Archive: September, 2023

A Livestream link to view the funeral service can be found here.

Milly Guberman Kravetz, of Newton, died peacefully, at home, in her bed, just as she wanted, on September 27, 2023, at the age of 101 and one-half. The oldest of three children, she was born and raised in Malden. Both her parents came to America from Russia in the first decade of the twentieth century.

Her mother, Dora Hurwitz, came to America as a young child with her younger sister and their mother, her father having come sometime earlier. Her father, Harry Katz, came to America alone at the age of 18 or 19 as a political refugee. He and his brother, as students in Russia, were involved with the Jewish Bund. When his brother was arrested, their parents helped Harry escape the country.

Milly viewed herself as the product of a mixed marriage. Dora was traditionally observant and kept a strictly kosher home. Harry most often referred to himself as agnostic. Milly remembered long conversations with him as a young person trying to figure out first causes. At the same time, Harry was very respectful of Dora’s beliefs and Jewish observance.

Growing up, Yiddish and the Workmen’s Circle were of great importance to Milly and her family. Because her maternal grandparents lived off and on with her family, she only spoke Yiddish until she started public school. When she was somewhat older, her parents hired a Yiddish tutor for her, and her father helped start both a Shalom Aleichem Yiddish Folkschule and Workmen’s Circle Camp. She was proud that, because of her proficiency in Yiddish, for several summers she would give an annual welcome to Norman Thomas “In nomen fun ale yidishe kinder [in the name of all the Jewish children].”

Her parents also were active in Poale Zion, the leftwing labor Zionist group of which David Ben-Gurion was a key leader in Mandatory Palestine. Milly herself recalled being a Poale Zion “bud”. Later she was active in Avuka, a collegiate socialist Zionist group. Milly’s commitment to what many now call liberal Zionism continued throughout her life. In later years, she was a strong supporter of Peace Now and the New Israel Fund, and even as she was approaching the end, she took pride in her Israeli relatives’ ongoing efforts to defend Israeli democracy.

A trauma that marked her life was the death of her younger brother, E. David (“Doovie”) Katz, days before his 21^st birthday. Doovie was a lieutenant and navigator in the Army Air Corps, stationed in England during World War II. Having fulfilled his quota of missions and awaiting rotation back to the United States, he volunteered for one last mission and was killed in action over Mannheim, Germany.

Milly also survived her younger sister, Naomi Harris, a graduate of the Museum of Fine Arts in Boston and a noted gold and silversmith. Naomi married Elly Harris, who had taken time off from college to volunteer as a soldier in Israel’s War of Independence. In 1957, Naomi, Elly, and their young son Ron made aliya. Naomi and Elly had three more children—Avigail, Gideon, and Noa—with all of whom she developed especially close relations as their beloved “Auntie Mully”. Her geographic separation from Naomi, especially in the early years when international telephone calls were vastly expensive, also deeply affected her. As travel and communication became more affordable, Milly delighted in visiting them in Israel (for the last time, in 2018 at age 98), and communicating regularly by email, text, and WhatsApp video.

After graduating from Simmons College in 1943, Milly helped found Harvard Hillel as assistant to Judah Shapiro. In 1947, she got her M.S.W. from the Columbia University School of Social Work and then returned to Harvard Hillel as Associate Director.

In 1946, she married Joshua Guberman, whom she had first met through Avuka and then corresponded with during World War II. They had three children: David, in 1949; Karen, in 1951; and Daniel, in 1955. The family settled in Newton, Josh’s hometown. In 1981, after Josh’s untimely death in 1976 at age 55 and David’s marriage to Jayne Kravetz, Milly married Jayne’s father, Nate Kravetz, with whom she shared an active retirement until his death in 2010.

During the 1950s, Milly returned to work part-time as a social worker in the field of gerontology. In the early 1960s, she began working at the Heller School for Advanced Studies in Social Welfare at Brandeis University, first, as a research associate in gerontology, and then as Director of Admissions. With the founding of the Hornstein Program in Jewish Communal Service at Brandeis, she became its Director of Field Placement and a beloved teacher to generations of students. An active member of the Jewish community, she served, for example, on the board of Jewish Community Housing for the Elderly and the Scholarship Committee of Combined Jewish Philanthropies.

Milly is survived by her children: David and Jayne Guberman, Karen Guberman and Craig Kennedy, Daniel Guberman and Allison Ackerman, Charles Kravetz and Deborah Sinay, Jonathan and Janny Kravetz, and John Venning and Shahied Abrahams; her grandchildren: Rachel Guberman and Tiffany Holder, Dalia Guberman and Dan Brown, Michael Kennedy and Kim Karolyi, Adam and Kim Kennedy, Ariel Kennedy and Ronan Lynam, Josh Guberman and Ashley Wiseman, Eric Guberman, Sasha Kravetz Cohen and David Cohen, Jessica Kravetz Cooper and Samuel Cooper, Jacob Kravetz, Rebecca Kravetz, and Hannah Kravetz; great-grandchildren: Raelyn Brown, Nathan Auberman, Gabriel Auberman, Sydney Cohen, Emery Cohen, Grant Cooper, and Paige Cooper; nephews and nieces in Israel: Ron and Janna Harris, Avigail and Rami Shahar, Gideon Harris and Tamar Kedar, and Noa Harris, as well as their children and grandchildren; and family in Israel, Italy, Australia, and the United States.

We are especially grateful to Nicole D’Angelico and her husband, Tom Peloquin, whose loving care made it possible for her to live out her days in her own home in comfort and dignity.

Milly was the subject of a number of oral histories, including by the Wexler Oral History Project at the Yiddish Book Center, available at https://www.yiddishbookcenter.org/collections/oral-histories/interviews/woh-fi-0000277/milly-guberman-kravetz-2012, and Acting Our Age, available at https://actingourageblog.com/2017/04/17/milly-at-95/. Chapters about Milly are included in Mom: A Celebration of Mothers from Story Corps by Dave Isay and Stepping Down-Not Stepping Away: How to Prepare for What Comes Next in Your Life by Ilana Amrani-Cohen.

Donations in her honor may be made to an organization meaningful to the giver.

Family and friends are invited to gather at our mother’s home following the burial until 5:00 p.m. and again from 7:00 to 9:30 p.m., and on Tuesday from 2 p.m. – 4:00 p.m. and from 7:00 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. On both days, there will be a minyan at 7:30 p.m.Services at Temple Reyim, 1860 Washington St., West Newton, on Monday,October 2, 2023 at 10:00 am. Interment to follow at Sharon Memorial Park.

Age 95, son of the late Rose & Michael Marcus, beloved husband of 75 years to Rita L. (Cohen) Miller. Brother of the late Susan Kane. Father of Michele (Gary) Gottesmann, Martha (Jeff) Beagle. Papa to Stephanie, David, Michael & Juliana. Nephews & nieces Russell, Lisa, Allison, Michael, George, and Beth. He is survived by his longtime Aide and Best friend, Fabienne. Graveside service at Sharon Memorial Park on Friday 9/29 at 10:45 am. Remembrances in his memory may be made to The West End House, 105 Allston St., Allston, Mà 02134.

Patricia “Patti” Ann Colten (Levetin) born in Newton, raised in Everett and spent most of her adult life in Brockton before moving to Georgia to be with her son Dana and Daughter- in- law Julie.  On September 19, 2023 she passed away at the age of 78 years old in Mableton, Georgia with her son by her side holding her hand as she crossed into the afterlife.  She is pre-deceased by her Father Nathan, Mother Sadie, Brothers Malcom and Robert and will be interned at the family plot in the Independent Pride of Boston Jewish cemetery on Baker St.  Patti was an active member of O.R.T., Hadassah and her jewish community with Temple Beth Emunah of Brockton.  She was a dedicated mother, friend and loved to cook very good food as often as she could for others.  She especially enjoyed entertaining for the jewish holidays, socializing with friends and family on any occasion.  Patti had a keen eye for being creative artistically and loved to learn about anything associated with health, biology and the food industry.  She was a very giving and caring person who always tried to do for others unselfishly.  Patti leaves behind her son, daughter in law and grand puppy.

A private celebration of life and memorial is being held in her honor on September 30,2023 in Randolph, MA.  Her passion was food and nutrition so in lieu of flowers please donate to the American Diabetes Association in her honor.

Melvin Goober, age 91, of Silver Spring, Maryland, passed away on Sunday, Spetember 24, 2023. Melvin was born in Boston, Massachusetts, and attended Boston English High and Boston University. He became an accountant and worked as a CPA for many years, retiring at the age of 87. Mel was a devoted husband to Janice (nee Goldstein), who predeceased him in 1991; and to Betty (nee Markonish), who passed away in 2021. Mel enjoyed his family and was known for donning a clown costume for children’s parties. He was a lifelong fan of the Boston professional sports teams. Mel leaves his beloved daughters, Phyllis (Jeff) Phillips of Olney, Maryland, and Robin (Tom) Temin of Rockville, Maryland. Also grandchildren Scott Philson (Rose), Elyse Phillips, Benjamin Temin (Renee) and Janice Temin; and 5 great grandchildren. Mel is also fondly remembered by Ross and Denise Markonish and their families. Private graveside service was held at Sharon Memorial Park on Wednesday, Septemer 27, 2023.Please direct donations to The National Kidney Foundation, Temple Beth Ami of Rockville MD or the charity of your choice.

Sacks, Selma (Douglas), of Brookline, MA passed away Sept 18, 2023. Beloved wife of the late Herbert F. Sacks. Devoted mother of Susan Sweet and her husband Dr. John Sweet. Proud grandmother of Andrew Sweet and David Sweet and his wife Lauren. Loving sister of the late Florence Sapir and Sidney Douglas. Graveside service at Crawford St. Memorial Park (776 Baker St., West Roxbury) on Thursday, Sept 21, 2023 at 12 Noon. In lieu of flowers, donations in Selma’s memory may be made to St. Jude Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105.

Polish-Born Holocaust Survivor, WWII Veteran,

Mathematician, and Entrepreneur

Dr. Julian Jakob Bussgang, a prominent mathematician, entrepreneur, and one of the last living Holocaust survivors in Boston, died on Saturday at his home in Dedham, Massachusetts, surrounded by his loving family. He was 98.

Dr. Bussgang was born on March 26, 1925, in Lwów, Poland (now Lviv, Ukraine) to the late Stefania (Philipp) and Joseph Bussgang. In mid-September 1939, precisely 84 years prior to his death, he fled with his parents and sister, the late Janine Bussgang Merab, to Romania and then to Palestine, barely avoiding the persecution and death camps that befell so many relatives and friends. His father had successfully smuggled a few bars of gold into Romania, allowing the family to earn a capitalist visa to the British Mandate of Palestine.

