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Beebe Sinofsky

July 6, 2024

Of Newton on July 6, 2024. Beloved wife of the late Albert J. Sinofsky. Loving mother of Ken “Ian” of Newton, Debra (Paul) Gibbons of Needham, the late Bruce Sinofsky and also survived by her daughter- in- law Florence of New Jersey.

Devoted grandmother of Alex (Nayla), Amanda, Emily, Tristan, Claire, Adeline and Luc.

Sister of Dorothy Albert of Boca Raton, FL. Also survived by several nieces and nephews.

In Beebe’s earlier years, she was a professional singer performing in Boston Night Clubs and On-Air Radio Jingles. Beebe then pursued a successful career in Marketing and Advertising in the Automotive Industry for more than forty years. In retirement, ever the singer, Beebe continued to perform in the group Basically Broadway and local Theatre groups. Lastly and more importantly to Beebe, was her family, as she was a devoted daughter, sister, mother and grandmother.

Funeral Service at Temple Reyim, 1860 Washington St., Newton, on Wednesday, July 10, 2024 at 10:30 AM. Interment to follow at Sharon Memorial Park.

Shiva will be observed at the home of Paul and Debra Gibbons on Wednesday from 3:00pm to 6:00pm.

Remembrances in memory of Beebe may be made to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital at stjude.org or to MSPCA.org.

Toby Roover

June 30, 2024

Toby Roover, beloved wife, mother, mother-in-law, grandmother, and cherished friend, passed away peacefully on June 30th at the age of 82. Her life was a testament to love, creativity, and selfless service.

Born on June 3rd 1942, Toby met the love of her life, Charlie Roover, when she was just 14 years old and he was 16. Their enduring love blossomed early, leading to their marriage at ages 19 and 21. For 62 wonderful years, they built a life filled with deep affection, mutual respect, world travel and countless treasured memories.

Toby was the devoted mother of David and Melissa, mother-in-law to Michelle Lecks Roover and to the late Paul Voynalovitch instilling in them the values of kindness, integrity, and honesty. She was also the adored grandmother of Benny and Hailey, who brought immense joy and light into her life.

Toby also leaves behind many dear friends, some of whom she had known since her childhood in Brighton. These lifelong friendships were a testament to her loyal and loving nature, and they brought her great joy and comfort throughout her life.

An avid painter, Toby’s artistic talent was a source of joy and expression throughout her adult life. Her beautiful works of art, often inspired by Martha’s Vineyard or other scenes from her travels reflected her vibrant spirit and creative soul.

In addition to her artistic pursuits, Toby was a dedicated volunteer. She passionately supported the Wellness Community and the Alzheimer’s Association of Greater Boston, offering her time, energy, and empathy to those in need. Her commitment to these causes exemplified her generous heart and unwavering dedication to making her community a better place.

A memorial service to celebrate Toby’s life will be held at 10am on July 2nd at Sharon Memorial Park in Sharon, MA. In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made in Toby’s memory to the Alzheimer’s Association.  Shiva will be held from 4pm to 7pm on both Tuesday and Wednesday at David and Michelle’s house in West Newton.

 

Paul Rubinstein

June 25, 2024

Graveside service at Pride of Lynn Cemetery, on Friday, June 28, 2024 at 12 Noon. Shiva at his late residence Friday 3-6 pm and Sunday, 10-2 pm and 4-6 pm.

Ina Friedman Starobin

June 25, 2024

Ina Friedman Starobin, formerly of Bethesda, MD and Brookline, MA, died peacefully at Goodwin House, Alexandria, VA on June 25.

Ina was born and raised in Chester, PA.  After graduating from Penn State U, she married Sol Friedman of Washington, DC.  She raised four children in Bethesda, by whom she is survived, Ronne Friedman (Irene), Wendy Friedman (Adam Bernstein), Lynn Friedman, Loren Friedman (Patricia Rodriguez); she is also survived by a step-daughter, Debra Pullen.  Ina was the author of four young adult books: Black Cop, a biography, and three non-fiction works about the Holocaust, Escape or DieThe Other Victims, and Flying Against The Wind. Ina also wrote a delightful book for young children, How My Parents Learned to Eat, illustrated by Allen Say, for which she won a Christopher Award and a spot on Reading Rainbow.

Ina met Colonel Sam Starobin in the mid-70’s; they were married in 1977 and delighted in one another until Sam’s death in 2019.

In addition to her children, Ina is survived by her sister, Barbara Roberts of Lincoln, MA and four grandchildren, Zachary Friedman (Lilian Tan), Rachel Lerch (Conor O’Hollaren), Amelia Friedman DeSorrento (Tonio), Joaquin Friedman (Alaina Van Slooten), a step-grandson, Phelan Pullen (Joan), three great-grandchildren, Emilio, Tiago and Luca, nieces, Beth Roberts, Susan Lubar (Ken), and nephew, Larry Harris (Phyllis), and their families. She also enjoyed a special relationship with her grand-niece, Allegra Lubar.

Ina’s eldest grandson, Jesse, cited as an editor of one of her books, predeceased her in 2010.

She will be buried next to Sam in a private family ceremony at the United States Military Academy in West Point, NY.

Contributions in her memory may be sent to: Jesse S. Friedman Fund, Temple Israel Riverway Project, 477 Longwood Ave., Boston, MA 02215

Harriet Brody

June 25, 2024

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Harriet (Cobrain) Brody, June 25, 2024, at 97 years of age. Predeceased by her loving husband of 51 yrs Solomon, and her treasured sister, the late Marilyn Cohen.  Beloved daughter of the late Dora (Lastoff) and Louis Cobrain. Survived by her Daughter Lois Marcus (Harvey), Daughter Enid Feingold (Alan) and Son Robert (Beth). Grandmother of 7 and the late Lisa Feingold, and Great-Grandmother to 12. Harriet was a graduate of Brighton High School and worked as a bookkeeper in the Boston area for many years. She was loved by all she met and never failed to share her humor and good nature with friends and strangers, and she created a home that was the central gathering point for relatives, and friends of all the family members. She brought that spirit with her to the Thomas Upham House in Medfield, MA where she spent her final few years, receiving compassionate care with great love and affection. Jewish holidays were celebrated with pride and great food, and her treasured recipes have been widely circulated within and outside the family.

A private graveside service of remembrance will be held for her family and friends on Friday, June 28, 2024 at 1:45 pm at Sharon Memorial Park, 120 Canton Street, Sharon, MA. Shiva will be observed immediately following internment at Temple Kol Tikvah, 9 Dunbar Street, Sharon. The service will also be live-streamed here.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to: The Lisa Feingold Fund c/o Congregation Bnai Shalom, 117 East Main Street, Westborough, MA 01581.

Marcia + Robert Apatow

June 21, 2024

Marcia (Freedman) Apatow, beloved wife to Bob, mother to Douglas, Steven, and Karen, and sister to Blossom, predeceased her husband Bob and passed on April 18, 2020 at Stone Senior Residence, Newton Upper Falls, MA

Robert (Bob) Jacob Apatow, beloved husband to Marcia, and father to Douglas, Steven, and Karen, passed on June 15, 2024 at Traditions Assisted Living, Dedham, MA

Fresh out of the Navy after WWII, Bob met Marcia at Apatow Pharmacy, Flatbush, Brooklyn, NY, and it was love at first sight. Marcia & Bob raised children Doug, Steve, and Karen, and built homes in: Brooklyn, NY; Valley Stream, NY; Levittown, PA; Greenwich Village, NYC; CT; Cape Cod, MA; Del Rey Beach, FL, and finally Dedham, MA.

Bob built successful careers as a sales executive in the pharmaceutical and beauty products industry, while Marcia was a Weight Watchers lecturer in Levittown, PA, teacher in NYC, and fabulous cook, never to be forgotten by her signature dish Shrimp Leylon.

Besides adoring their children and grandchildren, Bob & Marcia also loved travel to Europe, romantic dinners out, reading the Sunday NYT, and long, loving days at beaches on Cape Cod and Del Rey Beach, FL, Bob thereby earning his nickname Poppa Ocean aka Poppa O.

Marcia & Bob are survived by:

Marcia’s beloved sister Blossom, and Blossom’s & Blossom’s husband Irwin’s children Sandy, David, and Jane;

Bob’s brother Maury, and his sister Patricia;

Bob & Marcia’s son Doug & his wife Andrea and their children Lindsay & her partner Ariel, and son Ben and his partner Jocy;

Bob & Marcia’s son Steve & his partner Josie, and Steve’s children Amanda & her husband Leighton, daughter Emily & her fiancee Devontae, and son Josh; and

Bob & Marcia’s daughter Karen & her husband Ben, and their children Isabel, Libby, and Lex.

A memorial service for Marcia & Bob will be held for immediate family on Friday, June 21, 2024 at the MA Veteran’s Memorial Cemetery, Buzzards Bay, Cape Cod, MA.

Stephen E. Schultz

June 19, 2024

SCHULTZ, Stephen E., of Dedham, formerly of Jamaica Plain, June 19, 2024, at 79 years of age. The beloved son of the late Sadye and Jacob Schultz and beloved brother of the late Lorraine Rudnick, the late Rita Goldman and the late Allen Schultz. Beloved friend of Hadj Belgendouz (Lamia) whose children were like grandchildren to Steve. Beloved uncle to many nephews and nieces around the country and the world. Steve was a graduate of Brookline High School and Boston University where he earned his Bachelor of Science in Business Administration. He later worked as a CPA for many years. Steve always tried to help people who do not have enough in this world. He felt passionately about assisting those seeking immigration and political asylum. He loved the Red Sox.

A private service of remembrance will be held for his family and friends on Sunday, June 23, 2024 at 2 pm at The Chapel at Newbridge on the Charles, 7000 Great Meadow Road, Dedham.

In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to: De Novo (formerly Community Legal Services), www.denovo.org, 47 Thorndike St., Cambridge MA 02141 (617) 661-1010. Funds given in memory of Stephen Schultz should benefit those seeking political asylum in the United States.

Raynor ( Bornstein) Caplan

June 15, 2024

Raynor Doris Caplan

1930-2024

Raynor Doris Caplan (Bornstein), age 93, passed away peacefully on June 15, 2024. Beloved wife of 72 years of childhood sweetheart Hubert Caplan; loving mother of Susan Caplan and husband Michael Kazenel of Canton, Jeanne Val and husband Luc Bernard Val of Milton, and Donna Caplan of Kauai. Loving grandmother of Kala Hagopian; Melanie Kazenel and Robert Buskirk-Lechner, Jessie Kazenel and Christopher Kaaria, and Daniel Kazenel; and Benjamin and Jeremy Val; great grandmother of Kai Williams.  She was preceded in death by her father and mother, Samuel and Anne Bornstein, sister Lillian Katz, and brother Merton Lamden.

Valedictorian of Winthrop High Class of 1948, Ray attended Wellesley College, where she graduated in 1952 with Bachelor of Arts in Zoology and was inducted into the Phi Beta Kappa Society. She researched the thyroid, co-publishing a paper in Endocrinology with W. P. Vanderlaan.  Ray devoted her life to raising her children and grandchildren; later working in the medical office of her husband, Hu.

