 at 10:45 am. Due to Covid, there will be no Shiva. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to The Jimmy Fund.

Irene M. Selig

December 26, 2021

Irene M. Selig died peacefully, Sunday, December 26, 2021, a few weeks short of her 95th birthday. Born in Krakow, Poland on February 22, 1927, she was the only child of Henya (Badner) Groessler and Konrad Groessler.

She was a Holocaust survivor.  She was dealt a tough hand in her life, and had a very difficult last year, but she was a fighter. She was feisty, funny, as vain as they come, opinionated… She was a force of nature, with strong convictions, strength, and so much energy and passion for what she believed. She had a lioness’ voice, especially for those without one.

Irene was fiercely loyal to family and friends and was always a cheerleader for her family.  She cherished her children, grandchildren, and great-grand children, and no less her extended family by marriage.  She was passionate about climate change, the natural habitat, and recycling, and she always rooted for the underdog and the downtrodden.

Despite being a Holocaust survivor, she treasured her early life in Krakow.  She returned to Poland three times, with her husband, children, and other family members, and it was a privilege for them to see her so animated and happy to show her children her old stomping ground. Although petite in stature, she was larger than life, and somehow found it in her heart to forgive what had been done to her. You can read more about that here.

She lived in Stamford, CT from 1963-2018. She then moved to Westwood, MA with her husband of 48 years, Edward Selig, to be closer to her children.

She is survived by her husband Edward Selig, daughter Dianne (Botkin) Lior of Cambridge MA, son Bradley Botkin and wife Renee Robins of Acton MA, and stepdaughter Vicentica (Vicki) Boxer of Gilmanton NH, four grandchildren Dotan Lior and wife Megan (Nowlin) Lior of Sedona AZ, Atar (Lior) Rosenkrans and husband Marc Rosenkrans of Maui, HI, Elijah Botkin, and Noah Botkin of Boston MA, and four great-grandchildren Anya and Esme Lior, and Ari and Kai Rosenkrans.

In honor of Irene’s memory, those who desire may contribute to the Environmental Defense Fund (EDF), the World Wildlife Foundation (WWF), or Hebrew Senior Life (HSL).

We will miss her smile.

Les Blicher

Leslie “Les” Stuart Blicher

December 24, 2021

Leslie “Les” S. Blicher, a long-time Newton resident, passed away peacefully in his sleep on December 24, 2021. He was 85 years old and had Parkinson’s Disease for the last 15 years of his life.

Les received his Bachelor of Arts from the University of Rochester and, following a stint in the Navy, a J.D. from Georgetown University. He worked as a tax attorney with specialties in employee benefits and ERISA for the Internal Revenue Service, John Hancock, and Goodwin Procter. Les then spent the last half of his career as an employee benefits consultant and office manager for Mercer-Meidinger-Hansen’s Boston office, Alexander & Alexander, and Executive Alliance.

Les had a passion for the legal system in general and in U.S. constitutional law specifically. He taught courses on these subjects while working at Babson College’s executive education program, and upon retiring at the Brandeis University BOLLI program. Les also served on the Board of Trustees at  Temple Shalom of Newton, where he was a member until his passing.

Les played the trumpet from a young age and enjoyed music all his life. He played in the Angier School Community Band, in ensembles at the All-Newton Music School, and with friends. He attended classical concerts in the Boston area until he was no longer able, then watched telecasts of the Metropolitan Opera and the Boston Symphony Orchestra. He was also an avid reader and was seldom without a book or newspaper.

Les is survived by his high school sweetheart and wife of 62 years, Beverly (Hirsch) Blicher. He is also survived by his sister, Joyce Schwartz of Wellesley; his daughter Deborah Blicher, son-in-law Peter Dain, and their children Kristina and Max Dain of Sudbury; and his son Neil Blicher, daughter-in-law Elizabeth Gossels Blicher, and their children Jane, Michael, and Matthew Blicher of Sudbury.

Les’ family and friends will remember and miss his warmth and charm, his dry and occasionally silly sense of humor, his love for desserts (particularly chocolate), his passion for the Boston Red Sox, and his way of making people comfortable in his presence. Funeral service is private. In lieu of flowers, donations in Les’ memory may be made to the Parkinson’s Foundation, 1255 Soldiers Field Rd., Boston, MA 02135.

 

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Doris M. Jones

December 21, 2021

Doris M. Jones, age 83, of Newton, passed away Tuesday, December 21, 2021. Daughter of the late William E. Jones and Ann (Fedor) Hardony. Mother of Monica Beth Jones and the late Pamela Leigh Jones (Horwitz). Dear grandmother of Nicholas Michael Rider. Loving sister of the late William E. Jones, Jr. Wife of Vincent T. Corniello. Doris enjoyed a long and successful career in Boston’s legal industry starting as a freelance stenographer with Doris O. Wong Associates before taking an official reporting position at the Federal Court with Judge Keaton.  Doris opened her own court reporting firm, Doris M. Jones & Associates in 1979 where she trained and mentored many new court reporters, and growing the company to over 40 people who worked in Boston’s largest and most prestigious law firms.  Doris M. Jones & Associates was chosen as Best Court Reporting Company in the Massachusetts Lawyers Weekly readers’ poll several years in a row in the 1990s.  Doris sold her company and retired in 2002 but missed reporting and interacting with clients so much, she came out of retirement to co-found Jones & Fuller Reporting in 2004 where she worked until her retirement in 2014.  Jones & Fuller continues to do business under the leadership of those she mentored for so many years. Graveside service will be held Tuesday, December 28, 2021 at 1:30pm at The Gardens at Gethsemane, 670 Baker St. West Roxbury, MA. Donations in her memory may be made to The Jimmy Fund P.O. Box 849168, Boston, MA 02284.

