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Michael R. Levy

October 20, 2023

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Michael Ralph Levy, 93, of Newton, passed away on Friday, October 20, surrounded by family.  A long-time resident of Wayland, Michael was born in Boston on January 2, 1930.  He was the only child of William and Eunice Isenberg Levy.  Michael’s long and rich life was filled with service:  to his country in war, to his community, to his faith, and to his family.  He was married for 67 wonderful years to Joyce (nee Sasson) and their partnership was a beautiful model of devotion, growth, learning, acceptance and love.

Michael grew up in Brookline, Massachusetts and graduated from Worcester Academy.  He received a Bachelor of Science in Chemistry from The College of William and Mary in 1951 and immediately joined the United States Navy, enrolling in Officers Candidate School in Newport, Rhode Island.  Michael bravely served as Lieutenant J.G. on the destroyer USS McGowan (DD678) during combat in the Korean War, receiving four separate medals during his three years of service.  Michael was very proud of his service and credited his time in the Navy for one of his most enduring life skills: grace under pressure.

Michael served his community for several years as Chairman of the Wayland School Committee, a position he devoted countless hours to, having run his campaign as the “Prepared Candidate.”  Michael served his faith as a founder and president of Temple Beth Am in Framingham, and later as a trustee of Congregation Shirat HaYam in Nantucket.

Michael had a long and fruitful career in business, first as an engineer in the emerging electronics field of the 1950’s, where he designed components for the Apollo missions, and later as a ‘serial entrepreneur’ in the microprocessor and software industries.  Then later in his career, Michael was the founder and CEO of ProfitLogic of Cambridge, a venture-backed artificial intelligence company, eventually sold to Oracle in 2005.

Michael and Joyce enjoyed a productive retirement including attending the Harvard Institute for Learning (HILR), where Michael taught courses.  Michael traveled the world with Joyce and often with their grandchildren, from Alaska to Australia to Africa to India to China.  Michael’s final years were spent “learning, loving and laughing” with new friends at Lasell Village in Newton.

Michael was persistently curious and a life-long tinkerer.  He was a licensed pilot and an award-winning amateur photographer.  Then there was that wooden boat he just had to build by hand.  He never stopped.  As he entered his 10th decade, Michael taught himself how to craft high-quality fountain pens from scratch.  And the list of broken objects Michael fixed along the way is legendary.

For all his accomplishments, Michael will be mostly remembered by his friends and family for his limitless font of wisdom, knowledge, deep conversation, genuine warmth and authenticity.   He also shared his “loving” impatience when his family failed to do ‘it’ correctly or fiddled without purpose.

Michael shared a deep and special relationship with each of his six grandchildren: Alexandra, Isaac, Samuel, Gabriel, Shay and Maxwell, to whom he guided and doted on with devoted relish.  Family life was centered in Joyce and Michael’s beloved Nantucket, where they met by chance on Jetties Beach in 1955.  Many summer evenings were spent devouring Papa’s chicken along with his special Gin and Tonics and many days were spent enjoying the bucolic view from the deck that brought Michael solace and joy.  Michael and Joyce built many traditions with friends and family, which enriched their retirement years.

In addition to Joyce, Michael is also survived by his two sons, Adam and Joshua and daughters-in-law Marla and Rachel, and many loving nieces and nephews, extended family, and adoring friends all of whom were enriched by every conversation they had with Michael.

A celebration of Michael’s life will be held at 11:30AM on Tuesday, October 24, 2023, at Temple Beth Elohim, 10 Bethel Road, Wellesley, MA.  Burial to follow in Sharon Memorial Park.  Shiva will then be held at the home of Joshua Levy and Rachel Rock in Newton through 7:30 pm that day.  All friends and family are invited to come together to share stories and memories of Michael’s long and incredible life. Memorial donations may be made in Michael Levy’s name to the Adult Leukemia Program at the Dana-Farber Cancer Institute where Michael received outstanding and compassionate care.

 

Marian “Merrilee” Richter

October 20, 2023

Marian “Merrilee” Richter

 

She was born in Winthrop, MA to Leo and Ella Warshaw and died at her home in Mashpee MA at age 80 of natural causes.

She is survived by Dr. Robert Richter, her husband of 53 years and by her son Dr. Gregory Richter.

Merrilee was educated at the Cherry Lawn School (in Darien, CT), Adelphi University (BA), Wagner College (Masters degree in Infectious Disease and Public Health) and at NYU (PhD in Microbiology)

She was trained as a clinical microbiologist and directed hospital labs in NY and MA. She then worked at SmithKline Clinical Labs in Boston where she became the Associate Technical Director and regional information system manager; and later at headquarters in King of Prussia, PA where she was the National Manager of Lab Systems Planning. After 20 years at SmithKline, she became vice-president of the TrueNorth Group, a consultancy to the pharmaceutical industry for laboratory support of clinical trials, software development and strategic planning. She retired in 2011.

Those are the facts, but they don’t describe the person.

Merrilee was smart and funny with an innate sense of style. She loved to sing and did so in a Temple choir, and community Gilbert and Sullivan productions. She preferred folk music, choral music of any type, and Jewish music (both liturgical and secular). She had a lovely alto voice.

Cooking and eating well were her passions. She was never happier than when she was at the stove; whether hosting a large Passover or Thanksgiving meal, a communal Yom Kippur break the fast, or a simple dinner for two. Evenings out were almost always built around a restaurant meal.

She cherished her good friends and kept close to them even after she moved from Wayland to the Cape. They were a constant source of comfort to her. Merrilee’s relationships were longstanding and included friends from growing up in Winthrop; from high school and from college. She became a devoted Facebook user.

Merrilee was a lifelong learner who just devoured books and later in life, became more interested in her Jewish heritage. She studied Hebrew and Jewish history and became a Bat Mitzvah at age 72. It was one of her proudest moments.

Perhaps most of all, she was devoted to her family The main beneficiaries of her love were her late parents, her husband and son; but her love also enveloped her extended family of aunts and uncles, nieces and nephews. She was always giving, never asking for anything in return.

Merrilee suffered from severe chronic lung disease and from a stroke at age 76. She gracefully accepted her declining health. She never complained or was angry. She tried to find beauty in every day she was allowed to live.

She touched many people’s lives and will be missed by all of them.

 

Laura (Sugarman) Altman

October 19, 2023

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Laura (Sugarman) Altman, 86, of Scottsdale, Arizona passed away peacefully on Tuesday, October 17, 2023. Laura was born in Boston, Massachusetts the daughter of Natalie (Waldman) and Louis Sugarman. Laura was a graduate of Newton High School, Simmons College (University), Harvard University, and Brandeis University. She was preceded in death by her beloved husband of 65 years, Hersch Altman, and leaves behind her brother Paul Sugarman (Susan Richard Sugarman) and her children Roz Abukasis (Pino), Ava Harder (Bruce) and Ken Altman (Gisela Wieland) and grandchildren Yarden and Tai Abukasis, Natalie and Rebecca Harder. Laura was a beloved daughter, wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and aunt.

Laura and Hersch raised their three children in Randolph, MA. During their early years together, Laura was actively involved in their community. She was a founding member of Temple Beth Am where she held many leadership positions in the Temple and the sisterhood, served on the elementary school PTA, and was a member of Hadassah.

Laura returned to school to pursue her undergraduate degree in Psychology; she then went on to earn her Master’s in Counseling Psychology at Harvard University. She ultimately became  Clinical Director of the Milford Assistance Program (MAP) where she was highly respected by both her clinical team and her clients alike. After many years of service, Laura left clinical practice to continue her educational pursuits, earning a PhD in the Economics and Statistics of Mental Health from the Heller School at Brandeis. Laura became an international consultant, the Practice Leader and Principal at Towers Perrin (Willis Towers Watson) creating their acclaimed Managed Mental Health Practice.

Laura was an accomplished pianist and was a lover of classical music and dancing. She adored animals and nature, training dogs and riding horses. She was an avid tennis player, loved a long bike ride, and enjoyed a challenging duplicate Bridge game. As a couple, Laura and Hersch traveled extensively, exploring all corners of the world together, with dear friends, and with their family.

The funeral will be held on Monday, October 23, 2023 at 10:30 am Eastern Time at Temple Beth Elohim, 10 Bethel Road, Wellesley, MA. Interment following the service at Pultusker Cemetery, 776 Baker St., West Roxbury, MA.

Shiva will take place immediately following interment until 4:00 pm and again from 7:00–9:00 pm. Shiva will continue on Tuesday, October 24, 2023 from 1:00–4:00 pm and 7:00–9:00 pm at the Harder home.

In line with Laura’s commitment to philanthropy and her lifelong dedication to community mental health services, donations can be made to: Jewish Family & Children’s Service (JF&CS), 1430 Main Street, Waltham, MA 02451 (jfcsboston.org)

Florence Forman

October 17, 2023

We write to share the sad news that Florence Forman, 92, passed away on October 17, 2023 having lived a long, happy and full life. Florence was the beloved mother of Joan Forman, mother-in-law of Steve Blumenthal, and cherished grandmother of Sarah Blumenthal (Jacob Forstater), Louisa Blumenthal, and Max Blumenthal (Sarah Kingston). Our condolences extend to her son Steven Forman (Liliana Marin), her eight grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren. Florence was predeceased by her beloved husband, Donald (z”l) and  daughter Debra (z”l).

Shiva will be held at the Forman/Blumenthal home at 17 Moon Hill Road, Lexington on Sunday, October 22 from 2-5pm with a minyan at 4pm. Shiva will continue on Monday, October 23 and Tuesday, October 24 from 7-9pm with a minyan at 7:30pm.

Joan writes:

My mother was born on August 24, 1931 in the Bronx to Bessie (Laikin) and Harry Sporn, the younger sister of Ruth (z”l).  She was an avid reader as a child and when she enrolled in Brooklyn College, it was to become a teacher.  She met Donald, the love of her life, in the Brooklyn College library.  They got married in 1953 and soon thereafter, Donald was drafted into the Army.  He got posted to Detroit, Michigan and eventually went to graduate school at Wayne State University on the GI Bill where Florence also studied for a Masters of Education.

They moved their family to Chicago where they lived for almost 20 years.  Florence taught in the Skokie Public Schools.  She was a beloved teacher and Reading Specialist, winning awards for her excellence as an educator.  She was also a loving and supportive mother and wife. She spent time reading with her children, taking them to museums and libraries sparking lifelong interests. She was an early example of a working woman who cared deeply about her profession along with balancing the demands of family life.

In 1976, they relocated to Chapel Hill, North Carolina where Donald was a professor in the UNC Medical School and Florence resumed her full time teaching career.  Throughout their marriage, they traveled extensively, often combining professional meetings with an extended stay just for pleasure.  Sabbaticals in Europe provided even more opportunities to enjoy living abroad.

Upon Don’s retirement, Florence continued to teach part-time until she was 80 years old.  They then launched a turtle rescue project starting with one Eastern Box Turtle, which they saved from a busy street.  The turtle refuge, housed in a sheltered garden grew to more than eight turtles, a children’s book and an interactive school program.  Florence was the Chair of the Education Committee at Judea Reform Congregation for many years, always happy to lend her expertise to her community.

Wherever she lived, she developed deep and lasting relationships and had many friends.  She was a highly intelligent, engaging conversationalist. As an extremely positive person, she always saw the good in someone or situation.  She brought her passion for reading by starting short story groups. She also had a love for art, theater and dance.  She made a beautiful home for her family and was always a stylish dresser.  She deeply loved her grandchildren, their spouses and great-grandchildren and enjoyed traveling with them and sharing their lives.