After finishing the Polish refugee high school in Tel Aviv, he joined the Polish 2^nd Corps led by General Władysław Anders which had become a part of the British Army to join the fight to liberate Europe from the Nazis in World War II. He first trained with an armored unit in Egypt – later joking whenever his driving was criticized that he first learned to drive a tank. He saw combat in Italy as a member of the light anti-aircraft artillery and participated in the Polish Army attack on Monte Cassino in one of the bloodiest battles of World War II. Later, he fought in the battles of Ancona and Bologna. In recognition of his service, he was promoted to the rank of captain decades after the war.

When the war ended, Dr. Bussgang remained briefly in Italy, attending the Polytechnic of Turin, and then transferred to the Polish Resettlement Corps in England, resuming his studies at the University of London, where he received his B.Sc. (Engineering) in Telecommunications. In 1949, he came to the United States. As a survivor, refugee, and immigrant, his peripatetic journey to the United States resulted in his ability to speak five languages fluently, albeit each one with an accent.

Dr. Bussgang enrolled at MIT, where he made many good friends as he established a new life. He was awarded a small scholarship and waited tables in the university dining hall to cover his expenses. He received the MSEE degree from MIT in 1951, publishing his thesis, later known as The Bussgang Theorem, as a report for MIT’s Research Laboratory of Electronics. The Bussgang Theorem became a popular tool for stochastic analysis and signal processing, with important applications in radar, sound, and digital communications.

Dr. Bussgang went on to earn his PhD in Applied Physics from Harvard in 1955. After working at the MIT Lincoln Laboratory and then at RCA’s Aerospace Division, he became the founder and president of Signatron, Inc., an electronics communication company. During a period of tremendous investment in defense electronics and communications in the United States, his company made a large impact in the field of applied physics, electronics, and communications. He was a consultant to Grumman Aircraft in the selection, simulation, and evaluation of Rendezvous Radar and Landing Radar for the Lunar Module for man’s first trip to the moon. He also developed high data rate, troposcatter (over the horizon) modems and radio channel simulators. Among its many successful initiatives, Signatron created a satellite system that measured continental drift and served as a consultant in the creation of Raytheon’s Patriot antimissile missile. In addition to his eponymous theorem, Dr. Bussgang held six patents and a top-secret security clearance.

Signatron was acquired by the defense electronics firm Sundstrand Corporation in 1984 and Dr. Bussgang retired in 1987. At the time, the company had over 100 employees and had been entirely bootstrapped. While running Signatron, he was a visiting lecturer in the Graduate Electrical Engineering program at Northeastern and taught a graduate course on signal processing at Harvard in the Division of Applied Science and Engineering. In honor of his professional contributions, he was named a Life Fellow of the Institute of Electrical and Electronic Engineers (IEEE), an organization where he served for a number of years as Boston Section Chair and received the IEEE Distinguished Service Award.

After his professional career ended, a second career began – this time in partnership with his beloved wife, Fay (Vogel). The two met in Newton at a mutual friend’s house in the late 1950s and, after a period of courtship – which included Dr. Bussgang sharing his unique and fascinating life story – were married at the MIT Faculty Club on August 14, 1960. From the late 1980s onward, the couple embarked on a decades-long mission to support and memorialize the history of Polish Jewry. These efforts included living in Warsaw and Krakow after the fall of the Berlin Wall numerous times as a volunteer with the nonprofit International Executive Service Corps, helping to privatize Polish industry.

Dr. Bussgang and his wife also translated two volumes of wartime accounts of child survivors still living in Poland, The Last Eyewitnesses: Children of the Holocaust Speak, Northwestern University Press (1998 and 2005). He and Fay were named honorary members of the Association of Children of the Holocaust in Poland in 1998. Dr. Bussgang translated into English the booklet Polish Jew-Polish Soldier, issued in 1945 by the Chief Rabbi of the Polish 2nd Corps to honor Polish Jews who fought in World War II. The combined Polish and English versions were published in 2010 by the Jewish Historical Institute in Warsaw. He also authored a chapter entitled “The Progressive Synagogue in Lwów” in POLIN: Studies in Polish Jewry, vol. 11 (1998), 127–53, Littman Library of Jewish Civilization; and a chapter: “Metropolitan Sheptytsky: A Reassessment” in POLIN, vol. 21 (2008), 401–25. He was one of the organizers of three reunions of former students at his wartime Polish high school in Tel Aviv and co-authored their memorial books.

Dr. Bussgang served as a board member of the National Polish-American, Jewish-American Council sponsored by the American Jewish Committee and a board member of the American Association for Polish-Jewish Studies. In honor of his army service and leadership in supporting Polish-Jewish relations after the war, he was awarded the Knight’s Cross of the Order of Merit of Poland in 2011 by then President Bronislaw Komorowski.

Dr. Bussgang was an active citizen during his 40 plus years residing in Lexington, Massachusetts serving in its elective Town Meeting for nearly two decades. He was chair of its Cable TV and Communications Committee and served on a number of other committees concerned with maintaining the quality of life in Lexington and fighting the expansion of the Hanscom Field airport. In later years, he and Fay moved to NewBridge on the Charles, a retirement community in Dedham, Massachusetts, where they spent 14 happy years.

Despite his voluminous professional and civic accomplishments, Dr. Bussgang will be remembered most as a proud, loving, and dedicated husband, father, and grandfather. He and his wife raised their family in Lexington:  Jessica (Thomas Rosenbloom), Julie (Rich Bernius), and Jeffrey (Lynda Doctoroff), and was a beloved grandfather to eight grandchildren: Raquel, Alana, and Michael Rosenbloom; Alex and Andrew Bernius; and Jackie (Josh Bussgang), JJ, and Jonah Bussgang. He also leaves his cherished nephew, Dr. Jacques Merab.

A funeral service will be held at Temple Beth Elohim, 10 Bethel Road, Wellesley, at 10:00 am on Tuesday, September 19, 2023. In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to American Friends of POLIN Museum or the US Holocaust Memorial Museum.

Gloria (Glazer) Bubly of Sharon, MA, loved by many friends and family passed away on September 14, 2023 at age 90 years old. Gloria was a talented artist, and had graduated from Massachusetts College of Art. She worked as an art teacher, as well as a graphic designer at Raytheon and then eventually at Bubly Associates, an environmental consulting firm.

Gloria’s parents, Alice (Chazen) and Barney Glazer, emigrated to the USA from Poland and Ukraine. Gloria was born in Boston in 1933, joining her beloved older sister Irene (Glazer) Gaffin and older brother Harold Glazer (predeceased). Her family lived in Dorchester for many years where she met her next-door neighbor Daniel Bubly, whom she married. There they had 3 children, Berylee, Gary and Ava. In 1968, the family moved to Sharon, MA, where Gloria lived until her passing.

Gloria was known to be exceptionally funny. She was always ready with her clever jokes, seizing the absurdity of the moment. She made us all laugh heartily, even in her last days. Her hand made greeting cards were legendary in the family. She would create individual and personalized cards using her favorite family photos.

Gloria was predeceased by her husband, Daniel, daughter, Ava and brother, Harold. She is survived by her older sister, Irene Gaffin, children Berylee Bubly and Dr. Gary Bubly (spouse Dr. Karen Smigel). Survived by grandchildren Alison Bubly (spouse Adam Feinstein) and Dr. Rachel Bubly (spouse Daniel Pfeffer). Survived by nieces and nephews – Harris Gaffin, Barbara Gaffin Cahn, Beverly Gaffin, Joanne Glazer, Amy Legaard, and Stephen Glazer.

She was such a loving and kind person, always considering other people’s needs over her own. It is impossible to express in writing how much Gloria was loved by us all. We do and will miss her dearly. May her memory be a blessing. 

A graveside service will be held this Monday, September 18th at 11:00 AM at Everett Jewish Cemetaries, located at 232 Fuller Street, Everett, MA 02149. Shiva will be held on Monday, September 18th from 2:00 – 5:00 PM and 7:00 – 9:00 PM at 107 Main Street, Somerset, MA, 02726. Shiva will continue on Tuesday, September 19th and Wednesday, September 20th from 2:00 – 4:00 PM and 7:00 – 9:00 PM at 130 Oakdale Rd, Newton Highland, MA, 02461.

Roazen, Rhea (Marks), of Needham, formerly Weston, Newton & Lawrence, peacefully surrounded by family on September 14, 2023. Beloved wife of Charles Roazen. Loving mother of Mark (Claudia) Roazen, and Diane Roazen. Cherished grandmother of David (Lia) Roazen, Sarah (Colin) Holland, and Todd Roazen. Proud great-grandmother of Charlie & Madeline Holland. Dearest aunt, cousin and friend to many. Services at the Chapel at Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA, with burial to follow on Monday, September 18, 2023 at 10:00 am. Shiva following interment at the home of Diane Roazen until 6:00 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations in Rhea’s memory may be made to Hospice House Lincoln, c/o Care Dimensions Hospice, 75 Sylvan St., Suite B-102, Danvers, MA, 01923 (www.CareDimensions.org/giving) or Shriner’s Hospitals for Children, Boston,51 Blossom St., Boston, MA 02114.

Carol H. Whitehorn (Sander), of Newton, MA, quilter, jogger, Spelling Bee whiz, and caring friend, passed away September 8, 2023. Beloved wife of Joseph Whitehorn. Devoted mother of Elizabeth Whitehorn and her husband Matt Reilein, and Stephanie Whitehorn and her husband Rabbi Josh Franklin. Proud “Gam” to Lilah, Bea, Charlie and Amelia. Loving sister of the late Fred Sander (wife Joelle Sander). Aunt of Stephen and Jason Sander.

Carol grew up in Cincinnati, OH, the daughter of Holocaust survivors. Carol was a people person who loved talking with old friends as much as she did making new ones. Known for her beautifully creative quilting skills, she brought happiness to so many friends and family through the hundreds of quilts she made for them over the years. Carol was a voracious reader, a follower of politics, and loved crime shows and British dramas. She and Joe spent many summer vacations on Cape Cod and Martha’s Vineyard, winter breaks in Steamboat, CO, where Carol loved to snowshoe, and hiking trips all over the United States and Europe. She loved traveling to visit her daughters in Chicago and New York. For the last eight years, she relished her role as Gam to her four grandchildren. She fought cancer with bravery and dignity.

Services will be held at Temple Beth Elohim, 10 Bethel Rd., Wellesley, MA on Monday, September 11 at 2:00 pm. A link to view the livestream can be found here. Shiva will be held on Monday 4:30-7pm and Tuesday 5:00-7:00pm at the Whitehorn residence.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Carol’s memory may be made to the Newton Schools Foundation (P.O. Box 590020, Newton, MA 02459 or online) or Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center (Beth Israel Lahey Health, BIDMC, Office of Philanthropy, 5529 Main St., 4^th Floor, Charlestown, MA 02129 or online).

James Robert Giesser, age 64, of Boston, MA, died peacefully, surrounded by family, on September 7, 2023. Son of the late Richard Giesser and R. Constance (Silverman) Giesser. Loving brother of Eric Giesser (wife Janet Giesser) and John Giesser (wife Erin Coyle Giesser). Cherished uncle of nieces Ella and Hadley and nephews Ben, Aidan and Neil.

