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Lorraine R. (Cooper) Tobin

November 10, 2020

Lorraine R. (Cooper) Tobin,  91 of Brookline, MA. Wife of the late Daniel Tobin, Beloved mother of Herbert of Needham,  Rhonda Davis and her husband Howard of Sharon and Stuart and his wife LeAnn of Baltimore.  Grandmother of Rachel Monn and her husband Matthew,  Adam Tobin and his fiancée Nora Conklin, Scott Davis and his wife Lindsay, Emma Hensley and her husband Henry, and Ethan Tobin.  Great Grandmother of Noah Monn and Blake Davis. Loving  sister of Thelma Shuman, Howard Cooper,  the late David Cooper and Loving aunt to several nieces and nephews.

Lorraine loved reading, playing bridge with friends and teaching her grandchildren to master scrabble and card games.  She enjoyed a discussion on local and national politics as well as scoring a bargain at Filenes and the Star Market.

A private family service will be held.

Donations may be made to the Carroll Center for the Blind, 770 Centre Street, Newton, MA 02458.

Dr. Kosta Tsipis

November 10, 2020

Written by Bryan Marquad Boston Globe November 10,2020

A curious boy who gazed at the stars from his mountainside Greek village and wondered how the universe came to be, Kosta Tsipis was only 11 when news arrived that the first atomic weapon had been dropped on Hiroshima, Japan.

“After the bomb went off, I sent away for a book because I wanted to understand it,” he told the Globe in 1987. That moment set him on a course toward studying nuclear physics and becoming a prominent voice for disarmament during the Cold War arms race. “I had come to believe that reason must prevail,” he said, and for him, that meant using his knowledge of the destructive capability of nuclear weapons to persuade politicians and ordinary people that a war of that magnitude was a dangerous folly.

Dr. Tsipis, who formerly directed the Program in Science and Technology at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology for International Security, died at home Saturday in Lasell Village in Newton after a period of declining health. He was 86 and had previously lived in Brookline for many years.

“So great are the excesses of the era of nuclear overkill that the American and Soviet strategic nuclear arsenals can be reduced by 50 percent — and more — without risking security,” he wrote in a 1988 op-ed for The New York Times. “Political, military, and psychological reasons strongly point toward the wisdom of reductions.”

Along with writing books and essays that appeared in publications such as the Times, the Globe, and Scientific American, Dr. Tsipis traveled to Washington, D.C., to lobby US senators, representatives, and officials of President Ronald Reagan’s administration.

During an era when that administration’s Strategic Defense Initiative — the “Star Wars” missile defense system — was much in the news, Dr. Tsipis published his book “Arsenal:

He offered a “layman’s primer on America’s present and planned nuclear arsenal,” reviewer Sue Halpern wrote in the Times.

“Writing from a scientific, not a political, perspective and drawing on unclassified government documents,” Halpern added, “Mr. Tsipis addresses vital questions: How, theoretically, does the hardware work? What are its vulnerabilities? Will it work in practice? Does it enhance American security?”

And his research ranged beyond weapons to the havoc they would wreak.

Dr. Tsipis was the lead author for “Nuclear Crash,” an MIT study that was based partly on four years of computer simulations of the consequences of nuclear attacks. The study found that a limited attack on the United States by only 1 percent of the nuclear arsenal of what was then the Soviet Union would set off a decades-long collapse of America’s economy and lead to mass starvation.

An attack aimed at energy production, transportation, and other key industries could leave survivors at “near-medieval levels of existence,” said the study, which was released in 1987.

“Ours is the first study to be quantitative on the minimum needed for so-called mutual assured destruction,” he told the Globe that year.

Dr. Tsipis “was very much in a tradition that had been established, especially at Harvard and MIT, of scientists — especially physicists — getting involved with issues regarding defense and disarmament,” said Fred Kaplan, who had been one of his students at MIT and later was the Globe’s defense reporter. Those scientists were not simply lobbying for arms reductions, “but were applying their fields of science to actually researching the effects of these things and ways they can be controlled,” said Kaplan, an author who is now the national security columnist for the online site Slate. “They got deeply involved with public policy, and Kosta very solidly fell into that tradition.”