We hold the Forman/Blumenthal family in our hearts and prayers at

this difficult time. Letters of condolence can be sent to their home at 17 Moon Hill Rd. Lexington, MA 02421. Donations can be made in memory of Florence Forman to: Brooklyn College or to

Judea Reform Congregation in Durham, NC.

 

May the memory of Florence Forman be for a blessing.

Sylvia G. Flatto

October 16, 2023

Sylvia G. Flatto (1931–2023)

Sylvia G. Flatto, 91, of Scarborough, ME, died on 16 October after a brief illness. In 1931, she was born in Boston to the late Elizabeth and Nathan Baronick. Throughout her life she embraced the arts, from dance to painting, and loved to travel the globe with her late husband, Israel Flatto.

Sylvia is survived by her children Judy Phillips, Gayle Campbell, David and Christine Phillips, and Nathaniel and Diane Phillips; stepchildren Arlene and Michael Flatto; sisters Evelyn Finn and Marlene Davidowitz; fifteen grandchildren, and six great grandchildren.

Graveside service is at 1:00pm on Sunday, 22 October, at the Mohliver Cemetery, located within the Baker Street Jewish Cemeteries, at 776 Baker Street, West Roxbury, MA. A celebration of her life will follow at 2:30pm at The Chateau Restaurant, Norwood, MA. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to American Friends of Magen David Adom at www.afmda.org/

Natly (Zuker) Gordon

October 16, 2023

Natly (Zuker) Gordon

Of Framingham, formerly of Boynton Beach FL and Brookline MA on 10/16/2023.

Much beloved wife of 60 years to the late Edward Gordon. Devoted and adored mother of Jerry and his wife Margie, Mark and his wife Sandra and Linda and her husband Fred. Treasured and loved grandmother of Alison and her husband Mark, Ronnie and his wife Michelle, Merissa and her husband Mark, Jamie and her wife Brigit, and Andrea. Proud and loved great-grandmother of Taylor, Matthew, Ryan, Caroline, Grace, Mark, Leo, Grey and Ford. Loving sister of Joan Berenson, the late Alan Zuker, Selma Freed and Roberta Zuker. Auntie Natly was cherished by her many adoring nieces and nephews.

Natly was a vibrant, gracious, kind and giving woman, who loved and treasured her family and many friends. She thoroughly enjoyed her Mah Jongg and Canasta games…this is the legacy she leaves behind. She will be sorely missed and will forever live in the hearts of all whose lives she touched.

Graveside Service at Beth El Cemetery, 776 Baker St., West Roxbury, on Thursday, October 19, 2023 at 11:00 am.  In lieu of flowers donations in her memory may be made to Conquer Cancer Coalition, www.conquercancer.org, the Conquer Cancer Coalition, PO Box 973, Framingham, MA 01701.

Rochelle “Shelly” Levine

October 15, 2023

Shelly died peacefully at the age of 84, surrounded by her loving family. Shelly was the daughter of the late Vivian & Joseph Levine and sister of the late Margie Effenson. She is survived by her beloved sister, Bobbie Hootstein, her nephew, Paul Hootstein, niece, Terri Grogan and her husband, Rich Grogan, and her cherished great niece, Sophie Grogan. Shelly had a long career in the retail industry. She was happiest spending time with her dear family and friends. A graveside funeral will be held on Friday, October 20 at 11:45am at Sharon Memorial Park in Sharon, MA. Shiva will be at Capital Grill in Chestnut Hill from 1pm to 5:30pm. Donations can be made in her memory to Care Dimensions Hospice Facility in Lincoln, MA.

Sheldon Cohen

October 15, 2023

Sheldon Cohen, AKA The Mayor of Harvard Square, founder of Out of Town News and beloved philanthropist of Foxborough, MA., passed away peacefully on October 15, 2023 at the age of 92 at the Village at Willow Crossing.

Beloved husband of Gaby Cohen, brother of the late Fred Cohen, father of Leslie, Beth and Marcie, beloved stepfather of Limor and Shirly and proud grandfather of Jennifer, Lindsey, Alexandra, Ethan, Matan, Cole, Sage and Storm.

Sheldon will be laid to rest at Mishkan Tefilah Cemetery, 2605 Center Street, W. Roxbury, MA at 11AM on Thursday, October 19, 2023. A Memorial observance will be held thereafter at Cannon Forge Clubhouse, 25 Cannon Forge Drive, Foxborough following the burial from 1PM-5PM.

Shiva will take place in Gaby Cohen’s home on Friday October 20th from 2:00PM to 5:00PM

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to Global Smile Foundation, 106 Access Road, Suite 209, Norwood, MA 02062 or online at www.gsmile.org.

Dr. Marvin Antonoff

October 14, 2023

of Lexington, MA, passed away October 14, 2023. Beloved husband of Claire Ruth Antonoff, his wife for over seventy years. Devoted father of Sharon Miller and her husband Joseph Mack, William Antonoff and his wife Emily, and Daniel Antonoff and his wife Dina. Proud grandfather of Rachel Lemieux and her husband David, Elizabeth Miller, Zachary Jones and his wife Elle, Daniel Antonoff and his wife Meaghan, Nicole Antonoff, and Jonah Antonoff. Loving brother of Elaine (Cookie) Fisher.

Marvin was born in Brooklyn, New York and attended New York City public schools and graduated from Brooklyn Technical High School before earning his BS and MA at New York University. He earned his Ph. D. in physics at Cornell University. Marvin was a Korean War Era Veteran serving in the Army Corps of Engineers, and Professor Emeritus of Physics at UMass/Boston where he helped found the Physics Department and served as department chair. Understanding physics was one of his greatest passions, he continued to work on solving problems through the end of his life. Marvin loved arts, theatre and music and was a wonderful singer. He always had a joke up his sleeve, and a song for every occasion that he could pull up at the drop of a hat. For many years he was a member of the Mak’haylah at Temple Emunah, where he and Ruth were founding members. He also performed in local theatre as Benny Southstreet from Guys and Dolls and Alfie Doolittle from My Fair Lady. Marvin was a poet who worked his principles of living, learning, and loving into each verse. He was a dancer who brought great joy to all who were his partners on the dance floor, none more so than his favorite dance partner, his wife Ruth. There wasn’t a dry eye in the room when at age 91 he dipped the love of his life during Our Love is Here to Stay at his grandson’s wedding.

Marvin was a lifelong boy scout who loved the Adirondacks as a youth and young man. He became passionate about America’s National Parks, traveled to, and hiked in many of them, passing on his love of the great outdoors to his children and grandchildren. Marvin loved climbing along the rocky coasts of New England and catching rides on the waves of the Atlantic. His love for the environment fostered his interest in renewable energy and he became a pioneer in teaching online courses about this ever-evolving subject.

His interests were numerous, and he loved to learn about different people and their cultures. He and his wife Ruth traveled across the United States and to several countries, living in England and Israel on sabbaticals. Marvin was devoted to his family and friends above all other things and fully participated in every occasion whether to celebrate or to comfort. Marvin was the ever consummate host, always eloquently welcoming all to his table.

Funeral Services at Temple Emunah, 9 Piper Rd., Lexington, MA on Tuesday, October 17, 2023 at 1:00 PM. Interment at Westview Cemetery followed by Shiva at the home of Ruth and Marvin on Tuesday, 5:30 – 7:30 PM, 7:00 pm Minyan, Wednesday & Thursday 11:00 AM – 1:00 PM & 5:30 – 7:30 PM with a 7:00pm Minyan.
In lieu of flowers, donations in Marvin’s memory may be made to Student Scholarships at The University of Massachusetts, Boston.

Dr. Mark W. Wolozin

October 14, 2023

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Mark William Wolozin, MD, FACC (1958-2023) 

 

Beloved husband, father, and brother, Mark William Wolozin passed away peacefully on October 14th, 2023 at the age of 65. Mark was the husband of Tina Usdin Wolozin, a true love to each other for 39 years, as well as being a proud and loving father to Gabrielle Wolozin Silver and Justin Spencer Wolozin. Family was always important to Mark including his loving relationships with his sisters Karen Wolozin Starr and Nancy Wolozin Allen and their families. Mark was born in Brockton, Massachusetts to Susanne and Allen Wolozin. He was a graduate of Dartmouth College and went on to pursue his medical education from Boston University School of Medicine (1984), where he continued his internship and residency in Internal Medicine. Dr. Wolozin then completed his fellowship in Cardiology at Newark Beth Israel Medical Center in New Jersey. He served as a Clinical and Research Fellow at Massachusetts General Hospital/Harvard Medical School in Boston and was one of the first to become an expert in cardiac nuclear imaging. He was a founding member of the Society of Nuclear Cardiology, board-certified in Cardiology and a Fellow of the American College of Cardiology. Wolozin was loved by his patients and fellow team members many of which he knew for 30+ years in and around the metro Atlanta, Georgia and surrounding areas. He was known by his patients to be a compassionate and intelligent physician. He loved helping others including teaching skiing, an interest he developed earlier in life along with photography. He also served as a volunteer ski patroller in North Carolina, was an amateur radio enthusiast, and enjoyed spending time outdoors. Services will be held at Temple Beth Elohim, Bethel Rd., Wellesley, on Wednesday, October 18,2023 at 10:30 am. Interment will follow at Sharon Memorial Park. Shiva will take place at the home of Nancy and Matthew Allen, 32 Highland Meadows Lane, Weston, MA on Wednesday, from 2:00–5:00 pm and 7:00–9:00 pm. Shiva will continue also at the Allen home, on Thursday, October 19 from 6:00–8:00 pm. (Parking available next to the Meeting House, 40 Highland Meadows Lane.) In lieu of flowers, the family of Dr. Mark Wolozin requests that donations be made to the Northeast Georgia Health System Foundation to support Georgia Heart Institute’s Non-Invasive Cardiology Lab.  Checks can be mailed to NGHS Foundation, 2150 Limestone Parkway Suite 115 Gainesville, GA 30501. Or, Salgi  Esophageal Cancer Research Foundation (https://salgi.org)

 

 

 

 

Frances Pearlman

October 13, 2023

It is with deep sadness that we share the passing of Frances G. Pearlman. Frances was the proud mother of Helene Paul, and son-in-law, Richard Paul. She cherished her role as a mother, grandmother and great-grandmother and was a constant source of love and guidance to her daughter. She passed away on October 13th, 2023, at the age of 93. Frances was born on April 7, 1930, in Roxbury, Massachusetts, and was the last surviving child of her parents, the late Ida (Kaitz) and Herman Gruber. Frances was also preceded in death by her siblings, Ruth, Martin, and Mary. Frances was also blessed with the joy of being a grandmother to her grandson, Benjamin Seigal and thrilled when she became a great-grandmother to Maddie and Harrison Seigal.

Shiva will follow a private funeral on Wednesday, October 18th, 2023.

Donations in memory of Frances may be made to The Jewish Federation of South Palm Beach County:

Israel Emergency Fund (https://jewishboca.org/israel-at-war-donations/)

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John Bookston

October 8, 2023

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BOOKSTON, John M., Jr., 76yrs, of Boston, October 8, 2023. John is survived by his wife Rosalie (Goodhart), son David (Samantha) and grandchildren Ellie, Robert and Becca. John is also survived by nieces, nephews and extended family. He was predeceased by his son Robert “Robin”, and his sister Barbara.

Funeral service will be held at 12N Thursday, October 12, 2023 at Temple Israel, 477 Longwood Ave., Boston, MA (parking on riverway). Burial to follow at Temple Emeth Memorial Park, 776 Baker St., W. Roxbury, MA. Service will be livestreamed by Temple Israel. Shiva will be held at the Home of David and Samantha, Thursday 4-7 pm and Friday, 2-5 pm . Donations in his memory may be made to any charity dealing with social justice.