Jim overcame a childhood injury to have rich experiences and share love and laughter with family and friends. With strength and courage, Jim fought through challenges and lived his best life. A graduate of Buckingham Brown and Nichols and Dartmouth College, Jim performed in school musicals, spoke Russian, read and debated literature, traveled, played guitar, skied, and ran cross country. He was a Boy Scout and a Deadhead. He was an outdoor enthusiast who hiked the White Mountains and Yosemite’s Half Dome. Most of all, he had a wonderful smile and sense of humor. Jim’s family and friends will hear the echoes of his laughter always.

The family is forever grateful to Jim’s angel, Doreen Bentley, and the loving team on 4Burger.

Graveside services will be private. The family will be receiving friends at the home of Eric and Janet Giesser on Sunday, September 10 from 1:00-3:00 pm and 5:00-7:00 pm.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jim’s memory may be made to Hebrew SeniorLife (hebrewseniorlife.org/TributeGift), where an extraordinary team protected, and occasionally danced with, Jim.

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Kenneth S. Alpert, 67, suddenly on September 5, 2023. Beloved brother of Nancy Alpert (Gwen Marcus) and son of the late Judy and Marty Alpert. Dear nephew, cousin, friend and colleague to many. Ken had a 40-year career at Springwell and was named Mass. Case Manager of the Year in 2019 by the Home Care Aide Council.  Ken often said that Springwell was like family to him and loved working there. Ken’s tremendous knowledge of sports won him many radio trivia contests.  He was a devoted Red Sox fan and a fixture at Fenway Park. He loved summers when he would head to beaches and lakes, and dining out with his friends who enjoyed his quirky sense of humor.  Private graveside service will be held on Tuesday, September 12, 2023 at 11 am. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Springwell, Inc. 307 Waverly Oaks Rd., Ste 205, Waltham, MA 02452 or Congregation Mishkan Tefila,  384 Harvard St., Brookline, MA 02446.

Spencer Denker, 67, of Framingham, MA, passed away on September 3, 2023. Cherished son of the late Hershel and Shirley (Rosen) Denker. Devoted and beloved brother of Carol and her husband Glen Schneider, Nancy Denker, and Cliff Denker and his wife Jill. Proud uncle of Hailey, Elyssa, Marisa, Julia and Rachel, and nephew of Larry Rosen.

He received wonderful love and care over the last many years at Eaton Road West in Framingham, a Venture Community Services Group Home. The staff went above and beyond in their support. At his day program, Advocates, his week was filled with activities and challenges including volunteering in the Meals on Wheels program. Through Advocates, he most recently worked at Burtons Grill in Framingham, and took much pride in earning a paycheck.

Spencer was one of those rare people who touched lives wherever he went. He evoked love, and those in his universe were enriched by his presence and were uplifted for having known him. Despite his many struggles, he remained cheerful, selfless and helpful, always interested in those around him.

Spencer loved music and could name and sing decades of hits from Broadway to Big Bands to rock and folk music going back to the 60s. His memory was extraordinary including names, faces and events. His presence always made people smile, and he was happily recognized wherever he went. 

Another special part of Spencer’s life was going on “Drew’s Trips,” which provided wonderful travel and entertainment experiences. He also loved going to Martha’s Vineyard and New Hampshire on vacations with his family.

Spencer’s parents and siblings always encouraged his independence and growth. As a result, he far exceeded all professional expectations. In fact, he even earned a High School diploma at Keefe Tech in Framingham, and had a Bar Mitvah at Temple Beth Am. He has never stopped learning and maturing. We are all so proud of him. Given all of his medical challenges, we feel so grateful for the 67 years we had with him.

The world is a better place because of his life. He will be sorely missed.

Graveside Services at Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA on Thursday, September 7, 2023 at 2:45 pm.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Spencer’s memory may be made to the organizations that have taken such good care of Spencer.

Venture Community Services:1 Picker Rd. Sturbridge MA 01566  https://venturecs.org

Advocates: 1881 Worcester Rd Framingham MA 01701 https://advocates.org/

David Mover-Of Houston, TX, Sept 1, 2023.Beloved son of The Late Ruth and George Mover. Private Graveside services were held on Wednesday, Sept. 6, 2023,  at Grove St., West Roxbury.

Cynthia A. Malkin, formerly of Stuart, FL and Sharon, MA, passed away on September 3, 2023 at the age of 83. Born October 26, 1939 in Boston, she was the youngest daughter of the late Edward and Muriel (Sherman) Malkin and sister of the late Marilyn Ohriner.  She grew up in Newton, but spent most of her life raising her family with her late ex-husband Paul B. Waitze in Sharon, MA. She is survived by her 3 children and their spouses, Linda (Waitze) and Chris Callan, Jeff and Liz Waitze, and Deanne (Waitze) and Sean O’Sullivan and 8 grandchildren:    Emily and Matthew Callan, Brady and Melanie Waitze, Caitlin, Sarah, Aidan and Grace O’Sullivan.  

Cynthia had many roles besides being a loving wife, mother and grand-mother.  She was a nursery school teacher turned Function Manager turned Real Estate Agent.  She spent 20 years in the Port St. Lucie Area selling homes, spending times with friends and pursuing a passion of tennis and golf!

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a service on Wednesday, September 6, 2023 at 1:00pm at the Chapel at Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham Street, Sharon, with burial to follow at Sharon Memorial Park.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Cynthia’s name may be made to Rhode Home Rescue, Warwick, RI.

Dr. J. Myron (Mike) Rosen, 91, of Boca Raton, Florida, formerly of Marblehead, Massachusetts.

Julius Myron (Mike) Rosen, beloved husband of the late Barbara (Bobbi) Blinderman for over 47 years and life partner of Barbara Kane for over 15 years, passed away in his ninety-first year on August 31, 2023. Loving father of Henry (Vanessa) Rosen, Beth (Gregory) Apke and Jonathan (Allison) Rosen. Doting and devoted “Papa” of Zachary, Brooke, Atalia and Benjamin Rosen.

Mike was born on December 28, 1931 to Henry and Annie (Miller) Rosen of Brookline, where he was raised in a close-knit family along with his elder sister and two younger brothers. He graduated from the Edward Devotion School and Brookline High School. Thereafter, he received a Bachelor of Science from Tufts University, School of  Arts and Sciences (1953). Mike earned his DMD degree from Tufts University, School of Dental Medicine (1956). Mike continued his post-graduate dental work at the University of Pennsylvania, where he received a degree specializing in Oral Maxillofacial Surgery (1957).

After completing his education, Mike joined his father’s dental practice in Boston. Following his father’s untimely death in 1959, Mike ran the practice and became his family’s patriarch, providing whatever support was necessary for his mother and siblings.

While practicing dentistry in Boston, Mike fell in love and, in 1959, married Bobbi to whom he devoted the majority of his life.

In 1963, Mike and Bobbi moved to Marblehead, where he continued to live a life full of purpose. In nearby Salem, he started a new practice, which, under his leadership, grew into a nationally recognized oral surgery center with multiple offices in the North Shore. Attracting providers and patients from across the country, Mike’s practice relied on state-of-the-art laser technology to dramatically improve patient outcomes.

Mike’s passion for outstanding patient care was unbounded. He was frequently called into Salem Hospital for emergency surgery at all hours of the night. Mike also co-developed the first medical office condominium building in the North Shore, providing more efficient and accessible healthcare to its patients.

Throughout his life, Mike felt a strong connection with the Jewish Community. From 1972-74, Mike served as President of the Jewish Federation of the North Shore, where he selflessly devoted himself to the needs of the people of Israel and to reinforcing the quality of Jewish life on the North Shore. At both the grass roots and national levels, Mike was a strong advocate for justice and security for the Jewish people, including the emancipation of Soviet Jewry, the promotion of economic development in Israel and the safeguarding of strong bilateral relations between Israel and the United States. He frequently traveled to Israel on behalf of the Jewish Federation. One of Mike’s most prized possessions was his lifetime achievement award from the Jewish Federation for extraordinary leadership and contributions to Jewish life.

Among Mike’s other interests, he supported and loved the Boston Symphony Orchestra. In middle age, Mike became an accomplished long-distance runner and twice ran the Boston Marathon. He was an avid Boston sports fan who happily led his wife and children, often in snowy weather, to watch the then woeful New England Patriots. He taught his children to appreciate Fenway Park and to become die-hard Red Sox fans. He loved to travel and trekked across the world with his wife until her premature death in 2001.

In his retirement years, he met his second love, Barbara Kane, with whom he lived in Boston’s Back Bay. With his new life partner, Mike resumed his global travels and enjoyment of Boston’s vibrant culture. He joyfully became “Papa Mike” to Barbara Kane’s grandchildren.

More than a doctor, community leader and entrepreneur, Mike was a family patriarch who spent his life creating a beautiful path paved in love, faith, education and security for his family. Nothing mattered more to Mike than the happiness and safety of his family.

Graveside services will be held at Lindwood Memorial Park, 490 North St., Randolph, MA on September 3, 2023 at 11:00am. In lieu of flowers, donations in Mike’s memory may be made to the Combined Jewish Philanthropies, 126 High Street, Boston, MA. Shiva observances will occur in the homes of Mike’s children.

Of Ft Lauderdale, FL and Weston, MA, 96 yrs, August 29, 2023. Beloved wife
for 73 years of the late Buddy Lank. Daughter of the late Hilal and Blanche
Kaplan. Loving mother of Sunny Gustin (Sam), Linda Chanowski (Fred), Johnny Lank (Patty). Adoring grandmother of Harley Lank (Audra), Nikki Bialow (Corey), Jeremy Gustin (Rebecca), Blake Chanowski, David Lank (Laura), Ross Chanowski, Evan Lank (Amanda). Cherished great grandmother of Madison, Tessa, Tanner, Beau, Ava, Jenna, Jake, and Noa.

Worked side by side for decades with her husband in the real estate industry. Dedicated philanthropist, trustee and board member of many hospitals and institutions.

Althea was known for her sparkling personality, unlimited zest for life and
her wide circle of loyal friends. She led an amazing life of 96 years because she
made it that way.

Funeral services will be at Temple Reyim, 1860 Washington St., Newton, MA on Thursday, August 31, 2023 at 1:00 PM. Interment to follow at Sharon Memorial Park. Shiva will be held at her late residence following interment until 7:30 pm and Friday 1-5 pm. Donations in her memory to Dana Farber Cancer Institute, Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, Mass General/Brigham/Mass Eye and Ear Institution.

August 29, 2023

Lois Jean Feldstein Rosenberg, Sudbury, formerly of Philadelphia, PA, Minneapolis, MN, Wilkes-Barre, PA, and Sunbury, PA, passed away on August 29, 2023, at age 91.  Survived by her beloved husband Jerome (Jerry) of 70 years, daughter Barbra Rosenberg (Scott Kloter), son J. Richard Rosenberg (Elyse), granddaughters Doran Oatman, Melissa Pew (Corey), Tina Glidden (Dave), and Rachel Stansel (Paul); and great-grandchildren Caleb and Max Oatman, Cooper and Asher Pew, Andrew and Serafina Glidden, and Ashton and Paul Stansel.  Also survived by niece Anita Wrona and nephew Steven Wrona (Flushing, NY).