 Ray will be remembered as a nurturing, kind, humble mother, wife, grandmother, and friend.  She took care of everyone. Her kindness and affection were all encompassing. She was intelligent and had a quiet sense of humor and was dedicated to reading and to life-long learning.

Ray was passionate about nature and music.  She shared and instilled her passion for nature to her children and grandchildren – birds, plants, flowers, trees, and appreciating nature and the earth. Her musical passion started with playing piano, singing folk music, and then attending opera and orchestra performances.  She created a family tradition of singing with folk songs and lullabies.

Ray was buried at her beloved retreat in Harrison, Maine on June 19th.  A memorial service will be held on Sunday, June 23rd at 1:30pm at Temple Ohabei Shalom, 1187 Beacon St, Brookline, MA. Donations in Ray’s memory may be made to the Lakes Environmental Association Caplan Family Education Fund or to the Friends of Wellesley College Botanic Gardens.

 

 

 

 

Richard M. Oshry

June 12, 2024

Of Belmont, previously Brighton, on June 12 after long illness, at age 77.  Son of late parents Miriam and George Oshry.  Cherished brother of Deborah (Howard) Herzog and Jeanne (Jerry) Ashworth.  Beloved uncle to five nieces and nephews and their spouses, and eight grandnieces and nephews.

In past years, Richard worked for his family’s business, and volunteered at several community organizations.  His hobby was traveling about in search of antiques and collectibles. He was a kind and caring person who will be greatly missed.

Graveside services will be held at Sharon Memorial Park on Sunday, June 16 at 10:45 am.  Shiva will be held at the home of Deborah Herzog at 6:30 on Sunday evening.

Donations in Richard’s memory can be made to Hebrew SeniorLife or the charity of your choice.

 

Norma (Kazer) Brass

June 11, 2024

Norma (Kazer) Brass-Of South Easton, on June 11, 2024. Beloved wife for 56 years to her high school sweetheart, David Brass. Daughter of the late Irving and Ida Kazer. Devoted and loving mother of Scott and his wife Susan and Jill and her husband Stephen. Cherished Nana of Ally and Shelby Brass and Ella and Evan Kramer.  Norma grew up in Brockton, MA, and graduated from American International College.  She taught third grade until settling into her favorite role of Mom.  Norma could often be found power walking, baking her highly coveted chocolate chip cookies, or scoping out the latest fashion for herself and others.  Nothing gave her greater joy than spending time spoiling her grandchildren. Funeral Service on Friday, June 14, 2024, at noon at Temple Sinai, 25 Canton St., Sharon, MA. Interment to follow at Sharon Memorial Park. Following services family and friends are invited to the home of Jill and Stephen Kramer until 6 pm. In lieu of flowers, remembrances in her memory may be made to Jewish National Fund.

Morris Arnold Franklin

June 10, 2024

 

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January 14, 1925-June 10, 2024

It is with profound sadness that we announce the passing of our father, Morris Arnold Franklin, on
June 10, 2024, at the age of 99. Formerly of Webster and Natick, MA, and a long-time resident of
Miami Beach, FL. He was preceded in death by his wife, Marilyn (Levinsky) Franklin, and brothers, William
Franklin and Jacob Franklin. He is survived by his children, Florence Silberman, Miriam McGettrick,
and David Franklin, as well as their spouses, his grandson Robert Tiger, and numerous nieces and nephews.
Morris, known as “Murray,” was the youngest of 3 brothers, who were lovingly referred to as the
Franklin “Boyus.” As a child, he was told he would need to learn to play an instrument even though
he had no initial interest, so he chose the saxophone, figuring it would be impossible to obtain one.
Much to his chagrin, his parents presented him with one. Turns out he was a natural – a musical
prodigy who went on to master not only the saxophone but also the bassoon, clarinet, and flute. He
started playing saxophone professionally at the age of 15 with the big band The Teddy Mack
Orchestra.
When WWII broke out, Morris was called to serve and did so valiantly in the Army Infantry in the
Philippines and then in the occupying forces in Japan. After the war, he attended the prestigious
New England Conservatory of Music to further develop his natural musical talent. He went on to a
successful musical career, playing bassoon for the Boston Symphony and multi-instruments for the
Shubert Theater House Band, among others. He garnered a reputation as one of the best and most
sought-after sight-readers on the East Coast.
After the passing of his beloved wife, Marilyn, Morris raised his 3 children in Miami Beach, Florida.
He was an avid reader and loved doing the puzzles (any and all kinds) in the newspaper, keeping his
mind sharp for 99 years. He had a wonderful sense of humor and wit that never dulled. And he
always had room for dessert.
There will be a graveside service at The Hebrew Cemetery at Chevra Kadisha Cemetery in
Worcester, MA, on Sunday June 16, 2024, at 1:00 PM.
In lieu of flowers, we ask that you send a Tribute Gift in his name to the New England Conservatory
of Music, where he studied music and went on to become a professional musician.
https://necmusic.edu/give

Marvin Lein

June 7, 2024

Marvin “Marv” Lein, 91, of New York, NY, passed away peacefully on May 15, 2024, in Framingham, MA surrounded by family. He was born on May 26, 1932.

Marv served in the Army at Fort Knox, KY, from 1954 to 1956. Marv’s career began as a designer and salesperson for Arista, his family’s textile printing company, specializing in silk and chiffon fabrics for the dress industry.

As a young boy, Marv loved summer camp, and his dream was to open his own camp. In 1968 his dream was fulfilled when he founded Camp Emerson in Hinsdale, MA with his wife, Addie. It was there that he created 55 magical summers, a true home away from home, for thousands of children and adults.

Marv dedicated his life to building a nurturing and empowering environment at Camp Emerson built on Ralph Waldo Emerson’s “respect the child.” His impact on campers and staff was profound, instilling in them confidence, resilience, and a sense of belonging that lasted well beyond their time at camp. For Marv, Camp Emerson was not a job but a calling and his greatest joy. Each day he would look for ways to make everyone smile and to facilitate friendships. Every person has a “Marv Story” whether it was a quiet moment where he made them feel loved, a time when he poured water on their heads to get them to laugh in a photo, gave a prized golf cart ride, or groomed staff to realize their life’s work. Marv was a man that never looked for credit, he was always focused on you.

Marv’s legacy would not be complete without sharing his love story with Addie, his wife of 65 years. Sweethearts from the day they met in college until Addie’s passing in 2019. Marv and Addie happily did everything together – working to grow Camp Emerson, raising their daughters, lavishing attention on their grandchildren, traveling, and spending time with their amazing friends.

Marv is survived by his daughters, Susan Lein and Debra Lein; son-in-law, Kevin McDonough; grandson, Alexander Lein-McDonough; granddaughter, Gemma Lein-McDonough; and Debra’s partner, Jeff Nelson. He was preceded in death by his wife, Adeline Rubin Lein; mother, Fay Lein; father, Harry Lein; and brother, Sherman Lein.

Marv and Addie were extremely generous and well-loved by everyone who knew them. Marvin Lein’s legacy as a caring and devoted camp director and his impact on the lives of those he touched will be remembered and cherished by all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Dr. Nanci M. Pradas

June 5, 2024

Dr. Nanci M. Pradas, formerly of Portsmouth, NH, Marblehead, MA, Coral Springs, FL, and Stow, MA passed away June 5, 2024. Beloved wife of the late F. Antonio Pradas, and the late Lewis Spatz. Devoted mother of Alexandra Pradas and her partner Tim Ringwood, Mariana Pradas-Sullivan and her husband Bryan, and Dara Spatz and Jim Bochicchio. Nanci was the loving step-mother of Alicia Rebello-Pradas and her partner Eric. Proud grandmother of Naya and Antonio Sullivan. Loving sister of Linda Labourene and her husband Gerry, and Barbara Schwartz. Nanci had a long, successful career as a psychotherapist. She helped countless people find healing and supported them through challenging times. She had a deep love and passion for animals. She leaves behind her sweet dog, Max and affectionate cat, Beau. Services at Temple Emanuel, 7 Haggets Pond Rd., Andover, MA on Monday, June 10, 2024 at 10:30 am. Interment to follow at Woodlawn Cemetery (Acton, MA). In lieu of flowers, donations in Nanci’s memory may be made to Great Dog Rescue New England, www.gdrne.com, or any organization dedicated to the welfare and safety of animals.

Lucille “Babsy” Krichmar

June 3, 2024

Babsy Krichmar of Lexington, MA passed away June 3, 2024. Babsy was born in Fitchburg, MA on January 3, 1930, to Benjamin and Florence Cofman. She was a graduate and proud alumna of Simmons College.

Beloved wife of the late Oscar “Ozzie” Krichmar. She and Ozzie were happily married for over 60 years until his death in 2017. Loving mother of Steve and his wife Karen, and Jeff and his wife Trina. Devoted Nana of Dan and his fiancée Sravani and Hannah. Sister of Phil and Burt Cofman and the late Minna Katz and Chuck Cofman.

Babsy was a public-school teacher in the Boston area for many years.  Later, she was docent at deCordova Museum in Lincoln.  She and Ozzie were valued and engaged members of the Temple Emunah community since 1960.

Funeral service on Thursday, June 6, 2024, at 10:30 am at Temple Emunah, 9 Piper Road, Lexington, MA. Burial at Westview Cemetery, 520 Bedford St, Lexington, MA. The service will also be available via Streaming at: https://venue.streamspot.com/bdc9f380

Shiva will follow immediately after the burial at Temple Emunah until 4:00 pm and then from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm at the temple.

Remembrances in memory of Babsy may be made to Temple Emunah.

Phyllis M. Brick

May 30, 2024

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Phyllis M. Brick of Lexington passed away peacefully and surrounded by family on May 29, 2024, one day after her 93rd birthday.

Family was paramount to Phyllis.  For 62 years, she was the beloved wife of Donald Brick, who passed in 2014.  She was the devoted mother of James Brick and his wife Wendy, Susan Weinbaum and her husband Dan Weinbaum, and Howard Brick and his wife Jill Smilow.  She was an adoring grandmother to her seven grandchildren: Jaclyn Gutierrez and her husband Antonio Gutierrez, Arielle Brick, Elana Weinbaum, Kayley Weinbaum, Julia Andes and her husband George Andes, Jeremy Brick, and Eli Brick and his fiancé Megan Flanagan.  She was the beloved great grandmother or “GG” to Olivia Gutierrez.

Phyllis was a life-long Bostonian.  She was born on May 28, 1931 in New York City and was raised in Brookline, MA.  She graduated from Wheaton College and while there met Don on a blind date.  She loved to tell the story of how Don had two potential plans for the evening depending on his first impression of her – go to see a movie or go out dancing.  They went dancing and never stopped for the next more than 62 years.

Don and Phyllis moved to Lexington in 1956 and became deeply enmeshed in the community in which they lived for the rest of their lives.  Phyllis and Don shared a passion for philanthropy and volunteerism, and were particularly devoted to supporting Jewish communal organizations.  Within Lexington, they were co-founders of both Temple Emunah and Temple Isaiah, supported each throughout their lives, and took on many leadership roles at Temple Emunah.