Dr. Alfred J. Nicholson

October 7, 2023

Dr. Alfred John “Pete” Nicholson passed away on October 2, 2023, in the comfort and peace of his beloved home in Norton, MA, with loved ones by his side. He was 93. Born on June 22, 1930 to Max and Ethel (nee Alfond) Nicholson, Alfred’s older brother Ronnie nicknamed him “Pete” at an early age. Pete grew up in Lawrence, MA, surrounded by a beloved, extended family of grandparents, aunts, uncles and cousins.

 

In 1954, Pete married his high school sweetheart, Lorraine “Sis” Silverman. Pete and Sis put down roots in Sharon, MA where they raised their five children, frequently welcomed their extended family and made lifelong friends. In 1996, Pete married Lucille “Lucy” (nee Sherry). Pete and Lucy shared a life welcoming family and friends into their charming homes in Norton, MA and North Palm Beach, FL.

 

Pete attended Phillips Academy, Andover (Class of ‘48), Harvard University (Class of ‘52), and Tufts Medical School (Class of ‘55).  From 1957 to 1959, he served as a Captain in the Air Force at Mathers AFB in Sacramento, CA.  Dr. Nicholson did his residency at Boston City Hospital and in 1963, and then established his own practice in Norwood, MA.  For more than two decades, Pete practiced as a general surgeon, for a time as Chief of Surgery, at Norwood Hospital.  In the later part of his career, Pete and Lucy (who was an RN) established and ran one of the first non-invasive vascular labs in the country.

 

Pete relished his well-earned retirement, devotedly tending his English gardens in Norton, keeping watch over the Intercoastal in Florida, conquering the daily crossword, reading fiction and history, and relishing music, frequently singing, humming, playing keyboards, drumming, tapping his feet and bopping to the beat.  Pete was a passionate fan of all Boston sports, but in particular, Harvard football, the Patriots, the Bruins and most of all, the Red Sox, eventually being rewarded with the 6 NFL championships and 4 World series championships. Beginning as a teenager and throughout his active adult years, Pete was an extraordinary golfer who relished competitive play and offering instruction to others. Off the links, Pete relished watching golf from his comfy couch or his leather recliner.

 

Pete delighted in watching British comedies series, and would work their comedic catchphrases into casual conversation. He could, hysterically, perform skits of his favorite comedy albums. But best of all, Pete could spin a yarn. That is to say, Pete was wonderfully funny.   And while his humorous and whimsical stories and jokes will endure, they won’t be told with his one-of-a-kind panache, exquisite timing, and perfect punchline delivery, more often than not punctuated by his trademark, contagious laugh.

 

Pete drew inspiration from Coach Jim Valvano’s iconic, wise words: “There are three things everyone should do each day. Number one is laugh.  Number two is think—spend some time in thought.  Number three, you should have your emotions move you to tears. If you laugh, think and cry, that’s a heck of a day.” Pete was a brilliant and talented, passionate and compassionate, sweet and loving, decent and honorable man, who had one heck of a life. His soul and spirit remain deeply within us, always.

 

Pete is predeceased by his parents, his wife Lucy, and his brother Ronald Nicholson. He is survived by his children, Karen (Dane), Dick (Kathy), Peter, Bill (Sarah), and Nancy (Lars), and by their mother Sis.  He is also survived by his grandchildren Zoe, Forrest, Zack (Ryan), Ben, Toby, Charlie (Essence), Max and Lydia, and his great-grandchild Emery.

 

During the last years of their lives, Pete and Lucy were profoundly blessed to have loyal, compassionate and loving care-takers and friends Amy (Mark), Edny (Sergio), Hara, and Jamie (Geralyne), to whom Pete’s family are eternally grateful.

Pete’s immediate family gathered for a private funeral service on October 5, 2023.  Those wishing to honor Pete’s memory are encouraged to make donations to the Winslow Farm Animal Sanctuary (https://www.winslowfarm.com/) in Norton, MA, a non-profit charitable organization devoted to the rescue and care of abandoned and mistreated animals.

Jason Gary Grossman

October 4, 2023

Jason Gary Grossman, 74, of East Walpole passed away on October 4, 2023. Beloved husband of Penny, father to Rachel and her fiancé Marc DeHaan and Richard and Michelle Grossman. Devoted grandfather to Emma Rose and Gabriella Pearl. Funeral services will be held Friday, October 6, 10:30am at Temple Emeth 194 Grove St Chestnut Hill. Interment to follow at Temple Emeth Memorial Park. Shiva will be held at his late residence immediately following the burial until 4pm and on Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday 1pm-4pm.

Dr. David James Cohen

October 3, 2023

Dr. David James Cohen, of Boca Raton, FL and Lexington, MA, October 3, 2023. Devoted husband of Carol (Berkman) Cohen. Loving father of Jonathan (Cheryl), Stephanie (David) Gallagher and Julie (John) Jankowski. Proud grandfather of Joshua (Lindsey) Cohen, Ryan Cohen, Jacob and Jocelyn Jankowski. Loving brother of the late Lee Kosow, Samuel Cohen and Marjorie Blank.

David grew up in Brookline and was a graduate of Boston University class of 1957 and Tufts Medical School class of 1961. He was a neurologist in private practice in Melrose, MA for over 40 years.

Graveside service will be held at Sharon Memorial Park on Thursday, October 5, 2023 at 2:45 pm. In lieu of flowers donation’s may be made to a charity of one’s choice.

Mel Berman

October 1, 2023

Mel Berman

April 17, 1939- October 1, 2023

Mel died peacefully at home, at the age of 84, surrounded by his loving family. He is survived by the love of his life, Beverly, to whom he was married for 42 years, his beloved daughter, Samantha and son-in-law, Ben, two cherished grandchildren, Sloane and Bowen, and his adored sister, Ruth. After graduating from URI, Mel began his career as a chemist at the Jimmy Fund Research Center and continued with 35 wonderful years in R&D at Polaroid. Mel was a pilot, a ski instructor, and an avid Boston sports fan who was happiest spending time on the Cape with his dear family and friends. A funeral will be held Oct. 4 at 1pm at Temple Shalom in Newton. Interment to follow at Independent Pride of Boston Cemetery, 776 Baker St., West Roxbury, MA. Shiva will be at Mel’s home on Oct. 4th – 4pm – 8pm and Oct. 5th – 2pm – 6pm. Donations can be made to Hebrew Senior Life Hospice Care or the American Parkinson’s Disease Association Massachusetts Chapter.

Meryl Bonnie Shulkin

September 30, 2023

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We deeply grieve the passing of Meryl Bonnie Shulkin (fondly known as Bonnie) of Wayland, Massachusetts on September 30, 2023, at age 77. Beloved wife of Martin Shulkin for 55 years, devoted mother to Jennifer Harris and her husband Jonathan of New York City, and to Matthew Shulkin and his wife Traci of Weston, Massachusetts. By far, her greatest pride and joy came from her five grandchildren, Jake, Cole and Sienna Shulkin and Tucker and Charlotte Harris. To them, she was “Mema” and “Bon Bon”, and she loved them dearly.

Born in Philadelphia to Ruth and I. George Segal, she is survived by her brother Steven and his wife Paula Segal, and by her sister Sherry and her husband Marty Nash, and by her many nieces, cousins and family members. She attended Lower Merion High School outside of Philadelphia, and went on to graduate from Boston University, during which time she met her husband.

Bonnie will be remembered for her devotion to family, and her generosity and selflessness. She was adored by her countless friends, who considered her a sister, and with whom they could rely on for her honesty, advice, and confidences.  Her quick wit, sense of humor and magnetic personality added to the energy and atmosphere wherever she was.

Funeral services will be held on Monday, October 2nd at 1:00pm at Temple Sinai of Sharon, 25 Canton Street, Sharon, Massachusetts; burial service to follow at Sharon Memorial Park. Shiva at the home of Matthew and Traci Shulkin on Monday, October 2nd and Tuesday, October 3rd (6-9pm both evenings).

If you care to make a donation in honor of Meryl Bonnie Shulkin, please send to The Martin P. Solomon Medical Scholars Program at the Brigham and Women’s Hospital or The American Diabetes Association.

James I. Ladge

September 29, 2023

James I. Ladge, age 55 of Brookline, MA, passed away on Thursday, Sept 29th, surrounded by his loving family, after a two-year battle with Glioblastoma, which he fought with bravery, positivity and an amazing sense of humor.

Beloved husband of Johanna Kaplan. Devoted father of Charlie, Jackson and Corey Ladge. Stepfather of Livvy and Jack Bryan and dog father of Kali. Loving son of Marilyn and the late John Ladge. Brother of Meredith Ladge. Nephew of Bunny Ladge and Stephen and Ronda Newman. Cousin of David, Michael and Rich Newman. Son-in-law of Mark and Erika Kaplan, brother-in-law of Jess and Danielle Kaplan and uncle of Nathaniel, Jacob, Alexander and Will. Jim is also survived by his surrogate family at Appleton Partners, led by Doug Chamberlain, where Jim spent his 30-year career in Finance after graduating from Syracuse University, and by countless friends who have been an incredible support to Jim and his family before and during his illness.

Jim will be remembered for his keen sense of humor, biting wit, heart-melting smile and incredible generosity and selflessness. Jim was a quiet leader who preferred to lift up others rather than himself. He spent his adult life most comfortable in the role of caretaker and mentor both in work and life. He was loved by all who knew him.

A funeral service will be held at Temple Beth Elohim, 10 Bethel Road, Wellesley, on Wednesday, October 4th, 2023, at 10:00am. Interment will follow at Sharon Memorial Park. Shiva at Beth Elohim will follow the burial from 1:00-3:00. Shiva will continue Thursday, Oct 5th from 1:00-3:00 and 6:00-8:00 at 1501 Beacon St, Brookline in the function room on the 1st floor.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jim’s memory may be made to the David Reardon Research Fund at Dana Farber Cancer Institute, 10 Brookline Place, Brookline, MA 02445.

 

Paula L. Wolfson

September 28, 2023

Paula  L. Wolfson (nee Berman) passed away peacefully at her home in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida, on September 28. 2023, surrounded by her family.  To the surprise of no one who knew her, Paula remained her vibrant self to the very end. Paula is survived by her husband of nearly sixty years, Neil, her children, Richard (Lou Anne), Melissa, and Douglas (Abigail), six grandchildren, Hannah, Jake, Kyle, Maryn, Brader, and Lucas, her sister, Audrey (John), and many loving nieces, nephews and grandnieces and nephews.  They and Paula’s countless friends will treasure having been embraced by her boundless enthusiasm and love, even as they mourn her loss. Paula’s family will hold a private funeral service for her in her hometown of Boston and will host a celebration of life in Palm Beach Gardens later this fall.  In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to either the Massachusetts General Hospital, Andrew Warshaw Institute for Pancreatic Cancer Research Fund in honor of Doctor David Ryan or the JAFCO CHILDRENS FOUNDATION.

Milly Guberman Kravetz

September 27, 2023

A Livestream link to view the funeral service can be found here.

Milly Guberman Kravetz, of Newton, died peacefully, at home, in her bed, just as she wanted, on September 27, 2023, at the age of 101 and one-half. The oldest of three children, she was born and raised in Malden. Both her parents came to America from Russia in the first decade of the twentieth century.

Her mother, Dora Hurwitz, came to America as a young child with her younger sister and their mother, her father having come sometime earlier. Her father, Harry Katz, came to America alone at the age of 18 or 19 as a political refugee. He and his brother, as students in Russia, were involved with the Jewish Bund. When his brother was arrested, their parents helped Harry escape the country.

