Archive: January, 2021

Gabriel Bitran-Of Newton, January 10, 2021.Graveside services are private.

Patty (Grollman) Goldman was born in Easton, Pennsylvania in 1939 to Herman and Elaine (Knobel) Grollman.  After growing up in Easton she attended Wellesley College.  She met her husband, Dick, on a blind date in her sophomore year.  That summer she went to Bordeaux, France on the Experiment for International Living and she and Dick spent time together in Europe.

They were engaged on Thanksgiving Weekend in 1958 and married in June of 1959.  Patty attended Barnard College for her senior year but graduated with a degree from Wellesley College.

After Dick’s graduation from law school, they moved to Boston.  It was an exciting time for Patty with new friends and new opportunities for activities and community involvement.

Patty lived a full life, notwithstanding two bouts with breast cancer and a long siege with Parkinson’s. She was a reporter for the Newton Times where she covered City Hall and won the respect and admiration of many city officials.  She also served as Vice President of the Newton chapter of the League of Women Voters.

After her first bout with cancer she wanted to make a contribution to the Beth Israel Hospital where she had surgery.  She was instrumental in the formation of the Friends of Beth Israel Hospital, a combination of the Women’s Auxiliary and Men’s Associates.

She served as Executive Director of the Asthma and Allergy Foundation of New England where she was involved in starting an annual golf tournament for fundraising.  Her lifelong interest in learning led her to the Lifelong Learning Program at Brandeis University and worked on its summer program on current events.  She also participated in the English as a Second Language program at Newton City Hall.

She and her husband Dick received the Community Service Award from the American Jewish Community in 2003.

She loved traveling, golf, book groups, and in later years, winters with Dick in Key Biscayne, Florida.

She touched the lives of so many people.  Her sister-in-law defined her as “having a heart of gold and a strong moral compass.”

We, her family, will miss her terribly but are proud of the life that she lived and how she touched the lives of so many people.

She is survived by her husband, Dick; her children, Elaine and Stephen; her daughter-in-law, Heidi Klein; her grandsons, Henry and Nathaniel; her brother-in-law, John Goldman; her sisters-in-law, Joan Spivak and Gail Grollman; and many loving nieces, nephews, cousins and other relatives. She is predeceased by her brother, Bill Grollman.

We want to express our appreciation to the Beth Israel Hospital, in particular Drs. Lowell Schnipper and David Simon for their outstanding care to and for Patty.  We also appreciate the care of Mature Caregivers and Care Dimensions.

There will be a virtual memorial service on Tuesday , January 12 at 7pm, the link for which can be obtained from the family.  Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations in Patty’s memory may be made to Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center.

May she rest in peace!

Gershon Goldberg-Died Jan. 2, 2021, at age 96. A resident of Arlington since 1957, he was born in Paterson, NJ; grew up in Forty Fort, Pa.; and attended Penn State, receiving his Ph.D. in 1949. A post-graduate fellowship brought him to Northeastern University, where he met Marilyn (Kossoi). Their marriage lasted 64 years, until her death in 2015.
He was a noted photographic chemist, with 13 patents and numerous publications to his name. He was a member of the American Chemical Society for 75 years, a former president of Boston chapter of the Society of Photographic Scientists and Engineers, and a longtime member of the Knights of Pythias, Ivanhoe Lodge.
He loved puns and wordplay and never lost his talent for doing any sort of word puzzle. He was a great fan of the Celtics, the St. Louis Cardinals, Penn State sports and Dixieland jazz. He was a founding member of Temple Emunah in Lexington and a longtime member of Temple Shalom in Medford.
He was a great dad to Jay Goldberg of Bethesda, Md.; Richard Goldberg and his wife, Sally, of Arlington; and Elise Goldberg of Arlington; and the favorite grandfather of Michael and Andrew Goldberg. He was predeceased by his wife and two brothers, Charles and Leonard.
Burial was held at Beit Olam East Cemetery, Wayland. Donations in his memory may be made to Temple Emunah, 9 Piper Rd., Lexington, MA 02421; Temple Shalom, 475 Winthrop St., Medford, MA 02155; or the food pantry of your choice.

Dr. David Buchsbaum, 91, died of heart failure at his home on January 8, 2021. Born November 6, 1929 in New York City, he graduated from Bronx Science high school earning his B.A. and PhD from Columbia University. A renowned mathematician, Buchsbaum was a pioneer in applying homological techniques to the mathematical fields of commutative algebra and representation theory.   After sojourns at Princeton, Chicago and Brown Universities, he chose to bring his intellect and deeply Jewish identification to the nascent Brandeis University. Arriving there in 1961, David remained passionately committed to building a first-rate Mathematics Department. Three times chair of that Department and a fellow of the American Academy of Arts and Sciences, David retired from Brandeis as the Berenson Professor of Mathematics in the spring of 1999.  A worldwide mentor to students and postdocs, David loved travel, especially to Italy. By the late 1970’s at least 75% of the algebraic geometors chairing Italian university math departments had been through David’s Brandeis/Italy exchange program. His career and contribution to Italian mathematics were celebrated throughout Italy in 1998. David’s love affair with Italy’s expressive culture mirrored his capacity for relishing all aspects of living. So vast and deep was his appreciation for language, music, art, literature, athletics, food, wine, nature, Judaism, politics, he was the Google- before -Google (complete with editorial comments!) in the lives of so many. Classmates in first grade, David and his wife Betty met again in college where the kindness emanating from David’s dimpled smile instantly won her heart. Betty graduated from Barnard, earning a PhD in English/ American Literature from Brandeis. Following a long career as poet, professor and college administrator, she retired from serving as Vice President of Mass. College of Art and Design in 2000. Married at 19, their union allowed for both independent pursuits and rich intimacy.  David played an active role raising their daughters in Newton, MA, facilitated by his capacity to “just think” while sitting with his ubiquitous yellow pad and fountain pen  during the intervals waiting to “chauffeur” daughters to and from activities. David’s unfailing capacity to listen and accept (or not!) was rivaled only by an irrepressible playfulness and unbounded love of family. In addition to many nieces and nephews, David is survived by his wife Betty, his daughters Helen (David), Susan (Karl) and Marion (Jeff), grandchildren Jessica (Kennedy), Max (Sarah), Raphaela, Gabriel (Leigh), Eva, Kyla, Katie, Sophie, and four great- grandchildren. Donations may be made to:  Brandeis.edu or nationalmssociety.org.

Arthur Levovsky-of  Brookline, formerly of New Bedford, on January 6,2021.Beloved brother of  Louis Levovsky and Laura Wolfe. Also survived by many loving nieces and nephews. A private graveside service will be held at Congregation Tifereth Israel Cemetery, New Bedford.

5/27/1968 – 1/5/2021

It is with great sadness that the family of Kerri-Jae Sussman announces her passing on Tuesday, January 5, 2021 at the age of 52.

Kerri grew up in Lincoln Massachusetts, later moving to Windham, Maine, and spent her whole career working in banking. As a child, she loved competitive swimming and ballet. But, her greatest passion was for Newfoundland dogs, owning many and serving on the board of directors of the Newfoundland Club of New England and as the co-chair of the NCNE Rescue & Referral Service over the years.

Kerri will be lovingly remembered by her partner of 35 years, Kimberly Coppenrath of Windham, Maine; her mother, Henri-Ann Sussman and predeceased by her father Joseph M. Sussman of Lincoln, Massachusetts; her brother Andrew Sussman and sister-in-law Kristina Sussman of Westford, Massachusetts; her brother Craig Sussman and sister-in-law Nadia Sussman of Lincoln, Massachusetts; her nieces and nephews Taylor, Leda, Ryan, Hailey and Owen; as well as numerous relatives and friends.

In addition to her father, she was predeceased by her grandparents Leonard and Lillian Sussman of Brooklyn, New York and Edward and Selma Bacon Simon of Marblehead, Massachusetts.

All funeral services will be private at the graveside. A celebration of Kerri’s life will be held in conjunction with the Unveiling of her headstone later in the year.

Memorial donations in Kerri’s name can be made to That Newfoundland Place, 554 Pucker Street, Coventry, CT 06238 or The Ellen Toll Katz Rescue Fund, c/o Cindi Goodwin, NCNE Charitable Trust, PO Box 659, Belmont, NH 03220.

The service may be viewed here: https://viewneral.zoom.us/rec/play/0_zYnH9dl4rURcqI_eRBCF0bpBipVSHxdWykDrvgURBmg7UD937BRkINCTU3ALjd4FOIhzzFhrP-TaSC.cW2R9xpPiFjZNwIs

George Shanahan-of  Ft. Lauderdale, formerly of Waltham, on January 5, 2021

Patricia Hollander Gross of Framingham, formerly of Cambridge and Arlington, died of heart and respiratory failure at MetroWest Medical Center on January 3, 2021, at age 79. She was the beloved wife of the late Louis N. Gross, daughter of the late Carl and Elizabeth (Lea) Hollander; sister of Charles Hollander and his wife Janet; sister-in-law of Gretchen Gross; and aunt of Amelia Hollander Ames, Deborah Gross, Megan Gross, Marcia Ratner, and Sanford Ratner.