Beyond Lexington, Phyllis and Don were life-long leaders and activists in the Boston Jewish community.  Phyllis held many leadership positions within the Combined Jewish Philanthropies, including Chair Person of the Women’s Division.  Even up to age 90, Phyllis annually embraced her commitment to make calls to solicit contribution to CJP.  Similarly, she was active as a volunteer with the American Technion Society, Beth Israel hospital and Hadassah.

Phyllis and Don cultivated a wide circle of close friends both in Lexington and beyond.  Those life-long friends included the famous “Hanukah Group”, whose family Hanukah parties began in 1956 and continue through four generations to today. She and Don owned a home in Mashpee on Cape Cod.   And had a life-long love affair with the Cape. There they spent most of the Summer, engaging in adventures and gatherings with a wonderful circle of friends, boating over to Martha’s Vineyard for lunch or ice cream, playing tennis in New Seabury, and hosting many parties.  Their Cape Cod home was the focal point for family gatherings where Phyllis specialized in filling up her grandchildren with Grandma’s famous pancakes and presenting guests with her renowned deli platters.

Most important to Phyllis was family, immediate and extended.  For decades, she loved hosting as much family as could fit around the table for holidays and any distant cousin who happened to show up or come to Boston for school could be assured of receiving an invitation to a Passover Seder or Rosh Hashanah dinner.  As a grandmother, Phyllis was totally committed to all her grandchildren, had special relationships with each of them, and was a devoted attendee at concerts, sporting events, birthday parties, and other events.  Phyllis was always there with support, advice, wisdom, and strong opinions mixed with respect for her children’s views and decisions.

Funeral services will take place at Temple Emunah in Lexington at 10:00 on Monday, June 3, 2024.  Shiva will be at her former residence, Waterstone at Lexington at 53 Watertown Street in Lexington on Monday from 3-5 PM and 6-9 PM.  Contributions in lieu of flowers can be made to Combined Jewish Philanthropies of Greater Boston or Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center in Boston.

 

 

Steven S. Feinberg

May 29, 2024

Age 95, of Boston, Massachusetts, passed away May 14, 2024 from natural causes. Born July 30, 1928 in Fall River, Massachusetts, Steven was the son of Lillian and Sydney Feinberg. Steven, married to Jacqueline DeJur Feinberg (January 5, 1927 – August 7, 2018), is survived by his three children, David and his wife Lori, James and his wife Vera, Mark and his partner Noellette, nephew Brian Donald Sadow and wife Judy, niece Gail Sadow O’Rourke and grandniece Feiyan Ada O’Rourke, nephew John Berkley and wife Cathy and grandnephew Cooper and grandniece Caroline, and his niece Elizabeth Berkley Rubin and husband Stephen and grandnephew Alexander and wife Mannat. Steven’s sister, Harriet Feinberg Sadow, born April 21, 1930, passed from natural causes July 27, 2023. Services were held at Montefiore Cemetery (Queens, NY) on Tuesday, May 28, 2024.

Norman James Gould

May 29, 2024

A physician, a family man, and an angler, Dr. Norman James “Jim” Gould, 85, of Mashpee, Massachusetts passed away peacefully on May 29, 2024, surrounded by his loving family.

Jim was born on May 8, 1939 to Dr. George I. and Elizabeth “Birdie” Isaacson Gould in the town of Lewiston in his beloved State of Maine. While George, then a US Army Medical Corps officer, and Jim’s four maternal uncles were serving the nation overseas during World War II, Jim spent his earliest years with his mother Birdie, grandparents Harry and Molly, and extended family on his grandparents’ farm in Auburn, Maine.

After Jim’s father returned from the war and finished his military service, the family moved to nearby Richmond on the Kennebec River, where George practiced primarily as country doctor, and Jim was affectionately known by neighbors and family friends as “Little Doc.” Jim enjoyed a magical childhood surrounded by his parents, younger sister Margie, and a large extended family, and marked by a love for the outdoors, that included fishing, hunting, and building and sailing homemade boats, occasionally making the precarious journey down the Kennebec River to Merrymeeting Bay and the Gulf of Maine.

A gifted and determined student, Jim’s life would be grounded in hard work; he finished Richmond High School two years early. His primary objective was to become a Bowdoin Man, and so at the tender age of 15, Jim agreed to Bowdoin College’s acceptance condition that he first complete a post-graduate year to “mature a little bit” before matriculating.  After boarding for a year at the Kent’s Hill School, Jim proudly enrolled at Bowdoin in the Fall of 1956, receiving his degree in 1960.

Taking some time to consider his options, Jim soon ventured beyond the familiar confines of his Maine and moved abroad, first to Vienna, and then Munich, where he enrolled in the medical school at the University of Munich, taking his medical courses in German while still learning the language. While in Munich during the 1960s, Jim took in the full ex-pat experience, traveling extensively – mostly by way of motorcycle and a VW split-window Beetle that he proudly outfitted with Maine license plates – making friends along the way, including other expats, US servicemen, and German medical students, several of whom remained among his dearest friends through Jim’s final days of life.

Upon receiving his medical degree and further training in Germany, Jim returned to the States and completed an internship at the Carney Hospital in Dorchester, Massachusetts.  It was there that he met his dearest friend and wife-to-be, Marilyn (née Spanier), who worked on the hospital’s pediatric ward. Jim and Marilyn would go on to be married for 51 years, raise two boys, and build a rich and fulfilling life together in Leominster, Massachusetts.

After completing his Harvard University residency at Beth Israel Hospital in Boston, Jim passed his Anesthesia Board exams in 1976 and became a Fellow of the American College of Anesthesiologists in 1979. Over the decades, Jim practiced at various central-Massachusetts hospitals and served as Chairman of the Department of Anesthesiology at Leominster Hospital from 1978 to 1993.  Jim was always dedicated to practice, simply because it enabled him to help heal the sick, and he involved himself deeply with many professional organizations, including the Massachusetts Society of Anesthesiologists, of which he was a longtime Executive Board member.

As a doctor, Jim was widely known for his gentle and informed bedside manner and devotion to his patients, and as a man, for his suffer-no-fools approach to life. But Jim’s greatest joys outside his profession were spending time with Marilyn and his family, the great State of Maine, his Jewish faith, and the riveting catch-and-release pursuit of the next trophy fish on one of his hand-tied flies and several dozen fly rods, some of which he built in his home workshop.

For Jim, however, fishing was not simply an activity, but rather a manifestation and expression of values. He loved the patience and focus it required, the connection to the outdoors, the time spent with his boys, his many friends – old and new – or alone, and the thrill of the hunt, the catch and the release.  Always passionate about preserving the great outdoors, for twenty-two years Jim served on and later chaired the Leominster Conservation Commission and co-founded a regional land trust there, which successfully conserved hundreds of acres of pristine watershed and open space.

In 2015, Jim and Marilyn retired to Cape Cod, where Jim filled his days reading voraciously, watching historical documentaries and world news, enjoying the company of family and friends, traveling at home and abroad, fishing all over North America, and enjoying seeing his New England athletic teams win championships.

Besides his loving parents, Jim was preceded in death by his sister Margery Gould Rath. Jim is survived by his wife Marilyn, his sons Peter (Christine) Gould of Boulder, Andrew (Akilah) Gould of Los Angeles, and his three granddaughters, Gardner, Bennett, and Greta Gould, as well as dozens of cousins, nieces, and nephews and many friends.

For those who wish to express sympathy, the family requests that in lieu of flowers to please consider contributing in Jim’s memory to the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, Anti-Defamation League, or Trout Unlimited.

Service at Temple Reyim 1860 Washington St., Newton, MA on Friday, May 31, 2024 at 11:00 am. Interment at Crawford Street Memorial Park, 776 Baker St., West Roxbury, MA. Family and friends are invited following interment for a meal of condolence at the Sheraton Boston Needham Hotel, 100 Cabot St., Needham, MA.

Hope (Schlosberg) Shir

May 27, 2024

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Hope (Schlosberg) Shir

Age 98, of Chestnut Hill, on May 27, 2024.Beloved wife of the late Phil Shir. Devoted mother of Lois Shir Rohtstein and her husband Steven. Cherished grandmother of Marci Lauren Rohtstein. Dear sister of the late Barbara Goldberg, her late husband Herbert, Joan Weinstein, and her surviving husband  Robert. Services at Temple Emanuel, 385 Ward St., Newton, on Wednesday, May 29, 2024, at 1:30 pm. Following interment at The Keneseth Israel Cemetery, Woburn, Shiva will be at the residence of Lois and Steven Rohtstein until 9 pm and continuing Thursday 2-4 & 7-9 pm, Friday noon till 4:00 pm, Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday 3-8 pm. Remembrances in her memory may be made to Temple Emanuel or Hebrew Senior Life Hospice, 1200 Centre St., Boston, MA 02131.

 

 

Richard Alan Novakoff

May 24, 2024

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Richard Novakoff was a brave brother, son, uncle, cousin, and friend.
He was predeceased by his parents, Joseph and Shirley Novakoff. Richard fought a serious mental illness for which there is no cure, nor a way to alleviate its most debilitating handicaps.
At a young age, Richard went to New Preparatory School in Cambridge, Massachusetts, and became the fastest typist in the school, which earned him a starring position in the school office. Richard graduated from Curry College, Milton, and enjoyed theatre and Spanish. He took singing lessons.
He was manager of a shoe factory outlet store, and later had his own shoe business, Ranco Shoes. Yet, in the middle of his life, his illness took a spiraling downward turn.
Despite all that he endured, Richard was kind and loving, and just kept going, always doing the best he could.

Richard is survived by his sister, Karen Novakoff; by his brother and sister-in-love, Stephen and Frances Novakoff; by his nephew, Moshe Novakoff; by his nieces, Julie Novakoff and Sarah Susser; by his great-nephews, David and Sidney Smith; and by several cousins.

Funeral Services at Temple Emanuel, Newton, MA on Tuesday, May 28 at 10:00 am followed by interment at Lindwood Memorial Park in Randolph. Shiva at the home of Karen Novakoff on Tuesday, Wednesday, and Thursday 7:00-9:00pm. Remembrances in Richard’s memory may be made to Hebrew Senior Life.

June Tatelman

May 22, 2024

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Remembering June Tatelman: A Legacy of Love and Compassion”

 

Loving Wife, Mother, Grandmother and Friend

With heavy hearts, we announce the passing of June Forbes Tatelman, 76, a woman whose life was a testament to love, compassion, and selflessness.  June departed this world peacefully on May 22, 2024, leaving behind a legacy of kindness and generosity that will forever be cherished by those who had the privilege of knowing her.

Born on August 8th, 1947, the daughter of Jules and Ruth Forbes, June was a natural nurturer from an early age.  She moved to Boston to attend the School of Education at Boston University with dreams of becoming a teacher and ultimately met the love of her life and future husband.

June found her greatest joy in being a wife to Eliot and a mother to her two sons, Josh and Michael.  She loved spending time with her boys and their friends, providing endless amounts of food and an open ear.  June had a remarkable gift for connecting with people and making them feel a part of the family.

As her sons grew up and started families of their own, June embraced her new role as mother-in-law, and grandmother.  Affectionately known as “Gammo” by her grandchildren and their friends, she continued her tradition of making her home a haven for all. She treated them with the same love and care that she showed her own sons and has left a special mark in the hearts of so many.

