Marian Chase Broder passed away on April 19th, 2023 at the age of 81 after a brief illness. She was surrounded by her family.
Marian was a passionate, creative, and engaged mother, wife, grandmother, and friend. Wherever she went in life she created meaningful connections and communities, inspiring those around her with unbounded optimism, playful humor, and a tireless pursuit of learning. To know Marian was to be pulled into the orbit of her relentless curiosity and her wholehearted love of life.
Marian grew up in Providence, Rhode Island, the daughter of Bertha and Samuel Chase and sister to Audrey. She attended Sarah Lawrence College where she received her bachelor’s degree. In what would come to be a well-known feature of Marian’s personality, she continued to push forward in pursuit of education and meaningful contributions, graduating from Columbia University School of International Affairs and Case Western Reserve University School of Law. Marian started her career working as a research assistant at The White House Conference on Civil Rights, in the Office of the Director of the National Institutes of Health and then in the Office of the Assistant Secretary for Health at the Department of Health, Education and Welfare, in Washington DC.
Though many vied for Marian’s affection while she lived in Bethesda, there were none who caught her eye until she agreed to a blind date with the handsome man who turned into her “bashert,” Martin. Martin asked Marian to marry him on their second date, only to be turned down. Little did he know, also consistent with Marian’s clarity of vision, she then went out and bought her wedding dress, a white minidress perfectly embodying her sassy and classy spirit in one elegant dress. Martin realized quickly after meeting Marian that a life with her meant he would never be bored. He did not need to propose again- it just became clear that they were meant to continue on together.
Marian and Martin married in 1969 and began a life that was a blessing and a constant adventure. They built a life together on the bedrock of shared values and intellectual pursuits, with their combined curiosity always broadening their horizons. They were blessed with four children: Sharon (David, Brookline, MA), Jennifer (Arlington, MA), Molly (Ed, New Rochelle, NY), and Sam (Alecia, Anchorage, AK) and seven grandchildren, Rayna, Adam, Jack, Charlie, Daniel, Beth, and Maggie. Marian felt that her primary job in life was to give her children and grandchildren “roots and wings,” imprinting in them fundamental values of love, decency, compassion, generosity, and the importance of family, so they could fly. Marian’s love for family was a guiding principle in her life. She made spending time with her family her number one priority, endlessly planning creative activities from salamander hunts to family Passover plays. In addition to involvement with her children and grandchildren, she avidly researched genealogy, updated family trees, planned and organized family reunions and other small gatherings to keep her family close and connected.
Professionally, Marian’s law career continued in Cleveland, OH, and Springfield, MA, where she worked for private law firms, was an attorney for nursing homes and taught health law and medical ethics at Western New England University School of Law. Though a lawyer by profession, Marian was an avid volunteer, especially in the Jewish community. She was proud of her Jewish identity and appreciated the values and wisdom offered to her by Judaism. She was an active member of Temple Beth El for over 40 years. Her community was enriched by her boundless energy, her creative spirit, and legendary attention to detail.
Additionally, she poured her skills, knowledge and dedication into projects at Baystate Medical Center in Springfield, MA, as a member of its Ethics Committee, its Institutional Review Board and the Advisory Committee for the Comprehensive Breast Center. She was also the Chairman of the Board of the Jewish Nursing Home of Western Massachusetts and served on the Board of Temple Beth El. In 1998, she co-authored a book “Memories of Zionism: An oral history of residents of greater Springfield and the Pioneer Valley.”
Characteristically Marian threw herself into a range of hobbies that largely focused on bringing people together and sharing ideas. She participated in multiple book clubs, organized murder mystery games, wrote lively stories about her own memories, recorded oral histories of her family and friends, and enjoyed water aerobics. She passed on her love of nature walks, bird watching, and ocean vistas to her children.
Marian brought love and light to so many of her relationships. She found joy wherever she could and taught her family to do the same. She fostered creativity and loved unconditionally. Her unflagging determination to immerse herself in family, ideas, literature, culture, Judaism, and the natural world regularly amazed everyone who knew her.
Those wishing to honor Marian are welcome to donate to Rays of Hope at Baystate Health Foundation [https://secure2.convio.net/bayhf/site/TR?fr_id=1240&pg=entry], helping individuals in the fight against breast cancer. Or smile at someone, ask them about themselves, and listen to their story.