Milly viewed herself as the product of a mixed marriage. Dora was traditionally observant and kept a strictly kosher home. Harry most often referred to himself as agnostic. Milly remembered long conversations with him as a young person trying to figure out first causes. At the same time, Harry was very respectful of Dora’s beliefs and Jewish observance.

Growing up, Yiddish and the Workmen’s Circle were of great importance to Milly and her family. Because her maternal grandparents lived off and on with her family, she only spoke Yiddish until she started public school. When she was somewhat older, her parents hired a Yiddish tutor for her, and her father helped start both a Shalom Aleichem Yiddish Folkschule and Workmen’s Circle Camp. She was proud that, because of her proficiency in Yiddish, for several summers she would give an annual welcome to Norman Thomas “In nomen fun ale yidishe kinder [in the name of all the Jewish children].”

Her parents also were active in Poale Zion, the leftwing labor Zionist group of which David Ben-Gurion was a key leader in Mandatory Palestine. Milly herself recalled being a Poale Zion “bud”. Later she was active in Avuka, a collegiate socialist Zionist group. Milly’s commitment to what many now call liberal Zionism continued throughout her life. In later years, she was a strong supporter of Peace Now and the New Israel Fund, and even as she was approaching the end, she took pride in her Israeli relatives’ ongoing efforts to defend Israeli democracy.

A trauma that marked her life was the death of her younger brother, E. David (“Doovie”) Katz, days before his 21st birthday. Doovie was a lieutenant and navigator in the Army Air Corps, stationed in England during World War II. Having fulfilled his quota of missions and awaiting rotation back to the United States, he volunteered for one last mission and was killed in action over Mannheim, Germany.

Milly also survived her younger sister, Naomi Harris, a graduate of the Museum of Fine Arts in Boston and a noted gold and silversmith. Naomi married Elly Harris, who had taken time off from college to volunteer as a soldier in Israel’s War of Independence. In 1957, Naomi, Elly, and their young son Ron made aliya. Naomi and Elly had three more children—Avigail, Gideon, and Noa—with all of whom she developed especially close relations as their beloved “Auntie Mully”. Her geographic separation from Naomi, especially in the early years when international telephone calls were vastly expensive, also deeply affected her. As travel and communication became more affordable, Milly delighted in visiting them in Israel (for the last time, in 2018 at age 98), and communicating regularly by email, text, and WhatsApp video.

After graduating from Simmons College in 1943, Milly helped found Harvard Hillel as assistant to Judah Shapiro. In 1947, she got her M.S.W. from the Columbia University School of Social Work and then returned to Harvard Hillel as Associate Director.

In 1946, she married Joshua Guberman, whom she had first met through Avuka and then corresponded with during World War II. They had three children: David, in 1949; Karen, in 1951; and Daniel, in 1955. The family settled in Newton, Josh’s hometown. In 1981, after Josh’s untimely death in 1976 at age 55 and David’s marriage to Jayne Kravetz, Milly married Jayne’s father, Nate Kravetz, with whom she shared an active retirement until his death in 2010.

During the 1950s, Milly returned to work part-time as a social worker in the field of gerontology. In the early 1960s, she began working at the Heller School for Advanced Studies in Social Welfare at Brandeis University, first, as a research associate in gerontology, and then as Director of Admissions. With the founding of the Hornstein Program in Jewish Communal Service at Brandeis, she became its Director of Field Placement and a beloved teacher to generations of students. An active member of the Jewish community, she served, for example, on the board of Jewish Community Housing for the Elderly and the Scholarship Committee of Combined Jewish Philanthropies.

Milly is survived by her children: David and Jayne Guberman, Karen Guberman and Craig Kennedy, Daniel Guberman and Allison Ackerman, Charles Kravetz and Deborah Sinay, Jonathan and Janny Kravetz, and John Venning and Shahied Abrahams; her grandchildren: Rachel Guberman and Tiffany Holder, Dalia Guberman and Dan Brown, Michael Kennedy and Kim Karolyi, Adam and Kim Kennedy, Ariel Kennedy and Ronan Lynam, Josh Guberman and Ashley Wiseman, Eric Guberman, Sasha Kravetz Cohen and David Cohen, Jessica Kravetz Cooper and Samuel Cooper, Jacob Kravetz, Rebecca Kravetz, and Hannah Kravetz; great-grandchildren: Raelyn Brown, Nathan Auberman, Gabriel Auberman, Sydney Cohen, Emery Cohen, Grant Cooper, and Paige Cooper; nephews and nieces in Israel: Ron and Janna Harris, Avigail and Rami Shahar, Gideon Harris and Tamar Kedar, and Noa Harris, as well as their children and grandchildren; and family in Israel, Italy, Australia, and the United States.

We are especially grateful to Nicole D’Angelico and her husband, Tom Peloquin, whose loving care made it possible for her to live out her days in her own home in comfort and dignity.

Milly was the subject of a number of oral histories, including by the Wexler Oral History Project at the Yiddish Book Center, available at https://www.yiddishbookcenter.org/collections/oral-histories/interviews/woh-fi-0000277/milly-guberman-kravetz-2012, and Acting Our Age, available at https://actingourageblog.com/2017/04/17/milly-at-95/. Chapters about Milly are included in Mom: A Celebration of Mothers from Story Corps by Dave Isay and Stepping Down-Not Stepping Away: How to Prepare for What Comes Next in Your Life by Ilana Amrani-Cohen.

Donations in her honor may be made to an organization meaningful to the giver.

Family and friends are invited to gather at our mother’s home following the burial until 5:00 p.m. and again from 7:00 to 9:30 p.m., and on Tuesday from 2 p.m. – 4:00 p.m. and from 7:00 p.m. to 9:30 p.m. On both days, there will be a minyan at 7:30 p.m.Services at Temple Reyim, 1860 Washington St., West Newton, on Monday,October 2, 2023 at 10:00 am. Interment to follow at Sharon Memorial Park.

 

Norton “Norty” Marcus Miller

September 27, 2023

Age 95, son of the late Rose & Michael Marcus, beloved husband of 75 years to Rita L. (Cohen) Miller. Brother of the late Susan Kane. Father of Michele (Gary) Gottesmann, Martha (Jeff) Beagle. Papa to Stephanie, David, Michael & Juliana. Nephews & nieces Russell, Lisa, Allison, Michael, George, and Beth. He is survived by his longtime Aide and Best friend, Fabienne. Graveside service at Sharon Memorial Park on Friday 9/29 at 10:45 am. Remembrances in his memory may be made to The West End House, 105 Allston St., Allston, Mà 02134.

Patricia Ann Colten

September 26, 2023

Patricia “Patti” Ann Colten (Levetin) born in Newton, raised in Everett and spent most of her adult life in Brockton before moving to Georgia to be with her son Dana and Daughter- in- law Julie.  On September 19, 2023 she passed away at the age of 78 years old in Mableton, Georgia with her son by her side holding her hand as she crossed into the afterlife.  She is pre-deceased by her Father Nathan, Mother Sadie, Brothers Malcom and Robert and will be interned at the family plot in the Independent Pride of Boston Jewish cemetery on Baker St.  Patti was an active member of O.R.T., Hadassah and her jewish community with Temple Beth Emunah of Brockton.  She was a dedicated mother, friend and loved to cook very good food as often as she could for others.  She especially enjoyed entertaining for the jewish holidays, socializing with friends and family on any occasion.  Patti had a keen eye for being creative artistically and loved to learn about anything associated with health, biology and the food industry.  She was a very giving and caring person who always tried to do for others unselfishly.  Patti leaves behind her son, daughter in law and grand puppy.

A private celebration of life and memorial is being held in her honor on September 30,2023 in Randolph, MA.  Her passion was food and nutrition so in lieu of flowers please donate to the American Diabetes Association in her honor.

Melvin Goober

September 24, 2023

Melvin Goober, age 91, of Silver Spring, Maryland, passed away on Sunday, Spetember 24, 2023. Melvin was born in Boston, Massachusetts, and attended Boston English High and Boston University. He became an accountant and worked as a CPA for many years, retiring at the age of 87. Mel was a devoted husband to Janice (nee Goldstein), who predeceased him in 1991; and to Betty (nee Markonish), who passed away in 2021. Mel enjoyed his family and was known for donning a clown costume for children’s parties. He was a lifelong fan of the Boston professional sports teams. Mel leaves his beloved daughters, Phyllis (Jeff) Phillips of Olney, Maryland, and Robin (Tom) Temin of Rockville, Maryland. Also grandchildren Scott Philson (Rose), Elyse Phillips, Benjamin Temin (Renee) and Janice Temin; and 5 great grandchildren. Mel is also fondly remembered by Ross and Denise Markonish and their families. Private graveside service was held at Sharon Memorial Park on Wednesday, Septemer 27, 2023.Please direct donations to The National Kidney Foundation, Temple Beth Ami of Rockville MD or the charity of your choice.

Selma Sacks

September 18, 2023

Sacks, Selma (Douglas), of Brookline, MA passed away Sept 18, 2023. Beloved wife of the late Herbert F. Sacks. Devoted mother of Susan Sweet and her husband Dr. John Sweet. Proud grandmother of Andrew Sweet and David Sweet and his wife Lauren. Loving sister of the late Florence Sapir and Sidney Douglas. Graveside service at Crawford St. Memorial Park (776 Baker St., West Roxbury) on Thursday, Sept 21, 2023 at 12 Noon. In lieu of flowers, donations in Selma’s memory may be made to St. Jude Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105.

Dr. Julian Jakob Bussgang

September 16, 2023

Polish-Born Holocaust Survivor, WWII Veteran,

Mathematician, and Entrepreneur

 

Dr. Julian Jakob Bussgang, a prominent mathematician, entrepreneur, and one of the last living Holocaust survivors in Boston, died on Saturday at his home in Dedham, Massachusetts, surrounded by his loving family. He was 98.

Dr. Bussgang was born on March 26, 1925, in Lwów, Poland (now Lviv, Ukraine) to the late Stefania (Philipp) and Joseph Bussgang. In mid-September 1939, precisely 84 years prior to his death, he fled with his parents and sister, the late Janine Bussgang Merab, to Romania and then to Palestine, barely avoiding the persecution and death camps that befell so many relatives and friends. His father had successfully smuggled a few bars of gold into Romania, allowing the family to earn a capitalist visa to the British Mandate of Palestine.

After finishing the Polish refugee high school in Tel Aviv, he joined the Polish 2nd Corps led by General Władysław Anders which had become a part of the British Army to join the fight to liberate Europe from the Nazis in World War II. He first trained with an armored unit in Egypt – later joking whenever his driving was criticized that he first learned to drive a tank. He saw combat in Italy as a member of the light anti-aircraft artillery and participated in the Polish Army attack on Monte Cassino in one of the bloodiest battles of World War II. Later, he fought in the battles of Ancona and Bologna. In recognition of his service, he was promoted to the rank of captain decades after the war.

When the war ended, Dr. Bussgang remained briefly in Italy, attending the Polytechnic of Turin, and then transferred to the Polish Resettlement Corps in England, resuming his studies at the University of London, where he received his B.Sc. (Engineering) in Telecommunications. In 1949, he came to the United States. As a survivor, refugee, and immigrant, his peripatetic journey to the United States resulted in his ability to speak five languages fluently, albeit each one with an accent.

Dr. Bussgang enrolled at MIT, where he made many good friends as he established a new life. He was awarded a small scholarship and waited tables in the university dining hall to cover his expenses. He received the MSEE degree from MIT in 1951, publishing his thesis, later known as The Bussgang Theorem, as a report for MIT’s Research Laboratory of Electronics. The Bussgang Theorem became a popular tool for stochastic analysis and signal processing, with important applications in radar, sound, and digital communications.