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Jack Leon Paradise

December 20, 2021

Jack Leon Paradise, 96, loving and devoted father, grandfather, great-grandfather, brother, and pediatrician, died peacefully at his home in Belmont, MA, on December 20, 2021, surrounded by his family.

Paradise was born in Butler, PA, in 1925, to Bella (Goodman) and Samuel Paradise. At the age of 16, he entered Washington & Jefferson College, not far from home. Two years later, he entered Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine, and, after graduating at age 21, Paradise began the pediatric practice and clinical research that he continued almost to the end of his life. In May of this year, at the age of 95, he co-authored a paper published in The New England Journal of Medicine with a research team led by one of the many physician-researchers he mentored over the course of his storied career.

In the early 1950s, Paradise, along with several other physicians, opened a coal miners’ clinic in a small industrial town in southeastern Ohio, on the Ohio River. The Bellaire Clinic was part of a system of clinics set up across the Appalachian coal fields, where miners and their families, after decades of underfunded, fragmentary, and inadequate medical care, had access to free, comprehensive health care paid for by the mineworkers’ union. In 1967, the clinic applied for and received a federal grant to establish the first non-urban Neighborhood Health Center in the nation, providing health care and related services to low-income families.

In 1970, Paradise joined the faculty of the University of Pittsburgh Medical School as a professor of pediatrics and the medical director of the Ambulatory Care Center at Children’s Hospital of Pittsburgh. There, for 35 years until his retirement in 2005, he conducted clinical research focused on determining the appropriate indications for tonsillectomy and adenoidectomy in children – surgeries that at the time were exceedingly prevalent but lacking an evidence base. His landmark research helped to promote the use of strict criteria for tonsillectomy and adenoidectomy and changed the trajectory of treatment for children worldwide. The nearly 80 percent drop in pediatric tonsillectomies in the United States between 1971 and 1996 has been largely attributed to Paradise’s work.

Paradise was also a renowned expert in the study of otitis media, or middle ear infections, the most frequently occurring disease of childhood. His large-scale research studies, which were marked by clarity and elegance of design, demonstrated that the widely held fear that persistent ear infections in young children caused later speech, language, cognitive, or psychosocial impairments was unfounded. In a body of research conducted over a period of decades, Paradise showed that, for children up to 3 years old, ear disease does not cause any developmental problems, and that delay in the insertion of tympanostomy tubes into children’s ears has no effect on their performance on language and speech tests. In subsequent studies, Paradise expanded this research to groups of older children, with similar findings.

Paradise was a researcher at heart even from the earliest days of his medical career. As a post-doctoral trainee, he conducted an innovative study that served to effectively discredit the then-prevailing notion that infantile colic was a reflection in the baby of the mother’s tension, hostility toward her baby, or rejection of her maternal role. Results of that widely cited study have helped to spare countless mothers unnecessary guilt and anxiety. Overall, Paradise’s body of work shed light on broad areas of primary care for children that had previously been clouded by uncertainty and controversy and characterized by conflicting and often divergent practices. His research materially influenced pediatric primary care in ways that led to important improvements in health care for children.

In 1994, Paradise was awarded the Research Award of the Ambulatory Pediatric Association. In 1999, he was named Pennsylvania Pediatrician of the Year. The award recognized him for many attributes and contributions, in particular, for epitomizing the role of clinician-teacher, for the combination of his seriousness and the wonderful twinkle in his eye, and for teaching his colleagues how to question received wisdom and to probe for new answers to old problems. In 2000,Children’s Hospital of Pittsburgh established the Jack L. Paradise, MD Endowed Chair in Pediatric Research.

Paradise was a committed social activist since his medical school days. He was especially active in Physicians for Social Responsibility and International Physicians for the Prevention of Nuclear War, which was awarded the Nobel Peace Prize in 1985. Paradise’s engagement in world affairs and humanitarian concerns lasted throughout his life.

Above all, Paradise was known for his kindness, decency, sense of humor, loud plaids, late-night work, indefatigable rewriting, friendship, compassion, and big heart. In the last few months of his life, colleagues from Pittsburgh, many of whom remained treasured friends, visited him in Belmont, MA, to spend time, reminisce, and laugh with their friend one last time. As profound a source of meaning and purpose as his work was to him, his family was his greatest joy. No need of theirs was too small for his attention, and his close relationships with them delighted and sustained him.

Paradise had four children from his first marriage, Jan (deceased) (Gary Fleisher), Daniel (deceased), Julia (Emanuel Thorne), and Emily (Arn Franzen). He was a devoted and loving husband to his late wife, Mary Paradise. He is survived by his sister, Judith Hirst; six grandchildren, Daniel, Madeline and Carl Fleisher, Miriam and Daniel Thorne, and Elias Franzen; seven great-grandchildren, Isaac, Gabriel, and Noah Fleisher, Jane and Henry McKenzie, and Charlotte and Bennet Fleisher; and his longtime companion, Marjie Cahn.

A private interment took place at West View Cemetery, in Pittsburgh, PA. A memorial service is planned for a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to Children’s Hospital of Pittsburgh, Physicians for Social Responsibility, and the Western Pennsylvania Conservancy.

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