Patricia was a photographer, poet, editor, and, as a maker of rosaries, owner of Arlington Beadworks. Patricia and Louis were active in movements for social justice as founding members of the Arlington Civil Rights Committee and many other affiliations.

Patricia graduated George School in Newtown PA, and from Harvard College, class of 1963, where she began her career in photography as staff photographer of the Harvard Crimson. Her photographs recorded a social history of greater Boston, and beyond, in the 1960s, 70s and 80s. In 2000, she earned an MA in Theology at Boston College. Her research included compiling an annotated bibliography of books about the Holocaust which she donated to the Boston College Library. A devout Catholic, Patricia attended the Church of St. Ignatius in Chestnut Hill, and retreats at the Eastern Point Retreat House in Gloucester. Patricia also maintained a loving commitment to her husband Lou’s Jewish communities of Temple Emanuel in Lowell and Havurat Shalom in Somerville.

A private graveside service was held at Mt. Pleasant Cemetery, Arlington, MA. A memorial mass will be celebrated, and a commemoration of her life will be held via Zoom (dates to be scheduled). Donations in her memory may be made to Pine Street Inn, Boston, MA, Eastern Point Retreat House Gloucester, MA, Havurat Shalom Somerville, MA, and Blue Heron Music Ensemble.

Eleanor F. Berger of Hanover, MA, January 2, 2021, 96 years of age. Widow of Harry Berger. Loving mother of Fern Weisman Kurland (Bob), and (Milton Weisman z”l), Robert Berger (Linda z”l), and Jerald Berger (z”l).

Loving grandmother of Shira Jayson (Steven), Ilana Altman (David), Adam Weisman (Margalith), and Leah Silver (Mark). Dana Berger (z”l) and Matthew Berger (z”l).

Loving great-grandmother of Daniel and Sabrina Jayson, Alex and Noah Altman, Lihie and Ari Weisman, Ethan and Kezia Silver.

Donations may be made in her memory to a charity of your choice.

Levenson, Sara Selma, of Sarasota, FL (formerly of Newton, MA) passed away peacefully on Jan 2, 2021 in her 100th year.  Beloved wife of the late Frank Levenson.  Devoted mother of Barbara and her late husband Lawrence Smuckler from West Virginia and then Rehoboth Beach, DE, and Judy Waunch and her husband, John Colliston of Burlington, Ontario Canada. Cherished grandmother of Nina Mrose and her fiancé Doug Swirsky of Maryland.  Proud great-grandmother to Jacob and Benjamin. Adoring daughter of the late Sam and the late Molly Rosenfeld.  Loving sister to Claire and her husband the late Richard Novack, and her late brother Jacob Rosenfeld and his wife Elaine.  Dear aunt to Karyn, Larry (Kerry), Ellen (Bruce), Jonathan (Arlene), David (Patricia), Marty (Susan) and the late Steven (late Sharon).

Born in Boston of immigrant parents, Sara Selma was deeply connected to her Jewish tradition and heritage. Religion, family and friends were at the core of who she was.  She and her husband Frank lived the quintessential American Dream.  After Frank served in the Army at the Tuskegee Air Base, they returned to Boston. Later, when they moved to Newton, Sara Selma dedicated herself to her family and was an active member at Temple Emanuel.  She loved to entertain, going to the theatre, listening to music, dancing with Frank and playing bridge.  She sang with the B’nai Brith Chorus in Boston for many years.  Sara Selma was a proud past president of the Mayflower Lodge of B’nai Brith. In the summertime, she enjoyed the occasional game of golf and visiting with family and friends. When they moved to Florida, she enjoyed the vibrant Sarasota Arts Scene, playing bridge and meeting new friends. Even after they moved to Sarasota, Mom always considered herself to be proudly from Boston.

Sara Selma had a full, rich life and will be dearly missed. Private graveside burial at Staro-Konstantinov Cemetery next to her loving husband Frank. Due to current Covid-19 conditions, a Celebration of Life will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Heart and Stroke Foundation.

Paul F. Rosenberg, of Framingham, MA, passed away on January 2, 2021 at the age of 90. Beloved husband of the late Marilyn (Silverstein) Rosenberg. Devoted father of David Rosenberg and his wife Janet, and Amy Rosenberg Greitzer and her husband Howard. Proud grandfather of Lauren and Steven Greitzer, and Jordan and Julia Rosenberg. Loving brother of the late Elliot Rosenberg and his wife Evelyn.

Paul was born in Boston and graduated from Boston University. He worked most of his career for the Gillette Company in Boston. There was not a crossword puzzle that he could not quickly master. He was an avid reader and tennis player. He loved to play bridge and to travel. He was devoted to his family and cared greatly for all who knew him. He had many friendships and relationships that lasted over 80 years.

Due to the pandemic, a private funeral will be held. Donations in his memory may be made to the charity of your choice.

Gelles, Morton S. “Morty”, 88, of Wellesley (formerly of Newton), passed away January 1, 2021. He is survived by his loving wife Babette (Lapidus), daughters Irene LaRosee (Charlie Bibeault) and Pam Gelles, grandchildren Nicole LaRosee, Rachael Langey, Shoshanna Bibeault and Jacob Bibeault, sister Barbara Pressman, and many nieces and nephews. Due to current health restrictions funeral services are private. In lieu of flowers donations in Morton’s memory may be made to Combined Jewish Philanthropies of Greater Boston (CJP.org) or to the charity of your choice.

Block, Eleanor (Skupp), of Lexington MA, formerly of Newton MA, Waltham MA, Burlington MA, & Falmouth MA, passed away December 31, 2020, 15 days shy of her 98th birthday. Beloved wife of the late C. Raymond Block and the late Edward Schertzer. Devoted mother of Meryl Precourt and her husband Henry and Richard Block and his wife Rebecca. Cherished grandmother of Stefanie Russman and her husband Charles, Daniel Precourt and his wife Hali, and Steven Precourt. Proud great grandmother of Harvey Precourt, and Isaac Russman. Loving sister of the late Solomon Skupp and the late Rose Pollack. Due to current health restrictions, services will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations in Eleanor’s memory may be made to Temple Isaiah in Lexington, or to a dementia or a macular degeneration related charity of your choice.

Kenneth S. Sawyer of Newton, formerly of Sharon, MA, passed away  December 31,2020 after a long, courageous battle with lung disease. He was 78 years old.

Ken was an outstandingly devoted, loving father to his daughter Andrea and his late son Jonathan, a beloved Tata to Ashley, Sophia and Diego of New Hampshire; and the cherished brother to Sandra Kurson and husband Donald of Chestnut Hill, MA, Jerald Sawyer and wife Susan of Sudbury MA and Robert Sawyer and his wife Kathleen “Sam”
of Martha’s Vineyard.

He also leaves numerous cousins, nieces and nephews who were very much a part of his life. His family has long since credited Ken with being the glue in keeping his very large family together.   He was universally and affectionately known as Uncle Kenny to both family and friends.

Ken was a well-known executive and respected leader in the sign industry. For many years he was a principal of University Brink Sign Company in Boston and later developed and led UB Maintenance Corp.  It cannot be understated the time and pleasure Ken derived from his community service.  He has long been a dedicated member and past president of the Sharon Men’s club and Sharon’s Council on Aging.

His true passion in life lay with his commitment to family and friends.  He was best known for his infectious smile, his enormous sense of humor and his charismatic, vibrant and social nature.   Ken had that unique propensity to instantly light up any room whether with family, friends or strangers.  He had a distinctive ability to make everyone feel they were the most important person in the room. It was uncanny how he could remember every story from his childhood, and made certain everyone knew all of his stories, over and over again. Uncle Kenny was truly a Pied Piper to the younger generation who never seem to tire of his sense of humor and attention.  He loved life and always viewed the brighter side of things even when it seemed impossible after the unexpected loss of his only son, Jonathan.  He will be long remembered for his generous love, affection and humor.

Funeral services: Due to COVID restrictions there will be a private gravesite funeral at Sharon Memorial Park. For those who can not attend in person a Zoom link for the service will be sent out by the family.

In lieu of flowers, contributions in Ken’s name may be made to Beth Israel Medical Center, Office of Development 330 Brookline Ave, Brookline MA 02215.

Irene Bresnick Silin, of Falmouth, Maine, formerly of Newton, MA, passed away on December 29, 2020 at 91 years old.

She is survived by her beloved husband of 69 years, Morton Sheldon Silin, and by her two loving children and their spouses, Sheryl and Mark Perechocky, and Steven Silin and Diane Lukac. She was the proud grandmother to 3 grandchildren, David (and Miriam) and Andrew (and Salma) Perechocky and Jonathan Silin, and 7 great-grandchildren.