Dr. Bussgang went on to earn his PhD in Applied Physics from Harvard in 1955. After working at the MIT Lincoln Laboratory and then at RCA’s Aerospace Division, he became the founder and president of Signatron, Inc., an electronics communication company. During a period of tremendous investment in defense electronics and communications in the United States, his company made a large impact in the field of applied physics, electronics, and communications. He was a consultant to Grumman Aircraft in the selection, simulation, and evaluation of Rendezvous Radar and Landing Radar for the Lunar Module for man’s first trip to the moon. He also developed high data rate, troposcatter (over the horizon) modems and radio channel simulators. Among its many successful initiatives, Signatron created a satellite system that measured continental drift and served as a consultant in the creation of Raytheon’s Patriot antimissile missile. In addition to his eponymous theorem, Dr. Bussgang held six patents and a top-secret security clearance.

Signatron was acquired by the defense electronics firm Sundstrand Corporation in 1984 and Dr. Bussgang retired in 1987. At the time, the company had over 100 employees and had been entirely bootstrapped. While running Signatron, he was a visiting lecturer in the Graduate Electrical Engineering program at Northeastern and taught a graduate course on signal processing at Harvard in the Division of Applied Science and Engineering. In honor of his professional contributions, he was named a Life Fellow of the Institute of Electrical and Electronic Engineers (IEEE), an organization where he served for a number of years as Boston Section Chair and received the IEEE Distinguished Service Award.

After his professional career ended, a second career began – this time in partnership with his beloved wife, Fay (Vogel). The two met in Newton at a mutual friend’s house in the late 1950s and, after a period of courtship – which included Dr. Bussgang sharing his unique and fascinating life story – were married at the MIT Faculty Club on August 14, 1960. From the late 1980s onward, the couple embarked on a decades-long mission to support and memorialize the history of Polish Jewry. These efforts included living in Warsaw and Krakow after the fall of the Berlin Wall numerous times as a volunteer with the nonprofit International Executive Service Corps, helping to privatize Polish industry.

Dr. Bussgang and his wife also translated two volumes of wartime accounts of child survivors still living in Poland, The Last Eyewitnesses: Children of the Holocaust Speak, Northwestern University Press (1998 and 2005). He and Fay were named honorary members of the Association of Children of the Holocaust in Poland in 1998. Dr. Bussgang translated into English the booklet Polish Jew-Polish Soldier, issued in 1945 by the Chief Rabbi of the Polish 2nd Corps to honor Polish Jews who fought in World War II. The combined Polish and English versions were published in 2010 by the Jewish Historical Institute in Warsaw. He also authored a chapter entitled “The Progressive Synagogue in Lwów” in POLIN: Studies in Polish Jewry, vol. 11 (1998), 127–53, Littman Library of Jewish Civilization; and a chapter: “Metropolitan Sheptytsky: A Reassessment” in POLIN, vol. 21 (2008), 401–25. He was one of the organizers of three reunions of former students at his wartime Polish high school in Tel Aviv and co-authored their memorial books.

Dr. Bussgang served as a board member of the National Polish-American, Jewish-American Council sponsored by the American Jewish Committee and a board member of the American Association for Polish-Jewish Studies. In honor of his army service and leadership in supporting Polish-Jewish relations after the war, he was awarded the Knight’s Cross of the Order of Merit of Poland in 2011 by then President Bronislaw Komorowski.

Dr. Bussgang was an active citizen during his 40 plus years residing in Lexington, Massachusetts serving in its elective Town Meeting for nearly two decades. He was chair of its Cable TV and Communications Committee and served on a number of other committees concerned with maintaining the quality of life in Lexington and fighting the expansion of the Hanscom Field airport. In later years, he and Fay moved to NewBridge on the Charles, a retirement community in Dedham, Massachusetts, where they spent 14 happy years.

Despite his voluminous professional and civic accomplishments, Dr. Bussgang will be remembered most as a proud, loving, and dedicated husband, father, and grandfather. He and his wife raised their family in Lexington:  Jessica (Thomas Rosenbloom), Julie (Rich Bernius), and Jeffrey (Lynda Doctoroff), and was a beloved grandfather to eight grandchildren: Raquel, Alana, and Michael Rosenbloom; Alex and Andrew Bernius; and Jackie (Josh Bussgang), JJ, and Jonah Bussgang. He also leaves his cherished nephew, Dr. Jacques Merab.

A funeral service will be held at Temple Beth Elohim, 10 Bethel Road, Wellesley, at 10:00 am on Tuesday, September 19, 2023. In lieu of flowers, please consider donations to American Friends of POLIN Museum or the US Holocaust Memorial Museum.

Gloria Bubly

September 14, 2023

Gloria (Glazer) Bubly of Sharon, MA, loved by many friends and family passed away on September 14, 2023 at age 90 years old. Gloria was a talented artist, and had graduated from Massachusetts College of Art. She worked as an art teacher, as well as a graphic designer at Raytheon and then eventually at Bubly Associates, an environmental consulting firm.

Gloria’s parents, Alice (Chazen) and Barney Glazer, emigrated to the USA from Poland and Ukraine. Gloria was born in Boston in 1933, joining her beloved older sister Irene (Glazer) Gaffin and older brother Harold Glazer (predeceased). Her family lived in Dorchester for many years where she met her next-door neighbor Daniel Bubly, whom she married. There they had 3 children, Berylee, Gary and Ava. In 1968, the family moved to Sharon, MA, where Gloria lived until her passing.

Gloria was known to be exceptionally funny. She was always ready with her clever jokes, seizing the absurdity of the moment. She made us all laugh heartily, even in her last days. Her hand made greeting cards were legendary in the family. She would create individual and personalized cards using her favorite family photos.

Gloria was predeceased by her husband, Daniel, daughter, Ava and brother, Harold. She is survived by her older sister, Irene Gaffin, children Berylee Bubly and Dr. Gary Bubly (spouse Dr. Karen Smigel). Survived by grandchildren Alison Bubly (spouse Adam Feinstein) and Dr. Rachel Bubly (spouse Daniel Pfeffer). Survived by nieces and nephews – Harris Gaffin, Barbara Gaffin Cahn, Beverly Gaffin, Joanne Glazer, Amy Legaard, and Stephen Glazer.

She was such a loving and kind person, always considering other people’s needs over her own. It is impossible to express in writing how much Gloria was loved by us all. We do and will miss her dearly. May her memory be a blessing. 

A graveside service will be held this Monday, September 18th at 11:00 AM at Everett Jewish Cemetaries, located at 232 Fuller Street, Everett, MA 02149. Shiva will be held on Monday, September 18th from 2:00 – 5:00 PM and 7:00 – 9:00 PM at 107 Main Street, Somerset, MA, 02726. Shiva will continue on Tuesday, September 19th and Wednesday, September 20th from 2:00 – 4:00 PM and 7:00 – 9:00 PM at 130 Oakdale Rd, Newton Highland, MA, 02461.

Rhea (Marks) Roazen

September 14, 2023

Roazen, Rhea (Marks), of Needham, formerly Weston, Newton & Lawrence, peacefully surrounded by family on September 14, 2023. Beloved wife of Charles Roazen. Loving mother of Mark (Claudia) Roazen, and Diane Roazen. Cherished grandmother of David (Lia) Roazen, Sarah (Colin) Holland, and Todd Roazen. Proud great-grandmother of Charlie & Madeline Holland. Dearest aunt, cousin and friend to many. Services at the Chapel at Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA, with burial to follow on Monday, September 18, 2023 at 10:00 am. Shiva following interment at the home of Diane Roazen until 6:00 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations in Rhea’s memory may be made to Hospice House Lincoln, c/o Care Dimensions Hospice, 75 Sylvan St., Suite B-102, Danvers, MA, 01923 (www.CareDimensions.org/giving) or Shriner’s Hospitals for Children, Boston,51 Blossom St., Boston, MA 02114.

Carol H. (Sander) Whitehorn

September 8, 2023

 

 

Carol H. Whitehorn (Sander), of Newton, MA, quilter, jogger, Spelling Bee whiz, and caring friend, passed away September 8, 2023. Beloved wife of Joseph Whitehorn. Devoted mother of Elizabeth Whitehorn and her husband Matt Reilein, and Stephanie Whitehorn and her husband Rabbi Josh Franklin. Proud “Gam” to Lilah, Bea, Charlie and Amelia. Loving sister of the late Fred Sander (wife Joelle Sander). Aunt of Stephen and Jason Sander.

 

Carol grew up in Cincinnati, OH, the daughter of Holocaust survivors. Carol was a people person who loved talking with old friends as much as she did making new ones. Known for her beautifully creative quilting skills, she brought happiness to so many friends and family through the hundreds of quilts she made for them over the years. Carol was a voracious reader, a follower of politics, and loved crime shows and British dramas. She and Joe spent many summer vacations on Cape Cod and Martha’s Vineyard, winter breaks in Steamboat, CO, where Carol loved to snowshoe, and hiking trips all over the United States and Europe. She loved traveling to visit her daughters in Chicago and New York. For the last eight years, she relished her role as Gam to her four grandchildren. She fought cancer with bravery and dignity.

 

Services will be held at Temple Beth Elohim, 10 Bethel Rd., Wellesley, MA on Monday, September 11 at 2:00 pm. A link to view the livestream can be found here. Shiva will be held on Monday 4:30-7pm and Tuesday 5:00-7:00pm at the Whitehorn residence.

 

In lieu of flowers, donations in Carol’s memory may be made to the Newton Schools Foundation (P.O. Box 590020, Newton, MA 02459 or online) or Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center (Beth Israel Lahey Health, BIDMC, Office of Philanthropy, 5529 Main St., 4th Floor, Charlestown, MA 02129 or online).

 

James Robert Giesser

September 7, 2023

James Robert Giesser, age 64, of Boston, MA, died peacefully, surrounded by family, on September 7, 2023. Son of the late Richard Giesser and R. Constance (Silverman) Giesser. Loving brother of Eric Giesser (wife Janet Giesser) and John Giesser (wife Erin Coyle Giesser). Cherished uncle of nieces Ella and Hadley and nephews Ben, Aidan and Neil.

Jim overcame a childhood injury to have rich experiences and share love and laughter with family and friends. With strength and courage, Jim fought through challenges and lived his best life. A graduate of Buckingham Brown and Nichols and Dartmouth College, Jim performed in school musicals, spoke Russian, read and debated literature, traveled, played guitar, skied, and ran cross country. He was a Boy Scout and a Deadhead. He was an outdoor enthusiast who hiked the White Mountains and Yosemite’s Half Dome. Most of all, he had a wonderful smile and sense of humor. Jim’s family and friends will hear the echoes of his laughter always.

The family is forever grateful to Jim’s angel, Doreen Bentley, and the loving team on 4Burger.

Graveside services will be private. The family will be receiving friends at the home of Eric and Janet Giesser on Sunday, September 10 from 1:00-3:00 pm and 5:00-7:00 pm.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Jim’s memory may be made to Hebrew SeniorLife (hebrewseniorlife.org/TributeGift), where an extraordinary team protected, and occasionally danced with, Jim.

Kenneth S. Alpert

September 5, 2023

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Kenneth S. Alpert, 67, suddenly on September 5, 2023. Beloved brother of Nancy Alpert (Gwen Marcus) and son of the late Judy and Marty Alpert. Dear nephew, cousin, friend and colleague to many. Ken had a 40-year career at Springwell and was named Mass. Case Manager of the Year in 2019 by the Home Care Aide Council.  Ken often said that Springwell was like family to him and loved working there. Ken’s tremendous knowledge of sports won him many radio trivia contests.  He was a devoted Red Sox fan and a fixture at Fenway Park. He loved summers when he would head to beaches and lakes, and dining out with his friends who enjoyed his quirky sense of humor.  Private graveside service will be held on Tuesday, September 12, 2023 at 11 am. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Springwell, Inc. 307 Waverly Oaks Rd., Ste 205, Waltham, MA 02452 or Congregation Mishkan Tefila,  384 Harvard St., Brookline, MA 02446.

