Lila Goldstein passed away on May 4th at the age of 92. She was a creative, sharp, hilarious woman with a generous heart. She was a book brimming with life, filled with stories, and memories. Her children and her grandchildren were her absolute greatest pride and joy until her last day.
Lila was consumed by her love for adventure, her love of family, and by the pride of the legend she left behind which exists in each of us that carry the Goldstein, White, Theriault, and Macklin names.
Known as Nana to her grandchildren, Lila was a spitfire. A timeless comedienne who served as President of her own country. She was born and raised in New York City. Her parents, Harry and Sarah Sherry, emigrated from Russia and sold linens at their modest shop in the Bronx. They taught her patience, hard work, and Jewish values which she carried with her throughout her life and passed on to her children and grandchildren. Her prowess as a teacher, artist, life-long learner, adventurer, and grandmother showed us how important laughter is in a world plagued by divisive politics, societal inequities, and international conflict. She consumed knowledge at an incredible rate for a woman 92 years young – loving her news channels, but most of all, her exclusive time with Lester Holt as he hosted the evening news.
Lila knew the importance of travel and cultural immersion and spent every opportunity encouraging her family to explore – nurturing a curiosity for life within each of us. She was brave and fearless. And she instilled those same qualities in those closest to her.
She attended Brandeis University and Hunter College to become an elementary school teacher, later putting her skills to use teaching English as a second language and at Jewish religious schools where she made life-changing impacts on young lives. She created a prolific collection of beautiful paintings that are exhibited in the homes of friends and family across the globe. They fill us with pride and they will live on in her honor.
Lila is predeceased by her devoted husband of 47 years, Dr. Harold M. Goldstein and her sister Miriam Blaustein. She is survived by her four children – Debora (Peter), Mark (Amy), Seth (Genalin), and Michelle (Matthew), her nine grandchildren – Hallie (Michael), Kayla, Noah, Sam, Rachel, Michael, Kelly (Adam), Jessica, and Brendan, and her great granddaughter, Gayle. She touched the lives of our family, friends, and strangers as she even recently rolled up to any location in her wheelchair, whether it be her favorite cafe, opera or dialysis, dressed to the nines and exuding confidence and charm. Thank you to all of Nana Lila’s care takers, drivers, physical therapists and doctors – “Team Lila” – for keeping her comfortable and nurtured, and for extending her life so we could enjoy her eternal optimism. We are forever grateful to you: Rita, Joyce, Sophia, Dawn, Gurzel, Diana, Donavan, Rosie, Joe, Gerard, Tina and Dr. Ronald Goldin.
Lila’s funeral will be at Temple Beth Elohim, 10 Bethel Rd, Wellesley, MA at 10:30am Friday, May 9th. Burial will then be at Westview Cemetery, 520 Bedford St, Lexington, MA. After the burial from 1:30-4:00pm friends are invited to join the family for an informal lunch and Shiva at the home of Debora and Peter White. We also invite Shiva visitors on Saturday May 10th from 5:00-8:00pm. Lila was an incredible woman who will live forever in our hearts.
Donations in memory of Lila Goldstein may be made to Wellesley A better Chance.