Lois was an amazing, sharp, funny, strong, loving, and generous woman.  She could be silly and acerbic, and excelled at making connections with people from all parts of her life.  Well-loved by her Feldstein family.  Passionate about reading (especially mysteries), baking (cherry pies!), clothes, shoes, and handbags, elephant sculptures, and knitting.  Her 70+ year marriage to Jerry and her children were the center of her life.  She was her true self to the end of her journey with dementia.

A private graveside service will be held on Friday, September 1^st at Beit Olam Cemetery, Wayland.  Shiva will be held on Sunday 2-4pm and Monday 2-4pm at Barbra and Scott’s house.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Lois’ memory may be made to the public library of your choice or your favorite charity.

Kaplan, Arlene (Tattlebaum), of Hingham, formerly of Randolph, MA, passed away August 26, 2023. Beloved wife of the late Sumner “Sunny” Kaplan. Devoted mother of Dr. Alan Kaplan and his wife Leslie, Steven Kaplan and Donna Kaplan. Cherished grandmother of Rachael Kaplan and her husband Gabriel Dym, Katie and her husband Kevin Kaufman, Spencer, and his wife Alexa Kaplan, Kory Kaplan, Andrew Kaplan and Abbie Hotaling. Proud great grandmother of Eli, Jack and Lucy Dym; Aria and Zoey Kaufman, and Giselle and Lexi Kaplan. Loving sister of Bernice “Cookie” Kohn and the late Paula Wolf and Gerald Tattlebaum.  In addition to her devotion to her family, she was ahead of her time in the 50’s . She raised a family and worked full time . As she continued to work, she actively served for years in the Women s auxiliary of the Jewish War Veterans including her position as the National President. Services at Temple Sinai, 25 Canton St., Sharon, MA on Wednesday, August 30, 2023 at 11:00 am. Following interment at Sharon Memorial Park, Memorial observance will be at the home of Leslie and Alan Kaplan until 4pm, and 7-9 pm and then continuing Thursday 7-9 pm In lieu of flowers, donations in Arlene’s memory may be made to Dana Farber or Jewish War Veterans

of Belmont MA, passed away on Friday, August 25, 2023.  She is survived by her two sisters, Rhoda Aaron and Myra Miller.  Also survived by her nieces, Rebecca Nichols, Elianna Miller, Lora Sharma and Nadine Miller and nephew Daniel Aaron.

Even though Marcia did not have children of her own, she was totally devoted and involved with her nieces and nephew and sisters.  She was the fun aunt. She was funny, kind and had a wonderful sense of humor.   All of her friends can attest to that.  Animals loved her, she connected to every pet in our households.

She worked for the Social Security Administration in Cambridge and Boston and for the government, Workers Comp Long Shore as Director of the North East Division.  Since retiring she has helped her sister with her business.

She will be forever missed, loved and cherished.

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to Save a Dog, 604 Boston Post Road, Sudbury 01776 or the Animal Rescue League of Boston, 10 Chandler St, Boston, MA 02116

Elise Alloy-Relihan, of Norton, Massachusetts, died Friday, Aug. 25, after a brief series of difficult illnesses. She was a few days shy of her 68th birthday. Rabbi Jonathan Brumberg-Kraus, a long-time family friend, officiated at a chapel service and interment at Sharon Memorial Park the following Tuesday, Aug. 29, which were attended by a loving community of family and friends.

Elise was born in Peoria, Illinois to Louise (Hand) Alloy and Justice Jay J Alloy, the chief justice of the third district appellate court. A reader by passion and a lawyer by training, Elise received her B.A. in English with Honors from the University of Illinois in Urbana-Champaign in 1978 and her J.D. from the University of Wisconsin-Madison in 1981. She and her husband, Joel Relihan, met as undergraduates, studied together at Madison, and married in 1983 as Joel finished his Ph.D. in Classics. Their first two years were spent in West Peoria; their next eight were in Urbana, their alma mater, where Joel was in the Classics Department; when he took his teaching position at Wheaton College they moved from Urbana to Norton in 1993 with their two daughters, Clare and Grace, to whom Elise was passionately devoted.

Elise was possessed of an extraordinary loving-kindness. All who met her were struck by her warm heart, her bright smile, the embrace of her friendliness, and the wit of her conversation. Though not gregarious, she was social, kind and welcoming, bringing into her life and under her wing many who were proud to be her honorary children: Talitha, Liz, Agnes, Erin, Sam, Pierre, Jason. She enjoyed being the hostess of the large holiday parties that her guests eagerly anticipated. She was content. She often said that she was lucky that after her life’s twists and turns she ended up in New England and in Massachusetts. She liked the life she led, she liked the house she lived in, and she loved the people she shared it with.

She is survived by her husband, Joel; by her daughter Clare Alloy and son-in-law Sam Alloy, of North Attleborough, Massachusetts; by her daughter Grace Alloy-Relihan, of Pownal, Maine; and by her brother, Stephen Alloy, of Omaha, Nebraska.

Her dying was painful, her death was a shock, and her loss is keenly felt. In Elise’s memory, all are invited to pause a moment to contemplate how fortunate they are to be alive.

Thelma (Cooper) Shuman of Coral Springs Florida, formerly of Newton,passed away on August 24, at 99 .

Devoted wife and best friend of the late Irving Shuman. Loving mother of Carol (Roger) Marks and the late Ellen Altshuler(Louis).Loving grandmother to Gabriel Marks and Randy Altshuler.

Thelma loved and admired her late parents Herbert and Rose (Furhman)Cooper and her siblings Lorraine Tobin, David Cooper and Howard Cooper and their spouses who all predeceased her.

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Wernick, Lee Barron of Portland, ME, formerly of Sharon, MA, passed away August 22, 2023. Beloved husband of the late Joan (Levy) Wernick. Devoted father of Naomi Wernick and her husband Ken Pfaffmann. Proud grandfather of Jonah Wernick. Loving brother of Howard and Stanley Wernick. Funeral service at Temple Israel, 477 Longwood Ave., Boston, MA on Friday, August 25, 2023 at 11 am.  Details of memorial observances to be announced at the funeral. In lieu of flowers, donations in Lee’s memory may be made to The Nature Conservancy of Maine, ATTN: Treasury, 4245 N. Fairfax Dr., #100, Arlington, VA 22203, Donate Now to Protect Nature | The Nature Conservancy

Lilyia Smolyar- Of Brookline, on August 21,2023. Beloved wife of the late Benjamin, devoted mother of Boris Smoylar and his wife Olga. Cherished grandmother of  Hannah and Sarah. Private graveside services were held on August 24, 2023.

Arnie Slavet lived a full life and was passionately dedicated to his family, faith, friends, community, and clients. He was born in Boston on March 12, 1933 to Sam and Esther Slavet, his beloved parents who fled persecution in Ukraine and immigrated to the U.S. in the 1920s. Sam was a master plumber and Esther kept the books and helped manage the business. Arnie spent his early years in Mattapan, and was a graduate of Boston Latin School. He was one of the first in his family to attend college, graduating from Harvard in 1954, and from the Boston University School of Law in 1957. Arnie ran for the Massachusetts State Senate in 1958 with the rallying cry “You’ll Have it with Slavet”, which his parents broadcast by megaphone throughout the neighborhood; he was runner-up to the entrenched incumbent.

During his 55-year legal career he faithfully advised countless organizations and individuals. Arnie was tirelessly conscientious and prided himself on serving his clients with integrity. Before the advent of laptops and smartphones, he was the undeclared master of the sticky-note. He started out at Ritvo, Gordon, Rosenberg, served as a partner at Lapin, Rosen, Goldberg, Slavet, Levinson & Wekstein, and then led his own practice at Arnold L. Slavet Estate Planning, P.C. Arnie was a Founding Member of the National Network of Estate Planning Attorneys, and served on the Legal Advisory Board for the American Business Association. He was also a contributing author of The Living Trust Workbook (Viking Penguin, 1994). Arnie’s support of his community led him to Chair the Executive Board of the Boston Philharmonic Orchestra, and serve on the boards of the Cambridge Biomedical Laboratory and the Vilna Shul. In 1980 he was of counsel for the 249 A Street Cooperative Corporation, the first limited equity artists-owned building in the United States.

He was a member of Temple Beth Elohim in Wellesley, and of the Vilna Shul in the West End of Beacon Hill, and his unapologetic, aspiring cantor voice could often be heard above the crowd. His lifelong commitment to Judaism and the State of Israel made him a supporter of the New England Friends of the Israeli Defense Forces, through which he sponsored scholarships for eighteen IDF combat veterans.

Arnie was dedicated to wellness and personal development and sustained a daily meditation practice for 50 years. Arnie loved to cook for his family and touted that each dish was his “best evah”, while occasionally indulging in a half-gallon of vanilla ice cream for dessert. He celebrated his 50th birthday by running the Boston Marathon, and looked forward to gardening each Spring. A 50-year member of Pine Brook Country Club in Weston, MA, he loved to golf with friends.

He was predeceased by his twin sister Lila Hersh Yellin, his older sister Janet Bensky, and his parents Esther and Samuel Slavet. Arnie is survived by his wife Polly Slavet, his brother Gerald Slavet, his former wife Ruth Mordecai, his sons James & Jon Slavet and their wives Kaye Slavet and Dicla Slavet, his stepdaughters Jennifer Lake (husband Christopher) and Emily Rowlands (husband Charles), his niece Pamela Yellin, his caregiver Sarah Joy Balyeku, and his 9 grandchildren Maxwell Slavet, Hank Slavet, Sydney Slavet, Celia Slavet, Hazel Slavet, Theodore Slavet, Archer Wardle, Carson Lake and Ross Lake.

The funeral service will be on Thursday, August 24 at 11a ET at Temple Beth Elohim (10 Bethel Rd, Wellesley). For those who can’t join in person, the service will be accessible virtually through this link https://tbewellesley.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZAqf–urzwvGdBPAIMsjOUghiBxfvlXVTgX

Following the service at the temple, the graveside service will be held at Sharon Memorial Park (40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA). Shiva will be this Thursday 4-7p ET and Friday 11a-3p ET at the family home. Donations in memory of Arnie can be made to Temple Beth Elohim or to FIDF.

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Rita Lea Freudberg (Rosenfeld), age 94 of Newton, MA, passed away on August 19, 2023.

Beloved wife of the late Richard L. Freudberg. Devoted mother of the late Stuart (Lynn Gutter), Jeffrey (the late Suzanne Oesterreicher), and Audrey. Loving grandmother of Adam, Michael, Daniel, Rose, Jeremy, and Jake and great-grandmother of Evan, Noah, Leah, Lillian, Sloane, and Natalie. Sister of the late Samuel J. Rosenfeld.

