Stephen Halem of Newton, MA, passed away on February 13, 2023. Beloved husband of Lynne Halem.  Devoted father of Adam Halem and his wife Heather, and of Samantha Halem and her husband, David Himelfarb.  Proud grandfather of Maya, Jacob, Lucas, and Travis. Loving brother of Roberta Penchina and the late Richard Halem.

By profession, Steve was an oral surgeon, a 1966 graduate of the University of Pennsylvania School of Dental Medicine followed by a postdoctoral fellowship at Forsyth Dental Institute and Harvard University and a postgraduate degree in periodontology from Tufts University.

Steve was deeply committed to research in the area of dental disease and to excellence in clinical practice.  He was beloved by his patients, who valued his gentleness and his endless stories to calm their nerves.  Most of all, they viewed him as a friend.

First and foremost, Steve was a family man.  To him, his family was the best, something he never hesitated to tell anyone who would listen to him.

Steve was loved and admired by all who knew him.  He was always ready to engage in conversation, lend a smile, or a helping hand.  His presence and kindness will be missed by all.

Steve retired in June of 2016 due to the early onset of Lewy Body Dementia. In lieu of flowers, donations in Steve’s memory may be made to the Lewy Body Dementia Association. Funeral services at Temple Shalom, 175 Temple St., West Newton, on Wednesday, February 15, 2023, at 10 am. Following services, a memorial observance will be at the home of Lynne Halem, details provided at the service.

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Deborah Marlowe Hauser died peacefully at age 86 on February 11, 2023, after a period of declining health. She faced the end of her life as she did everything else, with grace and dignity. To the end, Deborah remained actively connected with and engaged in the lives of beloved family and friends.

Three generations of Deborah’s progeny will remember her with smiles. She and her husband Harry Hauser built their family and shared an almost-five-decade-long marriage, until his passing in 2003. Deborah often said she had wanted “four sons, four years apart” and indeed – from age 19 to 31, every four years – she and Harry welcomed their sons Mark, Joshua, Bradford and Matthew. Deborah appreciated her connection with the families of her sons and their wives, Andrea, Kate, Nurit and Susan, and felt blessed at each milestone reached by the grandchildren and great-grandchildren she had the pleasure of knowing: Jeff and George; Zach and Jake; Daniel (and his wife Einav), Jonathan, Tuvya, and Rachel; Ben and Alex; and Ariel, Yair and Lavi.

Deborah grew up in Brooklyn and Great Neck, New York. Her younger brother, Brian Marlowe, survives Deborah; their older sister, Nina Marlowe, predeceased her. As a child, Deborah was a disciplined student and a lover of books and art. Before she chose to defer her studies to begin her family, she was prepared to study Art History at Barnard College.

Deborah enjoyed a lifelong love of literature: she read avidly, recommended astutely, and supported public libraries everywhere she lived. She appreciated art and enthusiastically introduced her children and grandchildren to museums in Boston and New York. The Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum was a particular favorite. Over decades, Deborah created beautiful needlepoint works, many customized as special gifts for children and grandchildren. Deborah played the piano, attended the Boston Symphony Orchestra’s performances weekly for years and years, and had classical music playing in her home from dawn to dusk. She served many institutions, including Big Sister Boston, the Wang Center, the Boston Museum of Fine Arts, the Temple Israel Sisterhood, the Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum, and the Boston Symphony Orchestra, where she was ultimately named an Adviser Emeritus.

Deborah was a beautiful woman at every age, and suffused her homes and endeavors with beauty, style, and elegance. With her green thumb, she nurtured plants with amazing results. Her gardenias bloomed year after year and she gifted generations of spider plants to family and friends. Her homes displayed her mindfully collected and curated art, furniture, and curios. Family and friends appreciated but could not match Deborah’s consistently conscientious correspondence; she kept postal services busy delivering notes and cards around the United States and to destinations in Canada and Israel.

Deborah participated actively in Jewish life, marking the weekly Sabbath, supporting numerous communities’ institutions, and engaging in lifelong learning. She loved to travel and her many journeys to Israel were among her favorites.

Deborah and Harry chose Newton, Massachusetts as a wonderful place to raise their sons. Later they enjoyed their Lake Winnipesaukee life together. Deborah was fortunate at age 70 to embark on her friendship with David Booth. In recent years, Deborah settled into a daily routine centering on caring for Gus (her Yorkshire Terrier) and Fred (her lovebird parrot) and, with David, dining at their favorite restaurants and exploring the New Hampshire and Maine coasts. Deborah and David shared 16 beautiful years of travel, adventure and companionship in and beyond Wolfeboro and Exeter, New Hampshire and David will feel her absence deeply.

In every endeavor, Deborah touched the lives of the people she met, sharing her friendship and love. Many more people than just her sons and grandchildren appreciated and benefited from her maternal love, support and wisdom. Deborah will be missed by family and uncountable friends.

Rest in peace, Deborah, Mom, Gram. We’ll all continue to love you “millions and billions”, x 4.

Services at 11:30 am Tuesday, February 14, Temple Emanuel, 385 Ward St, Newton Centre, MA., 02459. Burial at Temple Emeth Cemetery, 776 Baker St. West Roxbury. Shiva will follow the burial and be held at Temple Emanuel from 2pm – 5pm and on Wednesday and Thursday evening from 6pm – 8pm at the home of Dr. Mark and Andrea Hauser.

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Roberta “Bobbi” Arbetter, 88, of Chestnut Hill, MA, passed away on February 7, 2023, knowing that she was deeply loved and that her memory will be a blessing to her children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

Bobbi was born to Morris and Betty (Berman) Feldman on March 3, 1934, as Roberta Sandra Feldman, in Boston, MA. She grew up in Brighton.  She graduated from Simmons College in 1955 with a major in social sciences and was involved with Hillel.

Bobbi was a highly competitive Bridge player, who enjoyed the game so much she even adopted “No Trump” as a political belief. She loved playing cards and did her best to teach bridge to her grandson, whom she hoped would still get the hang of it one day. Bobbi loved skating, tennis, bowling, traveling the world, and vacationing with her husband and children in Europe and the Pacific Rim. She was a loving and accepting grandmother who was always excited to cheer on her grandchildren in whatever new endeavor they took on.

She is predeceased by her late husband Albert, sister Ronnie, and stepdaughters, Jodi and Bunny. Bobbi is survived by her children, Stephen and Stacey, her grandchildren, Jennifer, Douglas, Samantha, Mia, Brady, Vinny,  great-grandchildren, Mackenzie and Rocco; and her best friends Marilyn Wolman, and Kaila Balder.

A graveside burial service will be held at Sharon Memorial Park, on February 10, 2023, at 10:45 am. If you wish to honor Bobbi’s memory, please consider a donation in her name to the Friends of Dana-Farber, 450 Brookline Ave., SW 120, Boston, MA  02215.

Saul J. Palder passed away peacefully on February 5, 2023 at age 96. Known to most people as Bubbles, Saul is survived by daughters Caron Palder (Ed Weiss) and Amy Palder (Christiane Palder-Levine), grandchildren William Weiss (Meagan McGee), Casey Weiss (Dylan Hercher) and was predeceased by his wife Rhoda Silver Palder. Saul was born in Boston, Massachusetts – a city that he loved passionately and where he resided the majority of his life.

Saul was a proud veteran of the Navy, serving in WW 2. He felt so strongly about serving his country he lied about his age so that he could enlist early. The youngest of 5 children, Saul stood out for his big personality. Quick with a joke and a twinkle in his eye, he was often the center of any gathering.

Saul graduated from the University of Miami where he playfully says he “majored in golf” and went into the family tire business. He was married to the beautiful Rhoda Silver and they remained married for 65 years. Saul always said that he was so lucky to have married Rhoda. She supported him devotedly throughout their life together. When the family business failed, they moved to Tucson, Arizona with their infant daughter, Caron. But Boston called him home and they returned after a short period of time. They moved into an area of Newton called Oak Hill Park which had been designed primarily for veterans and was a wonderful place for their children. A second daughter, Amy was born almost 7 years after Caron and all were delighted.

Throughout his life Saul was largely in businesses related to the automotive industry and met much success. He had his own tire business, a muffler business, bought and managed a large commercial building in Hyde Park, and supplied parts to thousands of muffler stores throughout the U.S. and Canada. Saul, always a thinker, began to try to create a better catalytic converter. While that invention did not come to fruition his true passion of creating a better mousetrap was born.

In his 70’s Saul obtained a patent for a product that became the “Smart Spin”, a divided lazy susan with containers that would neatly organize your cabinets. This product was brought to market by the “As Seen on TV” people and became the largest seller in their history. He was on the cover of “Inventor” magazine. He continued coming up with ideas throughout the rest of his life.

Saul and Rhoda traveled extensively and spent many winters in Puerto Rico at the Rio Mar Hotel. Saul became the “mayor” walking through the halls and being greeted by everyone.

Saul always liked to cook and had his specialties. His home fries were the best and he once brought his amazing clam chowder to Felicia’s restaurant in the North End for her to taste. She said it was really good. Saul and Rhoda were regulars in the Boston dining scene.  He just had to call and say “a table for Bubbles” and he got one.