June’s gift for connecting with people extended beyond her immediate family.  She was a remarkable philanthropist whose actions spoke louder than words. She dedicated her life to making others feel special and loved, never hesitating to lend a helping hand wherever it was needed.

After her retirement as a health educator in the public school system, her dedication to health and education was evident through her service as a counselor for both Planned Parenthood of Massachusetts and Preterm of Massachusetts.  She was also passionate about women’s education and health empowerment, particularly in Africa.

As the founder and heart of Camp Miracles and Magic, a camp for children living with or affected by HIV/AIDS, June’s impact on the lives of countless young souls was immeasurable. Her commitment to serving others extended beyond borders, as she traveled to Africa with the Afrika Tikkun organization to share her time and wisdom with the children of Africa. June’s involvement with the Pathfinder organization and her dedication as a guardian ad Litem further underscored her commitment to serving those who needed her most.

June joined the BIDMC Trustee Advisory Board in 2014, bringing her commitment to healthcare and community service to their leadership team. In recognition of her dedication to BIDMC’s mission, she was honored as Trustee Advisor Emerita in 2023.

June’s unwavering love and support were the glue that held her family together, and her absence leaves a void that can never be filled. However, as we mourn her passing, we will also celebrate the incredible life she lived and the profound impact she had on those around her.

June is survived by her loving husband, Eliot, her two sons, Josh and Michael, and their wives Tanja and Courtney, her five grandchildren, Tyler, Peyton, Mason, Portia, and Jagger, and her brother Richard and his wife Bonnie.

Services will be held at Temple Beth Elohim,10 Bethel Road, Wellesley on Wednesday May 29th at 10:30 am. Following the interment at Beth Israel Memorial Park, Waltham a memorial observance will be held at the residence of Josh and Tanja Tatelman until 8:00pm and Thursday 2-4, 7-9pm.

In lieu of flowers, contributions in memory of June may be made Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center by visiting www.bidmc.org/giving or by check made payable to “Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center” with “June Tatelman” in the memo line. Contributions can be mailed to: Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, Office of Philanthropy, 529 Main Street, 4th Floor, Charlestown, MA 02129

Helen Chanée Aronson

May 21, 2024

Aronson, Helen Chanée (Fortgang), of Lexington, MA, formerly of Mt. Vernon, NY and New York City, passed away peacefully at the age of 96.

Beloved wife of the late Dr. Marvin L. Aronson with whom she enjoyed 62 years of marriage.

Devoted mother of David Aronson and his life partner Lynne Stern, and Ruth Aronson and her life partner Alan Silver.

Proud Grandmother of Joshua Aronson Basseches, Neil Aronson, Benjamin Aronson Basseches and Eileen Walz, and Claire Aronson.

Helen was predeceased by her sister Annette Zimmerman and her parents Abraham and Claire Fortgang. She leaves behind beloved family members, including her sister-in-law Toni Margolin, cousins in Israel, and cousins, nieces, and nephews, and friends and caregivers of all ages, who were inspired by her strength and kindness.

Born in Berlin, Germany in 1927, Helen’s life was disrupted in 1938 as she and her sister had to leave their parents to join their grandparents in Belgium in order to escape the Nazis. When their parents joined them, the family and other relatives embarked on a perilous journey from Belgium to France, where in June 1940 they received visas to Portugal from Aristides de Sousa Mendes, taking refuge there before sailing to New York in December 1940. Embracing her new country, Helen was educated in New York City, attending Julia Richman High School and New York University. Helen moved to Ann Arbor, Michigan where her husband, Marvin, was earning his Ph.D. in psychology at the University of Michigan. Returning to New York, Helen and her husband raised their children in Mt. Vernon, NY where Helen was a homemaker and a part-time interior decorator. With an extraordinary ability to understand and engage with people, she devoted herself to family, friends and community. In 2012, after the passing of her beloved husband, Helen relocated to Lexington, Massachusetts to be near her daughter and grandsons, and rebuilt her life at Brookhaven at Lexington.

Services at Temple Emunah, 9 Piper Road, Lexington MA at 11:00 a.m. on May 23, 2024.  Burial will be private for her family.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Temple Emunah, 9 Piper Road, Lexington, MA 02421.

Leonard H. Solomon

May 19, 2024

Leonard H. Solomon, age 86, of Mashpee, formerly of Norwood, passed peacefully on May 19, 2024.  Leonard leaves behind his loving wife, Barbara.  He was the proud father of daughter Amy [and husband René] and twin sons Gary [and wife Lisa] and Mark, and adoring grandfather of Mitchell, Simone, Eric, and Briana.  Leonard, eldest son of late Milton and Esther Solomon, is survived by siblings Roslyn and Allen.

Leonard graduated from Stuyvesant High School at age 15, Brooklyn College with an undergraduate degree in mathematics, and Cornell University with a master’s degree in astronomy.  He took further graduate courses at Harvard University, where he later lectured.  Leonard went on to become a Program Manager for 25 years at Itek Optical Systems, leading teams of engineers and physicists in developing land- and space-based telescopes and imaging systems, after beginning his career at the Smithsonian Astrophysical Observatory and the Harvard University Observatory.  Among other accomplishments, Leonard managed a team that created an original design of the Hubble Space Telescope.

Leonard and Barbara’s passion for education, travel, friendship, and commitment to each other and others continues to serve as a model for their children and grandchildren.  Leonard was a dedicated and devoted leader and participant in his religious community, found opportunities for all who wanted to contribute, reveled in watching the next generation develop, and built consensus that would advance the community into the future.

Family, friends, and colleagues appreciated Leonard for his selflessness, wisdom, honesty, sense of adventure, great sense of humor, and a warm and welcoming smile.  Leonard will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

Services will be held Wednesday, May 22, 2024 at 10 AM, at Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA.  In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a charity of your choice.

 

 

Margda Gerber Gold

May 17, 2024

Margda Gerber Gold (formerly Marjorie), 91 of Norwood, MA, passed peacefully on May 17, 2024. Margda grew up in Salem, MA the proud daughter of Louis Gerber, creator and owner of Gerber’s Restaurant in Townhouse Square. Predeceased by her beloved parents, Louis and Alice (Goldstein) Gerber and sister Elinor Richman. Her cherished husband, Rubin Gold, talented artist, died in 1989.

She leaves her loving daughter, Mahla Ellerin (fiancé Michael Stedman), amazing grandchildren, Ruby and Brett Ellerin, former son-in-law Todd Ellerin, beloved nieces Pat Gottlieb and Norma Vogel and many loving cousins.

Margda was an artist and art teacher during her life, learning as she inspired others.

A private graveside service will be held. Memorial Observance at Temple Beth Shalom, 670 Highland Avenue, Needham, on Tuesday, May 21 from 2-5 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to Temple Beth Shalom, Needham or a charity of your choice.

Sue S. Cahners

May 17, 2024

 

Sue Schwartz Cahners- Age 99, of Needham, MA and formerly of Boston, MA, Wellington, FL, Brookline, MA, and New London, CT died peacefully on May 17, 2024. She was the best friend and devoted wife of Walter for over 64 years, encouraging, supportive and loving mother of Amy Cahners and Catherine Cahners and her husband Dr. Andrew Gillies; proud “Grammy Sue” to Nicole Hunter Schwab and her husband Michael, Rachel Hunter-Goldman and her husband Julius, Samantha Gillies and her wife Alexandria, and Kimberly Gillies; adoring great-grandmother “GG” of Jocelyn Gillies, and Peter and Wesley Schwab. Sue was the daughter of Harriet (Bronstein) and Joseph R. Schwartz and the beloved younger sister of the late Geraldine Newfield. Sue will be missed by her family and many friends who will remember her as an avid golfer, graceful skier, sought-after bridge partner, talented painter in both oils and watercolor, compassionate psychiatric social worker, dedicated community volunteer, and kind, generous friend. Funeral and burial will be private. Memorial observance will be at the home of Amy Cahners on May 21st and 22nd from 6-8pm. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to Good Shepherd Community Care, 160 Wells Avenue, Newton, MA 02459, www.gscommunitycare.org or to a charity of your choice.

Rosalie Whitehill

May 15, 2024

Rosalie Schusel Whitehill passed away peacefully on May 15, 2024, five days shy of her 95th birthday. Born in Long Beach, NY, she lived in Plainview for 53 years before moving to Lasell Village, Newton, 12 years ago.  After raising 2 children she earned her M.Ed. then enjoyed a rewarding career as a much beloved teacher, playing tennis every morning before school. After retiring and losing her husband Ralph, she stayed busy with swimming, bridge, Israeli folk dancing, temple programs, book groups, and enjoying cultural events in NYC.

Rosalie was known for her love of Judaism and Israel and her passionate beliefs as a liberal democrat. She marched for peace and civil rights in DC, later for women’s and gay rights in Israel and Boston. Thanks to Ralph’s job at El Al, the family traveled around the world and she continued to visit Israel annually until age 90.
Most important to Rosalie were her children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. Her calendar revolved around family: planning special activities, baking for holidays and, with Ralph, hosting “Camp Whitehill’ each summer – a thrill for her oldest grandkids. She took 5 of her 6 grandchildren to London after their Bar/Bat mitzvahs.
Her enthusiasm for life and her appreciation for her good fortune drew people to her. She made many friends when she moved to MA. She regretted not moving sooner as she loved her “luxurious” life at Lasell. Until her last days she remained grateful for all her blessings.

Rosalie is survived by her children Debbie (Howie Zaharoff) and Richard ( Becky), her grandchildren Josh ( Sarah) Zaharoff, Marta Zaharoff  (Volkan Eren), Leah (Harold) Fogel, Lizzy Whitehill (Anthony Nihan), Laura Whitehill (Mike Fox) and Danny Whitehill, and her great grandchildren Jacob and Aria Zaharoff, Jackson Eren and Charlie Fogel and by her neice and nephew, and by many cousins. She was predeceased by her beloved soul mate of 45 years, Ralph, her parents Ruth and William Schusel, and her brother, Jerry Shell.

There will be a graveside service on Friday, May 17th at 1pm at New Montefiore Cemetery, West Babylon, NY.  Zoom option is available:
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There will be a celebration of her life at Temple Emanuel, Newton, MA on Monday, May 20th ( her birthday) following evening minyan from 8-9pm. It will be live streamed.

Donations may be made in Rosalie’s memory to  Leket Israel  or Mogen David Adom  or a charity of your choice.

Ronald Levine

May 11, 2024

Ronald Gene Levine, of West Roxbury, MA passed away May 11, 2024.  Beloved husband of Ina Levine for 70 years. Devoted father of Bruce W. Levine and his wife Leslie, Robert Levine and Richard Levine.  Grandfather of Deborah Levine, Joshua Levine and his wife Courtney, and great-grandfather of Noah and Zachary Levine.

Graveside service at Beth El cemetery, West Roxbury, MA on Monday, May 13, 2024 at 1:00 pm.

Memorial observance will be at the home of Bruce and Leslie Levine, Monday 4 – 8 pm and Tuesday 1 -4 & 6 -9 pm.

Donations in Ronald’s memory may be made to the American Lung Association.

 

Eleanor Roseland

May 11, 2024

Graveside Service at Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA on Sunday, May 19, 2024 at 10:45 am.