Rita was born in Philadelphia and grew up in Washington, DC. A graduate of the University of Maryland, where she was a member of the Phi Sigma Sigma sorority, Rita started her career as a science teacher at Alice Deal Junior High School in Washington, DC. After marrying Richard in 1952, they moved to the Boston area to raise their family, eventually settling in Newton. Rita and Richard were married for 65 years and enjoyed attending classical piano concerts together and spending time with Richard’s engineering colleagues.

Rita lived in Newton for 66 years, working in the public schools and volunteering with many local organizations. She volunteered at Warren Junior High School in the library, then went on to earn her master’s degree in library science from Simmons College and worked as a librarian at Warren and at Day Middle School. She was an original supporter of the League School in Walpole, MA. She was a longtime member of Temple Reyim, and a dedicated volunteer with the Temple Reyim sisterhood. She also volunteered at the Newton Free Library and the Auburndale Community Library, and served as a poll worker for the Newton elections for many years. She enjoyed watching musicals and films and was a supporter and regular attendee of the Boston Jewish Film Festival.

She was a devoted mother, grandma, and great-grandma, attending many school events and sports games, and always celebrating birthdays and accomplishments. She loved eating ice cream (especially coffee ice cream), collecting bird tiles, and doing puzzles.

Graveside service at Lindwood Memorial Park in Randolph, MA on Wednesday, August 23 at 11 am. Shiva at her late residence in Newton on Wednesday from 6-8pm and Thursday from 4-7pm. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to the Auburndale Community Library (375 Auburn Street, Newton, MA 02466; auburndalelibrary.org), Temple Reyim (1860 Washington Street, Newton, MA 02466; reyim.org), or Good Shepherd Community Care in support of the Miriam Boyd Parlin Hospice Residence (160 Wells Avenue, Newton, MA 02459; gscommunitycare.org).

Mary Jane Flower-Of Wayland, on August 18, 2023.Beloved wife of the late David Flower Jr. Mary had served as a Regional Director of The Raytheon Corporation. She was a member of Temple Beth Am in Randolph and a longtime supporter of the Mass General Hospital. Private graveside services were held at Sharon Memorial Park on Monday, August 21, 2023.

After having courageously fought brain and lung cancer for the past three months, we are ever so sad to announce the passing of Carolyn Wexler Rosen of Needham, Massachusetts on Friday August 18, 2023.  Carolyn was born February 10, 1942, the daughter of Murray and Gussie Wexler in Exeter, New Hampshire, but she lived most of her life with her loving husband of 48 years, George, in Newton, Massachusetts. She is also survived by her son Peter, stepchildren Jeffrey, Phillip and Patricia, her five grandchildren, Joseph, James, Keren, Sarah and Joshua, her sister Shirley Barkin and her nephews Peter, Samuel and James Barkin. Carolyn was beloved by family and friends who knew her to be generous, kind, and compassionate – always ready to help and to serve.  She spent many years teaching school and volunteering at the Dana Farber Cancer Hospital.  Described by some as a “force of nature” she fiercely loved her husband George, her son, her three stepchildren, and all of her grandchildren, and she will forever be missed.

Donations in Carolyn’s memory may be made to Friends of Dana Farber, Boston, MA

https://www.dana-farber.org/how-you-can-help/get-involved/friends-of-dana-farber-cancer-institute/donate-to-the-friends/

Jack Kasten passed away at NewBridge on the Charles in Dedham on August 16, 2023 in his 96^th year.

Jack was born on December 17, 1927 to Sam and Nina Kasten in Harlem, NY. He graduated from Stuyvesant High School at the age of 16, matriculated at Michigan State University, and remained a Spartan fan to his dying day. He received his MPH from the University of Michigan and served in the Korean War as a health officer, beginning his distinguished career in hospital administration and public health.  Jack served as Associate Director of the Beth Israel Hospital in Boston from 1965-1975 and led the healthcare consulting practice at Arthur D. Little for the next twenty-five years.  Among his other contributions, Jack served as President of the American Public Health Association, was a commissioner on the Massachusetts Group Insurance Commission, and in retirement served on the Board of Directors of the HSC Foundation in Washington, D.C.  Health care delivery systems changed radically during the course of his lifetime, but Jack’s leadership and wise counsel remained an anchor that generations of people working in the field relied upon and returned to, again and again.

Jack married Shirley Winograd in 1958, and they built their life and family together. Jack and Shirley loved to travel, and they also loved to entertain at their homes in Newton and on Lake Winnipesaukee. Jack waterskied until he turned 80, and when he was driving the boat, everyone learned to ski (like it or not).

Teaching was Jack’s passion. He served on the faculty of Harvard School of Public Health for decades. He loved meeting with students and young professionals, and especially loved giving them advice about their studies and careers.

The people Jack learned from, worked with, and mentored became his most cherished and loyal friends.

Jack is survived by his children, Nancy (David Stern), Steven (Susan), and Michael; and his grandchildren, Jacob Stern, Josh Kasten, Nina Stern, Sam Kasten, David Kasten, Maddie Kasten, and Lili Stern.

After Shirley, a nurse, died in 2009, Jack chose to honor her by creating and endowing a fund to perpetuate their shared commitment to improving health care through education and training of caregivers. In lieu of flowers, gifts may be made in memory of Jack Kasten M.P.H to Hebrew SeniorLife, Development Department, 1200 Centre Street, Boston, MA 02131 or via //hebrewseniorlife.org/TributeGift to support the Shirley Kasten Nursing Leadership Endowment Fund.

Funeral services will be held at 2 p.m. on Sunday, August 20, 2023 at the Independent Pride of Boston Cemetery, 776 Baker Street, West Roxbury, MA.

Following the funeral the family will receive visitors at Great Meadow Hall, NewBridge on the Charles, 5000 Great Meadow Road. A minyan memorial service will be held at 5:30 p.m.

Evelyn Betty Botkin, 83, died on August 16, 2023 in Dedham, MA. She was the matriarch of the Botkin clan and will be greatly missed.

Born in 1940, Evelyn was raised in the Bronx, NY by her parents, Phil and Ruth Myers. Evelyn graduated from Bronx High School of Science (class of 1957) and Brandeis University (class of 1961). She received a PhD in Clinical Psychology from Yeshiva University and practiced clinical and health psychology in Huntington, NY, for many years.

Evelyn met the love of her life, Eli Botkin, at an evening sculpture class at NYU in 1964. Despite their 15-year age difference, they fell in love and married in 1966. She became the stepmother of Dianne and Brad, then gave birth to Naomi and Josh. In addition to her four children, she had seven grandchildren and four great-grandchildren. Evelyn lost her Eli in 2020 but regularly updated him about the family’s events and accomplishments.

A longtime member of Kehillath Shalom (KS) Synagogue in Cold Spring Harbor, NY, Evelyn was honored by the Jewish Reconstructionist Federation for her contributions to the Jewish community. She served as chair of the Education, Ritual, Long Range Planning, and Social Action committees at KS. She created and led contemplative Shabbat services at KS for several years. She organized interfaith activities with members of the Jewish, Christian, Muslim and other faith communities on Long Island. She was also a board member of the Huntington Coalition for the Homeless and a founding member and chair of the Suffolk County Interagency Coordinating Committee (SCIACC), which worked to implement needed services for mental health clients in the area. As her activities demonstrate, Evelyn was deeply committed to the Jewish concept of tikkun olam, repairing the world.

Evelyn was a prodigious reader, primarily of books related to Judaism and Buddhism. She described herself as, “a Jewish woman who has learned a great deal from Buddhism, practices Buddhist (Vipassana) meditation, and is inspired by both traditions to be engaged in trying to make the world a better place.” She said, “While I am basically Jewish and my values derive from Judaism, the skillful means for training my mind and the wonderful life lessons/philosophy of Buddhist teachings have been life changing gifts for which I am profoundly grateful.”

Evelyn spent the last nine years of her life as a resident of NewBridge on the Charles in Dedham, MA, where she continued her involvement in social action activities. At the time of her death, she was helping to plan another interfaith dinner – the latest in a series she had helped create and lead over the past decade.

By gracefully accepting her declining health and constantly expressing gratitude for her life and those around her, Evelyn served as a role model for her family and friends.

Evelyn is survived by her children (Dianne Lior, Bradley Botkin, Naomi Botkin, Joshua Botkin); her daughters-in-law (Renee Robins, Deborah Meizlish); her son-in-law (Joshua Gordon); her grandchildren (Dotan, Atar, Elijah, Noah, Jonah, Susannah, Benjamin); and her great-grandchildren (Anya, Esme, Ari, Kai). She was predeceased by Eli, her husband of 54 years.

Funeral service will be held Sunday, August 20, 2023 at Congregation Or Atid, 97 Concord Rd., Wayland, MA at 11AM. Burial to follow at Beit Olam East. Those who wish to honor Evelyn may make a donation to her favorite charity, American Jewish World Service, or any organization that promotes social justice.

Charles Sidney Lipson, 90, of Dedham, passed away peacefully at home on August 16, 2023.

Charles was born on June 7, 1933 to Esther and Harry Lipson in Boston. After Charles graduated from Boston Latin School in 1950, he went on to Harvard College, graduating in 1954, and then received his MD from Harvard Medical School in 1958. He performed his residency at Beth Israel Hospital.

Charles was married to Ellen Blotner Lipson for 64 years. They had 5 children, Robert, Caroline, Peter, David and Abigail.

Charles was in general surgery private practice for 17 years at Newton Wellesley Hospital from 1963–1980. He then combined his interests in medicine and entrepreneurship by founding Metromedic in New Bedford, a walk-in medical center performing urgent care, from 1980–2001. He sold Metromedic and continued to work there as a doctor until 2004 when he retired.

At Harvard College Charles played trumpet in the band and rode intramural crew. He was a Commander in the Medical Corps of the United States Naval Reserve and served in Vietnam in 1968 on the air craft carrier USS Bonhomme Richard. Back at home, he was involved locally throughout his life as President of the Oak Hill Park Association, Chairman of the Boston Chapter of the American Jewish Committee in 1975, charter member of the Harvard Band Foundation where he served for many years on its finance committee, and President of his condo association in Sarasota for several years. In 1975 Charles had one of the first patents on inflatable boots to prevent phlebitis in hospitals. He was co-founder and Medical Director of the EMT and Paramedic Departments at Northeastern University where he also taught for 30 years. He served 27 years at Harvard Stadium as a doctor providing first aid and life-saving care to football fans.

He is survived by his children Robert Lipson, Peter Lipson, David Lipson and Abigail Lipson, son-in-law Stephen Kaufer and his wife Lisa Howe, daughter-in-law Felicia Lipson, son-in-law Hap Hollibaugh, grandchildren Harry Kaufer, Celia Kaufer, Isaac Kaufer, Aaron Kaufer, Sophie Lipson, Gregory Lipson, Jennifer Howe, Hillary Kara, Thomas Howe and Catherine Howe. He is predeceased by his wife Ellen Blotner Lipson and daughter Caroline Lipson Kaufer.