Saul loved sports. He was a lifelong Red Sox fan and even had a try-out for the team. In later years he was most passionate about football and drove Amy and her wife Christiane crazy trying to find the Patriots game on TV in Atlanta.

Saul touched people in all facets of his life. He always wanted to be known as a mensch, and he will be remembered that way by many. He will be so very missed.

Services will be held on Friday, February 10,2023 at 11:30 AM at the Allen Center, 35 Webster Street, West Newton. In lieu of flowers, donations in Saul’s memory may be made to The Jimmy Fund.

Esther Epstein, of Newton, MA passed away February 5, 2023 surrounded by her loving family.

Esther was known to all as “Nana,” because anyone who entered her presence she immediately welcomed as family. She was the quintessential matriarch, who devoted her life to ensuring loved ones were happy, healthy, and most importantly, fed. If you were ever lucky enough to attend a holiday or event Nana hosted, you were no doubt amazed by the level of planning and preparation that went into every spread — from pots of her special sweet meatballs, to perfectly tender brisket, to delicious kugel, to her trays upon trays of the most spectacular cookies you’ve ever tasted. Nana was an overachiever when it came to hosting, and the end goal was always to create a special place where her family could convene, celebrate and enjoy each other’s company – ultimately forging an unbreakable bond between her children, grandchildren, nieces, nephews and anyone else who entered her home.

Beloved wife of the late David J. Epstein for 53 years. Dear daughter of the late Aaron Franklin and Anne (Granofsky) Franklin. Devoted mother of Sandra Hain and her husband Efraim, Linda Strand and her husband Michael, Andrew Epstein and his wife Lisa, and Jerold Epstein and his wife Jacqueline. Proud grandmother of Jessica, Rebekah, Avital, Elahd, Jennifer, Stephanie, Justin, and Alison. Loving sister of the late Sumner, Barbara, and David Franklin.

Services at the Chapel at Sharon ,Memorial Park 40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA on Wednesday, February 8, 2023 at 10 am.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Esther’s memory may be made to Hebrew SeniorLife’s Hospice Care Program, Development Dept. 1200 Centre St., Boston, MA 02131, or a charity of your choice.

“Long story short,” Hedva Ann Kobes, March 20, 1947 – February 4, 2023, was an extraordinary wife, mother, grandmother, sister, daughter, and friend. She spent her life loving deeply, always fascinated by and bringing out the best in the people around her. She and her husband of 52 years, David Kobes, raised their family in Bethesda, MD and relocated to Brookline, MA in 2014 to share in raising their granddaughter.

Hedva engaged with the world with a fierce intelligence and gentle wit. Born to Robert and Jane Goldman and raised in Cheltenham, Pennsylvania, she graduated as the valedictorian of the College of Education at Penn State University and earned her master’s degree in English Literature. In her career teaching English language learners at the City University of New York and as a leader at Junior Achievement of Greater Washington, she was committed to helping those disadvantaged by our systems. Her passion for politics centered on an insistence for expanding equity and justice.

With Hedva, family came first. She was always a teacher and guided her children to their full potential. Her family and friends cherish “safety mom’s” instructions such as “little bites and chew” or “there’s more than one way to skin a cat.”

Hedva is survived by her husband David Kobes, brother Michael Goldman, children Solomon Kobes and Deborah Kobes and their spouses Kimberly Kobes and Kenneth Avery, her grandchildren Jin Kobes and Eleanor (Laika) Kobes, and cousins Fern Indelicato and Lynn Landau and their families.

In lieu of flowers, we ask that contributions be made to Demos. A Memorial Service will be held on Sunday, February 12, 2023 at 1:00pm at the Nathaniel Topliff Allen House, 35 Webster St., West Newton, MA. A reception will follow. The family requests that all attendees please be masked.

The memorial service will take place on March 20th at 1:30 pm at Congregation Beth El, 8215 Old Georgetown Rd., Bethesda, MD.

Joseph Hochstadt passed away peacefully on February 2, 2023 at 92 years old.
Joseph was born in Bronx, New York and was a longtime resident of Queens, New York. He was a Korean War veteran serving in the Marine Corps Reserve, and worked for PepsiCo as a chemist for 44 years.

Joseph had a keen interest in science. He was an avid reader of chemistry, technology, and astronomy magazines. Our family enjoyed viewing the night sky with several reflector telescopes he built himself.

Joseph was predeceased by his wife Violet and his brother Harold. Joseph is survived by his sister Ruth Wolf, son Gary, and wife Mindy, daughter Susan Siroka and husband Marty, four grandchildren: Peter Siroka and wife Elisabeth, Michael Siroka and wife Marisa, Michelle Hochstadt, Steven Hochstadt, and three great- grandchildren.

Donations in Joseph’s name may be made to the Jewish National Fund or Alzheimer’s Foundation.

John Bliss, 82, of Newton, Mass., died of complications from Parkinson’s disease on February 1, 2023. A man who lived his values each day, he leaves behind a light carbon footprint and legacy of deep community impact in the city where he lived for 55 years.

Born on February 11, 1940, in New York City, John spent his boyhood in Bedford, New York. His lifelong love for the environment was inspired by the nearby Westmoreland Sanctuary where he roamed the fields and woods and fished in nearby streams.

John was passionate about protecting green space in Newton and creating safe roads for cyclists and pedestrians. As president of the nonprofit Newton Conservators, he spearheaded the city’s acquisition of the last large parcel of open space on the Charles River in Newton to create the 57 acre Nahanton Park. He chaired the Newton Bicycle/Pedestrian Task Force and served as secretary of the Newton Citizens Energy Commission. He was active with the Democratic City Committee, Newton Sister City Project, and Kidney Transplant/Dialysis Association. For ten years, he worked with a group of Newton residents to successfully pass a snow shovelling ordinance that ensured sidewalks were accessible to pedestrians during the winter.

John’s daily routine reflected his environmental commitment. He recycled, rode his bicycle to work, shopped with canvas grocery bags, and installed LED lightbulbs, a generation before these practices were common.

In the summer of 1963, John was among a group of Harvard Law School students who travelled to the South to support civil rights activism. He worked with the Donald L. Hollowell Law Firm in Atlanta that represented the first black students to be admitted to the University of Georgia. He later recalled a meeting with the late U.S. Congressman John Lewis, who was the same age as John and then chairman of the Student Nonviolent Coordinating Committee (SNCC).

His devotion to the environment and to civil rights was surpassed only by the love he had for his family. He married his wife, Tamara (Guzik), in 1964 and their two children were born a few years later. John had a special love for the White Mountains in New Hampshire. Whenever he reached a summit, he would look at the mountain range and name every mountain in view. He participated in Sierra Club work trips in Alaska, New Mexico and Colorado, where he assisted park rangers in trail and building maintenance. As a couple, John and Tamara took week-long backpacking trips. They toured New England by bicycle and on cross-country skis. Later, they studied Italian and took five trips to Italy.

A devoted husband and father, John coached his son’s soccer team, spent countless hours on homework, led family hiking trips, and instilled a love of lifelong learning. His children said they didn’t need an encyclopedia or Google, as they could ask Dad for information on nearly any topic and he’d know the answer.

John led an active life despite significant health challenges. Diagnosed with kidney disease at age two, John received a kidney transplant from his sister, Virginia, when he was in his forties. He lived with the transplanted kidney for 42 years, far surpassing expectations.

John spent most of his career in information technology at the Central Transportation Planning Staff, a state agency dedicated to transportation in the Boston region. A graduate of Harvard College and Harvard Law School, he learned computer programming in the 1960s and got in on the ground floor of the emerging IT profession.

He is survived by his loving wife of 58 years, Tamara (Guzik); children, Stephen Bliss of Brookline and Mimi Bliss of Nashville; grandson, William Barrett of Nashville; sister, Virginia Bliss of Sutton, Mass.; nephew Peter Guzik of Holland, Penn; and many beloved cousins. He was the son of the late John B. Bliss and Maude Lee Bliss.

Donations may be made in John’s name to Newton at Home or Newton Conservators. There will be a celebration of life in the Spring.

Marjorie G. Kane-Of Waltham, on January 31, 2023.Beloved daughter of the late Eugene B. and Florence (Cantor) Blinn. There will be no services.

Joyce Olin, a long-time resident of Cherry Hill, New Jersey, passed away peacefully on January 30, 2023 in Dedham, Massachusetts. She was 95 years old. Joyce was born in Brooklyn, New York, and lived most of her life in Cherry Hill, New Jersey. Joyce served as an active board member and president of the sisterhood of Temple Emmanuel for many years. Even into her 90’s, Joyce enjoyed telling jokes and debating Jewish history. Joyce loved her audio books, trivia and staying up to date on current events.

