Obituaries

Perlo-Barbara, (Esther B.), 77,of Newton Centre, died peacefully at home on August 3, 2013. She was born in Chelsea, on November 3, 1935 to Natalie and Samuel Cloper. She attended Simmons College and worked as a Director of Medical Records until she married Lionel H. Perlo in 1960. She is survived by her loving husband Lionel and her children: Douglas and Alison; their wives: Rebecca and Alyssa: her grandchildren: Zachary and Noah; and by her sister Selma Grosser. Graveside services at Sharon Memorial Park (120 Canton St., Sharon), on Tuesday, August 6, 2013 at 11:45 am. Following services, memorial observance will be at the home of Lionel H. Perlo until 8 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the charity of your choice.

Cyker, Jankel “Jack”, of Boston, MA on August 1, 2013. Graveside services at Staro-Konstantinov Cemetery, (776 Baker St., W. Roxbury, MA) on Sunday, August 4, 2013 at 11:00 am.

Cyker, Jankel “Jack”, of Boston, MA on August 1, 2013. Graveside services at Staro-Konstantinov Cemetery, (776 Baker St., W. Roxbury, MA) on Sunday, August 4, 2013 at 11:00 am.

 
Age 98, of Chestnut Hill, on July 30, 2013. Beloved husband of Charlotte (Margolis) and the late Evalyn Channen. Devoted father of Susan Wilcon and her husband Fred, Norman Kaswell and his wife Linda. Dear grandfather of Jonathan Wilcon, Joshua, Aaron, and Emily Kaswell. Loving great grandfather of Charles Kaswell. Dear brother of the late Ernest Kaswell. Harold was Past District Deputy Grand Master of Boston (Second Masonic District) and Past Master of Moses Michael Hays Masonic Lodge. Well known in the Boston Musical community he was an accomplished organist and played piano well into his 98th year. An Army veteran of World War 2 he was a proud member of General George Patton’s unit fighting in Germany and Omaha Beach. Graveside services at Sharon Memorial Park (Opposite 41 Dedham St.) Sharon, on Friday, August 2, 2013 at 10:45 am. There will be no memorial week. In lieu of flowers remembrances may be made to VA Healthcare System, VIST Program (Visual Impairment Services Team) c/o Kelly Dunn, 150 South Huntington Ave., Boston, MA 02130, or The Wounded Warrior Project, PO Box 758517, Topeka, KS 66675.Special thanks to the staff at The Brighton House Nursing Home for taking such good care of Harold.

of Randolph, formerly of Sharon, on July 29, 2013. Beloved wife of the late Samuel Kessler. Devoted mother of Joel Kessler and his wife Judy. Dear grandmother of Samuel Kessler and his wife Gina and Allison Curtis and her husband Gregory and great-grandmother of Ava Jayne Kessler, Theodore Lucas Kessler, Natalie Hudson Curtis, and Arielle Theodora Curtis. Dear sister of the late Arnold Turesky, Sanford Turesky, Ruth Baker, and Leona Winick. Services at Temple Israel of Sharon, 125 Pond St., Sharon, on Wednesday, July 31, 2013 at 11 AM.  Burial will follow in Sharon Memorial Park. Memorial observance will be held at the home of Joel and Judy Kessler immediately following the burial on Wednesday until 8:00 PM, Thursday from 1:00-4:00 PM and 6:00-8:00 PM, and Friday from 1:00-4:00 PM. In lieu of flowers, remembrances in her memory may be made to Temple Israel of Sharon, 125 Pond St., Sharon, MA 02067 or to the Susan G. Komen Breast Cancer Fund, P.O. Box 660843, Dallas, TX 75266.

of Newton, MA and Thousand Oaks, CA peacefully passed away in his stepson, Richard’s home in CA on July 27, 2013. He was 96.

Born in PA, one of six children, in 1939 he joined the National Guard at the age of 21. He left his job as a mail carrier to join the army full-time.

 In 1942 he continued military training in England where he met his first wife, Ruth.  In 1944 he was sent to Normandy.  David served in the 29^th Infantry Division as a lieutenant and captain earning two bronze medals for his bravery in Normandy. After the war, he returned to England to marry Ruth and then moved to MA. After 20 years of marriage, she died of cancer.

Later, he met and married Ruth Walerstein Brightman of Nantasket, a widow with three sons. David earned a PhD from Cambridge, England and a doctorate at Harvard University in English language and literature. He was a professor at both Lesley and Bentley Colleges.

On both coasts, he was a life-long member and very active in the Masons, the synagogues with which he was affiliated, and Meals on Wheels in Thousand Oaks, CA.

He is survived by his loving wife, Ruth, three step-sons and their wives: Jerry and Nancy of NH, Alan and Melissa of CA & NY, and Richard and Allison of CA,nine grandchildren, Michael, Erica, Mia, Jesse, Alex, Alyssa, Deborah, Matthew, Maely, a great granddaughter, and his two siblings: his sister and brother-in-law, Adeline and Lother Laub of Stoughton, MA and his brother, Al, of Baltimore, MD.