Irene, daughter to Barnet and Clara (Dashever) Bresnick, was born on June 12, 1929, and was raised in Mattapan, MA. She received her Bachelors degree from the University of Massachusetts Amherst and her Masters degree from Simmons College Graduate School of Social Work. After graduation, she worked in the field of social work for a couple of years, but later devoted herself full-time to raising her children. Subsequently, Irene worked at Hebrew Senior Life in Roslindale, MA as manager of the Gift Shop for several years.

Irene enjoyed travel, tennis, bridge, knitting and reading. However, she was happiest spending time with her family.

Private graveside services will be held.

In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to Hebrew Senior Life, 1200 Center Street, Roslindale, MA 02131.

Michael Robert Sandler, formerly of Weston and Boston, MA, passed away at 80 years old on December 29, 2020, from complications related to Alzheimer’s Disease.

Born in Portland, Maine, on June 6, 1940, Mike was the younger son of Maurice and Dorothy (Alman) Sandler.

He is survived by his beloved wife of 58 years, Ellen Cooper Sandler, whom he met when they were both studying at the University of Pennsylvania.

He also is survived by his three daughters; Marcy (Jim Janover), Susan (Mike Brennan) and Amy, for whom he named his company “MSA”; his four grandchildren, William and Kate Janover and Jake and Dan Brennan; his older brother Jerry (Kathy), his niece and nephews; and countless people whose lives he touched.

A graduate of the Wharton School of the University of Pennsylvania, Mike served as a University Trustee and Overseer of its School of Arts and Sciences. He organized his reunion class’s fundraising effort that installed on campus the “Ben [Franklin] on the Bench” statue, which has become a university landmark. Franklin’s famous quotation, “Energy and Persistence Conquer All Things” embodied the way Mike led his life.

Mike was a lifelong entrepreneur who built and sold several businesses, including Marsan Industries (which merged with ITT Corporation), Auto Parts Distributors (which was sold to Rite-Aid Corporation) and Eduventures. A lifetime member of the CEO organization YPO, Mike served in key leadership roles including Chapter Chair, Education Chair and WPO Board member. He also served as a senior fellow at Harvard’s Kennedy School, where he conducted research on the intersection of business, government and education.

Considered one of the founding fathers of the education industry, Mike was a founder of A Different September Foundation, an organization that supported the Boston University/Chelsea Public Schools Partnership. He served as executive-in-residence at the University of Southern California, a Visiting Fellow at the Johns Hopkins University School of Education, President of the Education Industry Foundation, and a Senior Advisor at The Parthenon Group. He also authored the book: Social Entrepreneurship in Education: Private Ventures for the Public Good.

Also known as “Fenway Mike,” he was a champion of all things Boston. From the Public Library to the Public Garden, the Back Bay to Beacon Hill, he left an enduring legacy on the people, places and spaces of his chosen hometown. An avid Boston sports fan, for some 40 years he would have been spotted at Red Sox home games seated in Section 33, and on TV whenever a lefty was at the plate. In honor of his 70th birthday, he threw out the first pitch at his beloved Fenway Park.

Most important, Mike was loved by everyone who knew him: his family, friends, colleagues, the young entrepreneurs he mentored — all those whose lives he touched with his generous spirit, can-do attitude and unique way of making everyone around him feel special. If you needed tickets to a sold-out game, wise advice, a life-changing conversation, or someone to light up a room, Mike was the go-to guy so many went to.

Mike handled his illness with extraordinary grace and optimism. We are grateful to his executive assistant Sherry Campbell for being like family for decades; and for the compassionate support he received from program staff and caregivers who honored his leadership skills and creativity, his love of family and his dignity through the course of his disease.

Due to current health restrictions, private services were held. A celebration of his life will be scheduled at a later date. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory to the Penn Fund at the University of Pennsylvania  or the charity of your choice are welcome.

Brown, Murray, of Stoughton, formerly of Norwood, MA, passed peacefully at home on December 24, 2020. Beloved husband of Edith (Giss) Brown for 71 wonderful years. Devoted father of Evie Cotter, Pam Miller and her fiancé Geno, and Allison Boyland and her husband Mark. Cherished grandfather of Carrie Gilder and her husband Kye, Matt Cotter and his wife Dyanna, Sydney Obolewicz and her husband Ryan, Benjamin Miller and his wife Cai Long, Alex Miller, and Alyssa Boyland. Proud great- grandfather of Bryce, Brock, Kaylee, Brinley, Delaney, and Rivers. Dear brother of the late Rona, Howard, and Paul, survived by sister-in-law Abby Brown. Dr. Brown leaves behind many loving nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews. Murray is survived by loving son-in-law Ed Cotter. Murray will be missed by so many, including his loving neighbors and his beloved friends. He practiced dentistry for more than 40 years. Murray was a long time member of the Air Force Association, the Masons, the Boston Braves, and was the last surviving member of the Spartans. Dr. Brown served in the U S Army Air Corp during WWII and the U S Air Force during the Korean War. Due to current restrictions, services are private. In lieu of flowers, donations in Dr. Brown’s memory may be made to Jewish National Fund, 42 E. 69th St., NY, NY 10021, the Wounded Warrior Project, 4899 Belfort Rd., #300, Jacksonville, FL 32256, or the charity of your choice.

Link to service recording:https://viewneral.zoom.us/rec/play/0xs6Mz4HLiecHhlpYwDLh5DRgL6ywUN5JvzoV4akihV6g9ryLJg0B2caxf9cg8TQRJF2iAIJvIv0VayE.MJY0SG0VNeGJBAH2

Graveside service at Beth El Cemetery, Tuesday, December 29, 2020.

Funeral service can be viewed here

Tesler, Norman of Quincy, MA, passed away at age 73 on December 25, 2020. Dear son of the late William and Jessie (Molson) Tesler and later Bella (Stone) Tesler. Loving brother of Michael Tesler. Beloved uncle of Rachel and Danielle. Private graveside services were held at Sharon Memorial Park. Norman lived with a full heart and a compassion for others. A lover of the arts and language, he was most himself making friends and while enjoying music. In lieu of flowers, donations in Norman’s memory may be made to the charity of your choice.

Marian Benima-Of Newton, on December 24, 2020.

Barry Seidman, 79, Maj. USAF ret., succumbed to his battle with ALS.  He is survived by his wife of 50 years, Valerie, son Brian, daughter-in-law Kristen, grandson Tavi, granddaughter Sloane, and his sister Gail.  Barry graduated from Boston University where he was a member of Arnold Air Society ROTC.  After graduating, Barry entered the Air Force where he went to pilot training in Selma, AL.  He became a Forward Air Controller in the Vietnam War and was awarded the Silver Star for bravery.  The remainder of his 20 years in the Air Force were spent in Strategic Air Command at Pease AFB in Portsmouth, NH, the Pentagon in Washington, D.C., and Strategic Air Command Headquarters in Omaha, NE.  After retiring from the Air Force in 1982, he and his family returned to Massachusetts where he and his sister were partners in the family business, University Stationery Co. in Cambridge. He was an active member of Rotary in Cambridge and an involved member of Temple Emunah in Lexington. Anyone who knew Barry enjoyed his sense of humor, and their groans at his jokes were music to his ears.  Barry was deeply loved and will be greatly missed by those who knew and loved him. A private interment will take place with full military honors. Donations in his memory may be made to:  Temple Emunah,9 Piper Rd., Lexington MA 02421  or Compassionate Care ALS, PO Box 1052,West Falmouth, MA 02574. To the view the funeral service click here

Jon Barron-of Chestnut Hill, MA, December 23, 2020. Arrangements pending

Lorraine Edith (Atkins) Abkowitz, 88, formerly longtime resident of Lexington, MA passed away peacefully on December 23, 2020 after a short battle with COVID-19. Loving daughter of her beloved and deceased parents, Nathan and Ruth (Barenberg) Atkins and dear wife of 63 years to her predeceased husband, Stanley Abkowitz. The two met on Revere Beach and fell in love.  Beloved mother to Miles Abkowitz and wife, Donna O’Leary-Abkowitz; Susan Abkowitz and spouse, Donna Rouleau; and Robin Feiner and husband, Adam Feiner. Proud grandmother of Sarah Torrice (daughter of Miles and Donna) and husband, David; Andrew Feiner and partner, Rachel; Jessica Feiner and fiancé, Eric, and Jason Feiner and partner, Sienna.

Lorraine was a graduate of the Chelsea High School class of 1950 and studied Communications at Emerson College. She also studied performing arts and modeling at the Powers School in Boston. She had a calling for the stage, and was an avid music lover, pianist and talented singer. She performed, for decades, with Choral ensembles including Sweet Adelines, Makhaylah, and Lexington Pops and in community theater productions. With a forte in Language Arts, she enjoyed working in the Lexington schools for many years and later was a volunteer tutor of English for Speakers of Other Languages (ESOL). Lorraine and her husband, Stanley, were members of Temple Emunah since 1962 and were involved in the early building and growth of the synagogue. She was also a dedicated participant in both Sisterhood and Hadassah.

