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Lois B. Oxman

April 30, 2021

Lois B. Oxman 6/3/39- 4/30/2021

“Mrs. O,” Lois, Mom, “Grandmom,” you touched so many people throughout your life. You were a teacher through and through and that part of you shined through decades of teaching, first as an elementary teacher in Philadelphia and then as a lunch lady, an aide for hearing impaired students and finally as a Special Ed teacher in the Newton Public School System. Your intensive work on political campaigns throughout our childhood impressed upon both of us the importance of being involved in our communities, and the friendships you forged made our small family of 3 feel so much larger. You were a friend and mother figure to even our friends, an amazing mom, and a wonderful grandmom to Jackson, Ethan, Carlos, and Alejandro.

You put so much passion into everything you did, and fought tooth and nail for what you believed in.  You taught us to be strong, independent women, independent thinkers (much to your chagrin at times) and that if we put our mind to it, we can get it done. Thank you, Mom, for your love and guidance, we will love you forever.  Rest in peace now.

Lois leaves behind her two brothers, Marc and Allan, her two daughters Robin and Debbie, her two sons-in-law Daniel and Jim and three of her four grandsons, Jackson, Ethan and Carlos. Ale now has grandmom all to himself.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Stillbrave Childhood Cancer Foundation, 145 Whites Landing Rd., Linden, VA 22642 or The Children’s Neuroblastoma Cancer Foundation (CNCF), 360 W. Schick Rd., Suite 23, #211, Bloomingdale, IL 60108 or Alex’s Lemonade Stand Foundation, 111 Presidential Blvd., Suite 203, Bala Cynwyd, PA 19004.

Herbert Lewis Slade

April 29, 2021

SLADE, Herbert Lewis, April 29, 2021.  Beloved husband of Carol.  Devoted father of Frederic (Janet), Lawrence and Audrey (John) and proud grandfather of Alexander (Rachel), Lesley (Brett) and James.

Services are private.  Donations in his memory may be made to the charity of your choice.

Barry Steinberg

April 27, 2021

Barry Steinberg of Boston, MA, passed away after a long battle with prostate cancer on April 27th, 2021. He was 75 years old.

Barry was born in Port Chester, NY in 1945 to Pearl and Meyer Steinberg. He graduated Port Chester High in 1963 and completed two years of college before being drafted into the Army, serving in Thailand during the Vietnam conflict. After his service,  Barry began a lifelong career in the auto business, initially working for Duddy Kravitz at Duddy’s Tire. In 1974, he partnered with his friend, Albee Stone, founding Direct Tire and Auto Service in Watertown. After six months he bought Albee’s share and they remained lifelong friends. Barry went on to build one of the most well-known businesses in the Boston area, specializing in high-end custom wheels and winning over customers with great service, echoing his father’s motto: “the customer is always right.”  Direct Tire grew to five locations, earning the distinction of receiving the first-ever “Tire Dealer of the Year” by Modern Tire Dealer Magazine, and made Inc. Magazine’s list of “26 Most Interesting Entrepreneurs” for helping to initiate the National Retail Tire Network, a trade group that turned competitors into peers. An advocate for the small business community, Barry helped drive the “Right to Repair Act” into law.

In the 80’s, Barry’s clever marketing phrases, “We’ll Fix It So It Brakes” and “We’ll Brake, Shock & Exhaust You” became hallmarks on Mass Pike billboards. Anyone listening to the radio in Boston was familiar with Barry’s trademark voice touting ads for “Dye-Rect Tire”. Barry broke the mold by working with the Department of Corrections Work Release Program, giving former inmates a chance at employment and livelihood. He was a strong believer in mentoring and training young men and women, folding them into his Direct Tire family, which earned him fierce loyalty over four decades. Many of his friends’ kids got their first job at Direct Tire, including his own three sons.

Support for the community was also close to Barry’s heart. He spearheaded charitable drives for the Boston Food Bank, the Jimmy Fund, Boston Children’s Hospital, as well as Watertown High Robotics Team and Peabody Little League. Barry was a well-known fixture in the Boston area, rarely going out on the town without running into a customer or friend. Barry was the person you called when you were in a jam or just needed advice. He was a hero to his four kids, and it wasn’t just because he doled out free ski lift and concert tickets. He always put everyone else’s needs before his own. Barry had a great sense of humor, and even as a child, he loved entertaining people and making them laugh. He was always a gentleman and positive role model. Up until the end, he maintained a positive outlook on life.