Spencer Denker

September 5, 2023

Spencer Denker, 67, of Framingham, MA, passed away on September 3, 2023. Cherished son of the late Hershel and Shirley (Rosen) Denker. Devoted and beloved brother of Carol and her husband Glen Schneider, Nancy Denker, and Cliff Denker and his wife Jill. Proud uncle of Hailey, Elyssa, Marisa, Julia and Rachel, and nephew of Larry Rosen.

He received wonderful love and care over the last many years at Eaton Road West in Framingham, a Venture Community Services Group Home. The staff went above and beyond in their support. At his day program, Advocates, his week was filled with activities and challenges including volunteering in the Meals on Wheels program. Through Advocates, he most recently worked at Burtons Grill in Framingham, and took much pride in earning a paycheck.

Spencer was one of those rare people who touched lives wherever he went. He evoked love, and those in his universe were enriched by his presence and were uplifted for having known him. Despite his many struggles, he remained cheerful, selfless and helpful, always interested in those around him.

Spencer loved music and could name and sing decades of hits from Broadway to Big Bands to rock and folk music going back to the 60s. His memory was extraordinary including names, faces and events. His presence always made people smile, and he was happily recognized wherever he went. 

Another special part of Spencer’s life was going on “Drew’s Trips,” which provided wonderful travel and entertainment experiences. He also loved going to Martha’s Vineyard and New Hampshire on vacations with his family.

Spencer’s parents and siblings always encouraged his independence and growth. As a result, he far exceeded all professional expectations. In fact, he even earned a High School diploma at Keefe Tech in Framingham, and had a Bar Mitvah at Temple Beth Am. He has never stopped learning and maturing. We are all so proud of him. Given all of his medical challenges, we feel so grateful for the 67 years we had with him.

The world is a better place because of his life. He will be sorely missed.

Graveside Services at Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA on Thursday, September 7, 2023 at 2:45 pm.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Spencer’s memory may be made to the organizations that have taken such good care of Spencer.

Venture Community Services:1 Picker Rd. Sturbridge MA 01566  https://venturecs.org

Advocates: 1881 Worcester Rd Framingham MA 01701 https://advocates.org/

David Mover

September 4, 2023

David Mover-Of Houston, TX, Sept 1, 2023.Beloved son of The Late Ruth and George Mover. Private Graveside services were held on Wednesday, Sept. 6, 2023,  at Grove St., West Roxbury.

Cynthia A. Malkin

September 3, 2023

Cynthia A. Malkin, formerly of Stuart, FL and Sharon, MA, passed away on September 3, 2023 at the age of 83. Born October 26, 1939 in Boston, she was the youngest daughter of the late Edward and Muriel (Sherman) Malkin and sister of the late Marilyn Ohriner.  She grew up in Newton, but spent most of her life raising her family with her late ex-husband Paul B. Waitze in Sharon, MA. She is survived by her 3 children and their spouses, Linda (Waitze) and Chris Callan, Jeff and Liz Waitze, and Deanne (Waitze) and Sean O’Sullivan and 8 grandchildren:    Emily and Matthew Callan, Brady and Melanie Waitze, Caitlin, Sarah, Aidan and Grace O’Sullivan.  

 

Cynthia had many roles besides being a loving wife, mother and grand-mother.  She was a nursery school teacher turned Function Manager turned Real Estate Agent.  She spent 20 years in the Port St. Lucie Area selling homes, spending times with friends and pursuing a passion of tennis and golf!

 

Relatives and friends are invited to attend a service on Wednesday, September 6, 2023 at 1:00pm at the Chapel at Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham Street, Sharon, with burial to follow at Sharon Memorial Park.

 

In lieu of flowers, donations in Cynthia’s name may be made to Rhode Home Rescue, Warwick, RI.

Dr. J. Myron (Mike) Rosen

August 31, 2023

Dr. J. Myron (Mike) Rosen, 91, of Boca Raton, Florida, formerly of Marblehead, Massachusetts.

Julius Myron (Mike) Rosen, beloved husband of the late Barbara (Bobbi) Blinderman for over 47 years and life partner of Barbara Kane for over 15 years, passed away in his ninety-first year on August 31, 2023. Loving father of Henry (Vanessa) Rosen, Beth (Gregory) Apke and Jonathan (Allison) Rosen. Doting and devoted “Papa” of Zachary, Brooke, Atalia and Benjamin Rosen.

Mike was born on December 28, 1931 to Henry and Annie (Miller) Rosen of Brookline, where he was raised in a close-knit family along with his elder sister and two younger brothers. He graduated from the Edward Devotion School and Brookline High School. Thereafter, he received a Bachelor of Science from Tufts University, School of  Arts and Sciences (1953). Mike earned his DMD degree from Tufts University, School of Dental Medicine (1956). Mike continued his post-graduate dental work at the University of Pennsylvania, where he received a degree specializing in Oral Maxillofacial Surgery (1957).

After completing his education, Mike joined his father’s dental practice in Boston. Following his father’s untimely death in 1959, Mike ran the practice and became his family’s patriarch, providing whatever support was necessary for his mother and siblings.

While practicing dentistry in Boston, Mike fell in love and, in 1959, married Bobbi to whom he devoted the majority of his life.

In 1963, Mike and Bobbi moved to Marblehead, where he continued to live a life full of purpose. In nearby Salem, he started a new practice, which, under his leadership, grew into a nationally recognized oral surgery center with multiple offices in the North Shore. Attracting providers and patients from across the country, Mike’s practice relied on state-of-the-art laser technology to dramatically improve patient outcomes.

Mike’s passion for outstanding patient care was unbounded. He was frequently called into Salem Hospital for emergency surgery at all hours of the night. Mike also co-developed the first medical office condominium building in the North Shore, providing more efficient and accessible healthcare to its patients.

Throughout his life, Mike felt a strong connection with the Jewish Community. From 1972-74, Mike served as President of the Jewish Federation of the North Shore, where he selflessly devoted himself to the needs of the people of Israel and to reinforcing the quality of Jewish life on the North Shore. At both the grass roots and national levels, Mike was a strong advocate for justice and security for the Jewish people, including the emancipation of Soviet Jewry, the promotion of economic development in Israel and the safeguarding of strong bilateral relations between Israel and the United States. He frequently traveled to Israel on behalf of the Jewish Federation. One of Mike’s most prized possessions was his lifetime achievement award from the Jewish Federation for extraordinary leadership and contributions to Jewish life.

Among Mike’s other interests, he supported and loved the Boston Symphony Orchestra. In middle age, Mike became an accomplished long-distance runner and twice ran the Boston Marathon. He was an avid Boston sports fan who happily led his wife and children, often in snowy weather, to watch the then woeful New England Patriots. He taught his children to appreciate Fenway Park and to become die-hard Red Sox fans. He loved to travel and trekked across the world with his wife until her premature death in 2001.

In his retirement years, he met his second love, Barbara Kane, with whom he lived in Boston’s Back Bay. With his new life partner, Mike resumed his global travels and enjoyment of Boston’s vibrant culture. He joyfully became “Papa Mike” to Barbara Kane’s grandchildren.

More than a doctor, community leader and entrepreneur, Mike was a family patriarch who spent his life creating a beautiful path paved in love, faith, education and security for his family. Nothing mattered more to Mike than the happiness and safety of his family.

Graveside services will be held at Lindwood Memorial Park, 490 North St., Randolph, MA on September 3, 2023 at 11:00am. In lieu of flowers, donations in Mike’s memory may be made to the Combined Jewish Philanthropies, 126 High Street, Boston, MA. Shiva observances will occur in the homes of Mike’s children.

Carlton Stanley Morris

August 30, 2023

 

Carlton Stanley Morris, age 80, of Walpole, MA, on August 30, 2023. Son of the late Harold Morris and Ruth (Hauptman) Morris. Beloved husband of the late Lara Morris with whom he shared 42 years of marriage. Devoted and loving father of Jennifer Morris, Debra Hurwitz and her husband Michael, and David Morris. Proud grandfather of Asher, Grayson, and Frankie. Brother of Irwin Morris.

Carlton’s love of Boston sports teams ran deep. As a child he used to sneak into the Boston Braves baseball games and follow the Red Sox, Celtics, Patriots, and Bruins closely. He was a tremendous golfer, at one point maintaining a 4 handicap! Carlton was adventurous, frequently boasting with pride how he had started attending overnight camp at the young age of 4. The lasting friendships he made at camp remained important to him throughout his life. He also carried his love of sports into his adulthood as a Red Sox season ticket holder for 30+ years. Many summer afternoons and evenings were taken up by the Red Sox on the TV or enjoying the game at Fenway Park. Carlton also spent a lot of time collecting sports memorabilia and going to baseball card shows. He would send cards to baseball players and request autographs in return. Aside from Boston sports teams, Carlton also enjoyed watching TV and cheering on his daughter, Jen, in her many dance competitions and his daughter, Deb, at her sporting events. And he loved sharing in their many personal and professional successes as they grew up. Carlton was also devoted to his family dogs, Jeff, Sparky and Teddi, and his grand-dogs, Kodi and Benzi. Carlton especially enjoyed movies! His collection of DVDs and VHS tapes was truly impressive, filling up many of the empty drawers around his house (much to his wifes dismay). He even cataloged all the movies he owned. He particularly enjoyed Pretty Woman and Julia Roberts, watching it over and over again!

Carlton was blessed to become a grandfather to three grandchildren, Asher, Grayson and Frankie, whom he loved dearly.

The graveside service will be held at Sharon Memorial Park (40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA) on Sunday at 10:45am. Shiva will be Monday from 12-3pm ET and Tuesday 3-6pm ET at the Debra and Michaels home. Donations in Carlton’s memory may be made to Amego, Inc., an organization close to Carlton’s heart. Amego is committed to supporting people living with autism and other developmental disabilities at home, school, work, and as members of their families and communities.

 

Althea B. (Kaplan) Lank

August 29, 2023

Of Ft Lauderdale, FL and Weston, MA, 96 yrs, August 29, 2023. Beloved wife
for 73 years of the late Buddy Lank. Daughter of the late Hilal and Blanche
Kaplan. Loving mother of Sunny Gustin (Sam), Linda Chanowski (Fred), Johnny Lank (Patty). Adoring grandmother of Harley Lank (Audra), Nikki Bialow (Corey), Jeremy Gustin (Rebecca), Blake Chanowski, David Lank (Laura), Ross Chanowski, Evan Lank (Amanda). Cherished great grandmother of Madison, Tessa, Tanner, Beau, Ava, Jenna, Jake, and Noa.

Worked side by side for decades with her husband in the real estate industry. Dedicated philanthropist, trustee and board member of many hospitals and institutions.

Althea was known for her sparkling personality, unlimited zest for life and
her wide circle of loyal friends. She led an amazing life of 96 years because she
made it that way.

Funeral services will be at Temple Reyim, 1860 Washington St., Newton, MA on Thursday, August 31, 2023 at 1:00 PM. Interment to follow at Sharon Memorial Park. Shiva will be held at her late residence following interment until 7:30 pm and Friday 1-5 pm. Donations in her memory to Dana Farber Cancer Institute, Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, Mass General/Brigham/Mass Eye and Ear Institution.