Graveside service will be on Thursday, August 1, 2013 at 2:00 PM at the Adath Jeshurun Cemetery, 350 Grove St., West Roxbury.

Expressions of sympathy to honor his memory may be donated to:  Hebrew Senior Life, 1200 Centre Street, Boston, MA 02131  http://www.hebrewseniorlife.org/.

Shifres-Manuel, of Brockton, MA on July, 23, 2013. Beloved husband of the late Sylvia (Meltzer) Shifres. Devoted father of Annette and Leonard Shifres and his wife Jodi. Dear grandfather of Tara Miles, and Mandy & Tiffany Cannizzaro, Sarah and Sydney Shifres. Great grandfather of Dylan, Marley and Jacob. Loving brother of Samuel, Joseph & Anna Shifres. Graveside services at Zviller Cemetery (Baker St., W. Roxbury) on Friday, July 26, 2013 at 2:00 pm.  In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to the Red Sox Foundation, 4 Yawkey Way, Boston, MA 02215.

Alvin Theodore Rich, 90, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, July 23^rd, at the Miriam Boyd Parlin House, in Wayland.  During his last weeks in this most supportive and loving Hospice care residence, family and friends surrounded Alvin and were granted the gift of sharing their loving memories with him.

Alvin was born in Boston on November 13, 1922, the son of Rose (Silberstein) and Mark Rich and the loving brother of the late Herbert Rich.

“Al” was married to his childhood sweetheart, Beatrice (Katz) Rich and spent the last 67 years with his bride.  Bea took wonderful care of her “Al” for the last few years as he struggled with many incidents of congestive heart failure and needed in-home care from her and the Natick VNA.  Alvin was most grateful for this loving support.

Alvin was the loving father of Rosanne Kates, and her husband, Lou, and Irwin Rich, and his wife, Joni.  He was the devoted Papa to Brad Kates, and his wife, Allison, Scott Kates, and his wife, Randi, Matthew Rich, and his wife, Leanne, Kimberly Rich, and her fiancé, Philip Mauch, and to his grandson, David Rich.  Great Papa Alvin especially enjoyed his great grandchildren, Maya, Danny, and Spencer Kates and was greatly looking forward to the birth of two more great grandchildren.

Alvin Rich was a Veteran of World War II.    He enlisted in the U.S. Army at the age of 19.  Because of his knowledge of dental products learned as an intern in high school as a delivery boy for the Dental Supply Company of New England, he was stationed at the Walter Reed Hospital.  When returning home, Mr. Rich entered the dental supply profession and became a noted dental supply salesman who believed in high quality customer service.  In his professional and personal worlds he was renowned for his honesty.  Alvin Rich was one of the owners of the F.W. Massell Company, a dental supply company in Kenmore Square.  He also worked for Rower Dental, Healthco International, and other dental supply companies, servicing dentists in Boston, throughout MetroWest and in the Worcester area, as well.  He was “the dental supply Internet” long before the Internet was invented.

A funeral service will take place on Thursday morning at 10:30, at Temple Beth Sholom, 50 Pamela Road, Framingham.  Burial will follow in Woburn.  Shiva will take place at his daughter’s residence on Thursday evening (7:00 – 9:00), Friday afternoon (1:00 – 4:00), and on Sunday (1:00 – 4:00 and 7:00 – 9:00).

Donations may be made in Alvin Rich’s memory to the Natick Visiting Nurse Association, 209 W. Central Street, #313, Natick, MA 01760, to Open Spirit: A Place of Hope, Health & Harmony, 39 Edwards Street, Framingham, MA 01701 (Nourishing Teachers/Strengthening Classroom Project), or to a charity of your choice.

Even though Dan Rothenberg was one of the most successful real estate developers in New England, he kept a remarkably low profile. He was a developer of The Mall at Chestnut Hill and numerous other projects, but his name rarely surfaced in the media, as much by design as by chance.

“My father really had an abhorrence of self-aggrandizement and ostentatiousness,” said his son, Ned, of Brooklyn, N.Y. “What mattered to him were the personal connections with the people he was dealing with, and his ability to see the actual effectiveness of what would happen. If he did something, he wanted it to make people’s lives better.”

That was true in business and in the approach Mr. Rothenberg took to widely spreading the wealth he accumulated. Instead of making a few large contributions to well-known institutions, he gave to some 200 nonprofits regularly. He visited every place he supported and made it clear his donations were meant for them, rather than to reflect on him. He never wanted his name on a building.

“He would often tell people if they sent him more than a handwritten thank-you note, he would never give money again,” said Deborah Denhart, who worked for Mr. Rothenberg on charitable matters. “He felt so strongly that the time, the money, and the effort should go to the work, and not toward making donors feel good about themselves.”

Among the institutions Mr. Rothenberg helped support was his alma mater, Dartmouth College, and human service agencies such as the Pine Street Inn homeless shelter. The vast majority of the agencies to which he contributed, however, were nonprofits such as Julie’s Family Learning Program, which only secured its own space in South Boston less than a decade ago.

“Some of them are places you never heard of, that have tiny, tiny shoestring budgets,” said Denhart, who added that Mr. Rothenberg was so averse to flashiness that he didn’t like the word philanthropy.