Services will be held at Temple Beth Avodah on Sunday, August 20 at 10:00am. Shiva will be Monday, August 21 at 1:00-4:00pm and 5:00-8:00pm at NewBridge on the Charles. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the Harvard Band Foundation, an organization Charles co-founded and loved.

Louis Fisher, 75, of Boyton Beach, FL, formerly of Boston, Massachusetts, passed away peacefully on August 15, 2023 surrounded by his loving family.

Louis is survived by his beloved Marsha, his children, Sydnie Lovell and her husband Mark of Easton and Sara Fisher of Boston; his adored granddaughters Mia and Aurora, his sister-in-law Sheryl and several nieces and nephews.

Louis’ career with the Drug Enforcement Administration spanned decades in various capacities in Washington, D.C., Boston, Fort Lauderdale and Hartford. He was one of the first diversion investigators hired for the program in 1972 and continued his work until retiring 20 years ago. Louis also had a passion for tennis and spent years umpiring countless games at a variety of levels of play around the country.  He was also an avid collector and maintained an impressive collection of fountain pens, stamps and unique Coca Cola paraphernalia.

Services will be held graveside at Sharon Memorial Park on Friday, August 18,  2023 at 12:45 pm. Shiva will take place at the home of Sydnie and Mark Lovell on Friday, August 18, 2023 following interment and Sunday, August 20, 2023, 2:00- 4:00 pm and 6:00-8:00 pm. In lieu of flowers donations in his memory may be made to ALS, 200 Friberg Parkway, #1000, Westborough, MA 01581.

Barbara Sue Rabinovitz, of Brookline, died on Sunday, August 13, 2023. She had reached her 80^th year.

Born in Boston on March, 31 1944, she was the dear daughter of the late Ethel (Dollman) and Leo Rabinovitz and the devoted sister of the late Kenneth Rabinovitz. The family had a home in South Brookline for nearly 50 years, and Barbara was a graduate of the town’s schools. She went on to earn a bachelor’s degree in English from New York University, a master’s degree in journalism from Boston University, and a master’s degree in public administration from Harvard University’s Kennedy School of Government.

Her life’s work was as a print journalist. For more than 40 years, while living in downtown Boston and enjoying all that it offered to its residents, Barbara served as a reporter and/or editor at four Boston-based newspapers: the Boston Herald American, Banker & Tradesman, Massachusetts Lawyers Weekly, and The Jewish Advocate. The grace note to her career in newspapers was as copy editor for The Hull Times, in a place she treasured as a summertime destination from her childhood.

A couple of years ago Barbara returned to Brookline and shared her journalistic skill with The Brookline Beacon, a monthly publication of the Council on Aging. It was a return to a town that truly felt like home.

She leaves good friends, colleagues, classmates in lifelong learning, and caregivers.

A private burial took place in Temple Emeth Memorial Park in West Roxbury, MA.

Marilyn Kudisch, of  Brookline, age 97, died August 9, 2023. Beloved wife of the late Selwyn A. Kudisch. Loving aunt of Alan Miller, Peter Levine, Susan Wein, and the late Nancy Capone and Carolyn Salk. Dear sister of the late Samuel Morrill. A graveside service was held at Temple Israel Cemetery in Wakefield.

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It breaks our hearts to announce the passing of Deborah G. Katz on Tuesday, August 8, 2023. Her service will be graveside at Beit Olam East Cemetery, in Wayland MA on Friday August 11th at 11:00am. This will be followed by a celebration of life at Copper House Tavern in Waltham, MA at 12:30pm

Deborah, or Debby, as she liked to be called, was a strong, educated woman. Debby grew up in Flatbush Brooklyn, NY where she lived with her two brothers, her parents and her grandparents. She attended Stony Brook University for her bachelors in computer science, where she met her best friend and roommate, Linda Ropollo. Debby then decided to move to New Castle, England, where she studied for her masters in computer science. She worked for 40 years as a dedicated Software Engineer.

Debby was a lover of many things, whether that be puzzles, movies or jaffa cakes. It was easy to bring an infectious smile to her face. She loved art, books, mysteries and just life itself. Truly, one of the most optimistic people you would ever meet.

Debby is succeeded by her loving husband, Glenn Gerhardt and her caring daughter, Anna Gerhardt. Her brother Harold Katz and his wife Julie Katz. Harold’s two daughters, Amadea Katz and Leah Katz, as well as their son-in-law Omar Black and granddaughter, November Black. Her brother Hyman Katz and his wife Gisele Katz. As well as Hyman’s daughter Sharon Katz and her husband Gary Chase. Hyman’s Son, Samuel Katz and his wife Julie Katz, with their two children, Miles Katz and Zoe Katz.

Debby had a fantastic friendship circle, including her best friends Barbara Fox, Jim Dempsey, Heidi Dempsey, Linda Ropollo and Jackie Foster. As well as a  fellow group of friends she dubbed the Mitre club, whom she would meet with every few weeks for dinner and chit-chat.

Debby was loved by many and now will be missed by many. Her energy and love continue to surround everyone who had the amazing opportunity to get to know her.

Our dear mother Beverly Sandra Bor (Cogan) passed away peacefully in her sleep on Sunday, August 6, 2023 at the age of 77. She was a wonderful mother who we loved very much. She also had many friends and was a well respected member of the Glennwood Grove community in Wellesley, Mass. She is survived by her sister Carolyn. Her sons Adam & Eric, daughter in-law Melanie, grandson Xander, and nieces Bonnie and Mindy.

Beverly was a graduate of Tufts University in Occupational Therapy. She specialized in sensory integration and acquired skills in cognitive development. She was very adept at helping children to overcome learning disabilities; including her son, Adam, who benefited greatly when she fought for him to have more time on exams starting in the 4th grade. She worked at the Joseph P. Kennedy Children’s Hospital in Boston helping children for several years.

Our mother had a strong personality; she was a strong self-advocate and always knew what she wanted. Many friends and family reached out with kind words and condolences along with memories of our mother that we would like to contribute to her obituary.

Mom’s friend Cindy shared: “I loved when she had something to say. She would take her time to give the whole back story before she would ask questions or for any input from others. Then others in our Parkinsons support group would suggest doctors she should see, or resources available to her and usually she was already 2 steps ahead of us, and had already seen the top doctors.  She was more connected than most and very resourceful. She had a lot of life experience. I loved how direct she was and how she said what needed to be said. She was very proud of her boys, and her family. I will miss her friendship. It’s good to know she died in peace.”

Mom’s friend, Marsha, met Beverly at Beth Israel Hospital with whom she shared a hospital room while they were both in labor. Beverly’s first son, Adam and Marsha’s daughter Laurie, were born just hours apart and ultimately grew up together. Marsha shared, “I will sadly miss my dear friend Beverly. She was sincere, straightforward, intelligent, and a deeply caring friend. She will be missed.” At the end Marsha was reading to mom over the phone.

Don Cogan in CA shared: “I’m thankful to have been Bev’s cousin and will miss her a lot. Being in different parts of the country in recent years we hadn’t been able to visit with each other as often as we did growing up. I’m so glad we saw each other this past year when Cheryl and I were in New England. Rest in peace, Bev.” Mom always had kind words to say about her cousin.

Mom’s friend, Chris (Weston Garden Club) shared: “I was grateful to be able to share some time with her during her final days, and I hope it brought some comfort to her. I will miss her friendship and passion for gardening.

From Adam/ Eric/ Carolyn: “Mom had a good heart, she always tried to help others when she could. She was very artistic and loved going to Museums and Antique shopping. She loved flowers and gardening; we had the most beautiful rock garden on Joyce Rd in Wayland and neighbors always came by to see the new lilies and other flowers we helped mom plant. She was also an amazing cook. When we were growing up, I remember cooking every possible recipe with her, especially Chinese food, and she instilled a true love of food and cooking in me (Adam). She was trained by Madeline Kamman French Cuisine School, in Newton, MA. “

Adam’s High School friend, Sarah shared: “I have so many fond memories of basket weaving with your mom at summer camp. She was very talented in an enormous variety of crafts, like stamping, basket weaving, candle making, leather making, she loved photography and taking pictures of gardens and flowers especially on her trips to Maine with friends. She pretty much taught everything that could be part of arts and crafts at camp or an after-school program in Wayland and Weston.”

Towards the end, Mom said she was very happy to have met Adam’s girlfriend, Candice, and mentioned she thought she would have liked her very much.

Candice shared: “There are no words for the legacy Beverly Bor has left on us and this family. She gave me the greatest gift, with just Adam being her son. I will forever cherish the memories I now hold close to my heart. My continued condolences on Mom’s transition, be at peace in the knowing she is now pain-free and watching over you all.”

I think most of all, our mother could not have been happier than to have spent her precious final days with her grandson, Xander (age 3), at her home in Wellesley this past April with Eric, Melanie and Adam. She was very happy to see what a handsome and pleasant boy he has become and that he is now a piece of her Legacy.

At the end, Beverly asked that friends and family donate to the Parkinsons Foundation (http://www.Parkinson.org)

so one day a cure can be found to help others and their families fight the challenges of this life-debilitating disease.

Thank you all for sharing your love and support through our Mothers’ passing, she will forever be loved and cherished.

Passionate Advocate for Civil Rights, Liberties and Freedom of Speech

Woody Kaplan of Boston, age 80, passed away on August 3rd. Following a highly successful career in commercial real estate, Woody retired from business 30 years ago and devoted himself full time to his political passions — advocating for civil liberties and civil rights, locally and nationally, supporting candidates who shared his ideals, and giving money away instead of making it. A former ACLU national board member, Woody helped establish the organization’s endowment fund in the 1990s. A lifelong atheist, who fought for everyone’s freedom of conscience, he was a founding member of the Secular Coalition for America. A lifelong free speech advocate, he was a longtime board member of Defending Rights and Dissent, a successor organization to the National Committee to Abolish HUAC (the House of UnAmerican Activities Committee). A fighter for racial justice, Woody went to Mississippi in 1962 to work on voter registration drives. Woody Kaplan was a patriot.

He is survived by his wife and life partner, writer Wendy Kaminer, who shared Woody’s passions and beliefs. He is also survived by his daughters, Abigail of Jerusalem and Emily of Los Angeles, by 11 grandchildren, and by his devoted sister, Nancy Fischman and her husband, Steve.

Anita T. Cohen-Of Newton, MA, on August 2, 2023.Beloved wife of 70 years to Kenny Cohen. Loving daughter of the late Louis and Sophie Proman. Devoted mother of Jonathan Cohen and Susan Greenglass and her husband Hugh. Cherished grandmother of Julia Greenglass. Dear sister of Rhoda Potischman and her late husband Bernie, and the late David Proman and his late wife Phyllis. Also survived by many loving nieces and nephews. Graveside services at The Polonnoe Cemetery,776 Baker St., West Roxbury, on Sunday, August 6, 2030, at 10:00 am. Following services, memorial observance will be held in the Community Room at 99 Needham St., Newton until 4:00 pm and Monday 1-4 pm. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to Beth Israel-Deaconess Hospital Cancer Center 330 Brookline Ave., Boston, MA 02215. www.BIDMC.org.