Ruth Shapiro: A life well lived

May 9, 2024

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Ruth Shapiro passed away at age 90 on May 8, 2024, surrounded by her loving family.

She was a rare bird; rare like a gemstone, and free like a bird to soar.  She was an artist, business trailblazer, teacher, spiritual seeker, leader, confidante. But most of all, she was a woman with a generous, welcoming, enormous heart.

Ruthie’s commitment to community, friends, family, beauty, and joy infused every aspect of her life. Whatever Ruthie did, she did with gusto. As an educator she used art to motivate students with learning challenges. In business she broke barriers, achieving positions and accolades traditionally reserved for men. In her communities she encouraged dialogue and sought opportunities for togetherness. Ruthie was not easily discouraged and always persevered when challenged, trusting her instincts and leading the way for others. Ruthie will always be remembered as a forward thinker. She freely shared her love of life, her commitment to lifelong learning, and her acceptance…no, her welcoming…of change.

Getting to know and spending time with Ruthie was a gift.  Ruthie and her husband Danny knew how to celebrate, and relishing life was central to their marriage. Guests at their home in Brewster entered a space that was curated to spark laughter and serve a feast for the eyes, taste buds and heart.

Ruthie was married to Danny Shapiro for 42 years prior to his death in 1998.  A loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and aunt, Ruthie’s love, encouragement, and wise counsel are among her enduring gifts to her children, Barry Shapiro (and wife Lois), Suzan Ushman (and husband Wayne) and Jeff Shapiro (and wife Valeria Indice); to her siblings, Tom Dokton (and partner Anita Waxman) and Ellen Dokton (and husband Stephen Schmidt); to her grandchildren Annie and Laura Shapiro, Benjamin and Dov Ushman; to her nieces and nephews, Rachel Doyne, Nicole Dunn, Fredda Zaiger, Ken Shapiro, Cindy Siagel, and Mark Shapiro.

How she lived her life was how she ended it: with dignity, grace, and love.

A funeral service followed by the burial will be held on Sunday, May 12, 2024 at 1:00 p.m., at the Sharon Memorial Park Chapel at 40 Dedham Street, Sharon, followed by a meal of consolation at Temple Sinai at 25 Canton Street, Sharon.  The family will sit shiva on Monday, May 13, from 5:00 to 8:00 p.m. at the home of Suzan and Wayne Ushman. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Am HaYam – Cape Cod Havurah or the Lower Cape Outreach Council.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Richard S. Keesan

May 3, 2024

Richard S. Keesan, passed away on May 3, 2024 at the age of 95.

Beloved husband of Linda Keesan. Loving father of Barry Keesan and Carol (Alan) Stone. Proud grandfather of Kim Stone (David), Matthew Keesan, Jeremy (Melissa) Stone and Joshua (Teresa) Keesan. Enthralled great-grandfather of Chase and Brynn Berkowitz, Sydney and Gavin Stone and Zoe and William Keesan. Further survived by many nieces, nephews, countless other relatives and friends. He was preceded in death by his six siblings: Edie, Doris, Joseph, Lillian, Jack, and Stanley.

Richard “Whitie” and his twin brother, Stanley “Blackie”, were the last of seven children born to immigrant parents, Morris and Anna Keesan. The tragic loss of their father in 1930 and the onset of the Great Depression created great financial hardship for the family. These circumstances compelled him to earn money at an early age and, years later, he attributed his business success to the intensely focused work ethic he developed to overcome an impoverished childhood.

Starting out as a salesman with Morrison & Schiff Co., Inc. and nothing more than a dream and the willingness to work hard, Richard became a highly regarded restauranteur who designed, built, owned and operated a number of popular Boston area restaurants. His holdings included the Deli-Haus, Capucino’s, Al Dentes as well as the Rose Gordon Hotel at Nantasket Beach.

In his later years as the owner of “Golden Clouds Villa” in Jamaica, he transformed the property into one of the north coast’s premier villas, widely known for its superb cuisine, extensive amenities, and the excellence of its service staff. During the course of his 30 year tenure, he became invested in the people and culture of Oracabessa, and received a special Award by the Jamaican Institute of Architects and the granting of the Award by the Governor General of Jamaica.

Business associates will remember Richard as a financially savvy entrepreneur who brought creativity, intelligence and passion into everything he did. His family will remember him with gratitude as “Poppy” the loving, generous, and entertaining patriarch, a father, grandfather and great-grandfather who was always there to help.

A private service will be held at the Anshe Poland Cemetery in Woburn, MA.

Memorial donations may be made to The Anna Keesan Scholarship Fund, Boston Latin School, 27 School St., Suite 300, Boston, MA 02108.

Dorothy Share

May 3, 2024

SHARE, Dorothy Our dear mother, Dorothy Share, of Boston, Massachusetts passed away peacefully in the hospital on May 3, 2024, at the age of 99. She grew up in Mattapan, MA with her parents Max Klein and Esther Rosenthal and her two sisters. She was predeceased by her husband of 32 years, Robert Share, former provost of Berklee College of Music, and her sister Barbara. She is survived by her son, David Share, her daughter, Susan Gongora, son-in-law Samuel and sister Bernice. She was a beautiful person who spread joy and happiness wherever she went and was much loved by family and friends. She will be greatly missed. A graveside funeral service will be held in her honor at Sharon Memorial Park in Sharon, MA on Tuesday May 7, 2024 at 11:30 AM. In lieu of flowers, we invite you to donate to Berklee College of Music as follows: https://college.berklee.edu/giving/make-gift Designation: Other Specify: Robert Share Scholarship

Alan Silverstein

May 1, 2024

Alan Silverstein on Tuesday May 1, 2024 passed away peacefully at the age of 95.  Husband of the late Eleanor Silverstein. Alan is survived by his loving daughter Bonnie, son Gary and his wife Marcia.  Grandchildren Steven and his wife Rachel, Michael and his wife Sharon. Great grandfather of Zachary and Evan, and his sister Lenore.  He is predeceased by his parents Laura and Irving. Graveside services will be held on Friday, May 3, 2024 at 11:45 AM at Sharon Memorial Park.  Donations may be made to the American Heart Association.

Paul Morgan Schaffrath Jr.

April 29, 2024

 

It is with great sorrow that we announce the death of Paul Morgan Schaffrath Jr. Paul was born on October 29,1944 and departed this world on April 28, 2024. Paul is predeceased by his loving wife and soul mate Susan Kron. In a beautiful twist of fate he has been reunited with Susan in time for their May 4th wedding anniversary. Paul is survived by his loving and devoted daughters Sara Greene and Megan Peterson. Paul is survived by his grandchildren: Leif Peterson, Grania Greene, Lars Peterson, Hannah Newman, and Symone Newman. Paul is also survived by his brother William Schaffrath and daughter Kristen Newman.

Paul loved art, music and movies. Everyone who had the privilege to know him commented on his humor and how he’d dance and sing along to whatever song was playing. He had a fondness for his childhood home in Millinocket, ME and spoke often in his later years about his time there while his father, Paul Sr. worked in the paper mill. Paul served in the United States Air Force and was stationed in Okinawa, Japan before returning home to attend Syracuse University for graphic design. He went on to have a long and successful career as a creative and art director for a number of prominent publications including Sailboat, Inc. Magazine, High Technology, Digital Review and PC Week.

Paul and his wife Susan loved to travel. He documented their many trips along with everyday life through his passion and gift for photography. He had the ability to frame even mundane subjects in an interesting way. He used his quirky sense of humor to spotlight objects like toasters or objects out in the world that struck his eye.

A private service and burial will be held by his immediate family. A celebration of life for extended family and friends will occur at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to Good Shepherd Community Care, the compassionate hospice organization that helped to bring Paul comfort in his final months. You can find them at https://gscommunitycare.org/Donate

Igor Botchevar

April 29, 2024

Graveside service at Framingham – Natick Hebrew Cemetery on Friday, May 3, 2024 at 12:00 Noon.

Служба у могилы на еврейском кладбище Фрамингем-Натик в пятницу, 3 мая 2024 г., в 12:00.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Igor’s memory may be made to the Zdorovie Adult Day Health Center, 17 Strathmore Rd., Natick, MA 01760

 


Doris Swig

April 28, 2024

The daughter of Esther & Louis Mintaz of “Blessed Memory”. Doris was the loving wife of the late Sumner Swig, to whom she had been married for 34 years. Sumner passed away in 1980 at the tender age of sixty.

Doris was the adored mother of David Swig, Delray Beach, Ellyn Goldstein, Boca Raton, Nancy Mashman, Boca Raton, and, Susan Swig, Sharon, MA. Cherished grandmother of Matthew, Emily, Allison & Samantha.

Beloved grandmother of Tyler, Brooke, and Jacoby. The beloved sister of the late Rose Krien, Irwin Mintz, Gurda Bass, Bertha Solow, and Stella Silver all of “Blessed Memory”. Funeral Services were held  at Sharon Memorial Park located in Sharon, MA.,on Thursday, May 2,2024. Contributions can be made in Doris’s name to:

Barbara Lee (Bassin) Greene

April 28, 2024

Barbara Lee (Bassin) Greene, formerly of Boston, died on April 28, 2024, in Atlanta, GA. A family service was held at Sharon Memorial Park on Friday, May 3, 2024.

Selma Kriss

April 26, 2024

Selma Kriss: A Legacy of Artistic Brilliance and Warmth

Selma Kriss, a remarkable individual known for her artistic brilliance and warm familial love, passed away at the age of 97 on April 24, 2024. Her life was a rich tapestry woven with threads of creativity, education, and family bonds, leaving behind a legacy that will continue to inspire generations.

Personal Reflections: Selma’s unwavering support and playful spirit endeared her to those around her. Her passion for art was contagious; a visit to MoMA in 1962 ignited a lifelong admiration for pop art icons like Jasper Johns, Roy Lichtenstein, and Andy Warhol. And who could forget her culinary adventures, including the memorable chicken paprikash that transformed into a fiery feast with cayenne pepper instead of paprika, still evoking smiles from those of us who recall it.

Family Ties: Married to Harold Kriss for 64 years prior to his death in 2013, Selma was a loving wife and mother. Her love and guidance are her enduring gifts to her children Mitch (Toby) Kriss and Peggy (Cliff Pollan)  Kriss,  her grandchildren Becky (Eric) Burger, Erica Ben-Moshe, Lisa (Sam) Kessler & Jenn (Zaid Hassan) Pollan, and her great-grandchildren, Shane and Hallie Burger, Matan Ben-Moshe, Noah and Sophie Kessler.

Each relationship was a unique bond, cherished and nurtured with care.

Proudest Achievements: Selma’s artistic talent was matched only by her dedication to sharing it with others. Not only was she a master of her craft, having earned a Master’s degree in Art, but she was also a beloved art teacher in Syosset, NY schools. Her legacy lives on in the minds of her students and the beauty of her oil, acrylic, and silkscreen works with many of her pieces adorning her family’s homes

In Memoriam: A graveside service in honor of Selma Kriss will take place at 11:00 a.m. on Wednesday, May 1, 2024, at Beit Olam East Cemetery (42 Concord Road/Route 126, Wayland, MA). In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Jewish Federation of Metropolitan Chicago or Mary Ann Morse in Natick, MA, reflecting Selma’s compassionate spirit.