Joyce was predeceased by her husband of 66 years, Robert, and her sister Helen Steinburg. Joyce is survived by her son, Ken Olin and daughter-in-law Gerri Olin and her daughter Laurie Bean and son-in- law Eddie Bean, as well as five grandchildren, Amanda and Ryan Davis, Dale Olin, Brian Olin and Alkistis Karatzis. Joyce is also survived by four great-grandchildren. A graveside service was held on February 1,2023 at Locustwood Memorial Park in Cherry Hill, New Jersey, under the supervision of Platt Memorial Chapels.

Donations in her memory may be made to Perkins Library in Watertown, Massachusetts @ support.perkins.org.

A link to view the livestream service can be found here.

John M. Kube-Of Dover, MA,” passed away suddenly” on January 27, 2023. Beloved husband of Stephanie (Forrest) Kube. Devoted and amazing father of Nicolas and Abigail Kube. Dear son of the late Diana Hamilton and Jerome Kube. Dear brother of Joe, Glenn, Sheryl, Jerry, and Doug. Services at Temple Beth Shalom,670 Highland Ave., Needham, on Tuesday, January 31, 2023, at 1:00 p.m.  Memorial Observance at his residence Tuesday evening 7-9 pm and Wednesday and Thursday from 2-4 pm & 6-8pm. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to The Nature Conservancy (Nature.org).

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Winslow “Bob”, 95, a longtime Newton resident, passed away on January 25, 2023. Bob was born to Alden Winslow and Mary Louise (né LaBelle Lebrun) Read in Brockton, MA in 1927. He grew up in Newton, and graduated from what was then Newton High School. After serving in the Army in Berlin from 1945-1946, he attended Boston University on the GI Bill, graduating in 1952. He then went on to complete a Master’s Degree at Stanford University, and eventually, a Doctorate in Counseling Education at Boston University. Along the way, he met and married M. Margaret Read, and moved back to Newton. Throughout his life, Bob was devoted to the field of counseling and education. He was a tenured faculty member at Northeastern University in Boston, MA for over two decades, and then after retirement, he continued to teach at Salem State College. Bob had a love of life and an intrepid and adventurous spirit. He thought Boston was the best place in the world. He loved theater, travel, reading, talking politics, making beach plum jelly, spending time with family on Cape Cod, singing, all things sports, and of course, the Red Sox. He is survived by his two daughters, Jennifer and Laurie, sons-in-law Craig (Colder) and Charlie (Woods), and his three grandchildren, Amelia, Charlotte, and Piper. A memorial service and celebration of Bob’s life will be held on Saturday, February 11th at 11:00 a.m. at the Allen Center (Nathanial Topliff Allen House) at 35 Webster Street, Newton, MA, 02465. Parking lot is on Cherry Street. A reception will follow at the same location. Burial plans are private. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to Newton at Home, or the Brandeis University Osher Lifeline Learning Institute (BOLLI).

Isadore Cutler, aged 98.5, of Framingham, MA, passed away on January 23, 2023 at Casa De Ramana in Framingham. He was the son of the late Samuel and Dina Cutler of Waltham and brother of the late Benjamin Cutler. He leaves his beloved wife of 77.5 years, Phyllis Cutler.

Isadore, also known as “Eddy”, was a devoted and loving father to his three children, Charles Cutler(predeceased), Linda Cutler Landsberg and Stephen Cutler. He was loved and admired by his four grandchildren and their spouses, Elana and Jesse Beatus, Ben Landsberg and Sadye Sagov, Sam Landsberg and fiancee, Mel Killian, and Arielle Landsberg Evans(predeceased). He adored his great-grandson Myles Beatus and great-granddaughter, Lyla Landsberg.

Eddy was born in Waltham, MA. At 18, he enlisted to serve in WWII. Along with his unit, he landed on Omaha Beach on D-Day, dealt with the aftermath of the Battle of the Bulge and liberated Buchenwald Concentration Camp. Eddy was awarded many medals, including France’s highest honor, The Legion of Honor. Senator Markey had a flag flown over the Capitol on September 27, 2013 in Eddy’s honor. Eddy lived with the memories of the horrors he witnessed.  He was thrilled to make the trip to Washington, D.C. with the Honor Flight organization. ”I wouldn’t give it up for anything”, he said, recalling people lined up cheering at the airport! Being a Holocaust liberator, he shared his experiences, along with Phyllis, talking to children in the Natick High School, as part of Facing History and Ourselves Program.

Eddy, along with Phyllis, owned and operated Master Cleaners in Saxonville for 25 years. He was well known and respected in the community. During the 67 years that he was a member of Temple Beth Sholom of Framingham, he served on various boards and committees. Eddy was also a member Of the Jewish War Veterans and the Disabled American Veterans (DAV).

A private funeral service will be held at Sharon Memorial. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in his memory to Temple Beth Sholom, 50 Pamela Road, Framingham, MA 01701.

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Merle J. Halpryn, of Newton, Massachusetts passed away on January 22, 2023, at the age of 87. She is survived by her son Stuart, his wife Anthea (Amdahl) and their 4 children Rebecca (Spencer Wood), James, Michael and Elijah; her son Bruce and his partner Chas Riebe; her son Scott, his wife Julia (Breslof) and their 2 sons Zachary and Joshua; and her daughter Suzanne (Halpryn) Woodworth and her 2 daughters Alexandra and Kristin.

Merle grew up in NYC’s Lower East Side and is a graduate of the High School of Performing Arts in Manhattan (now High School of Music and Art). Merle was an amazing and talented actress and followed theater and Broadway shows (and music) her entire life and was very involved in community theater.

She instilled in all of her children and grandchildren a love of the arts and culture, an acknowledgement of the necessity of being good people and the importance of laughter. Merle exemplified the concept of being loyal to family and friends. She was witty, feisty, funny, stubborn, but always forgiving. She’ll be remembered for her ability to listen, her love of family, love of theater, of fashion, good food and good books.

Graveside service will be held at Kopagoirod Cemetery, 776 Baker Street, West Roxbury, MA on Wednesday, January 25 at 1:00 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association.

Sidney Norman Klein of Holliston, MA (formerly of Milford, MA) passed away peacefully on Saturday, January 21, 2023, at the age of 77.  He was the beloved husband of Janis (Burmon) Klein.

Along with his wife of 33 years, he is survived by: his daughter Kristen (Klein) Colston and her sons Noah and Ethan; his daughter Stacy (Klein) Madia, her husband Brian Madia, and their sons, Theo, Cooper, and Eli; and his step-daughter Lynn (Burmon) Lombardo and her daughter, Ella.  He is also survived by his sister Nanci (Klein) Beyer and her husband Stephen Beyer, as well as several nieces and nephews.

Sid was preceded in death by his parents, Harry and Beatrice (Marcus) Klein, and Mary (O’Brien) Klein, his wife and the mother of Kristen and Stacy.

Sid grew up in Milford, MA, attended Milford Public Schools through the 11^th grade and graduated from Cheshire Academy. He received a Bachelor of Arts degree from Norwich University, and later earned an MBA at Bryant College. He also served as a 1^st Lieutenant in the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War.

Sid was a longtime member of the Milford Lions Club and served on the Milford School Committee. He was an avid golfer and diehard fan of the New England Patriots.

Graveside service will be held at Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham St., Sharon MA on Monday, January 23^rd at 1:45pm. Shiva visitation will take place at the family residence on Tuesday, January 24th from 12-5pm.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to The American Cancer Society in Sid’s memory.

Carl Samuel Keselman

DOB 10-16-1931

Carl Samuel Keselman of Reading, MA (formerly of Lexington, MA) passed away peacefully on Friday, January 20, 2023, at the age of 91.  He was the son of the late Harry and Mary Keselman.  He leaves behind his beloved wife of 65 years, Shirley R. (Gateman) Keselman.

Carl was a devoted father to his daughter, Laura Keselman and his son, Dr. Ira Keselman and his wife Dr. Shari Keselman.  Cherished grandfather of Samantha Keselman Harwood and her husband Marc, Hallie Keselman Zachary Keselman and Erika Keselman.  Proud Great Grandfather of Blake and Bennett Harwood.

Loving brother of Phyllis Bonin and the late Frank Keselman.  Dear uncle to many nieces and nephews.

Carl grew up in Roxbury, MA and graduated from The New England College of Pharmacy and became a registered pharmacist working in Brookline, Winchester, and Watertown.

Carl was a lifelong member of Mystic Valley Masonic Lodge.   He enjoyed reading and was always interested in learning.

Graveside service will be held at Westview Cemetery, Lexington MA on Sunday, at 11am.

In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to St. Jude Children’s Hospital in Carl’s memory.

Joan Ruth Miller Abrams , a life long resident of Brookline, died peacefully on January 19, 2023. For 64 years she was the beloved wife of the late Honorable Herbert Abrams, retired Justice of the Superior Court of Massachusetts. Loving mother of Richard Bruce Miller Abrams and adored grandmother of Michael Ian Miller Abrams and his wife Helen Abrams. Daughter of the late Maurice I. Miller and Minna Broos Miller of Brookline, and devoted sister to the late PFC KIA Richard Bruce Miller. Private memorial services were held at Temple Israel Cemetery, Wakefield, MA. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Richard Bruce Miller Endowment Fund at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center, 330 Brookline Avenue, Boston, MA 02215 or to a charity of your choice.