Lois Jean Feldstein Rosenberg

August 29, 2023

August 29, 2023

Lois Jean Feldstein Rosenberg, Sudbury, formerly of Philadelphia, PA, Minneapolis, MN, Wilkes-Barre, PA, and Sunbury, PA, passed away on August 29, 2023, at age 91.  Survived by her beloved husband Jerome (Jerry) of 70 years, daughter Barbra Rosenberg (Scott Kloter), son J. Richard Rosenberg (Elyse), granddaughters Doran Oatman, Melissa Pew (Corey), Tina Glidden (Dave), and Rachel Stansel (Paul); and great-grandchildren Caleb and Max Oatman, Cooper and Asher Pew, Andrew and Serafina Glidden, and Ashton and Paul Stansel.  Also survived by niece Anita Wrona and nephew Steven Wrona (Flushing, NY).

Lois was an amazing, sharp, funny, strong, loving, and generous woman.  She could be silly and acerbic, and excelled at making connections with people from all parts of her life.  Well-loved by her Feldstein family.  Passionate about reading (especially mysteries), baking (cherry pies!), clothes, shoes, and handbags, elephant sculptures, and knitting.  Her 70+ year marriage to Jerry and her children were the center of her life.  She was her true self to the end of her journey with dementia.

A private graveside service will be held on Friday, September 1st at Beit Olam Cemetery, Wayland.  Shiva will be held on Sunday 2-4pm and Monday 2-4pm at Barbra and Scott’s house.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Lois’ memory may be made to the public library of your choice or your favorite charity.

 

Arlene Kaplan

August 26, 2023

Kaplan, Arlene (Tattlebaum), of Hingham, formerly of Randolph, MA, passed away August 26, 2023. Beloved wife of the late Sumner “Sunny” Kaplan. Devoted mother of Dr. Alan Kaplan and his wife Leslie, Steven Kaplan and Donna Kaplan. Cherished grandmother of Rachael Kaplan and her husband Gabriel Dym, Katie and her husband Kevin Kaufman, Spencer, and his wife Alexa Kaplan, Kory Kaplan, Andrew Kaplan and Abbie Hotaling. Proud great grandmother of Eli, Jack and Lucy Dym; Aria and Zoey Kaufman, and Giselle and Lexi Kaplan. Loving sister of Bernice “Cookie” Kohn and the late Paula Wolf and Gerald Tattlebaum.  In addition to her devotion to her family, she was ahead of her time in the 50’s . She raised a family and worked full time . As she continued to work, she actively served for years in the Women s auxiliary of the Jewish War Veterans including her position as the National President. Services at Temple Sinai, 25 Canton St., Sharon, MA on Wednesday, August 30, 2023 at 11:00 am. Following interment at Sharon Memorial Park, Memorial observance will be at the home of Leslie and Alan Kaplan until 4pm, and 7-9 pm and then continuing Thursday 7-9 pm In lieu of flowers, donations in Arlene’s memory may be made to Dana Farber or Jewish War Veterans

Marcia D. Finn

August 25, 2023

of Belmont MA, passed away on Friday, August 25, 2023.  She is survived by her two sisters, Rhoda Aaron and Myra Miller.  Also survived by her nieces, Rebecca Nichols, Elianna Miller, Lora Sharma and Nadine Miller and nephew Daniel Aaron.

Even though Marcia did not have children of her own, she was totally devoted and involved with her nieces and nephew and sisters.  She was the fun aunt. She was funny, kind and had a wonderful sense of humor.   All of her friends can attest to that.  Animals loved her, she connected to every pet in our households.

She worked for the Social Security Administration in Cambridge and Boston and for the government, Workers Comp Long Shore as Director of the North East Division.  Since retiring she has helped her sister with her business.

She will be forever missed, loved and cherished.

In lieu of flowers donations can be made to Save a Dog, 604 Boston Post Road, Sudbury 01776 or the Animal Rescue League of Boston, 10 Chandler St, Boston, MA 02116

Elise Alloy-Relihan

August 25, 2023

Elise Alloy-Relihan, of Norton, Massachusetts, died Friday, Aug. 25, after a brief series of difficult illnesses. She was a few days shy of her 68th birthday. Rabbi Jonathan Brumberg-Kraus, a long-time family friend, officiated at a chapel service and interment at Sharon Memorial Park the following Tuesday, Aug. 29, which were attended by a loving community of family and friends.

Elise was born in Peoria, Illinois to Louise (Hand) Alloy and Justice Jay J Alloy, the chief justice of the third district appellate court. A reader by passion and a lawyer by training, Elise received her B.A. in English with Honors from the University of Illinois in Urbana-Champaign in 1978 and her J.D. from the University of Wisconsin-Madison in 1981. She and her husband, Joel Relihan, met as undergraduates, studied together at Madison, and married in 1983 as Joel finished his Ph.D. in Classics. Their first two years were spent in West Peoria; their next eight were in Urbana, their alma mater, where Joel was in the Classics Department; when he took his teaching position at Wheaton College they moved from Urbana to Norton in 1993 with their two daughters, Clare and Grace, to whom Elise was passionately devoted.

Elise was possessed of an extraordinary loving-kindness. All who met her were struck by her warm heart, her bright smile, the embrace of her friendliness, and the wit of her conversation. Though not gregarious, she was social, kind and welcoming, bringing into her life and under her wing many who were proud to be her honorary children: Talitha, Liz, Agnes, Erin, Sam, Pierre, Jason. She enjoyed being the hostess of the large holiday parties that her guests eagerly anticipated. She was content. She often said that she was lucky that after her life’s twists and turns she ended up in New England and in Massachusetts. She liked the life she led, she liked the house she lived in, and she loved the people she shared it with.

She is survived by her husband, Joel; by her daughter Clare Alloy and son-in-law Sam Alloy, of North Attleborough, Massachusetts; by her daughter Grace Alloy-Relihan, of Pownal, Maine; and by her brother, Stephen Alloy, of Omaha, Nebraska.

Her dying was painful, her death was a shock, and her loss is keenly felt. In Elise’s memory, all are invited to pause a moment to contemplate how fortunate they are to be alive.

Thelma Shuman

August 24, 2023

Thelma (Cooper) Shuman of Coral Springs Florida, formerly of Newton,passed away on August 24, at 99 .

Devoted wife and best friend of the late Irving Shuman. Loving mother of Carol (Roger) Marks and the late Ellen Altshuler(Louis).Loving grandmother to Gabriel Marks and Randy Altshuler.

Thelma loved and admired her late parents Herbert and Rose (Furhman)Cooper and her siblings Lorraine Tobin, David Cooper and Howard Cooper and their spouses who all predeceased her.

 

Lee Barron Wernick

August 22, 2023

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Wernick, Lee Barron of Portland, ME, formerly of Sharon, MA, passed away August 22, 2023. Beloved husband of the late Joan (Levy) Wernick. Devoted father of Naomi Wernick and her husband Ken Pfaffmann. Proud grandfather of Jonah Wernick. Loving brother of Howard and Stanley Wernick. Funeral service at Temple Israel, 477 Longwood Ave., Boston, MA on Friday, August 25, 2023 at 11 am.  Details of memorial observances to be announced at the funeral. In lieu of flowers, donations in Lee’s memory may be made to The Nature Conservancy of Maine, ATTN: Treasury, 4245 N. Fairfax Dr., #100, Arlington, VA 22203, Donate Now to Protect Nature | The Nature Conservancy

Lilyia Smolyar

August 21, 2023

Lilyia Smolyar- Of Brookline, on August 21,2023. Beloved wife of the late Benjamin, devoted mother of Boris Smoylar and his wife Olga. Cherished grandmother of  Hannah and Sarah. Private graveside services were held on August 24, 2023.

Arnold L. Slavet

August 20, 2023

Arnie Slavet lived a full life and was passionately dedicated to his family, faith, friends, community, and clients. He was born in Boston on March 12, 1933 to Sam and Esther Slavet, his beloved parents who fled persecution in Ukraine and immigrated to the U.S. in the 1920s. Sam was a master plumber and Esther kept the books and helped manage the business. Arnie spent his early years in Mattapan, and was a graduate of Boston Latin School. He was one of the first in his family to attend college, graduating from Harvard in 1954, and from the Boston University School of Law in 1957. Arnie ran for the Massachusetts State Senate in 1958 with the rallying cry “You’ll Have it with Slavet”, which his parents broadcast by megaphone throughout the neighborhood; he was runner-up to the entrenched incumbent.

During his 55-year legal career he faithfully advised countless organizations and individuals. Arnie was tirelessly conscientious and prided himself on serving his clients with integrity. Before the advent of laptops and smartphones, he was the undeclared master of the sticky-note. He started out at Ritvo, Gordon, Rosenberg, served as a partner at Lapin, Rosen, Goldberg, Slavet, Levinson & Wekstein, and then led his own practice at Arnold L. Slavet Estate Planning, P.C. Arnie was a Founding Member of the National Network of Estate Planning Attorneys, and served on the Legal Advisory Board for the American Business Association. He was also a contributing author of The Living Trust Workbook (Viking Penguin, 1994). Arnie’s support of his community led him to Chair the Executive Board of the Boston Philharmonic Orchestra, and serve on the boards of the Cambridge Biomedical Laboratory and the Vilna Shul. In 1980 he was of counsel for the 249 A Street Cooperative Corporation, the first limited equity artists-owned building in the United States.

He was a member of Temple Beth Elohim in Wellesley, and of the Vilna Shul in the West End of Beacon Hill, and his unapologetic, aspiring cantor voice could often be heard above the crowd. His lifelong commitment to Judaism and the State of Israel made him a supporter of the New England Friends of the Israeli Defense Forces, through which he sponsored scholarships for eighteen IDF combat veterans.

Arnie was dedicated to wellness and personal development and sustained a daily meditation practice for 50 years. Arnie loved to cook for his family and touted that each dish was his “best evah”, while occasionally indulging in a half-gallon of vanilla ice cream for dessert. He celebrated his 50th birthday by running the Boston Marathon, and looked forward to gardening each Spring. A 50-year member of Pine Brook Country Club in Weston, MA, he loved to golf with friends.

He was predeceased by his twin sister Lila Hersh Yellin, his older sister Janet Bensky, and his parents Esther and Samuel Slavet. Arnie is survived by his wife Polly Slavet, his brother Gerald Slavet, his former wife Ruth Mordecai, his sons James & Jon Slavet and their wives Kaye Slavet and Dicla Slavet, his stepdaughters Jennifer Lake (husband Christopher) and Emily Rowlands (husband Charles), his niece Pamela Yellin, his caregiver Sarah Joy Balyeku, and his 9 grandchildren Maxwell Slavet, Hank Slavet, Sydney Slavet, Celia Slavet, Hazel Slavet, Theodore Slavet, Archer Wardle, Carson Lake and Ross Lake.

The funeral service will be on Thursday, August 24 at 11a ET at Temple Beth Elohim (10 Bethel Rd, Wellesley). For those who can’t join in person, the service will be accessible virtually through this link https://tbewellesley.zoom.us/meeting/register/tZAqf–urzwvGdBPAIMsjOUghiBxfvlXVTgX

Following the service at the temple, the graveside service will be held at Sharon Memorial Park (40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA). Shiva will be this Thursday 4-7p ET and Friday 11a-3p ET at the family home. Donations in memory of Arnie can be made to Temple Beth Elohim or to FIDF.

 

Rita Lea Freudberg

August 19, 2023

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Rita Lea Freudberg (Rosenfeld), age 94 of Newton, MA, passed away on August 19, 2023.

Beloved wife of the late Richard L. Freudberg. Devoted mother of the late Stuart (Lynn Gutter), Jeffrey (the late Suzanne Oesterreicher), and Audrey. Loving grandmother of Adam, Michael, Daniel, Rose, Jeremy, and Jake and great-grandmother of Evan, Noah, Leah, Lillian, Sloane, and Natalie. Sister of the late Samuel J. Rosenfeld.