Barry’s greatest passion was his family.  During the blizzard of ‘78, Barry met his beloved wife and best friend, Penny, sparking a 41-year marriage that was the epitome of a joyful, loving, respectful relationship. They shared a love of travel, fine dining (always sitting at the bar!) and a blended family that included his two children – Jason and Matthew and Penny’s – Dan and Sara.  When the grandkids came along, they stole Barry’s heart.  His most treasured moments were time spent with Miranda, Gabriel, Isabella, Claire, Noah, and Logan at the family lake house in Jaffrey, New Hampshire. Swimming, boating, fishing, treehouse building — so many great times over the years. Barry’s happy place was driving his boat at top speed on Thorndike Pond. Then he would cut the motor, sit back with a martini, and watch the sun set behind Mt. Monadnock.

Barry is survived by his wife, four children, and six grandchildren.

Due to Covid, graveside service and burial will be private.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Barry’s memory may be made to Care Dimensions Hospice House in Lincoln or Dana Farber Cancer Institute.

Harriet (Shanker) Walter

April 25, 2021

Harriet (Shanker) Walter, 79, of Lake Worth, FL, formerly of Sharon, MA, passed away on April 25, 2021. Harriet was a loving daughter, wife, mother, grandmother, sister, aunt, and cousin. She is survived by her husband of 57 years, Joseph, whom she met when they were in elementary school. She valued her family, community, and her Jewish faith. She was a leader of many organizations including Hadassah, Temple Israel of Sharon, and Brandeis Women. In addition to her husband Joseph, she is survived by her sister Carol Needleman of Newport, VT, and her children Richard and Risa Walter of Atlanta, GA, and Bradley and Alison Walter of Providence, RI. She is predeceased by her oldest son Barry Walter who passed away in 2011 and her beloved parents Bob and Rose Shanker. Her greatest joy was her seven grandchildren: Andrew, Rose, Forrest, Rene, Mira, Ivy and Bentzi Walter, who loved spending time with their Bubbie.

Zona Hoffman

April 25, 2021

Zona Hoffman passed peacefully on April 25, 2021 surrounded by her husband of 56 years and four daughters.

Born on June 10, 1937 in Los Angeles, CA to Zeone (Noah) and Joseph Alonzo Howard, she spent her high school years swimming competitively in Florida and spent her summers at the family resort in Wisconsin.

After graduating from the University of Florida with a Bachelor of Fine Arts, she moved to Boston, MA where, while working
as a graphic designer, she met the love of her life, Martin B. Hoffman, on a blind date. Together, they enjoyed traveling
and gathering with friends, proudly raised their four daughters and cherished time spent with their grandchildren.

Zona is survived by her beloved husband, Martin Hoffman, of Needham, MA, loving daughters Leah Morris and her husband John of Wellesley, MA; Ilene Hoffman and George B. Rogers of Hillsborough, CA; Jeryl Golub and her husband Jeff of Bellaire, TX; Miriam Tinkham and her husband Brian of Studio City, CA; grandchildren Taylor, Callen, Bennett, Lawson and Layne Morris, Orly, Olivia and Asher Golub, along with many nieces, nephews and their families. She leaves behind a legacy of love and family who will miss her dearly.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Zona’s memory may be made to Spaulding Rehabilitation Network. https://spauldingrehab.org

Elaine Karlin

April 21, 2021

KARLIN, ELAINE entered into rest on April 21, 2021 on Bay Harbor Islands, Florida. Burial took place at Sharon Memorial Park in Sharon, Massachusetts.

Elaine was the daughter of the late Ruth and Abe Blaustein. She is survived by her husband Mark, sister Deanna (Ted) Spielberg, niece Alissa (Sean O’Donnell) Spielberg, sister-in-law Laurie Wolin, devoted nurse TaTa Jefferson, and numerous cousins and lifelong friends.

Mark will be sitting shiva at his New York residence on Friday, April 30, from 2-7 pm and Sunday-Wednesday, May 2-5, from 2-7 pm.
Elaine attended the prestigious Hunter College high school in New York City.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Hunter College High School Alumnae/-i Association Gifts can be made online here: https://www.hchsaa.org/donate and in the comments box donors can indicate that the gift is in Elaine’s memory, or they can be mailed to:

Hunter College High School Alumnae/i Association
Hunter College East, Room 1313B
695 Park Avenue
New York, NY 10065

Or Feed More WNY at:

Feedmore  WNY Foundation

PO Box 5163 Buffalo, NY 14240

 

 

Susan (Talent) Hellerman

April 20, 2021

Hellerman, Susan (Talent), died on April 20, 2021 in Chevy Chase, MD. Formerly of Chicago and New York, an avid storyteller, equestrian, and music lover with a wicked sense of humor. Beloved wife of the late Don V. Hellerman, M.D.  Devoted mother of John Hellerman (Stephanie) and the late Brett Hellerman (Coleen). Proud grandmother of Alissa, Jack, Mark, Julianna, and Klee. Dear aunt of Debra Haluska and the late Lloyd Marcus. Proud great-aunt of Danny Haluska and Frank Haluska. Survived by her loving sister Sheila Rubin (Harvey) and many dear siblings. Graveside service at Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA on Friday, April 23, 2021 at 11:00 am. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to to Jewish War Veterans, 1811 R Street, NW, Washington, DC 20009.