Clever, word-savvy and not camera shy, Lorraine loved to recall her appearances on the TV game show, Concentration, hosted by Hugh Downs in 1966 where she solved the puzzles to win two games, taking home cash and prizes including a trip to Bermuda. With a passion for travel, Lorraine enjoyed family vacations, joined Stanley at business conventions, and took special trips to London, Monaco, and Alaska with her daughter, Susan. She also enjoyed group tours to Israel, Italy, and Greece.

Lorraine delighted in the joy of her family during the many holiday gatherings at the homes of her son, Miles and daughter, Robin. She had a large circle of friends, a strong sense of community, and was known for her great sense of humor right to the end, despite challenges with dementia.

A funeral service with her closest loved ones was held graveside at Sharon Memorial Park, led by Rabbi Lerner. The family would like to thank the caring staff at the Lahey Hospital in Burlington, as well as the loving staff at Atrium at Drum Hill in N. Chelmsford. Lorraine will be greatly missed by her family, colleagues, and community, but the memory of her vibrant spirit will endure.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the following philanthropies: Abkowitz Family Israel and Camp Scholarship Fund to Temple Emunah, 9 Piper Road, Lexington, MA 02421, Healthcare Heroes Emergency Response Fund at Lahey Hospital and Medical Center, or Actors Fund (help for the Entertainment community COVID-19 emergency relief).

Charles (Chick, Poppa) Heinberg of Stoughton, MA, died on December 21, 2020 under the extraordinary care of CareOne Senior Care in Newton, MA. He was 75 years old.

Chick was born in New York on March 30, 1945, the son of the late Freda and Howard Heinberg, brother of Gary and the late Neil Heinberg, and brother in-law of Robert Schecter. He was proud of being a graduate of Valley Stream North High School of New York, Cornell University of New York, and the University of Detroit School of Dentistry in Michigan. He began his career as an associate dentist with Dr. Paul Sowsy in East Bridgewater MA, and opened his private general practice in 1975.

He was the loving husband of his wife, Jeri (Schecter) of 53 years, devoted father to Ami and her husband Matthew Cecil, and Poppa to his grandsons, Samuel Oliver Cecil and Maxwell David Cecil. He was an avid gardener and landscaper, and derived great pleasure as a property developer and manager. He was an aficionado of the Dunkin’ Donuts at Cobb Corner in Canton, where he met ‘the guys’ daily.  He took special joy in taking his two grandsons for Sunday breakfasts, and sharing dinner and gatherings with friends.

Funeral services will be private and graveside on Wednesday, December 23, 2020 at Sharon Memorial Park in Sharon. Donations in his memory may be made to Temple Sinai of Sharon, Hesed Fund, 25 Canton St., Sharon, MA 02067, Care-One Newton, 2101 Washington St., Newton, MA 02462, or First Choice Healthcare Hospice Services, 1842 Beacon St., Ste. 203, Brookline MA 02445.

Helen Barbara Wellinger-Of Peabody, formerly of Lexington on December 20, 2020.Dear daughter of the late Max and Annie (Heartz) Feld. Dear brother of  Gerald Feld. Loving aunt  of Jonah and the late Gabriel. Private graveside services were held at Westview Cemetery, Lexington.

Sarah Tobin, 95, of Quincy, formerly of Canton, MA, passed away on December 20, 2020. Loving wife of the late Frank Tobin. Devoted aunt of Diana Weiner. Due to the pandemic the interment will be private. A memorial service will be held at a later date.

Stephen M. Needle, 74, of Braintree, MA passed away at his home with his family by his side on December 19, 2020.

Stephen, son of Joseph and Charlotte (Leppo) Needle was raised in Milton, MA.  He graduated from Suffolk University earning a bachelor’s degree in Psychology and then Suffolk Law School earning a Juris Doctorate degree.  From 1973 through 1981 he was an Assistant District Attorney in Suffolk County, Boston, MA.  He later went on to be a sole practitioner as a Real Estate Attorney in Randolph and then Canton, MA.  He worked hard and built warm and trusting relationships with many.

Stephen enjoyed spending time with his family, which included taking cruises and going out for Chinese food.  He loved observing the Jewish holidays with his family at his home.

Stephen was the loving companion of Susan A. Gaber. Devoted father of Lisa May and Jeremy Needle. Adoring and Loving Papa to Brett Mordas, Brady May, Camden and Maya Needle.  Loving brother of Audrey Richardson and Michael Needle.  Loving son of Charlotte and the late Joseph Needle.  Stephen was predeceased by his grandfather Jake Leppo and grandmother, Mollie Leppo.

Due to the pandemic, services are private.  In lieu of flowers, remembrances in his memory may be made to the American Cancer Society, https://www.cancer.org/involved/donate.html

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Linda S. Weinberg- of Roslindale, formerly of Brookline, passed away peacefully on Dec. 16, 2020 at the age of 68. Linda was born in Miami Beach, Florida. After graduating from Miami Beach High School, Linda attended the University of Florida. One of her greatest accomplishments was graduating with a degree of fine arts. Beloved daughter of the late Louis Weinberg and Anne (Ritter) Weinberg. Devoted and adored sister of Arlene (Weinberg) Lehane of Brookline, MA. Linda is also survived by her loving nephews, Blaize of California and Aaron of Boston. Linda faced life’s challenges with strength, resolve and grace. She never wavered, nor complained. Due to the current restrictions of the Covid-19 Pandemic, the service and interment at Shara T’Filo Cemetery, West Roxbury was private. . Donations in Linda’s memory may be made to the Pappas Center Brain Donation Program at MGH.

Of Wayland Ma, formerly of Long Beach Island, NJ, passed away peacefully at the Newbridge skilled nursing care center on December 16, 2020.

After graduating from Douglass College, Millie taught 10th grade Biology for nearly 30 years. Millie loved life and lived it to her fullest. She never wavered nor complained and enjoyed every stage of life.

As a breast cancer survivor, she stayed active in helping others deal with their road to recovery. Donations may be made in her memory to the Susan G. Komen foundation.

Herbert L. Turney, of Wayland and Mashpee, MA, died peacefully in the early morning of December 15th. He is survived by his wife of 57 years, Deborah M. Turney.

Herbert, son of David and Midred (Niman) Turney, was raised in Chelsea, MA before attending Brandeis University and Boston College Law School. Upon graduation from law school, he joined the Advice Branch at the National Labor Relations Board in Washington, D.C. and later in Boston. From there, he began his lifetime career in the private practice of labor and employment law, starting at the firm of Benjamin Gordon. He joined Widett, Slater & Goldman P.C. where he became a partner, leaving in 1993 to join the Boston office of Jackson Lewis P.C. In 2008, he retired as a partner of Jackson Lewis and became in-house special counsel at Milton Cat (Southworth-Milton Inc.) a long-time client from his earlier lawyering days. He leaves a legacy of building warm and trusting relationships, and always striving to build bridges between labor and management.

Herbert spent summers at Cape Cod, playing golf with his buddies, taking long walks over the bridge at Popponesset, and following a ritual of late afternoon beach visits with his family and friends. He loved music, sang in the Temple Beth Elohim choir and Sharim, and was known to belt out a Bob Dylan song or two on guitar. His love for music was shared by his family and his daughters all followed in his footsteps of singing and playing guitar.

He is survived by his three loving daughters and their spouses, Linda and Ira Skolnik, Dana and Jay Hagenbuch, and Beth and Jon Rutchik. Herbert was an adoring and loving “Papa” to five grandchildren, Jonah and Zara Skolnik, Mo and Samuel Hagenbuch, and Rex Rutchik, and his sister and brother-in-law, Sandra and Mark Ibsen.

Herbert will be laid to rest in a private funeral on Sunday, December 20th followed by an evening shiva on Zoom. Please contact Temple Beth Elohim for shiva information. Donations in his memory can be made to Temple Beth Elohim, 10 Bethel Road, Wellesley, MA 02481.

Robert (Bob) Warshawer, 88, of Lexington MA, died peacefully on Wednesday December 9, 2020. Bob is survived by the love of his life, his beloved wife of 65 years Natalie Warshawer; son Steven Warshawer of Santa Fe, NM; daughter Marcy Ostrow and her husband Matthew of Worcester, MA; daughter Ina Lerner and her husband Rob of Midland, MI; grandchildren Rachel, Emma, Sam, Naomi, Madeline, Abigail, and Lily; great grandchildren Desmond, Petra, Margot, and Reuben.

Bob, the son of Leon and Frances (Goldberg) Warshawer, was born on April 19, 1932 in Brooklyn, NY.  He spent many years involved in the Boy Scouts, achieving the rank of Eagle Scout.  He attended Brooklyn Technical High School and then the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, where he was a proud graduate of the class of 1954, and later earned his Master’s Degree from Northeastern University.  During his college years he was a proud member of The National Society of Scabbard and Blade.  Bob remained active in the MIT Alumni Association throughout his life.