“He would say, ‘Deb helps me with my stuff,’ ” she said with a chuckle. “I have no business card. That is not how he operated, which is what made him a joy to work for.”

When he visited each nonprofit to which he contributed, Mr. Rothenberg asked to meet the janitor, who he saw as a bellwether of how the agency was run. “He would always ask to talk to the person who, as he said, took care of the place, and wanted to know if that person was treated well,” Denhart said.

A sharp and perceptive businessman, Mr. Rothenberg succeeded partly by paying close attention to the particulars of every project. He and Julian Cohen, his partner in C&R Management, pored over ever detail.

“One day he told me, ‘If you can’t figure it out with a Number 2 pencil and a pad of paper, don’t do it,’ ” said Phil Ortins, vice president of the company.

“And every deal they made was figured out on a yellow pad of paper,” Ortins said. “They would sit across from each other and talk about it. The next day, they’d do it all over again. They’d tear up the paper and do it again to make sure they didn’t make a mistake. And they’d keep doing it and doing it and doing it. It was very simple.”

By the time Mr. Rothenberg and Cohen, who died in 2007, sought financing for a project, they carried in their formidable memories every figure a banker might want.

When it came to projects, however, Mr. Rothenberg was as concerned about each fit in the fabric of the community.

“This can be a joyous place, a neighborhood rather than a regional shopping center,” he told the Globe on the February day in 1974 when the ribbon was cut to officially open The Mall at Chestnut Hill.

Two decades later, dressed unassumingly as always, he strolled through the mall, conversing with shoppers he recognized, and disposing of stray pieces of trash he spotted.

“This is a nice place,” Mr. Rothenberg told the Globe in 1994. “It feels good.”

Daniel E. Rothenberg grew up in Brookline. His younger brother, the late Dr. Michael B. Rothenberg, became a prominent child psychologist.

Their father bought and sold goods and the family struggled financially in the Great Depression, and lived in a Coolidge Corner apartment.

Mr. Rothenberg graduated from Brookline High School in 1942 and went to Dartmouth, from which he graduated in 1946. He spent part of his college years at Yale University, where the Army sent him for several months to study Japanese during World War II, until it disbanded the program. He also was stationed in Cuba.

In 1948, Mr. Rothenberg married Susan Saftel, who skipped her Radcliffe College graduation for their wedding, which was on the same day. The couple went to Paris, where he studied at the Sorbonne.

“Instead of a short honeymoon, they went to live in France for a year because he had money from the GI Bill and they had a great time,” their son said.

Returning home, Mr. Rothenberg went into the real estate business and by the early 1960s was partners with Julian Cohen, who though younger had also attended Brookline High and Dartmouth.

“They never had a contract between them,” Ortins said. “As Danny used to say, they never had an argument. They had disagreements, but they never had an argument.”

Instead, they enjoyed a great deal of success, which didn’t temper the way Mr. Rothenberg treated tenants and workers at the malls and shopping centers C&R Management developed.

“He would talk to them all, and he would talk to them the same way,” Ortins said. “It didn’t matter if you were the landscaper or the president of Bloomingdale’s.

In addition to his wife and son, Mr. Rothenberg leaves a daughter, Ann of West Stockbridge, and two granddaughters.

A service will be announced.

“There are no Dan Rothenberg wings on any hospitals and there won’t be, which doesn’t mean he didn’t give to any hospitals,” his son said. “But he savored small organizations. He didn’t like to deal with development offices and people who were professional fund-raisers. He wanted things to actually happen.”

Over the past 15 years, Mr. Rothenberg paid all the expenses not covered by scholarships for about 160 college students from low-income families: computers, books, travel to and from school, studying abroad, monthly stipends for sundry items.

“He would say to them: ‘Don’t think about what you can’t do, think about what you can do, and then ask me,’ ” Denhart said.

That was also the case with Rosie’s Place, a Boston shelter for homeless women, where Mr. Rothenberg facilitated renovations, expansions, and contributed to annual costs.

“The great thing about Dan was that he heard what we wanted to do and he turned it into answers and solutions for us,” said Sue Marsh, the executive director.

Mr. Rothenberg, she added, also “gave great advice for running a nonprofit. One thing he said was, ‘Don’t get trapped by the bricks. Don’t get trapped by what you’ve got. Think about what you need to do.’ ”

When they visited a few weeks before he died, “one of the things he said was, ‘Aren’t we lucky that we get to do the things we do,’ ” Marsh said. “I will miss seeing him and hearing from him. He was a sweetie.”

Beloved husband of Susan (Saftel) Rothenberg. Devoted father of Ned Rothenberg, Ann Rothenberg, and the late Jane Rothenberg. Dear grandfather of Emma Rothenberg-Ware and Camilla Faith Rothenberg. Loving brother of the late Dr. Michael B. Rothenberg. Memorial services will be held at a future date. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to Rosie’s Place, 889 Harrison Ave., Boston, MA 02118, Boston Healthcare for the Homeless, 780 Albany St., Boston, MA 02118, Greater Boston Legal Services, 197 Friend St., Boston, MA 02114 or a charity of your choice.