A Family’s Message: Selma’s journey was long and filled with moments of joy, challenge, and triumph. Her family fondly remembers her as a woman whose heart and art were as expansive as her legacy. “She lived a long life, and she will forever be in our hearts,” they say.

Herbert “Herbie” Wiener

April 24, 2024

It is with a broken heart that we say goodbye to Herbert “Herbie” Wiener of Needham, MA. He is survived by his wife of 64 years, Florence, his daughters Michele Sharaf and Beth Wiener, and his grandsons Benjamin and Daniel Sharaf. Herbie lost a short battle with pneumonia a few weeks after his 98th birthday. A WWII veteran and Purple Heart recipient, Herbie was a loving husband, father, grandfather and friend.

A 1951 graduate of the University of Massachusetts, Amherst, Herbie had lifelong thirst for knowledge. Despite an effortless everyman appeal, he was an intellectual at heart. He loved opera and classical music, read the newspaper cover-to-cover every day, consumed documentaries and public broadcasting religiously, followed politics and world events closely and was determined to master his iPhone.

While his family defined Herbie more than his work, early in his life he was a union man with The International Ladies’ Garment Workers’ Union. Subsequently, he worked alongside his father-in-law in his auto salvage business. At the end of his father-in-law’s life, Herbie cared for him like a natural born son – just another quiet testament of his love and devotion for his wife, Florence. Herbie continued working the auto salvage business for another 25 years well into his 90s until the day it was sold just a few years ago.

He was a voracious reader with an encyclopedic memory and whip smart sense of humor. An easy-going social butterfly, Herbie didn’t have a judgmental bone in his body – rarely did a mean word come out of his mouth. He believed in charitable giving, never took the last piece without asking and had a strong sense of right and wrong.

Doctors often marveled at his resilience and had the pneumonia not taken him, he would have easily celebrated his 100th birthday. Words cannot express how deeply he will be missed. Herbie left an indelible mark on this world and he will be remembered fondly by those who knew him.

Graveside service at Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA on Sunday, April 28, 2024 at 11:45 am. In lieu of flowers, donations in Herbert’s memory may be made to the Anti Defamation League, www.adl.org. or the Needham Senior Center, 300 Hillside Ave., Needham, MA 02494

 

David Lurie

April 24, 2024

David “Dave” Emanuel Lurie, 66, of Newton, passed away unexpectedly on Wednesday, April 24, 2024. Born in Syracuse, New York, on October 20, 1957, he was the son of Abraham and Natalie Lurie.

Raised outside of Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, Dave attended Radnor High School (Class of ‘75), where he took great pride in captaining the basketball team and formed lifelong friendships. He then attended Dartmouth College (Class of ‘79), majoring in Policy Studies. After graduating magna cum laude, Dave continued his education at Harvard Law School (Class of ‘83), where he met his first wife and mother of his children, Susan Winkler, and was a member of the Legal Aid Bureau.

Upon graduating cum laude and being admitted to the Massachusetts Bar, Dave became an attorney at Mintz, Levin, Cohn, Ferris, Glovksy, and Popeo, P.C., where he cherished the opportunity to learn from some of the profession’s greats. In 1997, Dave ventured out to found his own firm in partnership with his good friend, Peter B. Krupp. There, he practiced as a civil trial lawyer for another 27 years, leading the firm’s evolution to what would become Lurie Friedman LLP.

In both his professional life and personal life, Dave will be remembered for his integrity, compassion, generosity, humor, and kindness—he was a true mensch. Many will also remember fondly his spectacular dance moves and joyous laughter. He lived life fully and with passion, particularly enjoying hiking, running alongside fellow members of his running team (the Crying Shames), all things basketball, mid-coast Maine, adventuring with his grandson, and, above all, spending time with his friends and loved ones, especially traveling and being alongside his dear fiancée, Sue Miller.

He is survived by Susan Miller; his children, Rachel Melikan (Alex), Daniel Lurie (Alex), and Mitchell Lurie (Erica); grandson, Landon Melikan; brother, Jonathan Lurie (Debbi); and Sue’s children, Ben Miller and Lauren Miller. Along with his parents, David was predeceased by his younger brother, Richard Lurie, and his former wife, Susan Winkler.

Donations in Dave’s memory may be made to Charles River Watershed Association. He was loved dearly and will be missed beyond measure.

Paula Brody

April 24, 2024

Paula Brody (July 19, 1936 – April 24, 2024) was born in the Bronx to Al and Bea Abrams. In school, the teachers let her sit apart with a book because she learned so fast. She retained a lifelong commitment to proper grammar.

As an undergraduate at Columbia University she won the National Award for Women in Television. She met Alan Brody in playwriting class and decided that day he was the man she would marry. For their 20th anniversary she wrote the lyrics to “After All These Years,” which was recorded by Anne Phillips (and can be found on Spotify).

After graduating from Columbia, she embarked on a broadcasting career, but took a hiatus from the field to raise her children. She completed a Masters Degree in English Literature, and published her poetry in numerous literary journals. In the mid seventies she returned to broadcasting as a producer at WMHT public television in upstate New York. At the age of forty, she was the oldest person ever accepted into the Directors Guild of America trainee program, becoming an assistant director and working on major films, including The Cotton Club, Moonlighting, Moscow on the Hudson, and A Gathering of Old Men.

After she retired, Paula took joy in sewing, quilting, reading Dorothy Dunnett and Jane Austen, and baking rugelach and danish for the staff and residents of the Brickbottom Artists Building, where she lived with Alan until her death. She was deeply troubled by the state of the world and contributed generously to social justice and mutual aid organizations.

She was a passionate mother, a joy-filled grandmother, and a loving and supportive wife to a self-described difficult playwright.

She leaves behind her husband, Alan, her children, Lise and Dylan, and her granddaughter, Jocelyn Beatrice.

Ron Chen

April 12, 2024

Ron Chen, a Taiwanese entrepreneur, educator, and advocate for social justice passed away on March 22, 2024 at the age of 87. Born in Puzi, Chiayi County, Taiwan on January 10, 1937, Ron leaves behind a legacy of activism, academia, and entrepreneurship. He will be remembered for his strong sense of purpose, passion for giving back to others, longstanding commitment to teaching, and love for his family and the United States of America.

Ron embarked on a global journey that led him to become a cherished professor of political science at Northwestern State University in Natchitoches, Louisiana. Along with his wife of 55 years, Fu-mei Chen, Ron also founded the Brass House, which was a retailer and wholesaler of brassware and giftware; together they created and produced many Southern inspired gifts which were sold in the French Quarter of New Orleans.

Ron had noteworthy global influence as a dedicated political activist for Taiwanese independence and as a leader of the movement in the United States, serving as the Overseas Liaison Officer of the World United Formosans for Independence which opposed the Chaing Kai-shek regime and endorsed Taiwanization. In addition to his role as Associate Editor of the newspaper The Independent Formosan, he translated George Kerr’s book, Formosa Betrayed, (1973). This Chinese translation became a banned book, is currently a bestseller, and is one of the most influential nonfiction books in Taiwan. As a follow up to this book, he also authored “What I know about the April 24th Incident” (2015), and “The Inside Story of the April 24th Assassination Attempt Made Public Again” (2018), which discusses the attempted assassination of Chiang Ching-kuo, Chiang Kai-shek’s son and heir, in New York City. Ron was a leader of various student groups and spoke on radio and television shows. He was a confidant of Taiwan’s former President Lee Teng-Hui, who oversaw the end of martial law in Taiwan and advocated for the Taiwanese localization movement.

Ron is survived by his wife, Fu-mei Chen, and his children, Sonya van der Meer, Peter van der Meer, Tonya Chen Mezrich, Ben Mezrich, Oliver Chen, John Bult, Patricia Chen and his four grandchildren, Penelope, Tristan, Asher and Arya.

As a leader of revolutions, captivator of students with his stories, or spreader of joy with unique creations, Ron Chen proved that passion, humor, leadership, and a touch of eccentricity can drive lives forward. His contributions will forever be treasured across his diverse network of friends across multiple communities.

Ron Chen will be laid to rest in Newton, MA. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the World United Formosans for Independence (WUFI-USA, PO Box 1239, Belmont, CA 94002-6239. In memory of Ron Chen.)

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Constance W. Lampert

April 11, 2024

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Constance W. Lampert

Beloved Wife, Mother, Grandmother and Friend

Beloved wife, mother, grandmother, aunt and friend, Constance Waterman Lampert of Wayland passed away unexpectedly at home on April 11, 2024.

Connie was born in Wilmington DE, the daughter of Brigadier General Bernard S. Waterman and Harriet Waterman.  Growing up an “army brat,” Connie moved with her family numerous times until high school, although her “home base” was always in Haverhill, MA where her grandparents and other family members lived. She graduated from Walnut Hill School in Natick and then attended Mary Washington College in Virginia.  She met her husband, Alan, at Seabrook Beach in Summer 1960, and they married in August 1962.  Connie completed her bachelor’s degree at Boston University; following graduation, Alan & she moved to Chelmsford where they raised their family for 33 years.

Connie is survived by her adoring husband of over 61 years, Alan, her 3 children Jonathan, Amy and Andrew, daughters-in law Alison and Suzanne, grandchildren Sarah and husband Liam, William, Matthew, Lilli, Carrie, Zoe and Eliza, and friends and relatives too numerous to count.

Vivacious, outgoing, elegant, sincere, straightforward, and always dressed for the occasion, Connie collected friends and served as the nexus for her family.  Missing special occasions, graduations, recitals, or just about any event was simply out of the question, and Connie was always the first to show up, call, write or text when there was a crisis.

An inveterate traveler and consummate planner, Connie & Alan traveled the world with their family and as a couple.  It is impossible to list the number of cities, states, countries, and continents they visited, often more than once.  Family vacations were a highlight and included special high school graduation trips to Europe for her grandchildren.

When her youngest child, Andrew, started school, Connie joined Lady Finelle Cosmetics, where she worked as a convention planner & travel coordinator for 10 years.  She then put her love of history and reading to work, becoming a licensed tour guide and starting a business, Passport to Boston, with a friend.  She co-managed the business and conducted tours for 12 years before retiring.

Connie was a 60+ year bridge player, which included bridge tournaments in her later years.  She played canasta, did needlepoint, was an avid reader and walked…very fast…almost every day.  She followed the Red Sox through thick and thin and delighted in attending games with family & friends.

A funeral service will be held at Temple Beth Elohim, 10 Bethel Road, Wellesley, MA on Tuesday, April 16, 2024, at 11:00 AM.  In lieu of flowers, donations in Connie’s memory may be made to Mass General Brigham Breast Cancer Center (https://giving.massgeneral.org/donate/cancer-center/), Jewish Family and Children Services ( https://www.jfcsboston.org/give/donate-online) or the charity of your choice.