Bob and Natalie were introduced to each other by their mothers when they were teenagers.  They married in 1955 while Natalie was completing her studies at Brandeis University, and then it was off to Air Force Pilot Training in Oklahoma and Texas.  Once he got his wings, he spent two years flying navigational training missions.  After the Air Force, they settled in Lexington, MA where they raised their family and added to their circle of lifelong, dear friends.  The strength of Natalie and Bob’s loving bond is a comfort to their family, who will miss him greatly.

Bob’s legacy was expansive and included a career in engineering management in the aerospace and electronics industry, ultimately retiring from GTE in 1988.  After framing Natalie’s artwork for many years, he opened his own business, Warshawer Custom Picture Frames.  He was a Master Picture Framer as well as an artist in his own right.  He taught framing at the deCordova Museum and adult education classes in Cambridge.  He and Natalie were founding members of Temple Emunah in Lexington. He served on the Town of Lexington Historic District Commission, and was a past president and active member of the Lexington Arts and Crafts Society. He was also a member of the Cambridge Art Association and a proud supporter of Depot Square Artists.  Bob was an avid squash player and bowler, and the best conversationalist there ever was.  He had lively, pleasant, and extensive chats with everyone he ever met.

The family thanks Daniel Luzzi, Rosete Semakula, and Florence Batte for their kind caregiving.

Please read the 2012 article, “Lexington Framer, Painter Enjoy Picture Perfect Marriage.”  This article perfectly encapsulates the loving bond between Bob and Natalie.

A private graveside service will be held at Beit Olam East Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Temple Emunah, 9 Piper Rd., Lexington, MA 02421 or a charity of your choice.

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KUR, Carol, 81, of Dedham, December 6, 2020. Beloved daughter of the late Stuart Oliver and Sylvia Rosen. Loving wife of Mitchell C. Kur. Devoted mother of Alison Kur (the late Michael Oshins), Susan Lees (Matthew), Dana Snyder (Andrew). Proud grandmother of Abi, Jem and Zachary Oshins, Josh and Jake Lees, and Gabe, Ben and Jon Snyder. Sister of Michael Oliver (Claire Theroux), Martin Rosen and Seth Rosen (Joan) and loving aunt of many nieces and nephews.

Carol was born in New Haven, Connecticut
and spent her young years in Long Branch, New Jersey. Her life was guided by a
deep love of Judaism and the Arts. She served as the Executive Editor of Moment
Magazine, allowing progressive Jews across the nation to connect with world
renowned authors, journalists and clergy in spirituality, intellect, and
practice. She was also heavily involved in the leadership of The Reform
Movement, serving as a member of the executive board of the Union for Reform
Judaism and chair of the editorial board of Reform Judaism Magazine. Carol was
also an engaged member of Temple Beth Am in Framingham, Temple Israel of
Boston, and Temple Beth Elohim of Wellesley. As a lover of the arts, Carol
owned an art gallery and held season tickets to the Boston Symphony Orchestra.
She was a joyful singer, always with a melody in her heart, and lyrics on the
tip of her tongue. Above all else Carol cherished her family and friends. She
married her beloved Mitch at age 19 and they spent a lifetime together in an
extraordinary marriage, filled with deep love and affection for each other,
their children and grandchildren. She was always there for a good heart to
heart, with a sage piece of wisdom and, likely, a dessert. Her support of her
loved ones was unwavering, and her compassion always evident.

Services will be private. Donations in Carol’s memory may
be made to Temple Beth Elohim, Wellesley;Temple Israel of Boston; or the
Alzheimer’s Association.

SOLTOFF, Stephen Paul, 68, of Newton, December 8, 2020. Stephen (who went by Steve) was a loving family member, a kind friend, an accomplished scientist, and a source of joy and humor for everyone around him.

He was born in 1952 in the apartment above his father’s drug store in West Philadelphia. He worked in the store as a young man, which instilled in him a lifelong appreciation for the value of family ties, medical science, and hard work. The family later moved to Havertown, PA, where he grew up as a dedicated son to his parents, the late Sidney and Vivian Soltoff, as well as a role model (and occasional instigator) to his younger brothers, Charles and Gary. In school, he was a diligent student. Partly due to the positive influence of his high school biology teacher, he chose to study biology during his undergraduate education at Franklin & Marshall College in Lancaster, PA.

After receiving his Bachelor’s degree, he began a career in biological research but also traveled the world. He backpacked through Europe, hitchhiked across the American West, and biked along logging roads from New Hampshire to Nova Scotia. His appreciation for nature and the outdoors continued throughout his life.

In the 1970s, he began graduate studies at Duke University in Durham, NC, where he ultimately received his PhD in Pharmacology. His years in Durham were formative for him. He deepened his skills as a researcher, and he developed a close group of friends, who shared his passion for science and, more importantly, his irreverent sense of humor. One of these friends was a Zoology PhD student named Wendy Smith. Her outgoing demeanor balanced his calm grounded nature, and she adored how he made her laugh. Their bond eventually grew into not just a friendship but a partnership. They were married in 1987.

In the 1980s, Steve and Wendy moved to the Boston area to establish their careers and their family. Steve began work as a post-doctoral fellow at Tufts University and then spent close to two decades as a researcher at the Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center.

While Steve drew great pride from his work, it was dwarfed by his pride in his family. He deeply loved his sons, Ben and Alex, and taught them how to live their lives with integrity, compassion, and laughter. In 1995, the family made a home for themselves in Newton. Steve’s favorite activities included weekend outings to museums, nature walks, camping trips every August, and annual food-filled celebrations of Passover and Thanksgiving with family in Philadelphia. After retiring in 2017, Steve volunteered with the Temple Reyim congregation, documented his family history, and spent quality time with Wendy.

He passed away from leukemia shortly after celebrating his 33rd wedding anniversary, and the world lost light in an already dark time.

Steve is survived by his wife Wendy, his sons Ben and Alex, his brothers Charles and Gary, a large extended family (including gregarious clans of cousins on both sides), and many close friends and colleagues who respected and cherished him.

Services will be private. Donations in Steve’s memory may be made to JF&CS Family Table, the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society, or HIAS.

Ira M. Wallach

Age 72, entered into rest at his home in Newton, MA on December 5, 2020 after a lengthy illness, about which he was private and courageous. Beloved husband of Carol S. Wallach (Helfen) with whom he shared 56 years of companionship, including the last 42 years in devoted loving marriage. Cherished father of Dr. Jennifer R. Wallach and her husband Daniel Penrod of Newton, and Rebecca A. Wallach and her husband Eric Roberts of Chestnut Hill. Proud and loving “Pops” of his grandchildren Lucy and Ruby Penrod, and Avi Roberts. He was preceded in death by his parents, Stanley and Shirley Wallach (Cohen) and brother Steven “Butchie” Wallach. He is survived by his sister Saranda “Randy” Wallach and brother Jonathan Wallach, both of Boston.

Mr. Wallach held lifelong passions for public service and environmental advocacy. He practiced law for 42 years including 3 years in the Boston District Attorney’s office and 36 years at the Massachusetts Port Authority until he retired in 2016 as Associate Chief Legal Counsel. Additionally, Mr. Wallach chaired the Newton Conservation Commission from 1996 to 2019. In late 2020, prior to his passing, the Commission named a trail in honor of Mr. Wallach’s nearly 24 years of service and careful stewardship.

Mr. Wallach was a logophile and Francophile with a penchant for precision and esoteric facts. He was a deep conceptual thinker who viewed the world and the people in it with both astounding complexity and remarkable clarity. Colleagues, friends, and family described him as wry, humble, and fiercely loyal, and often sought his unique perspective and guidance. Mr. Wallach had a passion for playing tennis, sailing, and flying and was a gifted orator; especially remembered are the speeches he delivered at his daughters’ weddings. His favorite days were spent in Hull, Massachusetts: sailing through the gut with Carol or sitting with his family on the porch at the bay, giggling with his grandchildren while eating orange creamsicles. His birthdays there were spent in celebration: savoring absurdly large lobsters, chocolate cake, and an annual, graceful, fully-clothed “dip” in the Atlantic Ocean.

Funeral services will be private however a celebration of life will be planned for a future date. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to Boston Harbor Now. Additionally, in place of shiva, please send any photographs, videos or written memories of Ira to ira.pops.wallach@gmail.com. His family will read, listen, and view these together.

Pearl Kaplan Sherman of Framingham passed away peacefully in her home on December 4, at the remarkable age of 94 following a courageous decades-long battle with chronic illness.

Born on August 20, 1926, Pearl was the fourth child of Jenny Yegerman Kaplan and David Kaplan, a prominent leader in the North Shore Jewish community. She had fond childhood memories growing up on the North Shore where she graduated from Peabody High School and worked in her father’s leather business.

In her 20s and early 30s, Pearl, an extremely organized person with a penchant for managing people, held office manager positions at several businesses and hospitals. She lived in an apartment in Boston, just down the street from her future husband, Lee’s, dental lab. Lee and Pearl formally met at an adult camp in Gloucester, MA in 1953 and were married at the Hampshire House on an unusually warm late fall day, November 19, 1961.