A link to view the recording of the memorial service can be found here.

Dara Rosenblatt Mehta of Wayland, 69, passed away on Jan. 19. She leaves behind her beloved husband, two children, three grandchildren and countless friends.

Originally from New York, Dara moved to Boston in 1975, where she met Noshir, a dentist associated with Tufts Dental School. The two were married in 1977 and settled in Wellesley, the start of 45 years of joy together. Professionally, Dara created and ran a successful Distance Dental Education program for Tufts, which took her all around the globe. Dara loved travel, meeting people, and above all her family.  Her outgoing personality and willingness to meet individuals with respect and an open heart meant she made friends easily and kept them for life.

Memorial service to be held Jan. 29, 3 pm at Congregation Or Atid in Wayland, Massachusetts.

Irwin Gilden, aged 96.5, formerly of Lake Worth, FL and Long Island, NY, passed away on January 15 at Brigham and Women’s Hospital in Boston. He was the son of the late Samuel and Elizabeth Goldstein. He leaves his beloved bride of 74 years, Marilyn Krieger Gilden. Their love affair began when they were 15 and 16 years old at Sharei Tefilah Synagogue in Far Rockaway, NY.

Irwin was the very best Dad to his devoted daughters and their husbands, Susan and Robert Freedman, and David Freedman, and Shelley and Robert Fish. He was the adored Poppop to Alyson Freedman, Adam Freedman, Scott and Alli Fish, and Andrew Fish, and the Great Poppop to Finn Rowe Fish.

Irwin was predeceased by his loving brother-in-law Maxwell Krieger, and leaves his sister-in-law Bette Krieger Halpert and her husband Jay Halpert, and his New York nieces and nephews and their families.

Irwin was born in Lawrence, NY, was the valedictorian of his Hebrew School, served in WWII, and then graduated from NYU. He had a long and successful career in retail advertising, which brought him to the Boston area in the 1970s.

Irwin was an avid sportsman who enjoyed horseback riding, racquetball, skiing, swimming laps, and golf.  He loved to bodysurf and swim buoy to buoy at Atlantic Beach, Douses Beach, and West Palm Beach. He and Marilyn enjoyed bridge games with friends and family.

Poppop loved watching his grandsons participate in High School ski races, even during extreme cold temperatures. A highlight of Poppop’s birthday celebrations was listening to his granddaughter sing Edelweiss and My Heart Will Go On, his favorite song.

Irwin was a talented color-blind artist, whose beautiful oil paintings hang in the homes of many of his family and friends.

A private graveside service will be held at Sharon Memorial on Wednesday. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to The Shohet Family Fund for Ewing Sarcoma Research in honor of Irwin and Marilyn’s young cousin, Noah.

Robert “Bobby” D. Sharton, age 64, of Newton, MA, passed away peacefully on January 13, 2023, surrounded by loved ones. Adoring and devoted dad to Ben and Maddie. Beloved brother of Jim Sharton and his wife Gretchen, and Rick Sharton and his wife Brenda. Treasured uncle to Theo, Will, Drew, Charlie, Chloë, Alec, and Phoebe. Former husband of Patty Cutler-Sharton. Friend to so very many. Services at Temple Beth Shalom, 670 Highland Ave, Needham, MA, on Wednesday, January 18 at 1 pm. Memorial Observance will be at the residence of Jim Sharton and Gretchen Fischer after the service from 4-9 pm and Thursday from 4-9 pm. In lieu of flowers, remembrances to Alzheimer’s Association at alz.org.

A link to view the recording of the funeral service can be found here.

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Kerry Dugan passed peacefully on Tuesday morning, pain-free and surrounded by family. An arduous struggle with Lewy Body Dementia slowly stole one of the most beautifully gifted minds one might have the pleasure to encounter. As a veteran, father, grandfather, husband, brother, and professor, he touched thousands of lives with his unique flavor of philosophy, religion, ethics, the paranormal, and terrible jokes.

Kerry was an Air Force veteran, serving at Sculthorpe Air Force Base in England before returning to the U.S. in 1964 to attend Northeastern University.  While at Northeastern he pursued his passion in theatre, serving as president for the Silver Masque for several years, working as a crew member, student director, and excelling as a stage manager.

Kerry’s first co-op job as a computer programmer at John Hancock Life Insurance Company led him down a career path in IT, where he directed computer centers at such companies as the United Way, Camp Dresser & McKee, and Tufts University.

Ultimately however, his love for philosophy and teaching beckoned too strongly to ignore. Building on his undergraduate study of philosophy, Kerry pursued advanced degrees in education and philosophy during which time he began teaching under the tutelage of a master in the Socratic method of teaching philosophy.  His 25-year career as a charismatic faculty member in the philosophy department at Northeastern University touched the lives of countless students, so many of whom felt their lives had been forever changed by him.  He lives on in the lives of others.

Graveside service at Hand in Hand Cemetery, Centre St., West Roxbury, on Monday, January 16, 2023 at 12 noon. Shiva will be held at his late residence, Monday 5 – 8 pm, Tuesday 2-4 & 6:30 – 8 pm, and Wednesday 6- 8 pm.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Kerry’s memory may be made to the Lewy Body Dementia Foundation or the Tibetan Association of Boston.

Marjorie (Cohen) Kraft of Longboat Key, FL, formerly of Newton, passed peacefully at age 98 on January 12, 2023. Beloved wife for 48 years of the late Melvin D. Kraft. Devoted mother of Fred Kraft and his wife Debby, Bruce Kraft and his wife Karen, and the late Debra Sinai and her surviving husband Eli.  Dear grandmother of Marci Kraft, Jeffrey Kraft and his wife Shira, Jody Kraft Miller and her husband Sam, Amy Kraft Smith and her husband Dan, Yonatan Sinai, and Anav Sinai Turgeman and her husband Asaf. Cherished great-grandmother of Leo and Micah Kraft, Elliot and Julian Smith, Be’eri, Naria and Benjamin Turgeman. Loving sister of the late Eleanor Litner.  Graveside services will be held on Thursday, January 19, 2023, at 12:45 PM at Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham Street, Sharon. Memorial observance will be private. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to Aviva Senior Living, 1951 N. Honore Ave., Sarasota, FL  34235, or a charity of your choice.

Lawrence A. Kellem of Hull passed peacefully on Thursday, January 12, 2023, at the age of 90. Larry was predeceased by his amazing wife of 62 years, Cynthia, and is survived by his son David Kellem and his partner Kristin Beane, his son Steven Kellem and his partner Andraea McKenney, and his daughter, Amy Slotnick and her husband Dan. Larry is the grandfather of Sarah Rubin and her husband Matt, Jordan Kellem and his wife Katie, Matthew Kellem, Noah Kellem, Will Kellem, and Nell Asbrand. Larry’s life was beautifully brightened by his great-grandsons Parker Kellem and Davis Rubin. Larry was a renowned citizen and leader of the Town of Hull, which was his fulltime hometown since the 1950’s. His many civic accomplishments include leading the establishment of a permanent, full-service medical center in Hull, for which he was honored by the dedication of the facility in his name. During the Blizzard of ‘78 Larry organized the town-wide response effort to establish temporary shelter for hundreds of displaced residents, and he was a key figure in the town’s recovery in the aftermath of the storm. Even though Larry took much pride in serving as president and board member of the Hull Chamber of Commerce and as President, Treasurer and Board Member of Temple Beth Sholom, his
favorite accomplishment was managing the 1971 Hull Little League championship team, Paragon Park. To countless other civic and charitable groups, Larry was a willing and much-sought-out advisor. Professionally, Larry was a respected and talented attorney. He was one of the last great small-town general practitioners, maintaining his private practice in Hull for over 50 years. He met the legal needs of nearly everyone and in every way: from drafting simple wills to crafting zoning by-laws; from defending Hull’s sons and daughters (who may have had too much to drink) to shepherding the permitting of hotels and licensing of restaurants. He was a constant advocate and a sage influence at Hull Town Meetings. If you wanted something done well, and fairly, Larry was your guy. His sons, who practiced with him for many years, and his daughter (who escaped the practice of law), lovingly referred to him as “Loophole Larry.” Services will be at Temple Beth Sholom, Boyer Auditorium, 600 Nantasket Avenue, Hull, on Monday, January 16, at 11:00 a.m. Burial to follow at Hull Village Cemetery. Following burial, a memorial reception will be at The Parrot, at 1 Hull Shore Drive. The memorial observance will continue at 2A Marina Drive (Spinnaker Island Clubhouse), Hull. Observance hours will be 6-9 p.m. Monday evening, and 2-4 p.m. and 6-9 p.m. on Tuesday. In lieu of flowers, donations may be kindly made to Temple Beth Shalom of Hull or the Hull Scholarship Fund (care of Hingham Institution for Savings in Hull).