Jack Test

April 9, 2024

Jack Test, 74, of Newton, MA passed away on Tuesday, April 9, 2024. Jack was born to Dorothy and Meyer Test of Kansas City in 1949. After graduating Southwest High School in 1967, he received a B.S. and M.S. in computer science from Stanford University. He worked as a system programmer for a number of computer related companies in the Boston area finishing off as a computer consultant before his retirement. He enjoyed music and loved attending performances of the Boston symphony orchestra. Jack was a devoted son and provided care and support for his mother the last 15 years of her life. He is survived by his brother Sanford Test of Be’er Sheva Israel. His family suggests donations in his memory to Beth Shalom Synagogue of Kansas City. Graveside services will be held at 8:00 am on Sunday, April 14, 2024 at Mt. Carmel Cemetery, 5529 Ditzler Ave, Raytown, MO 64133.

Cathy A. Levin

April 9, 2024

Cathy A. Levin of Melrose, MA, passed away peacefully on Feb. 24, 2024, at the age of 63. She grew up in Arlington, MA, and attended Arlington High School.  She went on to graduate from the University of Maryland with a Bachelor’s Degree in Radio, Television, and Film. Cathy was a strong advocate for people with mental health issues. She worked for the Tri-City Mental Health Center in Medford, MA, writing press releases for local newspapers. She also joined M-POWER, a mental health self-help group in Boston, now called the Transformation Center, and was the editor of its newsletter “Voices for Change.”  Cathy was tireless in the fight for better treatment of mental health patients in emergency rooms. She was instrumental in driving the ER Rights Campaign, helped organize rallies and hearings at the Massachusetts State House, and testified in person at the Statehouse on their behalf. Cathy had a lifelong interest in American history and politics. In addition to earning an undergraduate degree, Cathy enrolled at UMASS, Boston, and obtained a Graduate Certificate in Women in Politics and Public Policy. She then worked as an intern for State Representative Barbara L’Italien. Her love of history inspired her to become a very popular tour guide on the Freedom Trail in Boston. Dressed in colonial women’s attire, she escorted tourists and history buffs from the Boston Commons to Government Center, stopping along the way at historic buildings and gravesites of the Founding Fathers to explain the historical significance of each stop. Cathy was also a dog lover. She once rescued a Brittany Spaniel from the streets of Somerville, MA, and welcomed him into her home. She was also a very good artist and enjoyed painting beautiful color portraits. Her passions for history, politics, advocacy, reading, and art will be sorely missed. Cathy was pre-deceased by her parents, JoAnne McIntosh and Melvin Levin, and is survived by her two brothers Jim and Tom Levin, her niece Ashley, and her nephews Cole and Denys.

Edward I. Selig

April 8, 2024

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Edward I. Selig, loving husband, father, and grandfather, died on April 8 at age 89, surrounded by his family. A man of great integrity, Ed was noted for his generosity, intellect, and humor.

Ed grew up in Leominster, Mass., the son of Mendell and Mae and the younger brother of Annie. He excelled in academics and athletics at the Fessenden School, Phillips Academy Andover, Yale University, where he studied English literature, and Merton College Oxford, where he studied philosophy as a Rhodes Scholar. He later served those schools with great loyalty.  He studied at the Jewish Theological Seminary and earned a law degree at Harvard Law School.

In Washington, D.C., Ed worked at Covington and Burling and then joined the U.S. Justice Department in the Office of Legal Counsel. He then moved back to the Boston area to help run the Council on Law Related Studies at Harvard Law School. That work led to his interest in the emerging field of environmental law, in which he became an early expert. In his practice, he focused on water and air pollution control. One of his proudest achievements was drafting the original Massachusetts Clean Water Act, which went further than federal laws of the time by defining “waters of the state” to include groundwater, thus requiring stricter regulation. Ed also taught environmental law courses at BU and the Harvard School of Public Health.

Ed served on a number of boards, including the Merton College Charitable Corporation and the All Newton Music School. On his retirement from law practice, he became a mediator, volunteered with the Executive Service Corps, and returned to English literature, his first love, leading classes on poetry, short stories, and philosophy for adult learners.

Ed pursued other passions after retirement as well. He took up piano lessons, learned to prepare gourmet meals, and participated in book clubs. Whatever he undertook, he set high standards for himself. Ed also reveled in becoming a grandfather.

Central to Ed’s life were his friendships, many dating to his youth. He and Renata, his beloved wife of nearly 64 years, maintained deep and lifelong connections with classmates and friends, traveling with them over many decades. They hosted numerous guests at their home with hospitality and warmth.

Ed loved poetry, from lyric odes to off-color limericks. He was especially moved by Shakespeare, Yeats, Thomas, Eliot, and Frost, with dozens of poems committed to memory.  He was an elegant writer who took great delight in the English language, relishing puns, jokes, word play, and rules of grammar. With great wit, he crafted clever verses to celebrate friends and relatives. He loved classical music, especially works by Beethoven, Brahms, Schubert, Bach, and Mozart. He cherished laughter and lively conversation over good food and fine wine.

Ed is survived by his wife, Renata; his children, Colin and Diana, and his grandchildren, Anya and Jonah.

Funeral Service will be held on Friday, April 12 at 10:45am at Temple Beth Elohim, 10 Bethel Road, Wellesley, followed by burial at the Newton Cemetery. The family will hold shiva at his late residence on Friday, 1:30-4:00pm and on Sunday, 11-1pm.

As Ed requested, contributions in his memory may be made to the All Newton Music School, 321 Chestnut St., West Newton MA 02465.

 

Dr. Lonnie C. Carton

April 7, 2024

Dr. Lonnie C. Carton, age 95, educator, broadcaster, mother and grandmother extraordinaire passed away peacefully on Sunday April 7, 2024 surrounded by her children at Maravilla Assisted Living in Austin, Texas. The beloved matriarch of a large family, she was also widely recognized as a gifted communicator whose common sense approach to parenting and child development informed and inspired the thousands of dedicated listeners to her nationally syndicated radio program Dr. Lonnie Carton in The Learning Center.

Winner of The National Media Award of The American Psychological Association for “the best radio program in the country exploring the what, where and how of human behavior”, The Learning Center offered problem-solving strategies for parents, families and educators. Dr. Carton’s broadcasts, taped in Boston at WEEI news radio in the early 1970’s and later at WBZ, aired nationwide six days a week for more than two decades.

Lonnie grew up in Baltimore, Maryland in a multigenerational home, the only child of a single mother living with family members who had little opportunity for formal education. At a young age, she became a keen observer of the intricacies of human relations and how familiy members relate to each other. A bookworm, tennis player, and talented student, Lonnie was one of a dozen young women in 1946 selected to attend then all-male Johns Hopkins University in a World War Two-era pilot program. University administrators discontinued the “experiment” in less than a year and pressured all the women students to transfer, but Lonnie insisted she belonged, graduated in three years, and went on to get her M.Ed from the University of Maryland in child psychology and her PH.D from Penn State University.

Hopkins didn’t admit another woman for 24 years, but there, in the mid-1940s, Lonnie met the love of her life, Edwin B. Carton. They married in 1949, raised three children well, and helped raise seven beloved grandchildren before Ed’s death in 2012. Like the Biblical Abraham and Sarah’s open tent, their home on Sheffield Road in Newton was open to all who cared to enter—whether it was for some of Lonnie’s quick wit and sage advice, a political discussion with Ed, a game of Boggle, or just laughter and storytelling around the kitchen table with family and friends.

A professor of education at Tufts University for fourteen years and the author of Raise Your Kids Right (Putnam), later released in paperback as No Is A Love Word, Dr. Carton also put her passion for people and her community-building skills to work at Tufts New England Medical Center in Boston, where she developed several innovative support services for inner city kids and their parents. When she wasn’t teaching or on the lecture circuit, she could often be found at the movies with her husband, sharing a Cabot’s ice cream Brazilian Combo, or at Gillette Stadium cheering on her beloved New England Patriots.

On learning of Lonnie’s passing, one of her cousins wrote that “she has been the rock of our family in so many ways—a mountain of integrity, common sense, intelligence, and love.”

Lonnie leaves behind her children, Evan Carton and Janis Bergman-Carton. Debbie and Yossie Riemer, and Paula Carton; her grandchildren, Jacqueline and Jonathan Tame, Nili Riemer Bueckert and Benni Bueckert, Yair and Jennie Riemer, Rebecca Carton and Daniel Dowd, Yoni and Lexi Riemer, Noah Carton, and Hannah Rossen; and eight great-grandchildren.

Funeral services will be held at 11:00 am on Thursday, April 11 at Temple Beth Elohim, 10 Bethel Road, in Wellesley.

In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory can be made to The Children’s Defense Fund

Eleanor Fisher Kaplan

April 6, 2024

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Eleanor Fisher Kaplan, of Jamaica Plain (Springhouse Senior Living) and formerly of  Brookline, MA, passed away at age 103 on Saturday, April 6, 2024. Beloved wife of the late Judge Sumner Z. Kaplan, revered matriarch of an extensive loving family, and devoted friend to countless individuals across all ages, Ellie was one of a kind. She was smart, savvy, witty and an astute judge of character.

Born in Lynn, MA in 1921 and raised in Dorchester by her cherished mother Rose (Rines), Eleanor graduated from Boston’s Girls’ Latin School in 1938 and Wellesley College in 1942.

Her marriage in 1944 to her loving husband Sumner was transformative. She fully shared in his interest in local and state politics and was his most trusted adviser in his successful campaigns for the Massachusetts State Legislature and the Brookline Select Board.

While raising her two daughters, Ellie earned a Master’s degree from State Teachers College at Boston, followed by 20 years as an elementary school teacher in the Boston Public Schools.

Eleanor was a prolific writer, loved music and composed countless essays, poems and songs about her experiences, her family and her ever-insightful observations of life.  She never lost her curiosity about people and the world, or her interest in civic engagement and politics. She remained an accomplished bridge player well into her 103rd year.

Eleanor leaves behind her two beloved daughters, Ruth Kaplan (Brookline) and Marjorie Kaplan (New York City), sons-in-law Toby Kusmer and Michael Stanislawski, five grandchildren, and three great-grandchildren.

The funeral will be held at Congregation Kehillath Israel, 384 Harvard Street, Brookline, on Tuesday, April 9, 2024, at 11:30 a.m., followed by burial at Sharon Memorial Park. Shiva will be at the home of Ruth and Toby on Tuesday 7-9 pm, Wednesday and Thursday 2-4 & 7-9 pm, Saturday 7-9 pm, and Sunday 2-4 & 7-9 pm. On Friday, April 12, Shiva will be at Springhouse, 44 Allandale St., 3:30-5:00 pm.

Contributions in Eleanor’s memory can be made to Congregation Kehillath Israel, 384 Harvard St., Brookline, MA 02446, Brookline Senior Center, 93 Winchester Street, Brookline, MA 02446, Hadassah Boston, 1320 Centre Street, #205, Newton Centre, MA 02459, or a charity of one’s choice.