In 1962, the newlyweds settled in Framingham to start a family. They were members of Temple Beth Am in Framingham and later Temple Israel of Natick. We remember her infectious laugh, unconditional warmth, tremendous sense of humor, and fierce love for her family and friends. She was also a champion clothing shopper.

Pearl is preceded in death by her siblings Irving Kaplan, Robert Kaplan, and Sarah Cohen. She is survived by her husband Lee, daughter Davida Dinerman and son-in-law Brad, and grandchildren Abigail and Ari, to whom she was “the best Nanny ever.” She is also survived by her niece Sandra Osattin and her husband Stuart and their families, and many other beloved family and friends.

Funeral services, arranged by Brezniak Funeral Directors, will be private and there will be no shiva due to regulation imposed by the pandemic. In lieu of flowers, contributions in Pearl’s memory may be made to the American Cancer Society at https://www.cancer.org/involved/donate/memorial-giving.html or to Boston Children’s Hospital at bostonchildrens.org/givenow.com or via check, payable to Boston Children’s Hospital, to Boston Children’s Hospital Trust, 401 Park Drive Suite 602, Boston, MA 02215-5301.

Bazer, Barbara (Karess), of Sharon, MA, on December 2, 2020. Beloved wife of the late Arthur Bazer. Devoted mother of Scott Bazer and his wife Yvette Chute of Dedham, MA, Robert Bazer of NY, NY, Mark Bazer of Readsboro, VT, and Deborah Bazer and her husband Lahri Bond of Lake Pleasant, MA. Barbara leaves behind loving daughter-in-law Rose Desherbinin and her husband Alex. Cherished grandmother of Stephanie & Jaime Bazer. Proud great-grandmother of Brynn Welsh. Services are private. In lieu of flowers, donations in Barbara’s memory may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association, MA Chapter, 309 Waverly Oaks Rd., Waltham, MA 02452 or the American Cancer Society, 3 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701.

Of Hayward, CA, formerly of Randolph, MA, on November 30, 2020. A memorial service will be announced at a later date.

Warkel, Stanley L., of East Bridgewater, MA, passed away at home with his loving wife and family by his side on November 29, 2020, from complications due to dementia. Beloved husband of Dianne (Abati) Warkel. Dear son of the late Robert and Ann (Kovelesky) Warkel. Devoted father of Deborah Black and her husband Greg, of Hudson, NH, Richard Warkel and his wife Ren, of Calistoga, CA, and Matthew Warkel, of Calistoga, CA. Cherished step-father of Kerry Curnow and her husband Walter, of East Bridgewater, MA, Michael Kennedy, of East Bridgewater, MA, and David Kennedy and his wife Shayna, of Bridgewater, MA. Proud Zadie of Meghan and Kory, Patrick and Noi, Caroline, Christopher, Jonathon, Dylan and Devon. Loving brother of Steven Warkel and his partner Caroline, of Wolf Creek, OR, and the late Evelyn Warkel. Stanley leaves behind numerous cousins, nieces, nephews, and lifelong friends, both personal and professional. Stan was the proprietor of Warkel Auto Parts in Brockton, MA, a founding member of the Brockton Towing Association and owner of S.W.A.P. in East Bridgewater, MA. A graduate of Brockton High School, Stan proudly served in the United States Navy on the destroyer Charles J. Badger. He was an avid horseman his entire life, training and racing on the track, riding trails throughout the Northeast and proudly standing rail-side to cheer on his daughter and granddaughters during their show careers. Stan and Dianne traveled extensively throughout the U.S. in their motorhome and summered in East Falmouth, MA and Newport, RI. Stan was happiest when he was ”’down the barn,” being silly with his grandchildren or making others laugh. He found humor in almost everything and encouraged others to do the same. Due to current Covid restrictions, graveside services will be private. A celebration of Stan’s life will be held at a later date. In Stan’s memory, the family is requesting that donations be made to benefit one of his dearest health aides (See Go Fund Me page at https://gf.me/u/zar76w), or alternatively, that donations be directed to the VA’s Fisher House Boston, PO Box 230, South Walpole, MA, 02071.

A link to view Stanley’s funeral service can be found here. https://vimeo.com/manage/488095873/general

Stephen D. Cutler, 84, a successful investment manager and philanthropist, and beloved husband, father, grandfather and uncle, died on Tuesday, November 24, 2020 after a sudden illness. Admired for his business acumen, leadership and generosity, Steve will be remembered above all for his warmth, kindness and easy sense of humor so treasured by his family and friends.

Steve was born and raised in Quincy, MA, son of Henry and Lillian Cutler, and older brother to Robert (Robbie) Cutler, who predeceased him. He graduated in 1957 from Brown University, where he made enduring friendships as a member of the Pi Lamda Phi fraternity. In 1959, Steve met Alice, the love of his life, and they shared a remarkable 60 year marriage. With Alice’s encouragement, Steve earned his MBA at Babson College and embarked on a successful career in investment management. In 1962, Steve was called to serve his country in the Air National Guard. Upon his return, Steve earned leadership positions at the Massachusetts Company, Baring America, and ultimately Essex Investment Management, where, since 1989, he was President and Senior Portfolio Manager.

Steve was active in the community and an engaged philanthropist. He supported numerous causes, but was most passionate about Babson College, Combined Jewish Philanthropies and Dana-Farber Cancer Institute. Steve served as a Trustee of Babson, where he and Alice established the Stephen D. Cutler Center for Investments and Finance, a world-class lab that advances financial education for the entire Babson community.

Most of all, Steve was a model for how to live a meaningful life. He built an extraordinary legacy of learning, listening, laughing often and giving back. He achieved success in his career yet always acted with humility, gratitude and kindness. He worked hard yet also found plenty of time to enjoy golf at Willowbend, bridge, travel, the Red Sox and his grandchildrens’ sporting events, school plays and Parcheesi games. Steve is survived by his wife Alice, his children Ellen (David), John (Rebecca) and Nancy (Mark), grandchildren Henry, Ben, Molly, Erin, Thomas, Coco and Zeke as well as many devoted nieces and nephews. He will be missed.

Donations may be made in Stephen D. Cutler’s memory to Babson College, Office of Advancement, 231 Forest Street, Wellesley, MA 02457; Combined Jewish Philanthropies, 126 High Street, Boston, MA 02110; or Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, P.O. Box 849168, Boston, MA 02284.

Stephen D. Cutler’s service

Guttman, Jean Lewinson, 98, died November 23, 2020 in Newton, MA. Married in 1943 to the late Allan Guttman. Mother of Judith Greenberg (married to Kenneth), Erica Jacobson (married to Thomas), and Joshua Guttman (married to Kalpana). Grandmother of Laura Greenberg-Chao, Ellen Sheedy, Amy Ward, Karen Jacobson, Nathan Guttman, Lisa Greenberg, and Maya Guttman. “Grandma Jean” to many more. Educated at Fieldston High School, Cornell University (B.A. ’43) and Bank Street College of Education. Long-time preschool teacher and volunteer in children’s programs and libraries. Services were private. Donations in her memory may be made to Family Access of Newton or your local Habitat for Humanity.

A Tribute To Jean Guttman by Kalpana Guttman

A Tribute To Jean Guttman by Ken Greenberg

Wolfson, Bernard Age 92, of Waltham and formerly Newton, Nov. 22, 2020. Beloved husband of Rita. Loving father of Jane and her late husband, Bill Mitchell, Deb Squires and her husband Jim. Adored Papa to Billy Mitchell and Sam Squires. Cherished brother of Dorothy (Wolfson) Steinberg and the late Irma (Wolfson) Berg. Son of the late Meyer and Celia Wolfson. Uncle to many nieces, nephews, grand nieces and nephews.

Bernie was raised in Revere, where he developed a circle of lifelong, dear friends. He proudly served in the army at the end of WWII, stationed in Italy. Following his return he graduated from the New England College of Pharmacy. He was the owner of Wolfson’s Pharmacy in Beachmont for over 25 years before selling his store and working for Walgreens until his retirement 20 years ago.

Bernie was a trusted and treasured friend who will be remembered for his quick wit, warm smile, generous nature and kind heart. He loved travel, dining out, movies, theater, spending time at the Cape, golf, the Red Sox and all activities involving family and friends. His wife Rita, whom he met on a blind date, was the center of his world for 59 years. He was a devoted husband, father, papa and son who valued family above all.

Due to Covid, burial will be private with a celebration of his life to be held when we can all gather safely together. In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory can be made to the Learning Prep School c/o Business Office 1507 Washington St.,  Newton, MA 02465 or Dana Farber Cancer Institute PO Box 849168, Boston, MA 02284.