An only child, Kosta M. Tsipis was born in Athens on Feb. 12, 1934, and grew up in a small village near Delphi on Mount Parnassus. His parents were Michael Kosta Tsipis, an engineer, and Zoe Alexiou.

“His life is an amazing story,” said Dr. Tsipis’s son Yanni of Westwood.

During World War II, “his parents took in a Jewish family and sheltered them,” Yanni added. “If the Germans had discovered that, they all would have been executed.”

Sitting in his MIT office during the 1987 Globe interview, Dr. Tsipis said that the “war was existentially terrorizing. It completely defied rationality.” At times, German soldiers conducted sweeps of the village, counting residents and mattresses to see if families were hiding anyone.

“I think that experience informed his whole life and forged a moral compass,” Yanni said.

After completing high school in Athens, Dr. Tsipis secured a spot at Rutgers University in New Jersey and traveled to the United States in 1954. He married Magda Yannousi, whom he met on the ship on the way over. They had a son, Mikel of Framingham, and their marriage ended in divorce.

Dr. Tsipis graduated from Rutgers with a bachelor’s degree in electrical engineering in 1958 and a master’s in atomic physics in 1960. He received a doctorate in high energy nuclear physics from Columbia University in 1966 and began teaching at MIT. While there he met Judith Ebel, a graduate student in another department, and they married in 1970. After finishing her doctorate in biology at MIT, she was a biology professor at Brandeis University, where her husband also taught for about a decade after his time at MIT. “He was a wonderful loving husband,” she said.

They had two sons, including Andreas, who died in 1998 of Canavan disease, a fatal, progressive neurological disorder. The experience led Judith to found the Genetic Counseling Program at Brandeis in 1992.

“He inspired the founding of the most respected program in genetic counseling in the country that trains specialists to help people like his mother and his father,” Kosta Tsipis said in a eulogy at Andreas’s funeral. Andreas “made the lives of many people richer and their understanding broader” and he “made his family stronger and wiser,” Dr. Tsipis added. “That’s quite a list of achievements for a young man who communicated mostly with his smile.”

In addition to his wife and two sons, Dr. Tsipis leaves four grandchildren.

A celebration of his life and work will be announced.

Though Dr. Tsipis was a renowned physicist, he also “had a Greekiness about him,” his wife said. “Even though he became an American citizen, he maintained that Greekiness verve of life that was very special.”Dr. Tsipis, who was an informal adviser to George Papandreou, a former prime minister of Greece, was “a warm and passionate soul who loved life — people, food, a good tray of baklava — and always carried with him a concern for human beings that I think came from his experiences as a child,” Yanni said.

Kaplan recalled that Dr. Tsipis “was very keen on the central experiences of life in a way that you wouldn’t always expect from someone coming out of this field. He understood that the whole point of this is to build a life that is more creative and enriching.” Speaking Greek, English, French, and some Italian, Dr. Tsipis “was an amazing life force,” his wife said.

Over the door of their second home in Truro was a sign they had made with the Latin phrase hic habitat felicitas — here lives happiness.

Diane (Kleinberg) Altman

November 8, 2020

ALTMAN, Diane (Kleinberg), 81, of Weston, passed on November 8th. Beloved wife, of 61 years, to Stuart Altman; devoted mother to Beth and Scott Marcus, Renee and David Nefussy and Heather Altman and James Shortridge; proud grandmother of Taylor Nefussy, Allison and Rachel Marcus, Sydney and Leah Shortridge; loving daughter of the late Hyman and Tessie Kleinberg and sister of the late Arthur Kleinberg. Diane grew up in the Bronx, New York. In the early years of her marriage she moved frequently with her husband and family, but settled in Massachusetts for over 40 years.  In addition to her home in Weston, Diane loved her time in her homes in Tuftonboro, NH and Chapel Hill, NC.  Diane graduated from George Mason University with a degree in Psychology and worked for many years in the probation department of the Quincy District Court.  In her retirement, she enjoyed participating in the adult education programs at Brandeis and Duke universities. Diane was the happiest when spending time with her family and extended Altman and Kleinberg families. Services will be private. Donations in her memory may be made out to “Brandeis University” with “BOLLI” in the memo line, and mailed to Brandeis University, Office of Development and Alumni Relations, MS 126, PO Box 549110, Waltham, MA 02453 or online here

Joan Dangel

November 6, 2020

Dangel, Joan of Belmont, Brookline & Newton, on November 5, 2020, age 73, after leading a courageous life. She leaves her sisters, Nancie Dangel of Cambridge, Barb Irwin of VT (& her family John, Caitlin, Ian, & Bryn). Graveside service to be private. In lieu of flowers, donations in Joan’s memory may be made to OpenDoorArtsMA.org.