Alan Alter

April 5, 2024

Alan Alter, of Brockton, was born on July 24th, 1939 in Fairhaven, MA. He attended Phillips Academy in Andover, and then Harvard, before settling into a lifetime of work with computers and investing on his own. The last forty-five years of his life he spent in Boston and Brookline, right near the line between the two. Alan was very smart and an intellectual at heart who will be fondly remembered by his family as a deeply good person. His passions were running (in a New York marathon at under three hours and winning a race at the Maccabean Games in Tel Aviv), politics, classical music, conversation, book-collecting, and reading. He was extraordinarily well-read on many topics and had a particularly keen interest in neuroscience, literature, and history. Alan took great, loving care of both his mother Alberta Alter and father Manny Alter for years in their later lives.
While not observant, Alan was Jewish to the core (he knew Hebrew) and a believer in the promise of Israel. He is survived by his brother Mark Alter and niece Sonrisa Alter of Portland, Oregon, his aunt Josephine Freedman of Cambridge, and cousins Amy Freedman of Cambridge and Robert Alter of Newton. He will also be lovingly remembered by his great circle of caring friends in the neighborhood where he lived, in particular his neighbor Patrick Maguire. Alan died in Milton, MA on April 5th, 2024, at the age of 84. Alan will be interred at Sharon Memorial Park next to his parents as he wished. There will not be a service.

Joshua Shefer

April 3, 2024

Joshua Shefer (November 1, 1924 – April 3, 2024)

Joshua Shefer died peacefully at his home on April 3, 2024, at age 99. He enjoyed most of the things he loved – visiting with family, sharing meals, walking outside – until the last few months when his body just started to come to the end of a life well lived.

Born in 1924 in Leipzig, Germany, to Chaim and Esther Spector, Joshua immigrated with his family to Tel Aviv in 1932. He attended the Technion Israel Institute of Technology in Haifa where he received his Bachelor of Science degree in Electrical Engineering in 1949.  He also served as an army officer in the Israeli war of independence (1948-49). During the war, Joshua met Sarah Porath. Joshua and Sarah were married in the autumn of 1950. In the early 1950s, Joshua and Sarah went to London for graduate school, where they each completed PhD degrees from London University in 1955, he in Electrical Engineering and she in Biochemistry. They returned to Israel and in 1956 Joshua joined the Electronics Research Laboratories of the Israeli Ministry of Defense where he headed the Microwave R&D Division. During this time, he lectured at the Technion on microwave theory and techniques. In 1958 Joshua accepted an assignment in the Diplomatic Service as the Scientific Attaché at the Israeli Embassy in London. After this assignment, the family moved to Boston, where Joshua joined the Gordon McKay Laboratory, Harvard University as a Research Fellow, working on antenna problems.

In 1962, the family moved to New Jersey where Joshua took a research position at Bell Telephone Laboratories. A few years later he joined RCA Laboratories in Princeton, NJ, and worked there until his retirement in 1991. One focus of his research was on new microwave solid state devices for communication systems as well as for highway safety applications. He and his colleagues developed one of the first collision avoidance systems for automobiles.

Joshua was predeceased by his wife Sarah after nearly 70 wonderful years of marriage, and by his sister Pnina and brother Ze’ev. His immediate family includes his loving children, Ruth (Earl), David and Abigail (Donald); his devoted grandchildren, Alex (Carolina), Michael (Roxanne), Jordan, and Megan; and his great grandchildren Joaquim and Sarah.

Joshua greatly enjoyed spending time with his family and friends and travelling the world. He loved to be on the water and had a lifelong interest in sailing, first on lakes in New Jersey, then later off the coast of New York and in the Caribbean. He was a voracious reader of history and always kept current on politics and the news. Joshua had a great smile and people warmed to his kindness and intellect wherever he went.

On Sunday April 7th, there will be a graveside service at Sharon Memorial Park at 12:45 pm.

Contributions in Joshua’s memory may be made to Mass General Hospital  https://giving.massgeneral.org/donate

Lucille Gerratt

April 1, 2024

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Lucille Gerratt of Chestnut Hill, MA passed away on April 1, 2024. Beloved wife of the late Irving Gerratt. Devoted mother of Emily (David) and Bradley (Susan). Proud grandmother of Aaron (Jenny) and Natalie (Jo). Loving sister of Phyllis Laub and the late Arthur Levine, Cynthia Magid, and Lester Levine.

Graveside services will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations in Lucille’s memory may be made to Casa Myrna, casamyrna.org.

Lucille grew up in Boston and attended the Boston Public Schools. She and Irving met where she worked and later married in April 1948. They lived in Boston until moving to Sharon in 1950 where Lucille ran a small office for the growing family printing business for many years.

She started making small investments in the stock market in the 1970s, first with the advice of a stockbroker and, later, on her own. She learned about the stock market quickly and became an expert. Her passion was such that Brad and Emily understood she was declining when she stopped paying attention to the market (at age 96!).

In 1988, Irving and Lucille retired to their summer home on Cape Cod. Lucille served as Treasurer of the resident-led condominium management association for several decades, while Irving served as president. They were known as the “go-to team” whenever an issue arose in the community.

After Irving died in 2022, Lucille moved to an assisted living facility in Chestnut Hill where she loved engaging with the staff and residents.

Family and friends meant everything to Lucille. Her greatest pleasure was serving special meals to friends and family visiting her and Irving, especially after they retired on Cape Cod. Her curiosity was evident in the kitchen, always working to tweak the recipes to perfection. Eating and talking around the dining room table was the way she liked to bring people together.

Adam W. Kenger

April 1, 2024

Adam Wayne Kenger, loving husband, father, son, stepson, brother, brother-in-law, uncle, cousin, nephew, and friend to all, passed away on April 1st, 2024, after inspiring everyone with his strength and courage as he faced advanced colon cancer. Adam was born on June 13, 1980 in El Paso, Texas to Ronda Kenger and Martin Kenger. At just six weeks old, Adam, his older sister Elysa, and his parents moved to Massachusetts where he would live happily for the rest of his life. As a child, he loved building model rockets and playing trains with his father, whose footsteps he followed in to become an engineer. His summers at the Cape with his family as a child, going boating and fishing and just enjoying the salt air, were some of his happiest childhood memories. He played soccer and clarinet as a boy, and in his words, “did it for fun, not because I was particularly good.” But music always held a special interest for him, and he often enjoyed recounting nights spent at the Cape Cod Melody Tent seeing amazing musical acts. His musical knowledge and interests were diverse, covering everything from Fleetwood Mac to Natalie Merchant to James Taylor. One of the times he most impressed Mara was when he perfectly sang along with the 26 “I knows” in Ain’t No Sunshine by Bill Withers. He might have been quiet at times, but he was certainly always listening.

His early interest in computers distinguished him in the halls of the Littleton schools he attended in the 1990s. Adam was so knowledgeable that many teachers would often ask  for his assistance working their computers! Adam continued his study of computer engineering at Northeastern University in Boston, the one and only college he applied to, because he knew he wanted to work while studying which Northeastern made particularly seamless with their undergraduate program. In college he met many life-long friends including his best man, Dan Dufresne, who Adam often credited with getting him through some of the more challenging academic courses. Adam had a unique genius, but stats weren’t his thing. But he worked hard, did amazingly well, and graduated with his B.S. in Computer Engineering from Northeastern in 2003.

He immediately went to work as a software engineer and web developer at various technology firms in Boston, with his longest tenure being at Cantina Consulting where he worked from 2009 until just prior to his death in 2024. At Cantina, he made lifelong friendships, helped countless clients meet their website needs, and was a leader in every sense of the word. He was so good with client relationships that the company created a special role for him in that realm, and he was named VP of Technical Strategy. Just 4 days before his death, Adam was still concerned about finishing up work projects. His dedication to his work cannot be overstated.

It is only fitting that a man who devoted his life to computers would meet his eventual wife, Mara, on the internet. In June 2011, they connected via a dating website, and as Mara has always said, she instantly knew upon reading his profile and seeing his adorable smile that he could be the father of her children. After a few weeks of emails back-and-forth, they met in person at a restaurant in Beacon Hill, and talked continuously for 4 hours before awkwardly misfiring a kiss onto each other’s eyeballs and saying goodnight. They met frequently after that, and by their 3rd date, Mara had already told her mother and aunt, “I am going to marry this guy.”

Marry they did, just 14 months later, in September of 2012. They moved in 2013 to their first home bought together in Stoneham, MA, where they enjoyed the DINK life for a little while by enjoying frequent dinner and movie dates, weekends at the Cape, and many live concerts. They welcomed their first daughter, Madeleine, in 2015, and what he may have lost in DINK freedom, he gained tenfold in the joys of fatherhood. Margot arrived in 2018, and little Eloise arrived in the midst of COVID just after moving to the family’s current home in Wellesley in 2020. Adam had initially said that he wasn’t sure he wanted children, because he wanted to be certain that if he brought kids into this world, that he was ready to be the absolute best father he could be to them. But it should come as no surprise to anyone who knew Adam that fatherhood came naturally to him. He was patient, kind, firm but gentle, disciplined, and loving to his three daughters. Even when he was feeling absolutely awful with cancer treatments, he made time and space for them to feel his love and devotion, as he patiently listened to their stories, excitedly looked at their artwork, or lovingly read them “just one more” bedtime story. He was, in every sense of the word, an incredible father.

His excelling at fatherhood could have easily been predicted by his longstanding devotion to, and love of, rescue dogs. As soon as he was out on his own, Adam began fostering dogs, and soon adopted his first rescue dog, Trinity. He soon also adopted Lara, a particularly special dog whose photograph, taken by Adam, hangs in the living room. Logan, Lucy, Owen and Charlie were all lucky enough to make their home in Adam’s house, and more importantly, in his heart. Adam truly had immense love for all animals, even those he was severely allergic to like Mara’s cats who came with her as a package deal. He couldn’t walk by a cute dog without stopping to pet them and make goofy animal noises. His biggest smiles in life were reserved for his canines and his kids.

Adam was an amazing cook, with Italian food being his main specialty. He made excellent homemade pizzas, and gifted himself a pizza oven for home that, sadly, he didn’t get to use before his passing. Mara and the girls look forward to learning how to use it to make excellent pizza in his memory. He also loved making his own pasta, and made an annual spanakopita for his mother on her birthday, as that was her favorite dish he ever made.

Adam was someone who would stop at nothing to make those around him happy. He made a friend in everyone he met, and genuinely didn’t have any enemies or even a bad word to say about anyone. He was endlessly kind, calm, forgiving, patient, intelligent, talented, devoted, and sweet. He will forever be missed by all those lucky enough to have known him.

He is survived by his wife, Mara (Semel) Kenger and his three daughters, Madeleine Antonia, Margot Isabelle, and Eloise June; his mother, Ronda Kenger; his father and stepmother, Marty Kenger and Marji Holden-Kenger; his sister, Elysa (Kenger) Fiedler; beloved aunt, Sandy Simon and her partner Brian Bloch; beloved aunt and uncle, Darlene and Stu Saks; beloved uncle Jeff Saks; many nieces, nephews, and cousins; and scores of friends. He is predeceased by his grandparents, Jerry and Stella Saks, and Elizabeth and Leonard Kenger, and his uncle, Larry Simon.

Adam’s guiding principles in life were kindness, love, and generosity. It is with those values in mind that we will honor his legacy by practicing those principles and leading with kindness, just like Adam.

The funeral will be taking place on Thursday, April 4, 2024 at 10:00 am at Temple Beth Shalom in Needham. Interment will follow at Or Emet Cemetery, 776 Baker St., West Roxbury. Memorial Observance will be at Temple Beth Shalom on Thursday from 2:00-5:00 pm and will resume at the Kenger home on Friday from 1:00-3:00 pm and on Sunday from 1:00-6:00 pm.

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