Hyman, Harriet (Smookler), of Newton, formerly of Sharon, MA, passed away on November 19, 2020. Beloved wife of the late Richard M. Hyman. Devoted mother of Joshua Hyman and his wife Felicia, and Andrew Hyman and his wife Sara Heal. Cherished grandmother of Julianne Sarah Hyman, Hillary Dori Hyman, Reid William Hyman, and Polly Suzanne Hyman. Loving sister of David Smookler and his wife Debbie, Sugar Smookler Howar, and Jake Hyman and his wife Irene. Due to current restrictions, funeral service will be private. In lieu of flowers, donations in Harriet’s memory may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association, MA/NH Chapter, 309 Waverly Oaks Rd., Waltham, MA 02452. https://www.alz.org/manh

FALZON, Eric Michael, of Auburndale, 52, passed away November 16, 2020. Beloved son of Susan Jane Leah Rubin. Devoted husband of Dewan Renee (Lewis) Falzon. Loving father of Tevin, Aaron, and Madison. Cherished nephew of Naomi Rubin. Dear brother-in-law of Clyde Lewis III. Dear brother of Daniel, Jessica and Tina. Pre-deceased by father Joseph C. Falzon, grandparents Ruth and Leon Rubin.  Also survived by several nieces and nephews.

In addition to his family Eric has left behind countless friends, colleagues and young people who loved, respected and admired him. Eric was never without a smile, warmth and steadfast support for everyone he encountered.  His legacy, through the lives he touched, is vast.

Eric was born in New York City and re-located with his Mom in 1973 to the Boston area. He is a 1986 graduate of Brookline High School, where he played on the football team for four years.  He played in both the Agannis All-Star Football Game and the Shriners All-Star HS Football Game in 1986.  He earned a BS from Springfield College in 1991.

Private services were held. Donations in his memory may be sent “In loving memory of Eric Falzon, father of alumni Tevin, Aaron, Madison” to No Books No Ball, Orchard Gardens Middle School, 906 Albany St, Boston, MA 02119; Venmo@nobooksnoball or John M Barry Boys and Girls Club of Newton, 675 Watertown Street, Newton, MA 02460.

Okstein, Alan H., died on Nov. 15, 2020 at the age of 85. Predeceased by his wife Sheila (Elliott) Okstein, he leaves their children Sarabeth Okstein and Lawrence Okstein, daughter-in-law Lisa Beatty, grandchildren Shelby and Daniel, his wife of fourteen years, Karen, her two sons Michael and Joe Procaccini, and brother-in-law Chris Anderson. He also leaves his sister and brother-in-law Marlene and Arthur Swotinsky, their children Lisa, Amy, and Debra, and their families. Burial will be private. Donations may be made to Department of MA,  Marine Corp League, State House Rm. 545, Boston, Mass. 02133.

“Out of the past, a mentor’s voice” news article by Joe Fitzgerald

Kenneth Barry Green of Needham, MA, passed away surrounded by his loving family on November 14, 2020, after a year-long struggle with pancreatic cancer. He was a proud, loving, and dedicated husband, father, grandfather, brother, uncle, nephew, and friend. An avid golfer, he died while the Masters played in the background, as all who loved him would have expected.

Born and raised in Newton, MA, he was the loving son of the late Esther and Lawrence Green.  He is survived by his wife Chris of Needham (by way of Lima, Peru), by their daughter Andrea Pogorek and her husband, Brian of Hudson, MA, and by their daughter Erica Newman and her husband Brandon of Chattanooga, TN. He was also a doting grandfather of Erica and Brandon’s children, Henry and Lydia; his proud Facebook posts of his grandchildren were unrivalled.

Kenny was a loving older brother to Howard Green, who survives him, along with sister-in-law Elizabeth Green, and sister-in-law Patricia Varón. He was the beloved uncle of three nieces and a nephew, Emily, Laura, Shannah and Isaac.

A graduate of Babson College, Kenny spent much of his career at Filene’s Basement, serving as a buyer and Vice President of several women’s departments until his retirement. He most recently was employed by Tournament Promotions, through which he set up charity golf events for non-profit organizations throughout the United States.

Kenny was an athlete and sports enthusiast. Some of his favorite lifelong memories were forged on the ball fields of Newton and at Camp Cedar in Casco, ME, where he excelled in all sports, especially water skiing, and where he made lifelong friends, who have been “drinking a highball” to him from all over the country during this last year.

In addition to the great pride he took in his family, his proudest accomplishments were at The Haven Country Club in Boylston, MA, where he spent much of the last two decades, serving on the Board and as Membership Chair. Though he loved to socialize at the club, he also loved to compete, and together with his golf partner, he won numerous tournaments and awards. Kenny golfed until just weeks before his passing surrounded by his numerous, devoted friends.

Private graveside services will be held at Or Emet Cemetery in compliance with COVID protocols. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to Dana Farber Cancer Institute, P.O. Box 849168, Boston, MA 02284.

Kirshner, Charlotte (Adler), of Newton, MA on November 14, 2020. Born in Medford, MA September 9, 1921. Beloved wife of the late Sidney Kirshner. Devoted mother of Leslie Pearlstein and her husband Arthur, Audree Dyson and her husband Bob, and Niki Pugach and her husband Sam. Cherished grandmother of Rachel Raifman, Naomi Leon, Rebecca Baizen and her husband Andrew, Alex Dyson and his wife Jen, Meredith Dyson and her partner Sasha Veljanov, Jill Lewis and her husband Ben, Emily Pugach and her husband Jason Magida. Proud great grandmother of Spencer Raifman, Ava Baizen, Lila & Ari Magida, Sophie Lewis, and Elodie Dyson. Predeceased by siblings Pearl Weiner, Jack (Sonny) Adler, Irving Adler and Charles (Buddy) Adler. Survived by sister-in-law Wayne Adler (Irving) and many nieces and nephews. Also remembered by special cousin Frances Ross. Our heartfelt thanks to her caregivers Ruth Nalugya, Georgia’s Girls, and Nurse Nancy from Good Shepherd.

Charlotte was above all devoted to family, a true matriarch. In addition, she was a good friend, mentor, confidant, good listener, superb hostess, professional volunteer, avid bridge player, golfer, amateur thespian, charming, compassionate, witty, a fighter, a people person, romantic, and gave great hugs. Charlotte will live on in the hearts of many.

Charlotte was a force of nature – if she wanted something to happen, she gave her all to make it happen. Her most intense focus was family. In her childhood days, her own family took care of cousins and other family members. In her adult years, she was devoted to her mother in her declining years and always helped out her siblings in their times of need. As one of 5 siblings, she hosted all the families for the holidays, often with parties of 40 or more spilling through the house. Marathon Day parties were legendary. She was supportive of all her children’s endeavors, selling Audree’s jewelry at craft shows, working bingo at Leslie’s temple, supporting Niki’s work with animals and hospice. She continued with her grandchildren, roller skating with them, providing Apple Jacks during sleepovers (when sugary cereals were not allowed at home), sharing her home with them when they needed it, and supporting great grandson Spencer’s Chronic Zebra Foundation. She volunteered at schools, chaperoned trips, led brownie/girl scout groups. She shared her home with beloved cousin Franny for many years at various times. She always said her three daughters brought her three sons, they were that precious to her.

Charlotte was equally devoted to friends. One friend tells of how, after a grueling surgery, Charlotte came and took care of her, telling her husband “I’ve got this. Do what you have to do” so he could keep working. Many have commented that when they had problems, they would talk it out with her and find a solution. Many of her friends were younger, and she had no trouble keeping up with them! Everyone, friend and relative alike, raved about her hugs.

Her mind never stopped. If there was an issue, she analyzed it from every angle. Even in her last weeks, in the midst of her own pain and discomfort, she spent one night worrying about her granddaughter’s new apartment and where the emergency exit would be if she needed it. She certainly never gave up on trying to improve the quality of her own life. Right to the end she was searching for a solution to her own problems, finding a doctor who would have the key to fix what ailed her, combing through catalogues for things that might make her life more comfortable or easier.

Charlotte was a romantic, and loved a good love story. She was supportive of all couples, as long as they were in love, starting when her own daughter wanted to marry someone from outside the faith, even promising to ‘sneak out of the house’ to attend the wedding if necessary. It carried through to some of her granddaughters as well. She was accepting of all people.
Vanity thy name is Charlotte. She always cared about her looks. The last trips out of the house other than doctors’ appointments were to the hair and nail salons. In her final hospital stay, when the nurse complimented her on her nails, she said ‘oh, no, they’re shabby, they need to be done’. In her weakest moments, she insisted her hair be combed, and one loyal aide helped her with lipstick and blush. She looked beautiful right to the end.

She loved to be needed. After becoming a widow in her seventies, she became a school volunteer in Florida, helping out in a classroom for many years with a teacher who became a personal friend. In the last few years, her love of bridge, combined with her need to be needed, led her to become a mentor in her daughter’s bridge group. Again the girls, much younger than she, valued her skills and warmth.
She was an enthusiastic amateur thespian, participating in plays and reviews in temple and country clubs over the years. Her performance as Lola in Damn Yankees was one perfectly suited to her, and brought her acclaim from all who saw it.
She grew up poor, but claimed she didn’t know she was poor because they were happy. She supported causes that were important to her, becoming a member of Brandeis National Committee as soon as it was formed, was a volunteer for Israel Bonds, held many volunteer positions in temple sisterhood and her country clubs.