Rita was born in Philadelphia and grew up in Washington, DC. A graduate of the University of Maryland, where she was a member of the Phi Sigma Sigma sorority, Rita started her career as a science teacher at Alice Deal Junior High School in Washington, DC. After marrying Richard in 1952, they moved to the Boston area to raise their family, eventually settling in Newton. Rita and Richard were married for 65 years and enjoyed attending classical piano concerts together and spending time with Richard’s engineering colleagues.

Rita lived in Newton for 66 years, working in the public schools and volunteering with many local organizations. She volunteered at Warren Junior High School in the library, then went on to earn her master’s degree in library science from Simmons College and worked as a librarian at Warren and at Day Middle School. She was an original supporter of the League School in Walpole, MA. She was a longtime member of Temple Reyim, and a dedicated volunteer with the Temple Reyim sisterhood. She also volunteered at the Newton Free Library and the Auburndale Community Library, and served as a poll worker for the Newton elections for many years. She enjoyed watching musicals and films and was a supporter and regular attendee of the Boston Jewish Film Festival.

She was a devoted mother, grandma, and great-grandma, attending many school events and sports games, and always celebrating birthdays and accomplishments. She loved eating ice cream (especially coffee ice cream), collecting bird tiles, and doing puzzles.

Graveside service at Lindwood Memorial Park in Randolph, MA on Wednesday, August 23 at 11 am. Shiva at her late residence in Newton on Wednesday from 6-8pm and Thursday from 4-7pm. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to the Auburndale Community Library (375 Auburn Street, Newton, MA 02466; auburndalelibrary.org), Temple Reyim (1860 Washington Street, Newton, MA 02466; reyim.org), or Good Shepherd Community Care in support of the Miriam Boyd Parlin Hospice Residence (160 Wells Avenue, Newton, MA 02459; gscommunitycare.org).

 

 

 

Mary Jane Flower

August 18, 2023

Mary Jane Flower-Of Wayland, on August 18, 2023.Beloved wife of the late David Flower Jr. Mary had served as a Regional Director of The Raytheon Corporation. She was a member of Temple Beth Am in Randolph and a longtime supporter of the Mass General Hospital. Private graveside services were held at Sharon Memorial Park on Monday, August 21, 2023.

Carolyn Rosen

August 18, 2023

After having courageously fought brain and lung cancer for the past three months, we are ever so sad to announce the passing of Carolyn Wexler Rosen of Needham, Massachusetts on Friday August 18, 2023.  Carolyn was born February 10, 1942, the daughter of Murray and Gussie Wexler in Exeter, New Hampshire, but she lived most of her life with her loving husband of 48 years, George, in Newton, Massachusetts. She is also survived by her son Peter, stepchildren Jeffrey, Phillip and Patricia, her five grandchildren, Joseph, James, Keren, Sarah and Joshua, her sister Shirley Barkin and her nephews Peter, Samuel and James Barkin. Carolyn was beloved by family and friends who knew her to be generous, kind, and compassionate – always ready to help and to serve.  She spent many years teaching school and volunteering at the Dana Farber Cancer Hospital.  Described by some as a “force of nature” she fiercely loved her husband George, her son, her three stepchildren, and all of her grandchildren, and she will forever be missed.

Donations in Carolyn’s memory may be made to Friends of Dana Farber, Boston, MA

https://www.dana-farber.org/how-you-can-help/get-involved/friends-of-dana-farber-cancer-institute/donate-to-the-friends/

Jack Kasten

August 17, 2023

Jack Kasten passed away at NewBridge on the Charles in Dedham on August 16, 2023 in his 96th year.

Jack was born on December 17, 1927 to Sam and Nina Kasten in Harlem, NY. He graduated from Stuyvesant High School at the age of 16, matriculated at Michigan State University, and remained a Spartan fan to his dying day. He received his MPH from the University of Michigan and served in the Korean War as a health officer, beginning his distinguished career in hospital administration and public health.  Jack served as Associate Director of the Beth Israel Hospital in Boston from 1965-1975 and led the healthcare consulting practice at Arthur D. Little for the next twenty-five years.  Among his other contributions, Jack served as President of the American Public Health Association, was a commissioner on the Massachusetts Group Insurance Commission, and in retirement served on the Board of Directors of the HSC Foundation in Washington, D.C.  Health care delivery systems changed radically during the course of his lifetime, but Jack’s leadership and wise counsel remained an anchor that generations of people working in the field relied upon and returned to, again and again.

Jack married Shirley Winograd in 1958, and they built their life and family together. Jack and Shirley loved to travel, and they also loved to entertain at their homes in Newton and on Lake Winnipesaukee. Jack waterskied until he turned 80, and when he was driving the boat, everyone learned to ski (like it or not).

Teaching was Jack’s passion. He served on the faculty of Harvard School of Public Health for decades. He loved meeting with students and young professionals, and especially loved giving them advice about their studies and careers.

The people Jack learned from, worked with, and mentored became his most cherished and loyal friends.

Jack is survived by his children, Nancy (David Stern), Steven (Susan), and Michael; and his grandchildren, Jacob Stern, Josh Kasten, Nina Stern, Sam Kasten, David Kasten, Maddie Kasten, and Lili Stern.

After Shirley, a nurse, died in 2009, Jack chose to honor her by creating and endowing a fund to perpetuate their shared commitment to improving health care through education and training of caregivers. In lieu of flowers, gifts may be made in memory of Jack Kasten M.P.H to Hebrew SeniorLife, Development Department, 1200 Centre Street, Boston, MA 02131 or via //hebrewseniorlife.org/TributeGift to support the Shirley Kasten Nursing Leadership Endowment Fund.

 

Funeral services will be held at 2 p.m. on Sunday, August 20, 2023 at the Independent Pride of Boston Cemetery, 776 Baker Street, West Roxbury, MA.

Following the funeral the family will receive visitors at Great Meadow Hall, NewBridge on the Charles, 5000 Great Meadow Road. A minyan memorial service will be held at 5:30 p.m.

Evelyn Betty Botkin

August 17, 2023

Evelyn Betty Botkin, 83, died on August 16, 2023 in Dedham, MA. She was the matriarch of the Botkin clan and will be greatly missed.

Born in 1940, Evelyn was raised in the Bronx, NY by her parents, Phil and Ruth Myers. Evelyn graduated from Bronx High School of Science (class of 1957) and Brandeis University (class of 1961). She received a PhD in Clinical Psychology from Yeshiva University and practiced clinical and health psychology in Huntington, NY, for many years.

Evelyn met the love of her life, Eli Botkin, at an evening sculpture class at NYU in 1964. Despite their 15-year age difference, they fell in love and married in 1966. She became the stepmother of Dianne and Brad, then gave birth to Naomi and Josh. In addition to her four children, she had seven grandchildren and four great-grandchildren. Evelyn lost her Eli in 2020 but regularly updated him about the family’s events and accomplishments.

A longtime member of Kehillath Shalom (KS) Synagogue in Cold Spring Harbor, NY, Evelyn was honored by the Jewish Reconstructionist Federation for her contributions to the Jewish community. She served as chair of the Education, Ritual, Long Range Planning, and Social Action committees at KS. She created and led contemplative Shabbat services at KS for several years. She organized interfaith activities with members of the Jewish, Christian, Muslim and other faith communities on Long Island. She was also a board member of the Huntington Coalition for the Homeless and a founding member and chair of the Suffolk County Interagency Coordinating Committee (SCIACC), which worked to implement needed services for mental health clients in the area. As her activities demonstrate, Evelyn was deeply committed to the Jewish concept of tikkun olam, repairing the world.

Evelyn was a prodigious reader, primarily of books related to Judaism and Buddhism. She described herself as, “a Jewish woman who has learned a great deal from Buddhism, practices Buddhist (Vipassana) meditation, and is inspired by both traditions to be engaged in trying to make the world a better place.” She said, “While I am basically Jewish and my values derive from Judaism, the skillful means for training my mind and the wonderful life lessons/philosophy of Buddhist teachings have been life changing gifts for which I am profoundly grateful.”

Evelyn spent the last nine years of her life as a resident of NewBridge on the Charles in Dedham, MA, where she continued her involvement in social action activities. At the time of her death, she was helping to plan another interfaith dinner – the latest in a series she had helped create and lead over the past decade.

By gracefully accepting her declining health and constantly expressing gratitude for her life and those around her, Evelyn served as a role model for her family and friends.

Evelyn is survived by her children (Dianne Lior, Bradley Botkin, Naomi Botkin, Joshua Botkin); her daughters-in-law (Renee Robins, Deborah Meizlish); her son-in-law (Joshua Gordon); her grandchildren (Dotan, Atar, Elijah, Noah, Jonah, Susannah, Benjamin); and her great-grandchildren (Anya, Esme, Ari, Kai). She was predeceased by Eli, her husband of 54 years.

Funeral service will be held Sunday, August 20, 2023 at Congregation Or Atid, 97 Concord Rd., Wayland, MA at 11AM. Burial to follow at Beit Olam East. Those who wish to honor Evelyn may make a donation to her favorite charity, American Jewish World Service, or any organization that promotes social justice.

 

Dr. Charles S. Lipson

August 16, 2023

Charles Sidney Lipson, 90, of Dedham, passed away peacefully at home on August 16, 2023.

Charles was born on June 7, 1933 to Esther and Harry Lipson in Boston. After Charles graduated from Boston Latin School in 1950, he went on to Harvard College, graduating in 1954, and then received his MD from Harvard Medical School in 1958. He performed his residency at Beth Israel Hospital.

Charles was married to Ellen Blotner Lipson for 64 years. They had 5 children, Robert, Caroline, Peter, David and Abigail.

Charles was in general surgery private practice for 17 years at Newton Wellesley Hospital from 1963–1980. He then combined his interests in medicine and entrepreneurship by founding Metromedic in New Bedford, a walk-in medical center performing urgent care, from 1980–2001. He sold Metromedic and continued to work there as a doctor until 2004 when he retired.

At Harvard College Charles played trumpet in the band and rode intramural crew. He was a Commander in the Medical Corps of the United States Naval Reserve and served in Vietnam in 1968 on the air craft carrier USS Bonhomme Richard. Back at home, he was involved locally throughout his life as President of the Oak Hill Park Association, Chairman of the Boston Chapter of the American Jewish Committee in 1975, charter member of the Harvard Band Foundation where he served for many years on its finance committee, and President of his condo association in Sarasota for several years. In 1975 Charles had one of the first patents on inflatable boots to prevent phlebitis in hospitals. He was co-founder and Medical Director of the EMT and Paramedic Departments at Northeastern University where he also taught for 30 years. He served 27 years at Harvard Stadium as a doctor providing first aid and life-saving care to football fans.

He is survived by his children Robert Lipson, Peter Lipson, David Lipson and Abigail Lipson, son-in-law Stephen Kaufer and his wife Lisa Howe, daughter-in-law Felicia Lipson, son-in-law Hap Hollibaugh, grandchildren Harry Kaufer, Celia Kaufer, Isaac Kaufer, Aaron Kaufer, Sophie Lipson, Gregory Lipson, Jennifer Howe, Hillary Kara, Thomas Howe and Catherine Howe. He is predeceased by his wife Ellen Blotner Lipson and daughter Caroline Lipson Kaufer.

Services will be held at Temple Beth Avodah on Sunday, August 20 at 10:00am. Shiva will be Monday, August 21 at 1:00-4:00pm and 5:00-8:00pm at NewBridge on the Charles. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the Harvard Band Foundation, an organization Charles co-founded and loved.

 

 

 

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