Peter A. Ulin

November 5, 2020

Peter Ulin, 89, of West Newton, Massachusetts, died at home on November 5th, 2020 of Parkinson’s and Lewy body dementia. Beloved husband of Bonnie (Handmaker) Ulin for 62 years, loving father of Jennifer Ulin and Daniel Ulin and his wife Kelli Maroney of Los Angeles, devoted Grampy to Rachel and Emily Ulin Polansky. Peter was pre-deceased by his brother Jeremy Ulin, whose wife Jessie Ulin resides in California. Peter was born in Chestnut Hill to Rebecca and Benjamin Ulin. Peter attended Roxbury Latin School, Harvard College, and Columbia Business School. This was followed by three years in the U.S. Army in Japan. After a stint on Wall Street, Peter and Nicholas Holland founded their corporate finance firm in Boston specializing in mergers and acquisitions. In retirement, Peter served on the boards of Jewish Community Housing for the Elderly and Beth Israel Hospital, among others. Peter also loved volunteering as a teaching assistant at the Angier School in Waban, was a published columnist, loved to discover new restaurants and bakeries, cooked amazing meals, and traveled the world with Bonnie. His favorite saying was “Life is uncertain, eat dessert first.” He is remembered for his quick wit, generous mentoring, fine character, and deep devotion to his family and friends. There will be a private graveside service at Temple Israel Cemetery in Wakefield. In lieu of flowers, please send remembrances in Peter’s memory to 2Life Communities (formerly Jewish Community Housing for the Elderly), 30 Wallingford Road, Brighton MA 02135 or Good Shepherd Community Care, 160 Wells Avenue, Newton, MA 02459.

Eric B. Berenson

November 5, 2020

Eric B. Berenson – Of Cranston, RI, formerly of Boston, on November 5, 2020. Beloved husband of Gerry (Lamb) Berenson. Devoted son of the late Estelle and Joseph Berenson. Devoted father of Michelle and Louis Berenson. Loving brother of Lisa and Paul Berenson. Dear uncle of Robin Berenson and great uncle to Eva Ingemanson. Dear brother in law of Carol Lamb. Devoted son in law of Edythe and the late Harold Lamb. Private services will be held. No Flowers Please. Remembrances in his memory may be made to Providence Animal Rescue League, 34 Elbow St., Providence RI 02903.

Bernard Glassman

November 4, 2020

Bernard Glassman, 101, of Newton, MA, devoted father, brother, uncle, grandfather, and great grandfather, passed away peacefully on Wednesday, November 4, 2020. He is survived by his son Leonard Glassman and his wife Lynda of Framingham, granddaughter Melissa Lasoff of Westboro, Dr. Seth Glassman and his wife Abhi of Niagara-On-The Lake Canada, great-grandchildren Gabrielle Lasoff and Jordan Lasoff of Westboro. Bernard was the loving husband of Phyllis (Kouffman) Glassman for 74 years. Bernard was an army veteran of the European theater of World War 2. Bernard and his brothers founded Boston based Hampden Automotive Sales Corp. The company was an early pioneer in the automotive remanufacturing industry. Bernard loved tennis, golf, music, and was an avid Boston sports fan. Bernard was known for his great sense of humor and wry wit. His deep devotion to his family will be a lasting legacy. He will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him. A private graveside service will be held. Donations in his memory may be made to the charity of your choice.

Burton Rubenstein

November 3, 2020

Burton Rubenstein (Grampy) two months short of 103, of Brooklyn New York, and then Newton, Ma passed away peacefully November 3rd, 2020 leaving a true legacy behind.