Due to current restrictions, services are private. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Brandeis National Committee Honoring our History Campaign (www.brandeis.edu/bnc) or Good Shepherd Community Care (www.gscommunitycare.org).

To view service click here: https://vimeo.com/481033388/bc9f953919

We are deeply saddened by the passing of our beloved Samuel on November 10, 2020, from complications of heart disease.  Devoted husband of forty-nine years to Linda, loving father to Adam and Sarah, father-in-law to Andrew and Whitney and adoring grandfather to Toby Samuel and Evelyn Rose.  Sam leaves his devoted brother, Burt, dear cousins and in-laws, and many friends and colleagues. A private graveside service will be held this week.

Born in Boston in 1939 and raised in Newton, Sam was a 1963 graduate of Boston University.  In addition to his beloved family, he leaves many dear friends and former colleagues from his successful fifty-five year career in business and real estate.  In 1989, Sam helped design his award winning “green” office building, the first of its kind in Watertown.   Always hardworking and innovative, Sam was the Founder and President of the New England Building Wreckers Association/ Environmental Remediation Specialists, from 2005-2019.

Sam loved his work and embodied the self-made man, self- taught and knowledgeable in many areas; construction, demolition, engineering, finance, architecture, law and more.  His skilled hands and innate problem solving ability defined his famous “hobby” –the ability to “fix” anything, broken or not!

Facing retirement, Sam’s greatest regret was dismantling his much loved demolition company “Edifice Wrecks”.  From hundreds of demolished buildings, he collected architectural antiques and treasures, which were stored and sold in a large warehouse (or brought home). Sam’s favorite expression was:  “I never worked a day in my life!”  He reluctantly retired at age 75.

Alav-ha-shalom…may peace be upon him.

Sam will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him.

Remembrances may be sent to the Dana Farber Cancer Institute, P.O. Box 849168, Boston, MA 02284, Boston Children’s Hospital Trust, Attn: Gift Services, 401 Park Dr., Suite 602, Boston, MA 02115  or charity a of your choice.

Lorraine R. (Cooper) Tobin,  91 of Brookline, MA. Wife of the late Daniel Tobin, Beloved mother of Herbert of Needham,  Rhonda Davis and her husband Howard of Sharon and Stuart and his wife LeAnn of Baltimore.  Grandmother of Rachel Monn and her husband Matthew,  Adam Tobin and his fiancée Nora Conklin, Scott Davis and his wife Lindsay, Emma Hensley and her husband Henry, and Ethan Tobin.  Great Grandmother of Noah Monn and Blake Davis. Loving  sister of Thelma Shuman, Howard Cooper,  the late David Cooper and Loving aunt to several nieces and nephews.

Lorraine loved reading, playing bridge with friends and teaching her grandchildren to master scrabble and card games.  She enjoyed a discussion on local and national politics as well as scoring a bargain at Filenes and the Star Market.

A private family service will be held.

Donations may be made to the Carroll Center for the Blind, 770 Centre Street, Newton, MA 02458.

Written by Bryan Marquad Boston Globe November 10,2020

A curious boy who gazed at the stars from his mountainside Greek village and wondered how the universe came to be, Kosta Tsipis was only 11 when news arrived that the first atomic weapon had been dropped on Hiroshima, Japan.

“After the bomb went off, I sent away for a book because I wanted to understand it,” he told the Globe in 1987. That moment set him on a course toward studying nuclear physics and becoming a prominent voice for disarmament during the Cold War arms race. “I had come to believe that reason must prevail,” he said, and for him, that meant using his knowledge of the destructive capability of nuclear weapons to persuade politicians and ordinary people that a war of that magnitude was a dangerous folly.

Dr. Tsipis, who formerly directed the Program in Science and Technology at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology for International Security, died at home Saturday in Lasell Village in Newton after a period of declining health. He was 86 and had previously lived in Brookline for many years.

“So great are the excesses of the era of nuclear overkill that the American and Soviet strategic nuclear arsenals can be reduced by 50 percent — and more — without risking security,” he wrote in a 1988 op-ed for The New York Times. “Political, military, and psychological reasons strongly point toward the wisdom of reductions.”

Along with writing books and essays that appeared in publications such as the Times, the Globe, and Scientific American, Dr. Tsipis traveled to Washington, D.C., to lobby US senators, representatives, and officials of President Ronald Reagan’s administration.

During an era when that administration’s Strategic Defense Initiative — the “Star Wars” missile defense system — was much in the news, Dr. Tsipis published his book “Arsenal:

He offered a “layman’s primer on America’s present and planned nuclear arsenal,” reviewer Sue Halpern wrote in the Times.

“Writing from a scientific, not a political, perspective and drawing on unclassified government documents,” Halpern added, “Mr. Tsipis addresses vital questions: How, theoretically, does the hardware work? What are its vulnerabilities? Will it work in practice? Does it enhance American security?”

And his research ranged beyond weapons to the havoc they would wreak.

Dr. Tsipis was the lead author for “Nuclear Crash,” an MIT study that was based partly on four years of computer simulations of the consequences of nuclear attacks. The study found that a limited attack on the United States by only 1 percent of the nuclear arsenal of what was then the Soviet Union would set off a decades-long collapse of America’s economy and lead to mass starvation.

An attack aimed at energy production, transportation, and other key industries could leave survivors at “near-medieval levels of existence,” said the study, which was released in 1987.

“Ours is the first study to be quantitative on the minimum needed for so-called mutual assured destruction,” he told the Globe that year.

Dr. Tsipis “was very much in a tradition that had been established, especially at Harvard and MIT, of scientists — especially physicists — getting involved with issues regarding defense and disarmament,” said Fred Kaplan, who had been one of his students at MIT and later was the Globe’s defense reporter. Those scientists were not simply lobbying for arms reductions, “but were applying their fields of science to actually researching the effects of these things and ways they can be controlled,” said Kaplan, an author who is now the national security columnist for the online site Slate. “They got deeply involved with public policy, and Kosta very solidly fell into that tradition.”

An only child, Kosta M. Tsipis was born in Athens on Feb. 12, 1934, and grew up in a small village near Delphi on Mount Parnassus. His parents were Michael Kosta Tsipis, an engineer, and Zoe Alexiou.

“His life is an amazing story,” said Dr. Tsipis’s son Yanni of Westwood.

During World War II, “his parents took in a Jewish family and sheltered them,” Yanni added. “If the Germans had discovered that, they all would have been executed.”

Sitting in his MIT office during the 1987 Globe interview, Dr. Tsipis said that the “war was existentially terrorizing. It completely defied rationality.” At times, German soldiers conducted sweeps of the village, counting residents and mattresses to see if families were hiding anyone.

“I think that experience informed his whole life and forged a moral compass,” Yanni said.

After completing high school in Athens, Dr. Tsipis secured a spot at Rutgers University in New Jersey and traveled to the United States in 1954. He married Magda Yannousi, whom he met on the ship on the way over. They had a son, Mikel of Framingham, and their marriage ended in divorce.

Dr. Tsipis graduated from Rutgers with a bachelor’s degree in electrical engineering in 1958 and a master’s in atomic physics in 1960. He received a doctorate in high energy nuclear physics from Columbia University in 1966 and began teaching at MIT. While there he met Judith Ebel, a graduate student in another department, and they married in 1970. After finishing her doctorate in biology at MIT, she was a biology professor at Brandeis University, where her husband also taught for about a decade after his time at MIT. “He was a wonderful loving husband,” she said.

They had two sons, including Andreas, who died in 1998 of Canavan disease, a fatal, progressive neurological disorder. The experience led Judith to found the Genetic Counseling Program at Brandeis in 1992.

“He inspired the founding of the most respected program in genetic counseling in the country that trains specialists to help people like his mother and his father,” Kosta Tsipis said in a eulogy at Andreas’s funeral. Andreas “made the lives of many people richer and their understanding broader” and he “made his family stronger and wiser,” Dr. Tsipis added. “That’s quite a list of achievements for a young man who communicated mostly with his smile.”

In addition to his wife and two sons, Dr. Tsipis leaves four grandchildren.

A celebration of his life and work will be announced.

Though Dr. Tsipis was a renowned physicist, he also “had a Greekiness about him,” his wife said. “Even though he became an American citizen, he maintained that Greekiness verve of life that was very special.”Dr. Tsipis, who was an informal adviser to George Papandreou, a former prime minister of Greece, was “a warm and passionate soul who loved life — people, food, a good tray of baklava — and always carried with him a concern for human beings that I think came from his experiences as a child,” Yanni said.

Kaplan recalled that Dr. Tsipis “was very keen on the central experiences of life in a way that you wouldn’t always expect from someone coming out of this field. He understood that the whole point of this is to build a life that is more creative and enriching.” Speaking Greek, English, French, and some Italian, Dr. Tsipis “was an amazing life force,” his wife said.

Over the door of their second home in Truro was a sign they had made with the Latin phrase hic habitat felicitas — here lives happiness.