Murray H. Smith

April 18, 2021

Smith, Murray H., of Medford, MA, passed away April 18, 2021. Beloved husband of Rosalyn (Bereznick) Smith for nearly 66 wonderful years. Devoted father of Dr. Steven Smith of Newton, MA, Todd Smith and his wife Jill of Waterboro, ME, and Gail Miller and her husband Bruce of Colchester, CT. Proud grandfather of Gabriella, Adina, Lily, and Ilon Smith, and Aaron & Samuel Miller. Murray was born in Malden, MA January 16, 1929 to the late Thomas and Mollie (Gale) Smith along with his siblings Edna, Sidney, Richard, and Burton. He graduated from Roxbury Memorial High School and Boston University School of Management. Murray was a US Army veteran of the Korean War. He was well-known within the advertising community of Greater Boston, where he was a fixture in radio sales for many years, before opening his own advertising agency. He was a longtime member of Temple Shalom of Medford. Murray loved to travel, dining out, and reading, but his greatest joy was spending time with his wife, children and grandchildren. Due to current restrictions, funeral services are private. In lieu of flowers, donations in Murray’s memory may be made to Temple Shalom of Medford, 475 Winthrop St., Medford, MA 02155.

Michele B. (Haffer-Saftler) Williams

April 16, 2021

Williams, Michele B. (Haffer-Saftler), of Hyde Park, MA, passed away suddenly on April 16, 2021. Beloved wife of Warren Mark Williams. Devoted mother of Carol (Saftler) Beane and her husband Martin, and Connie (Saftler) Cyprian and her husband Tony. Loving step-mother of Keith Williams and his wife Lori. Dear grandmother of Kaitlyn, Jacob, Andrew, Sam, Mason, Sheri, and Hunter. Michele was a proud great grandmother. Graveside service at Knollwood Memorial Park, 321 High St., Canton, MA on Tuesday, April 20, 2021 at 1 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations in Michele’s memory may be made to the American Diabetes Association, 260 Cochituate Rd. #200, Framingham, MA 01701.

 

A link to view the funeral service can be found here.

Gita Finsen

April 14, 2021

Gita Finsen (nee Brigitte Alma Mathilde Landauer), January 12, 1923–April 14, 2021. Resident of NewBridge on the Charles, Dedham, MA, formerly of Newton and Wayland. Born in Cologne, Germany, she was the daughter of the late Ernst and Ellen (Metz) Landauer. She fled Germany with her mother, brother (the late Ulrich Landauer) and her late uncle Heinz Metz and family in 1933 when persecution of Jews became official German policy and they were threatened. They waited in Switzerland until obtaining the very limited quota visas the US made available to Jews, and could then rebuild their lives in New York.

Gita attended Riverdale Country School for Girls (NY), Wheaton College (MA), and took courses at Simmons College and Boston University. After retirement as a junior high librarian in Newton, she became a successful real estate agent in Wayland.

Gita was active in community service including many years of volunteer work for the PTA, League of Women Voters, Sisterhood of Temple Shalom, and Newton-Wellesley Hospital where she was honored for her decades of service. She loved gardening, opera, long walks, reading, and puzzle games—especially besting her family at Scrabble. She will be remembered for her calm and steady approach to challenges, her generosity and dependability, and her ability to get along with everyone.

She was the beloved wife for fifty years of the late Irving Finsen, who died in 1995, and is survived by two daughters: Susan and Jill, both of Washington, DC; two sons: Peter (Myrna) of Marietta, GA and Lawrence (Susan) of Arroyo Grande, CA; two grandchildren; two great grandchildren; and loving nieces and nephews.

Services and burial at Sharon Memorial Park are private. Gita’s family is very grateful for the many years of dedicated, competent, and loving service by NewBridge employees. Donations in her memory may be made to the NewBridge Scholarship Fund, c/o Len Green (Treasurer), 4317 Great Meadow Road, Dedham, MA 02025—this fund supports staff seeking further education to advance their careers.

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