Kotzen, Lila (Levine), of Needham, MA formerly of Jamaica Plain, and Sanibel Island, FL, passed away August 1, 2023. Beloved wife of the late Herbert Kotzen. Devoted mother of Jim Kotzen of Newton, Peter Kotzen and his wife Karen of Chestnut Hill, and John Kotzen and his wife Barbara of Wellesley. Cherished grandmother of Jeffrey and his wife Elyssa Kotzen, Michael, Julie, and Robert Kotzen, Alison and her husband Andrew Gilboard, and Matthew, Colby, and Andrew Kotzen. Proud great-grandmother of Skylar and Sydney Kotzen, and Blake Gilboard. Loving sister of the late Florence Baron, and the late Edward Levine. Lila is survived by loving daughter-in-law Lauri-Jo Kotzen. Graveside service at Mishkan Tefila Memorial Park, 2605 Centre St., West Roxbury, MA on Friday, August 4, 2023 at 11 am. Following services, memorial observance will be at the home of Peter and Karen Kotzen until 5 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations in Lila’s memory may be made to North Hill, c/o The North Hill Team Member Appreciation Fund, 865 Central Ave., Needham, MA 02492. The family would like to thank Rachelle Jeancaidor and the caregivers on the 4^th floor at Pines Edge for their constant care and never-ending support.

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Larry R. Dolinsky, 88, of Hingham, Lincoln and Swampscott, MA passed away peacefully on Sunday July 30^th after a brief battle with pancreatic cancer. Larry was predeceased by his parents, Sam and Florence, as well as his beloved wife Joan (Saxe Platt) Dolinsky. He is survived by his sister Marilyn (Eddie) Siegel of Los Angeles, his sister Jane Dunn (Henry, Ric Ricardi) of NY, his children Jeri (Mark) Smoller of Needham, Donna Platt of Southborough and Eric (Pao) Platt of Kittery Point, Maine. Larry was also the beloved “Grampy” to Billy (Rachel Books) Smoller and Rachel Beth Smoller, as well as Andrew and Jason Michalik. He was blessed to also have 3 great grandchildren, Gabe, Emma and Sophie Smoller as well as numerous cousins and nieces & nephews.

Larry was a true renaissance man. He served in the Navy, including a stint at Guantanamo Bay, Cuba. He was a world traveler, highlighted by his Y2K, around the world bike trip in the year 2000, accompanied by his beloved “Joannie” where they went to 6 continents and 46 countries. Larry was a tenured professor for 5 decades at Bentley University, where he taught mathematics & operations management, and he also taught at Wentworth Institute of Technology in his early teaching career. He was a lover of the ocean and sailed the Northeast coast for many years on his beloved sloop “Bolero.” Larry was also an avid Boston sports fan, especially the Red Sox.

In addition to the surviving family, Larry cultivated lifelong friendships wherever he traveled or lived. Be it his many biking & international travels, his Bentley colleagues, Temple congregants, friends from the North Shore and Lincoln, Larry and Joan were a force of nature. When Joan and Larry moved to Linden Ponds 5 years ago, they wasted no time in forging relationships in the community there, playing bridge, taking long walks, joining book clubs and relating stories, in great detail, about his epic adventures.

He will be dearly missed by friends and family alike. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Dana Farber Cancer Institute in memory of Joan Platt Dolinsky.

Graveside service will take place Wednesday August 2, 2023 at 1:00 PM at Beit Olam East Cemetery, 44 Concord Rd., Wayland, MA.

 Shiva will follow immediately after the burial at the home of Mark and Jeri Smoller.

Leon “Lee” Sherman, 101, of Framingham, formerly of Somerville and Revere, passed away peacefully on July 26 at the remarkable age of 101 following a brief illness.

Born on July 10, 1922, Lee was the sixth of seven children of the late Pauline and Samuel Sherman. He had fond childhood memories of playing baseball and watching second baseman Sibby Sisti and the Boston Braves in the bleachers with the “Knothole Gang.” Another constant thread in his life was tennis, thanks to his older brother, Marty, who introduced him to the game. Since he had older siblings with children by the time he was a young teen, Lee became the favorite “Uncle Mashe” of his nieces and nephews. His most transformative job as a young man was working in his brother-in-law’s dental practice doing odd jobs, running errands, cleaning, and even working on patients under Joe’s watchful eye. This was the spark to a hugely successful career as a dental technician and business owner.

In 1942, Lee was drafted into the Army and served on the hospital ship USS HOPE in the Pacific where he ran the dental lab and performed medical surgeries. Further stories about his adventures in World War II are available upon request. When he was honorably discharged in 1945, Lee opened Sherman Dental Lab on Commonwealth Ave. in Boston, rapidly building the business and his reputation in the dental industry. He met and partnered with the premier dentists in the area and helped establish the Boston University Henry M. Goldman School of Dental Medicine. Throughout the years, Lee lectured at Boston area dental schools.

Lee enjoyed his life as a bachelor in the 1950s. He played tennis and squash around Boston and at singles resorts in New England. It was at one of these resorts where he met his future wife, Pearl. Lee and Pearl were married at the Hampshire House on an unusually balmy day in November 1961, and they settled in Framingham, MA to start their family. Once daughter Davida came along, he had a sidekick to teach every sport, primarily tennis, squash, and baseball, mentor, and educate on the fine art of comedy, particularly Henny Youngman jokes.

In the early 1970s, Lee partnered with two other dental professionals to establish the famously successful lab, Denthetics, which they ran for more than a decade before it was acquired by National Dentex. In the late ‘80s, Lee went back to his roots and opened a one-man lab in the basement of a dental office, which he tremendously enjoyed until his retirement at age 85.

Lee and Pearl were members of Temple Beth Am in Framingham and later Temple Israel of Natick. Lee also loved playing tennis at Sudbury River Tennis Club in Framingham and Wightman Tennis Center in Weston.

Lee is preceded in death by his beloved Pearl and his siblings Sophie Karlin, Helen Bengar, Elizabeth Weene, Martin Sherman, Harry Sherman, and Ruth Jacobson. He is survived by his daughter Davida Dinerman and son-in-law Brad; his grandchildren, Abby and Ari, to whom he was the “best Poppie ever,” and Toby “Good Boy” the goldendoodle, and many nieces and nephews.

We remember Lee as a forever youthful man. He was a storyteller with a tremendous sense of humor and a fierce love for and loyalty to his family and friends. His most favorite thing was spending time with his family, whom he adored and cherished, advised and supported until the very end. His mantra, “110%, one day at a time,” will forever be with us.

Graveside service at the Framingham-Natick Hebrew Cemetery, Fairview Ave, Natick, MA, on Friday, July 28, 2023 at 11:00 am. Shiva will begin after the burial at the home of Davida and Brad Dinerman until 4:30 p.m. Shiva will continue Sunday, July 30, 5:00 – 8:00 p.m., with minyan at 7:30 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations in Lee’s memory may be made to Boston Children’s Hospital at bostonchildrens.org/givenow or via check payable to Boston Children’s Hospital, at Boston Children’s Hospital Trust, 401 Park Drive, Suite 602, Boston, MA 02215-5301.

Alford, Harvey, of Newton, MA died July 25, 2023. Beloved husband for 56 years of the late Myrna (Oven) Alford. Devoted father of Stuart Alford and his wife Laurie, Larry Alford and his wife Jordana, and Julie Stonehill and her husband Ari. Proud grandfather of Jacob, Shira, Hannah, Noah, Arielle, Leah, and Mikayla. Loving brother of Leonard Alford, and the late Alan and Robert Alford. Brother-in-law of Eliott Oven and his wife Jenice, and Roberta Brener. Cherished son of the late Arnold and Sylvia (Engle) Alford. Dear son in law of the late Jacob and Ida Oven.

Harvey graduated from Boston College, Summa Cum Laude and was First In Class and graduated Magna Cum Laude at New England School of Law, while simultaneously working full time and helping to raise a young family. He always had an entrepreneurial spirit and prior to entering the practice of law owned and operated a restaurant, nightclub, and package store. As an attorney for almost 40 years, Harvey represented individuals, businesses, and municipal housing authorities in a variety of matters. He was awarded numerous honors by the Haitian community in Boston for his work on behalf of the community. Harvey was active in the leadership of Congregation Mishkan Tefilah and later was the Founding President of Congregation Or Yisrael.

Above all, Harvey was fiercely devoted to his family: his children and grandchildren, but most of all, the love of his life – his Myrna- with whom he built a life and travelled the world.

Funeral service at Temple Reyim, 1860 Washington St., Newton, MA, on Thursday, July 27, 2023 at 10:30 am. Following interment at Adath Jeshurun Cemetery (Grove St., West Roxbury), shiva will begin immediately following interment until 3:30 pm and resume from 6:30 to 8:30 pm at the home of Larry and Jordana Alford. Shiva will continue Friday, July 28 from 1-4:30 at the home of Julie and Ari Stonehill and on Sunday and Monday, July 30 and 31 from 6-8 pm at the home of Stuart and Laurie Alford.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Harvey’s memory may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association (https://act.alz.org) and the Chabad Center of Sudbury (https://www.chabadsudbury.com

Bernard Gitlin of Newton MA, Hyannis MA and Highland Beach, FL passed away peacefully after a short and courageous battle with Leukemia on July 22, 2023. Better known as Buddy, Bernie, Daddy and Papa, he is survived by his loving wife of 58 years, Brenda Berman Gitlin, his two daughters, Jocelyn Deutsch and Melissa Jacoby, his sons-in-law, Michael Deutsch and Joshua Jacoby and his five grandchildren, Marlee, Matthew, Talia, Max and Ryan. He is also survived by his brother-in-law, Victor Berman, his sisters and their husbands, Sam and Harry Goldberg and Leslea and Robert Harelick and nephews, David Harelick, Scott Harelick and Andrew Goldberg, their spouses and children.

Buddy was a graduate and avid supporter of Lehigh University. He served in the Coast Guard before settling in the Boston area in the early 60’s. He served on the board of Camp Allen, supporting children with disabilities and has passionately raised close to $400,000 for Dana Farber Cancer Institute over the last 22 years by riding in the Pan-Mass Challenge.

Better known as Bernie in business, he was successful in real estate and became known as the “Condo Insurance Guru”.  Working at Rodman Insurance for many years, then co-founded his own agency, Global Insurance Network in the 90’s and finally sold the business to Risk Strategies where he was still doing consulting work a few short weeks ago. 