Alyse Naomi “Omi” Kamy Cantor, of Framingham, Massachusetts, died Thursday afternoon January 12, 2023, at the Hebrew Rehabilitation Center in Roslindale.  She was 86.  Born in New York City, she moved with her sister Roberta and parents to various cities and towns in New York, New Jersey and Connecticut.  The daughter of a Hebrew Educator, she was among the first women of her generation to attend Hebrew School and have a Bat Mitzvah ceremony.  Education was life-long and nonnegotiable to her.

One month after matriculating at Douglas College, the sister college of Rutgers University, she met the love of her life, Paul Cantor, at a Hillel function. Six-foot, three inch Paul, and five foot Omi made quite a dashing, if not seemingly incompatible, pair. They remained inseparable until his death in 2020.

Omi had many professions and many passions.  In addition to being an at-home parent to three precocious boys, she taught Hebrew School, worked as bookkeeper and partner in Paul’s car rental company, engaged in market research at a company acquired by Equifax, then, at the age of 60, opened her own market research company, which she operated until 2016.  She was an avid knitter, reader, news junkie, mall-walker, cookbook collector, and traveler.

Her loves were unmediated and also nonnegotiable. Family. Judaism. Food. Democratic politics. A woman of unceasing energy and motivation, she was  at her most elevated self when these were experienced in combination, as in celebration of Passover seders, when she would host 25 or more family members and assorted invitees to an evening few would forget, and most would eagerly await the following year.

Omi was a zealous investor. She invested in her synagogue family at Temple Israel in Natick. She invested in cherished and lifelong friendships made throughout her life’s chapters, whether from college, or tenures in New Brunswick, Pittsburgh, New Canaan, and Framingham.  Omi invested in her love of beautiful clothes. She even belonged to an investment club.

But by far, her greatest and most treasured investment was in Paul, her adoring husband of 63 years, her three sons and their spouses – Marc and Emily (Lazar), Steve and Zhanna Cantor, Larry and Deborah Cantor, her grandchildren and their spouses, Dmitri and Dinah (Ribarsky), Tali and Mike (Feldman), Eva and Ralf (De Houwer), Josh and Ilayda (Williamson), Max and Avanna Cantor, Rachel Lazar, and Nate Baker – and her three great grandchildren, Oren, Lev and Mischa.  And she joyfully included in this portfolio of wealth her devoted sister, Roberta Diamond, and loving nephews and nieces.

Omi was an indomitable force, whose loss leaves us all with a bit less certainty.  Her memory is certainly a blessing.  Much gratitude is given to all who lovingly cared for her in last days, including her care team at the HRCA, and of course, all of her friends and community.

The funeral is graveside, to be held at 11AM Sunday, January 15, 2023 at the Beit Olam East Cemetery, 42 Concord Road, Wayland MA.

Shiva minyanim and visitation will be held at Marc and Emily’s. Due to Covid concerns, space and times will be limited in numbers.  There is an online sign up at http://www.site38.com/cgi-bin/maorshiva/signup.pl

Donations in Omi’s memory may be made to the charity of your choice.  Based on her passions, she would have selected any of these:

JF&CS Family Table of Waltham

Yad Chessed

Temple Israel of Natick Adult Education Fund.

Esta M. Keller-. Formerly of Williamsville, NY, passed away peacefully in Framingham, MA, on Jan. 10, 2023 at age 88. Beloved wife of the late Lowell Keller. Loving mother of Larry Keller (Stacey Slavkin), of Needham, and Suzanne Keller (Arlene Weston), of Provincetown. Dear sister of Richard Molish (Ilean), of Ambler, PA. Devoted grandmother of Dr. Evan Keller and Drew Keller. Graveside services will be out of state. Shiva held at the home of Larry & Stacey, 44 Evelyn Rd.,Needham, MA, on Sat., Jan. 14, 7-9 pm. To attend virtually, contact lkeller1015@gmail.com. Contributions in her memory may be made to Temple Beth Zion, Rabbi Brent Gutmann Discretionary Fund, 805 Delaware Ave., Buffalo, NY 14209.

Joel I. Ostroff – Of  Newton, Age 82, passed away peacefully on January 9, 2023.Beloved husband of 56 years to Susan A. (Rosencranz) Ostroff. Devoted father of Scott Ostroff and Doug Ostroff and his wife Graciela. Cherished grandfather of Jacob Ostroff. Dear father-in-law to Julie Ostroff. Devoted brother of Barbara Kane and her late husband Sherman, and the late Marilyn Himmelfarb. Devoted brother-in-law of Ellie Skalet and her late husband Ira. Also survived by many loving nieces, nephews, and cousins. Services in the Chapel of Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham St., Sharon, on Wednesday, January 11, 2023, at 1:00 pm. Following the interment, a memorial observance will be held at his residence until 8:00 pm and Thursday from 1:00 pm -8:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to a charity of your choice.

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David Lawrence Loeser of Needham, MA passed away from complications due to Parkinson’s disease with his family by his side on January 4, 2023, at the age of 72.

Beloved husband to Jody, father to Caroline (Matt), Sarah (Brett), and Andrew, brother to Ellen and Cindy (Antonio) and uncle, cousin, brother-in-law, and friend to many. David was born in Buffalo, NY,  grew up in Youngstown, OH and graduated from the University of Rochester in 1972. He earned his MBA from USC. He had a long and successful career in accounting and finance and eventually became CFO of Abt Associates where he was admired by many who worked there.

David loved to be involved with his kids and his community. He coached youth soccer for many years. He was the ultimate Red Sox fan and a season ticket holder at Fenway Park for over 30 years. After retiring, David spent much of his free time volunteering. He served on the board of the American Parkinson’s Disease Association and volunteered at Mitchell School.

David cherished his time playing poker and tennis with friends, fishing and clamming on Cape Cod, traveling with his wife, and spending lots of time with his family and dog, Isabelle.

A funeral service will be held at Temple Beth Shalom, 670 Highland Ave, Needham, MA on Sunday, January 8, at 12:30 pm. Shiva visitation will take place at the temple on Sunday from 2:30 pm – 4:00 pm and at the family residence on Monday, January 9, from 5:00 pm – 7:00 pm.

In lieu of flowers, remembrances may be made to the Parlin House Hospice Residence and under “Donation Type” please scroll down to “Parlin Hospice Residence.” or by mail at Good Shephard Community Care, 161 Wells Ave., Newton, MA 02459 and please specify the donation is for the Parlin Hospice Residence.

A link to view the live stream of the funeral service through the Temple can be found here.

Gloria Crane Weller of Canton, MA, formerly of Newton, MA, died peacefully with her family by her bedside on January 2, 2023, at 88. Beloved wife of the late Robert Weller for 63 years. Loving mother of Daniel Weller and his wife Lisa of Westwood, MA, and Linda Weller Gulman and her husband Max of Newton, MA. Proud grandmother of Jessica Miller and her husband Adam Miller, Paige Gulman, and Sophie Weller. Dear daughter of the late Jack and Sophie Crane, and sister of Paula Lunder and brother-in-law Peter Lunder. Gloria was adored by her nieces and nephews and loved by all.

Born in Chicago, IL, Gloria attended the Art Institute of Chicago, fulfilling her passion for painting, and finding beauty in all. She aimed to tell stories through each brush stroke, from oil painting to sculpting. One of her sculptures of the late mayor Theodore Mann can still be found in Newton City Hall. Out of art school, Gloria moved to Boston and was hired by Filenes to draw and paint fashion trends before fashion photography became the industry standard.

Gloria and her late husband, Bobby shared a love of golf, skiing, and bridge. As a young mother, she enjoyed figure skating at Larz Anderson Park in Brookline, MA, and throughout her life, she had a passion for crossword puzzles, sudokus, and word jumbles. Gloria will be remembered as a warm, caring, and compassionate woman, always showing love and gratitude, even in her final days. She enjoyed her travels through Europe and Israel and 19 years at her winter residence in West Palm Beach, FL. A funeral service will be held at Temple Beth David, Westwood, on Thursday, at 11 a.m. and will be available via live stream at Templebethdavid.net|//livestream.html or at the top of the obituary on this page, followed by interment at Sharon Memorial Park. Shiva observance will be via zoom at 7:00 pm THURSDAY

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In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Hebrew Senior Life (https://www.hebrewseniorlife.org/giving) or the Lunder-Dineen Health Education Alliance of Maine (https://lunderdineen.org/support-us).

A link to view the recorded service can be found here.

Hurvitz, Edward of Brockton, MA passed away at home on December 28, 2022. Beloved husband of Linda Sue (Berman) Hurvitz. Devoted father of Dayna Holmes and her husband Christopher, and Shari Bergeron and her husband Thomas. Proud grandfather of Shayna Bergeron, and Rylee and Brett Holmes. Loving brother of Barbara Rodman and the late Ralph Hurvitz. Services at the chapel at Sharon Memorial Park on Monday, January 2, 2023 at 1 pm. Following interment, memorial observance will be at the Hurvitz residence through Wednesday. In lieu of flowers, donations in Edward’s memory may be made to the American Red Cross.

A link to view the funeral service can be found here.