He was the devoted husband to the late Thelma Geller Rubenstein, loving father of Ellyn and Richard Penn of Newton and Laurie and Andy Levin of Wellesley. Dedicated grandfather to Melissa and Fred Post, Tracy and Dan hoffman, Jamie Penn and Meredith and Harry Shafer.

Loving brother of Martin Rubenstein, the late Cecile Welsch, Willard, Arnold and Gerald Rubenstein and brother in law to Harriet Rubenstein. He also leaves behind his great grandchildren Ally, Dylan and Griffin Post, Jordan and Kendall Hoffman and Madeline, Jameson and Theodore Shafer. Loving son in law to the late Dorothy and Louis Geller and brother in law to Sumner and Carol Geller and the late Albert and Roslyn Geller.  Grampy was also beloved by many very special nieces and nephews and great nieces and nephews. For the last 30 years he truly loved and was grateful for his very special relationship with Eudene (Eudie) Alleyne, a beloved member of our family. His overwhelming devotion to his family was his lasting legacy. Grampy moved to Boston at the age of 18 and worked at his family textile business, Security Mills, for many years, however ended his career at the age of 86, when he retired from Barrow Industries of Norwood, Ma. He was a constant in the lives of those closest to him, but also an everlasting presence for those who knew him in a fleeting way. Born in Brooklyn, New York, while rooting on all Boston teams, Grampy was a diehard Yankee fan. He never missed a Patriot game as long as Tom Brady was at the helm. Grampy was a man of routine. He read the newspaper from cover to cover, as well as exercised for 30 minutes daily. He was advocate for lengthy dental hygiene, a lover of red wine, mallomars, tongue sandwiches,  the Sunday crossword puzzle and beautiful young ladies. He had a handshake that could crush a grown man and a heart that knew no bounds. While in many ways he was a simple man, for those who knew and loved him, he loomed larger than life. He was our Superhero. He will be deeply missed, celebrated and remembered forever. Due to current restrictions, a private graveside funeral will be held Monday November 9th. To honor his memory, donations can be made to the National Breast Cancer Coalition, 1010 Vermont Ave NW Suite 900 Washington DC 20005, or go online to www.stopbreastcancer.org.

Millard M. Kay

November 1, 2020

Millard M. Kay-Age 96, of Dedham, formerly of Newton, on November 1, 2020.Beloved husband of the late Lucille (Katz) Kay. Devoted father of Ronna Niederman and her husband Dr. Michael Niederman, Terry Kay Bargar and her husband Dr. Richard Bargar, Jonathan Kay and his wife Linda Sloane Kay. Loving grandfather of Alex Niederman and his wife Sarah, Eric Niederman and his wife Andrea, Emily Bargar and Stephen Patrias, Jillian Bargar and her husband Sam Donovan, Joshua Kay and his wife Brooke Patkin Kay, Rachel Kay and Franklin Ross. Dear great- grandfather of Leah and Chloe Niederman and Bette Niederman. Services are private. Remembrances in his memory may be made to NewBridge on the Charles,7000 Great Meadow Road, Dedham, MA 02026.

Eli Botkin

November 1, 2020

Eli Botkin, 94, of Dedham, MA, a devoted husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, cousin and friend, passed away peacefully on Friday, October 30, 2020. He is survived by his loving wife Evelyn, his children Dianne, Brad (Renee), Naomi (Josh) and Josh (Deb), seven grandchildren, and four great -grandchildren. Born in New York City, Eli received undergraduate and graduate degrees from New York University (where he was captain of the riflery team) and the California Institute of Technology (Caltech). A lifelong student of math and physics, he enjoyed a nearly 60-year career as an aerospace engineer specializing in trajectory analysis – including as a member of the Grumman team that developed the Lunar Excursion Module (LEM), which was flown from lunar orbit to the moon’s surface during the Apollo program. In recent years, Eli served as a volunteer teacher at the Rashi School in Dedham, where he shared his love of math and science (particularly Einstein’s theory of special relativity) with middle school students. Due to Covid restrictions, the family held a private graveside service. Donations in Eli’s memory may be made to The New York Times Neediest Cases Fund or another charity of your choice.

 

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