Buddy understood what was truly most important in life, his family. Many people knew him as Buddy and no moniker suited someone’s essence better than “Buddy”, anyone who was in his presence, whether for a minute or a lifetime felt like his buddy. He and Brenda filled their lives with family, love, traveling, boating, skiing, eating and making friends everywhere.

We will miss him dearly. Funeral services will be held on Monday, July 24^th at 12 noon at Temple Beth Avodah, 45 Puddingstone Lane, Newton, MA followed by burial at Sharon Memorial Park. Donations can be made to Dana Farber Cancer Institute by supporting his Pan-Mass ride: http://profile.pmc.org/BG0063

Passed away on Thursday, July 20, 2023, Beloved Wife of Leonard Segal, Sister of Janet Gorin Goldman (Robert), Aunt of Elyssa Goldman-Hecht (David) and Michelle Goldman Ahern (Christopher). Interests: Book clubs, Friends of the Library Sharon (MA) and Friends of the Library Hudson NH, walking, reading, word games. Deena is a retiree from Digital Equipment Corp. and BWH/Partners Healthcare. Special Thank You to Dr. Jennifer Ligibel (DFCI) and High Pointe House hospice. Graveside Service at Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA, on Sunday, July 23, 2023, at 10:45 am. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Dana Farber Cancer Institute, https://www.dana-farber.org/.

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Vivien Lee Spertner, age 82, of Wellesley, MA, formerly of Newton, MA and North Falmouth, MA, passed away peacefully on July 19, 2023.  Beloved wife of the late James Spertner.  Devoted mother of Kimberly Ann Halpern and David Spertner. Proud grandmother of Jonathan Halpern, Kyle Halpern, Zachary Halpern, Emily Spertner and Jenny Spertner. Loving sister of Joan Lainer and her late brother Donald Miller. A graveside service will be held on Sunday, July 23rd 11am at Lindwood Memorial Park, 490 North Street Randolph, MA. Following the service we will gather for shiva services at the home of David Spertner until 4:30 pm and on Monday from 3pm -6pm. Donations in Vivien’s memory may be made to a charity of your choice.

Age 74, passed away peacefully at home in Southboro on July 18, 2023, with her devoted and loving family at her side. She is survived by her beloved husband, David; and her deeply loved and cherished daughter Rebecca. She was the adored and loving sister of Ellen Cronin and her husband, the late Joe Cronin; and her brothers, Robert (Bob) Totten and his wife, Linda, and William (Bill) Totten and his wife, Nancy. Rita is also survived by her dear nieces and nephews, cousins, and wonderful devoted friends. Rita was predeceased by her parents, Helena and Robert Totten. Rita was born in Cambridge, MA, raised and educated in Dorchester and then Milton. Throughout her life, Rita thrived on making meaningful connections, in the early years with her siblings and over many decades with friends. Ellen and Rita, Bob and Bill developed strong lifelong bonds, forged in joy and reinforced by their deep caring and respect for each other. Friendships established from different facets of Rita’s life, including high school and college, neighborhood connections, and later Rita’s book club, grew only stronger as Rita and her peers developed a deep and abiding mutual empathy and understanding of their joys and sorrows. From an early age, Rita impressed her educators with her talent for academics; from her teachers at St. Brendan’s elementary school and the nuns at Fontbonne academy (high school), to the Professors of Stonehill college, every educator she met saw how her luminous intelligence (cloaked in modesty) would light up a room. After college, Rita worked a couple of years at a travel agency, which prompted her to experience the pleasures of discovery with her college friends, and later with David and Rebecca. Her next position was clinic secretary for the Tufts Neurology department, where she and a nurse colleague conducted all administrative and nursing facets of a busy faculty-resident-fellow practice with expertise and grace. In his first year of fellowship, David fell in love with this incredible secretary and beautiful person. Before they wed in 1985, Rita took a position as secretary in the pharmacy department at Tufts; she was enthusiastic about her work and felt the love of the senior staff. With the arrival of Rebecca, Rita became a full-time mother and homemaker. She cherished the years of being a stay-at-home mom. Later when the house got a little too quiet, Rita went back to the secretary’s desk for a physical therapy practice and enjoyed the work and the camaraderie of her colleagues. It is no exaggeration to say that when Rita made an appearance (whether at a job, a book club meeting, during a family gathering, or her own oncology visits), with her humor, warmth, ease, and wit the feeling in the room would somehow enliven and the atmosphere brighten, and the faces of those assembled would appear a little happier. David and Rebecca would like to thank Dr. Kathryn Edmiston and her colleagues at the UMass Breast Cancer center, and the staff from VNA Hospice, (Needham) (especially Marion Kettell and Katie Mechan). There will be a funeral service at the chapel at the Newton cemetery and arboretum on Friday July 21, 2023 at 11:00 AM followed by a burial at the cemetery. After the cemetery service, the family invites all who are available to continue to remember Rita at a Shiva at their home. In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to the breast cancer center at UMass or VNA hospice (Needham).

Cathy Levin Shuman Trivers passed away on July 17, 2023 following a valiant 10-year battle with Alzheimer’s disease. She was 70 years old. Born on October 7, 1952, in Boston, Massachusetts, Cathy was the cherished daughter of Robert and Carrol Levin.

Cathy attended Newton South High School, where she met her late husband, Louis A. Shuman. After graduating from the University of Denver, Cathy and Louis exchanged vows in 1972 and returned to their roots in Massachusetts. They settled in Wayland, MA, where they built a beautiful life together. 

Throughout her life, Cathy’s passion for early childhood education ignited her dedication to serving as an elected School Board member, making a positive impact on countless young lives.  Cathy’s vibrant spirit extended beyond her role as a devoted mother and wife. Her love for fitness blossomed into a lifelong passion, which she skillfully transformed into a profession. She also found solace and inspiration in contemporary art, and her keen eye and expertise were shared with others during her years of consultancy at Clark Gallery.

Left to cherish her memory are her beloved husband of nearly 19 years, Ted Trivers, along with her daughters Samantha Shuman of Brooklyn, NY, and Rachel Shuman Sullivan and her husband Michael, of Milton, Massachusetts. Cathy also leaves behind two adored grandchildren, Carly and Tyler Sullivan. She is survived by her mother, Carrol Levin, her brother Rick Levin and his wife Arlene of West Newton, and her sister-in-law Barnette Shuman of Auburndale. Cathy was preceded in death by her first husband, Louis A. Shuman, and her father, Robert J. Levin.

In the hearts of those who knew her, Cathy will forever be remembered as a woman of valor, love and dedication. Her impact on her family, community, and the fields she touched will endure as a testament to her remarkable life. 

Services will be held at The Chapel at the Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA, Thursday July 20, 2023 at 10am. Memorial observance will be held at the home of Richard and Arlene Levin on Thursday following the interment until 4pm. The family requests that any donations be made to support the Center for Alzheimer Research and Treatment (CART) at Brigham and Women’s Hospital. Checks can be made payable to Brigham and Women’s Hospital with “in memory of Cathy Shuman Trivers” in the memo line and sent to Brigham and Women’s Hospital, Development Office, 263 Huntington Avenue #318, Boston, MA 02115-4506 or visit bwhgiving.org/memorial to make your gift online.

Herbert Friedman- A resident of the Harbour’s Edge community in Delray Beach, Florida, died peacefully in his sleep on Sunday, July 16, 2023. Exactly four weeks to the day and hour as his wife of 74 years, Harriet Friedman. Survivors include their two sons Elliot and Lawrence; grandchildren Julie, Haley, Ali and Molly; and two great-grandchildren Hattie and Finn. Herb was born in Roxbury, and graduated Boston English High, after which he enlisted in the Air Force during WWII. He later attended Norwich Academy and received his bachelor’s degree at Boston University. Herb was an avid baseball fan, liked the Red Sox, but loved the Yankees. Herb was the patriarch of the family business, Economy Hardware, on Mass Ave., in Boston, which started alongside Harriet on July 25,1949. Herb’s death was a complete surprise to all at the Harbour’s Edge community, family and friends. It is hard to explain that a man of 96 years in age went before he should have, but that was Herb. God bless. Mr. Friedman’s graveside service will take place on Thursday, July 20th, 11:00 AM at Mishkan Tefila Memorial Park, 2605 Centre Street, West Roxbury, MA 02132. Contributions may be made in his loving memory to Hospice of Palm Beach County, 5300 East Ave., West Palm Beach, FL33407.

Price, Nathan age 108, of Delray Beach, FL, formerly of Worcester, Brighton, and Newton MA, passed away July 16, 2023.  Beloved husband of the late Anna (Green) Price.  Devoted father of Adele Wiener and her husband Theodore, and the late Phyllis Clopper and her surviving spouse Herschel.  Proud grandfather of Staci Berkson, Jeffrey Clopper, Lesley Bellalta, and David Flashman.  Proud great-grandfather of Michael Berkson, Alyssa Berkson, Alex Clopper, Sam Clopper, Joshua Clopper, Saphire Hall-Flashman, Evianna Bellalta, and Amelia Bellalta. Loving brother of the late Sylvia Rosencranz, and Dorothy Kupferman. Services and burial took place at the Sharon Memorial Park on Thursday July 20, 2023.  In lieu of flowers, donations in Nathan’s memory may be made to a charity of your choice.

Nancy (Goldberg) Rosen, of West Palm Beach, FL, formerly of Woodbridge, CT and West Hartford, CT, in her seventy-eighth year on July 12, 2023. Beloved wife of the late Warren Kenneth Rosen. Devoted mother and mother-in-law of Heidi Rosen and Mark Greenberg of Boynton Beach, FL, Daniel and Gabrielle Rosen of Larchmont, NY, and Jay and Lauren Rosen of Surfside, FL.  Cherished grandmother and “Nini” of Jeremy, Joshua and Adam Rosenberg, Ariana and Asher Rosen, Yael, Zoey and Natan Rosen. Dear sister and sister-in-law of Rhoda (Goldberg) and Fred London, Dr. J. Myron Rosen and the late Barbara Rosen, the late Howard Rosen, Pauline Rosen and the late Dr. Constance (Rosen) Wood. Daughter of the late David Goldberg and the late Sadye (Orent) Goldberg Feld and step-daughter to the late Edward Feld, and daughter-in-law of the late Henry Rosen and Annie (Miller) Rosen. Nancy can be remembered as the greatest-, warmest-imaginable, vivacious and vibrant mother and grandmother to her children and grandchildren, spouse to Warren and friend to all.  She will be sadly missed, and her smiles, hugs and memories often toasted and celebrated, by her nieces, nephews, cousins, family and friends. Graveside services will be held at Lindwood Memorial Park, 490 North St., Randolph, MA on Sunday July 16, 2023 at 11:00 am. Memorial observance will be held at the home of Laura (Rosen) and Doug DeFonzo following the service. In lieu of flowers, donations in Nancy’s memory may be made to “Chabad of West Boynton Beach” c/o Rabbi Raichik, 9406 West Boynton Beach Blvd., Boynton Beach, FL 33472, or the charity of your choice.