Marcus, Richard, of Delray Beach, FL, on December 24, 2022. Beloved husband of Mitzi (Dolinsky) Marcus. Devoted father of Bari Lyn McWhinnie and her husband Bill, and the late Andrea Marcus. Proud grandfather of Alexa and Zachary. Loving brother of Harriett Gardner, Ruth Abbott, and the late Sunny Zimmerman. Funeral service at Temple Sinai, 25 Canton St., Sharon, MA, on Thursday, December 29, 2022, at 1 pm. Interment to follow at Sharon Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, donations in Richard’s memory may be made to a charity of your choice.

Edith (Schneider) Rosenbloom of Highland Beach, Florida, passed away peacefully on December 22, 2022, at the age of 97. She was the beloved wife of the late Isadore Rosenbloom and the loving mother of Edward Rosenbloom and his wife Susan of Newton and Maxine Katz and her husband Michael of Easton. She was the adored grandmother of Lauren Heather (Scott), Lisa Goldsmith (Matthew), Kimberly Katz, Lesley Ginsburg (Greg) and Matthew Katz (Lisa), and great grandmother of Jared, Alex, Madelyn, Tess, Lila, Alexander, Tyler and Ryan.

Edith grew up in Dorchester and raised her family in Newton. Edith loved cooking, knitting, solving jigsaw puzzles and spending time with her family.

A graveside service will be held at Beth El Cemetery in West Roxbury, MA located at 776 Baker Street on Monday, December 26 at 11:00 am. Memorial observance will immediately follow interment at the home of Susan and Edward Rosenbloom until 4:00 pm and continue on Tuesday from 1-3 pm and 6-8 pm.

Robert “Rob” Carpenter, born February 9, 1949 to Charlotte and Edward Carpenter, in Boston, MA, passed away on December 21, 2022 at the age of 73 following a years-long battle with cancer.

Rob was a beloved husband to Deborah, brother to Glenna, Neal and Philip, father to Stephen, Matthew and Meredith, father-in-law to Kristina, grandfather to Claire and Amelia, and uncle, cousin, and friend to many more who will cherish his memory.

Rob grew up in Newton, MA and graduated from Bowdoin College in 1971. He went on to earn his JD from BC Law and his LLM from Temple University Law. Rob loved being a litigator over his 40+ years of practicing. He also cherished his time gardening, fishing, and boating; no day being complete without an afternoon cruise.

Services and burial at Sharon Memorial Park, 40 Dedham St., Sharon, MA, on December 27 at 1pm. The family asks that all attendees wear a mask.  In lieu of flowers, the family would be honored by donations in Rob’s name to Bowdoin College, or to a charity of your choosing.

Jonathan Green-Of Mason, NH, on December 20, 2022.

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Shalom Igra Newman passed away in Belmont Massachusetts on December 19, 2022, at the age of 93.  Born in Lvov Poland, he survived the horrors of the Bergen-Belsen concentration camp during the Second World War.  Following liberation, he immigrated to Palestine and obtained his undergraduate education at the Hebrew University in Jerusalem, Israel.  Shalom moved to the United States to pursue graduate education in psychology and received a PhD from Brandeis University in Waltham Massachusetts.  He remained in the Boston area, where he had a private practice in psychotherapy.  Shalom was a brilliant man who spoke many languages and had a profound knowledge of history, literature and philosophy.  He was a true intellectual with boundless curiosity and thirst for knowledge.  Shalom is survived by his longtime companion, Marise Gottlieb; his daughter, Anna Newman, and her husband, Herman Vargas; and his grandson, Danny Vargas.

Funeral service at Anshe S’Fard cemetery, 776 Baker St., West Roxbury, MA on Monday, December 26, 2022 at 2 pm.

Paula Goldman of Dedham, formerly of Bedford, and Lexington, passed away on November 28, 2022. Born in Cambridge in 1932, daughter to Joseph and Sophie Nissen, Paula was the beloved wife of the late Dr. George Goldman for 63 years, and the devoted mother of five children: Daniel, Matthew, Jon, Thomas, and Gail. She is survived by Daniel Goldman and fiancé Marci; Matthew Goldman and wife Lauren; Jon Goldman and partner Niki; Gail Goldman and partner Dan; and the late Thomas’ surviving spouse, Naomi. Paula was the dearest and proud grandmother of six: Jacob Goldman and wife Sarah, Alex Goldman and wife Amy, Joseph Goldman, Aaron Goldman, Julia Goldman, and Amanda Goldman; and the loving sister of Eric Nissen and partner Cindi, and the late Muriel Statesman.

Paula loved to nurture and care for her children, grandchildren, and patients. She is fondly remembered for her love of people, and her passion for living life to its fullest. Paula and George built a wonderful life together. She loved to travel with George, and planned trips to all corners of the world, including Asia, Africa, South America, Europe and the Caribbean. Paula loved to socialize, and her passions were entertaining, the arts, trying new restaurants, gardening, and trips to the ocean. She was also a great cook and baker.

Paula was both witty and entertaining; she held strong, educated opinions, but could bring smiles to the faces of a room full of people. Paula loved to keep herself busy and her mind sharp. When she wasn’t attending a performance or participating in an activity, she was completing puzzles or playing Scrabble, defeating people half her age, right up to the end.

After retiring from her career as a Nurse Practitioner, it was important for her to continue learning. Paula and George were enthusiastic participants of Brandeis University’s BOLLI continuing education program. An avid reader, she was a member of several book groups.

The family had a private graveside service at Westview Cemetery, Lexington.

Donations in Paula’s memory can be made to the following charitable organizations:

Dystonia Medical Research Foundation https://dystonia-foundation.org/donate-other-ways/donate-online/Cardiovascular Research Foundation https://www.crf.org/crf/donate/women-s-heart-health-initiative/whhi-donateCombined Jewish Philanthropies https://give.cjp.org/give/381358/#!/donation/checkout

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Gerald Fineberg, loving husband, father and friend passed away December 17, 2022.  Jerry, as he was known to his friends, grew up in Portland Maine and moved to Boston after he got out of the navy.  He began his real estate business in 1961 buying his first building on a handshake and good faith.  He went out on his own in residential and commercial properties throughout the Boston/Brighton/Brookline area.  Jerry became a lover and collector of contemporary art. He was on the board of the Rose Art Museum and was instrumental in helping build their contemporary collection. Jerry was an avid golfer and squash player and represented the US in the Maccabee games.  Jerry is survived by his wife Sandra, his children, Michelle, (Eric Levin) granddaughters Rachel and Sarah, Gary (Iris) granddaughter Daphna and Adam as well as Sandra’s daughter Beth Rosenberg (Abe), their children Marissa (Zach), Zachary (Alyssa), and Zoe (Harrison) and her son James Paul and his daughter Madeleine.

Graveside services at Or Emet Cemetery, Monday, December 19, 2022, 776 Baker St., West Roxbury, MA at 11am.

Shiva at the Mandarin Oriental Hotel, in the Oriental Ballroom, 776 Boylston, St Boston following burial 1-4. Please tell the valet you are there for the Fineberg Shiva. Shiva continues Tuesday and Wednesday, 5:30- 8:00 pm at the home of Michelle Fineberg and Eric Levin.

Jerry has been an active supporter of The Price Center in Newton since 1977 and remembrances may be made there in his name. www.thepricecenter.org

Although Robert Goldberg was born in the Bronx, NY in 1931, it is in Boston where he spent the majority of his life and considered Boston home. This included acquiring an education, developing an illustrious career, meeting and marrying his beloved wife Barbara, and raising a family. Soon after receiving an undergraduate degree from Harvard University and an MBA from Boston University, Robert served in the U.S. Marine Corps during the Korean War and attained the rank of Major. Robert was also the commanding officer of Vieques Island off the coast of Puerto Rico and was put on alert for the Cuban Missile Crisis Robert followed up a successful military career with equally impressive positions in the private sector, including a long tenure at John Hancock Lite Insurance Company. There he held many positions and retired as Vice-President, Secretary & Treasurer of John Hancock Distributors, a company he helped found. Following retirement from John Hancock, Robert became President of NICA, a mutual fund association representing over 400 companies both domestic and international Robert was also ~ Vice Chairman of District 13 of the National Association of Securities Dealers. In 2002, Robert was named one of 10 legends in the Mutual Fund Industry along with Charles Schwab, Peter Lynch of Fidelity and John Bogle of Vanguard. During and after his career in the financial sector, Robert developed a secondary career as an educator. He was an Adjunct Professor at Northeastern University’s School of Business, teaching both undergraduates and graduate students. Having taught some 51 years, he impacted the lives of thousands of students and was often considered favorite professor among the student body, and highly respected by his colleagues.

When Robert was not working or teaching, he enjoyed downtime with his family. After his sons were grown, he and Barbara took to travel, including numerous excursions, both domestically and internationally. While Robert always loved following the Patriots and loyal to his Bronx roots, the Yankees, in more recent years, he developed a fondness for reading historical fiction. Robert became a foodie, frequenting favorite restaurants and always up tor discovering new ones. In this department he was best known for an insatiable appetite for fresh ginger with his sushi, could crack a whole lobster with the best of them, and topped almost every dinner off with Brigham’s Mocha Chip ice cream. Food, books and travel aside, without a doubt, one of Robert’s greatest delights were visits by his granddaughter and his great grandchildren. Robert is survived by his wife, Barbara, sons, Michael and David; granddaughter Nicolette Goldberg and great grandchildren Kenzie and Maverick.

Arlene Rita (Shneider) Ehrlich of Dedham formerly of Boynton Beach, Florida and Framingham. Daughter of the late Esther and Irving Shneider. Sister of Lois Caparco. Wife of the late Jacob Daniel (Danny) Ehrlich. Loving mother of the late Michael Ehrlich and Karen and Steven Rubin of Wellesley, MA. Proud grandmother to Sam and Emily Rubin and Lauren. She was a self-proclaimed “chocoholic”, lover of all things purple and sparkly, and had the most special “smiling eyes”.

Arlene was raised in Cambridge and Dorchester. At just ten years old, she lost her mother, Esther leaving a painful void that stayed with her for her entire life. She was married to J. Daniel Ehrlich in May of 1953 and together they raised their family in Framingham for many years. They were both involved in the community. Danny was master of Perfection Lodge in Framingham in 1970. Arlene was his biggest supporter and always proud of his accomplishments with the Masonic Masons and as a Jeweler. They enjoyed and cherished their time traveling the world. Every trip would be a new journey with wonderful experiences to share. Paris was one of her favorites…. but specifically in the springtime!

Arlene worked several years at Framingham Savings Bank and ultimately became its Manager of Collections. It was there she earned the nickname, “Sherlock Ehrloch”. Arlene treasured and embraced her friends from Framingham. So much so that she and Danny decided to move with their lifelong friends to Florida to retire and continue to build beautiful memories. And that they did! -In Boynton Beach, Arlene was voted to the Board of Directors of her community and President of the New England Club. She looked forward to the Framingham Breakfast Club every month. Her calendar was always filled with activities and her family felt fortunate that she enjoyed her well-deserved retirement time. Wonderful new friendships were made in Florida along with fostering old friends. Her children and grandchildren cherished spending vacation time in Florida. Sneaking Orios at night was one of Sam and Emily’s favorite memories, but nothing got past “Sherlock Ehrloch” especially all the crumbs left behind!

Arlene ultimately moved back to Massachusetts to be with her family in 2021. She enjoyed reacquainting herself with New England, including the weather! Special time was spent getting “primped” with Karen and taking drives down memory lane (aka Route 9) … but only when Steven had a full tank of gas. There’s a Chico’s calling her name and we know there’s a good discount coming her way. Arlene’s legacy will live on, and our love and appreciation will never fade.

Graveside services at Framingham-Natick Hebrew Cemetery, Fairview Ave and Windsor Ave, Natick, MA, Thursday, December 22, 2022 at 1:00pm

In lieu of flowers the family requests donations in her memory sent to: -Lown Cardiovascular Group of Chestnut Hill of which her husband had been a patient for several years, Resolve National Infertility Association OR The Marcia Shapiro Fund, Friends of Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, Boston, MA.

of Framingham, MA passed away peacefully December 14, 2022, having been surrounded by his children Andy Robinson, Lisa (Milinazzo) Robinson, Kimberly (Robinson) Duckworth, and Michelle Robinson, and his adored companion, Donna Levy.

Burt was cherished by his grandchildren Sebastian (deceased), Clara, and Elias Duckworth and is survived by the mother of his children, Dianne (Walk) Robinson.

Burt grew up in Dorchester, graduated from Boston College, Boston University, and Tufts Dental School, and remained in the area (Framingham) to raise his family and practice dentistry, until his retirement in 2010.

An avid sports fan, Burt followed professional and college leagues but was loyal to Boston teams and those of his alma mater, the Boston College Eagles. Burt loved the nice weather and enjoyed 40 years of golf at the Framingham Country Club.

Following a private graveside service at Framingham-Natick Jewish Cemetery, memorial observance will be at the home of Andy Robinson, 26 Cheryl Lane, Holliston MA on: Sunday December 18th from 5:30-8:30 pm and on Monday December 19th from 12-2 pm and from 5-8 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations in Burt’s memory may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, www.stjude.org.

Marjorie (Balick) Gruverman- Marge passed away peacefully, at home in Auburndale, on December 6th, at the age of 88. She was the beloved wife of Irwin Gruverman; devoted mother of Donna and Steve and his wife Marie Wendt; loving grandmother of Siona; and cherished aunt of Robin Balick. In her last years, Marge had a devoted caregiver team, very much appreciated by all of her family. Creativity was an important part of who Marge was, and she expressed herself though painting, printmaking and jewelry metalsmithing. She had a long association with the Wellesley Arts and Craft Guild and built many close friendships there. Community service was also important to Marge and she was involved with the League of Women Voters and the Needham Community Council for many years. Marge was grateful to have lived at Lasell Village for nearly twenty years. For most of that time she was active in the vibrant community there, serving on committees and enthusiastically taking classes and making good friends. Donations in Marge’s memory may be made to the American Civil Liberties Union or Good Shepherd Community Care, Newton, MA.

A link to view the funeral service can be found here.

Arnold D. Vetstein of Newton and Boston died on December 12, 2022, at the age of 96. Arnold was a long-time practicing dentist in Framingham, a major contributor to organized dentistry, a co-founder of the League School of Greater Boston, and a decorated Korean War veteran. He will be remembered for his generous spirit, sense of humor, thoughtfulness, and commitment to bettering the world.

Arnold grew up in humble beginnings in Roxbury, and through his determination and drive went to Boston Latin School and Tufts Dental School through his service with the Navy V-12 Program. He always said that Boston Latin was the most significant learning experience of his life. He began his military career as a dentist in the Army Dental Corps and was later a battalion dental surgeon during the Korean War. Because of the shortage of medical officers, he took on the dual assignment as battalion surgeon and dental surgeon. His battalion aided the U.S. Marines at the Chosin Reservoir as well as covered the withdrawal from North Korea. His unit was the last out of North Korea. During his time in Korea, he was awarded both the Silver Star for gallantry in action and the Bronze Star for meritorious service.

In 1955, Arnold opened his dental office in Framingham, where he practiced for 45 years. He also was an assistant clinical professor in prosthetics at Tufts University of Dental Medicine, where he taught for 17 years.

An active member of organized dentistry, Arnold was president of the Massachusetts Dental Society, the Greater Boston Dental Society, and the West Metropolitan Dental Society. He also was chairman of the Metropolitan District Dental Society. He was appointed to the Massachusetts Board of Registration in Dentistry by Governor Michael Dukakis for two five-year terms and twice served as board chairman. For more than 20 years, he was an examiner for the Northeast Regional Board.

In 1966, Arnold co-founded the League School of Greater Boston with his wife, the late Leona Fine Vetstein, for children with autism. The school is one of the first in New England for students with autism and serves upward of 100 day and residential students on its Walpole campus.

Arnold is survived by his son, Richard A. Vetstein, of Newton; his daughter, Nancy J. Hershfield, and her husband, Robert S. Hershfield, of Falmouth; and his best pal and grandson, Andrew D. Hershfield of Falmouth. The love of his life, his wife, Leona Fine, predeceased him.

Funeral service at Temple B’Nai Tikvah, 1301 Washington Street, Canton, MA on Wednesday, December 14, 2022 at 12:30 pm. Interment to follow at Temple Emeth Memorial Park, 776 Baker St., West Roxbury, MA.

Shiva will follow the service from 3-5 pm at the Beal Family Chapel, at Newbridge on the Charles, 5000 Great Meadow Rd., Dedham, MA 02026.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the League School of Greater Boston, 300 Boston-Providence Turnpike, East Walpole, MA 02032, or at Leagueschool.org.

Michael J. “Mike” Hurwitz, age 84, of Natick formerly of Brookline and Newton. Mike was born on December 25, 1937, and passed with his family by his side on December 11, 2022. Beloved husband of Sherryl (Kaiser) Hurwitz. Loving Daddy of Lynne Robin Hurwitz and Scott Hurwitz Kaiser and his wife Michelle. Grandfather of Stacy, Jamie and Jodi. Also survived by 5 great-grandchildren. Devoted daddy to his twin fur babies Daisy and Tulip.

Mike graduated Boston University and Colby College.  His talents led him to become an Accounting Auditor at many car dealerships in the Boston and Metrowest Areas. With his retirement he enjoyed sitting in the back yard with his two pups enjoying the sun on his face.  Mike had an intense sweet tooth and could always find all the hidden treats in the house.  He hoped to have a BIG piece of chocolate cake when he got home from the hospital. Watching TV was also enjoyable for him.  Wheel of Fortune and Jeopardy were some favorites. And he was a wiz at crossword puzzles.

A Memorial Service will be held at a later date. Mike had a tremendous love for dogs especially his own and now will be reunited with the ones that passed before him Muffin, Toffee and Twinkle.  Remembrances to the Humane Society or to a charity of your choice would be appreciated.

People collect many things, and Etta Epstein collected friends. Throughout her 99 years, Etta was a magnet for people of all generations, as well as the center of a large and loving family. She will be held in the hearts of her children–Ann, Eugene, Alan and Barbara; their spouses–Pam, Margit, Louise, and Scott; her beloved grandchildren–Mason, Lily, Clara, Nicholas, Hannah and Jules; and countless nieces, nephews, cousins and friends from around the world.
A memorial service for Etta will be held at Congregation Dorshei Tzedek, 60 Highland Street, West Newton, on Thursday, December 8, 2022 at 1 pm.

Age 61, of Sudbury, passed away on December 4, 2022 peacefully surrounded by his loving family and close friends, after a courageous battle with prostate cancer. Doug is survived by his loving wife of 36 years, Christine Schuster, his children, Kimberly Schuster of Boston, MA, and Kaitlin Schuster of Sudbury, MA. Beloved son of Rita Schuster and the late Jack Schuster of Exeter, NH and his brother and sister-in-law, Neal and Mei Schuster of Danvers, MA and many cousins and long-time friends he dearly loved.

Doug was born and raised in New York. He received a Bachelor’s Degree in Electrical Engineering from Duke University and a Master’s Degree in Biomedical Engineering from the University of Michigan. He worked at Draeger Medical for 38 years, dedicated to designing patient monitoring systems. Doug enjoyed problem-solving with his dedicated colleagues. He had a deep passion for technology, always researching the latest innovations at work and at home. The greatest joy in Doug’s life was being father to Kimberly and Kaitlin. He took immense pride in their accomplishments in the classroom and beyond. He loved spending time with his family exploring the world on their vacations and enjoying time on Cape Cod. Doug left this world knowing his family is comforted by many memories of pride, love, and laughter. He will be greatly missed by all.

Funeral services are private.

In lieu of flowers, donations in his honor can be made to the Cold Feet Warm Hearts Foundation. (www.coldfeetwarmhearts.org), c/o Middlesex Savings Bank, 7 Digital Way, Maynard, MA 01754.

FABERMAN, Stephen, After a long illness, Steve Faberman, formerly of Needham and Leominster, age 53, died on December 1, 2022. Beloved husband of Wendy (Goldstein) Faberman, cherished father of Rachel and Allyson Faberman, loving son of Dorothy (Rosenbloom) Faberman and the late Matthew Faberman, cherished brother to Robert (Brenda) and Judy (Michael White) Faberman, uncle to Maris, Matthew & Hannah. Steve will be dearly missed by his family, friends and colleagues.

Steve was General Counsel and Chief Legal Officer at Progress Software, where he worked for over 14 years. Just last month, Steve was recognized by the Mass Technology Leadership Council (MassTLC) for his work in creating more diverse, equitable and inclusive leadership in the tech industry. Before working at Progress, Steve was Corporate Counsel at Heritage Property Investment Trust, Inc., and a Partner at Bingham McCutchen. He received a Bachelor’s of Arts degree in history at Tufts University and his Juris Doctor degree at Boston College Law School.

Services at Temple Beth Shalom, Needham, on December 5, 2022, at 11:00 am, with private interment to follow. Shiva also on Dec. 5 at 669 Highland Avenue, Needham, (formerly the 3 Squares Restaurant) near Temple Beth Shalom from 6:30 p.m. to 8:30 p.m.   In lieu of flowers, remembrances in Steve’s memory may be made to Mass General Cancer Center, giving.massgeneral.org/donate, The Dana Farber Cancer Institute, or the charity of your choice.

Walter Randall Ployer (Wally) passed away at home peacefully on the morning of November 29, 2022 after a brief illness.

For anyone that knew Wally, they knew that he was a loyal and devoted husband to his wonderful wife Amy of over 27 years.  He was loved and adored by his two younger brothers, Scott and the late Bobby Ployer.  He was also a devoted son to the late Frances (Gunning) and Walter Ployer.  Wally was an awesome brother-in-law to Dori Bryan-Ployer and his other in-laws.  He was an outstanding role model uncle, great uncle, cousin, nephew and friend to so many. In addition to his own family, Wally was an “honorary” member of the Cadman Family.  Army SSG Section Leader and Brookline Fire Fighter Brian Cadman, his wife Laura, their children and extended family had a very close bond with Wally.  Everyone always knew they could count on Wally.

Wally enlisted in the U.S. Army in 1969 and volunteered for two tours in Vietnam during his four-year enlistment.  He was a scout dog handler with the 196^th Light Infantry Brigade – Americal.  Upon returning to the U.S., he was a military police officer at Fort Hood, TX and Fort Sill, OK.  During his time in Vietnam, he was awarded numerous decorations including the Combat Infantryman’s Badge, two Bronze Stars, two Purple Hearts, and an Army Commendation Medal, among others.

Wally’s funeral service will take place at the Massachusetts National Cemetery in Bourne, MA with Military Honors on Monday, December 5^th at 11:15 am.

A Memorial Gathering will be held at a later date.

Wally will be remembered for his courage, strength, loyalty, reverence, humor, story-telling, compassion and unconditional love of and respect for dogs.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in memory of Wally Ployer to the American Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals.  ASPCA.ORG

Esther Felisa Kalisky (nee Sotenberg) died at her home in Lincoln on Sunday November 27, 2022, at the age of 94. She is survived by her three children, Lyvia, of Jerusalem, Ilona, of Waltham, and Matthew Kalisky, of Newton, and her two grandchildren, Zara Kalisky-Tetreault, of Acton, and Coltrane Kalisky-Tetreault, of Waltham.

Esther, the youngest of two children, was born in Buenos Aires, Argentina on October 31, 1928 to Jacob and Elena Sotenberg, who left Poland to escape the persecution of Jews in their homeland.

After finishing high school, Esther traveled to the United States in 1949 with her mother to live with an aunt and attend junior college. In 1950, she met the son of a family friend, Avram Kalisky, whom she married 3 months later. They were married for 69 years until he died in 2019, raising their family in Sudbury.

There are many things that can be said about Esther-she spoke 4 languages, still dreaming in Spanish at times. She lived in Israel twice-once in the 50’s and once from 1972-1989.

She never really knew her grandparents or many of her extended family most of whom had remained in Poland. As a result, she moved back to the States when her first grandchild was born and was a constant presence in her grandchildren’s lives, always living close by.

She always worked outside of the home, but never really had a career. She made many of her daughters’ and granddaughter’s dresses as well as her own. She loved art-and had wanted to be an artist when younger. She loved to knit and read, joining groups for both. She loved to travel. Her last trip was to Israel with her grandchildren in 2017.

She was a staunch feminist, reacting with a smile when told that the Democrats were keeping control of the Senate. Her grandchildren will maintain until their dying day that the repeal of Roe v. Wade is what killed her. She did not suffer fools gladly. Esther would never shy away from giving her opinion, sometimes causing those around her to cringe. Her highest compliment was to say that someone “sparkled”. In her opinion not too many people met that standard. If you did something that she thought was noteworthy, it felt like the sun was shining on you and you alone.

Having dealt with several serious health issues during her life, Esther decided to donate her body to Harvard Medical School, so no funeral service will be held.

We would like to thank those who provided care for Esther-Sudbury River Home Care and Care Dimensions Hospice.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Esther’s name can be made to the Lincoln Council on Aging, Friends of the Lincoln Library or Planned Parenthood.

Joyce Ann Fishman, of Newton, Massachusetts. Joyce fought a long and courageous battle with Progressive Supranuclear Palsy (PSP). Joyce was born in Waukegan, Illinois. She earned a B.A. and a Master’s degree from Northwestern University and a J.D. degree and a Ph.D. from Boston College. Joyce practiced construction and franchise law early in her career, and she taught at Boston College for the last twenty-nine years. For forty-four years the beloved wife of Donald A. Fishman and the devoted mother of Karen J. Fishman. Preceded in death by her parents, Stephanie and Joseph. She is survived by her husband, Don; daughter, Karen (Alex) of Newton, Massachusetts; and her sister, Patricia of Wadsworth, Illinois. Joyce’s charm, humor, kindness, and generosity will be missed by all. The family wishes to acknowledge its gratitude and appreciation to Whitney Fernandez, Joyce’s principal nurse and compassionate caregiver, and to Dr. Edward Legare, who supervised her care. Private family services will be held. In lieu of flowers, remembrances and donations may be made to CurePSP, at psp.org.

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Of Needham, age 57, on November 21, 2022. Beloved husband of Cynthia (Sodowich). Adored father of Julia and Charlotte. Lee was a cherished family member, friend and colleague to so many and will be dearly missed. Services at Temple Beth Shalom, Needham, on Friday, November 25, 2022, at 11:00am with burial to follow at Sharon Memorial Park. Shiva at Temple Beth Shalom following interment until 4:30pm, continuing Saturday and Sunday from 5-8 pm at the Silverman home. In lieu of flowers, remembrances in Lee’s memory may be made to Mass General Cancer Center.